It will almost be nearly impossible to forget him, no matter how hard you try. All that you can do is try to pack away those feelings and move on with your life. You will heal!

Wow. Women like this make me cringe!

Wow...seems like a woman with unforseen motives. The question is, does she really love you? A woman who loves her man will NOT make lame excuses, especially when they have ALREADY had intercourse in the past. Also, that same woman would NEVER let her man go Hot, especially to bed, where they are both sleeping. As the older generation of women says, what you don't do for your man, another woman will! How would she like that? If I wasn't feeling up to penetration, I would have easily fulfilled my man's wishes of MouthAction. She is ungrateful. Find you lady who doesn't mind pleasing you when you need it. Damn...she made me mad and I don't even know her.

I don't see it as being cheap. I see it as confidence in your ability to actually be able to strike a fire within the man of interest and actually turn it into more. I've done it before.

The answer is rather simple. Leave if you are unhappy with it.

I'll prefer a good, boring guy over a cheating, well-known guy any day.

MrsChima:

That's not an American culture. It is personal choice and that's like saying genital mutilation is an African culture.

You are right in a sense of my speaking for all American people. I'll rephrase. It is Louisianian culture, since I do live here. Try that with your husband here and you may not have one.

MrRhymes101:
SO THEY PAID HER TO COME TO NAIJA AND SHE IS USING THE OPPORTUNITY TO DO OTHER THINGS ABI?? ISORIT

I doubt that Lauryn Hill was paid anything to visit Nigeria. This woman is all about Africa here on America. Do your research before coming to conclusions.

If he prefers his food on the plate already, it isn't that big of a task, honestly. It is part of our culture in America to serve your man's food to him on the plate. It would take more time to set it up on the table. If he is a good husband, you should do whatever it takes to keep him happy.

She spent two years in America to be able to have her baby. That was a smart move.

You should talk to her and let her know that secrets are not okay and that you know about the child. You should be happy in your relationship and not have to find out things that should've been laid out on the table from day one.

A club is the last place someone this pregnant should be.

I agree with his opinions. You don't have to go to church every Sunday to save your soul. As long as you make time for God in your everyday life, that is enough. There are people that critique others for not going to church on Sunday, but only think of God on Sunday. Now, is that right?

Is there no union here? That is not a justifiable reason to be jobless.

Men who don't want their wives to work are weak minded and love control. Simple as that.

This level of flooding in UNACCEPTABLE! There is no way there is a proper drainage system here. It must takes days for this water to clear up!

Personally, I wouldn't marry a man who is unemployed. However, if he was already my husband and lost his job, I would stand by and support him in his time of need. I don't think that a man should be intimidated by a woman who is educated and wants to better her life since she will be able to contribute her part financially to the marriage.

dinachi:
Besides America is a dying empire while Nigeria is a growing empire. I prefer to go with Nigeria that will become a world power in the future rather than America that will collapse like the old roman empire.

Lol I'll let you continue to dream about that!

The way that she was so blunt...gold digging at its finest. She has no idea hoe much it sucks to be her right now. I'm glad that you didn't give her too much details about yourself. She will never meet a good man with that outlook on life.

shugga:
I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

My opinion, I don't think any man is faithful. The only thing that separates the good ones from the bad ones is that the good ones haven't gotten caught...yet.

pbs4real:
lyk ciriously

Seriously.

dinachi:

Exactly what we have been saying since. You sodomites can continue with your Sodom if your people likes it just leave us alone. We don't want to widen our arseholes in the name of legalizing abomination!
Stop trying to force your evil lifestyle down our throats.

I hope that you never have MouthAction since that was apart of that Bible place you are talking about! If I'm living in Sodom, there is no place I'd rather be! It is full of luxuries! By the way, you may want to save your phone battery before you lose electricity. I heard about that situation.

Phikom:

Ya...I dig!...how ur syd!

I'm great. Of that's what you are asking.

Phikom:

Go tell that to the birds!

Relax. Lol it was merely sarcasm. I guess you took it literally. I only stated that because I live in the states.

I've already dated Caucasian, black mixed with Hispanic, Trinidadian, and black American. It doesn't matter to me really as long as he is attractive and loves the Lord!

Hooking up with me would require a visa and plane tickets. Lol

dinachi:

Yes ignorance is bliss. Your ignorance!

Lol! Let us Americans worry about our democracy. We really aren't concerned with yours.

dinachi:

Like I said feminism and God do not belong in the same sentence. Also Homosexuality. Hey lady you can choose to believe whatever you want but just do not drag God into your personal beliefs influenced by Godless new age thinking.
Feminists hate the Bible because they cannot find support for their selfish movement there.
If not that you involved Jesus Christ in your statement I would not have bothered to bring up the scriptural angle. I would have assumed you are one of these Godless people parading everywhere these days.
But very clearly from your later statements you have proved to be a SELECTIVE follower of Biblical directions are regards human lifestyle.
Go ahead and support homosexuals but leave God out of it, period.

Crying with laughter! Lol ignorance is bliss!

dinachi:

OK.
But the same Word of God will judge everyone, the big and the small. You can even support bestiality,paedophiles and incestous couples. It does not change the fact that they are wrong!
And God can never be the author of confusion!
You can choose to support a known homosexual promoter here I prefer to toe the line of the word of God, the Bible here

And when you support every word of the Bible, don't forget that you support slavery and women's suffrage as well. To each is own.

dinachi:

Actually she is very very wrong and is actually being very influenced by the society she lives in now. She is in the US.
Jesus is a Lamb and also a Lion.
He is a loving God who will not hesitate to punish sinners.
He forgives but only when you confess your SINS and not when you are insisting that you are correct in your iniquity!
The same Bible says it is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the Living God.

We have seen Homosexual gay parades but I have never seen adulterers marching in a parade and demanding that adultery should be encouraged and accepted as good!

Jesus told the woman caught in adultery 'I do not condemn you' but he did not stop there! He also told her ' Go and sin no more! Most people avoid quoting the later part for convenience sake.
So my dear be properly guided!

To each is own. Believe what you want and I will do the same. Your soul won't answer for mine, just as mine won't for yours. I support her in every word that she stated.

cococandy:
inhuman acts indeed. Do you know what inhuman acts are?
They include, stripping people Nekid in the streets, lynching criminals, torturing children in the name of witchcraft, marrying off kids in the name of religion, denying people their rights And basic respect as humans in the name of upholding xtupid cultures. I could go on and on about the millions of inhuman things that go on under your noses that you tolerate (and sometimes even justify with the same bible that makes you holier than others) but here you, are hot under the collar for a law in another continent that doesn't pose harm to you or any one.

really? Your hypocrisy is disgusting to say the least.

You find it hard to believe that normal people will tolerate others who are different and don't harm them in any way, but don't find it shocking that all forms of social injustice are tolerated by supposed normal people like you and even sometimes praised. How convenient it must be to use God to condemn others even while on top of another sin he condemns greatly.

And you even dare to pretend to be morally better than them? Does your hypocrisy not choke you? How does it taste in your mouth?

WELL STATED! YOU ARE CORRECT WITH EVERY WORD! GOD BLESS YOH AND FOR THIS, YOU WILL LIVE PROSPEROUSLY FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH ABOUT A FORGIVING, GRACEFUL, MERCIFUL, AND UNCONDITIONALLY LOVING JESUS CHRIST!