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Proxy war with Iran

Good move

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tpiar:
can you stop spamming the forum with your polygamy mentions?

na who send you na? Face your life and stop disturbing us here.

I salute your courage by using all available opportunities to defend your believe in monogamy but I am sincerely of the opinion that you do not have to be at the extreme.We do not have to be on the same page as far as issue of marriage is concerned.

Madam, please I request you to be gentle on me while driving home your points because you never know if I might eventually end up in your monogamy camp.

We live in a society where there are lots of choices to make according to ones exposure and knowledge. I therefore opined that reasons to convince someone else to make a choice should be well articulated without necessarily being insultive.

Let me at this juncture thank you for your interest in my thread, your comments keep me motivated.

ifyalways:
To have and raise children with a man I love.

To have 24/7 kpekus with a man I love without fear or condemnation from man or God.

To have a companion and help mate.

An investment for old age.

Other selfish but valid reasons.

You have many good reasons to be married. Does polygamy negates any of the above reasons?if yes, how?

sisisioge:
For companionship

To create legit babies

To share bills, burdens and joys

For seexxx licence

To create a form of insurance/security for the future

To fulfil the societal/family expections


I think I want to really get married now cos I need a friend I can always come home to who would help me fulfil my dream of motherhood.

These are very good reasons to be married.
Couldn't all the above reasons be filfilled in a polygamous setting?

No sane government will ban Hijab in a religion sensitive country such as Nigeria.

Ok

sisisioge:
Whew! It is well! The OP wants what he wants darning the consequences. He's threading his grandpa's path...guy needs to go sit on his grandma's laps to hear the untold stories...the silent wars...

However, it Is his business and that of his stakeholders. What a child needs to climb a tree to see, an elder sees while sitting down. I'm not an elder o, just encouraging the OP to get more equipped on his quest.

As per the topic of discussion, build something with two separate flat connected by a mini flat in between. Just like ABC. Each of the wives that flat A and C while you sit on B. May there be peace in your home, trust me you would need plenty of it.

I would have love to take advice from my grandma but unfurtunately non of them is alive
But why would I even seek their advice when you and I know where they would tend towards. Obviously no woman will support polygamy.
I would rather be polygamous than to be adulterous.
Thank you for the design advice.

RichYoungRuler:
I hope your questions have been answered Sir?

Ok

What do you actually want us to do? Where is the ( proposed) station located within the campus? Have you started the contruction work?

tpiar:
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Ok, noted.

mamagee3:
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He obviously wants to get noticed and with your post, I think he did. This is because you are already noticing him to the extent that you know when he gets home and when he's looking up your window.

If you aren't in talking terms, and I see no reason why you shouldn't, get close to him. You may tell him how naive his move was months or even years after.

Chidoks:
I was there,now I'm here.
Before moving to the new topic, did you get your design? Have you spotted your new bride or are you still searching?
You nko why did you marry?
Hahaha! Ok lemme answer your questions but you must answer mine o.
1. I married to find fulfilment and rest
2. To raise offerings
3. To avoid sin
4. Companionship
5. To love and be loved

Having examined your reasons, I am convinced that all your purpose could be achieved outside marriage.
I understand number 3 reason to mean you want to avoid fornication. I can conclude that that's for religious purpose.You married to fulfilled a religious obligation.

Mindfulness:
People marry because they think that it will make their life better in one way or another and because they feel that they have to.

If someone's purpose of marriage is to make his/her life better, I think that reason is selfish. Such person's plan is to milk his/her spouse.

Secondly, marriage is not as juicy as most people would have expected. One doesn't have to be married before his or her life could be better.

Why would people go into marriage because they just they had to? I now see reasons for most failed marriage.

Interesting

Chidoks:
Oga mi...

Hmm, wetin I do ooo?

JudgementHammer:
Op no dey do like woman just talk d thing weh ur wife do or na something do ur wife

Wait o. Hope she never padlock d bedgate?

My wife is a nice woman ,eventhough we sometimes have misunderstanding like most couples do. For the record, she has never refused me of husband-wife intimacy.
My question is not about my wife but to actually see reasons why people get married.

Chidoks:
I was there,now I'm here.
Before moving to the new topic, did you get your design? Have you spotted your new bride or are you still searching?
You nko why did you marry?
Hahaha! Ok lemme answer your questions but you must answer mine o.
1. I married to find fulfilment and rest
2. To raise offerings
3. To avoid sin
4. Companionship
5. To love and be loved

1. I now have an idea of what I want. My final decision will be based on my pocket

2. I am not ready yet..so I have not even started searching, Though I have a lot tempting me for affairs (for a favour or the other)
3. I married to fulfil a religiuos duty, raise family for a good society and offcourse to satisty my sexual urge.

Why would I want to embark on a suicide mission?

I created a thread some weeks back about how best to design a house in anticipation of a second wife but instead of gettin the advice I sought, I found myself defending polygamy. Many accussed me of just wanting to satisfy my sexual pleasure at the detriments of my wives.
I would like to know why you got married or why do you want to get married?

Toks2008:
There is no place in my bible that ask a lady to divorce her hubby because of sexual infidelity and i might just shed more light on this if i decide to create a thread on it.

Dessertion is the only ground the bible gave to a woman to divorce her spouse.

I do not remember where I mentioned the bible and the last time I checked, the bible is not the constitution of Nigeria
On a lighter mood, why would you want a biblical solution to a non biblical problem? Didn't they see the bible before fornicating and having a child outside wedlock? Didn't she mentioned that the husband is a sunday school teacher with a 'big' bible? Didn't the bible discourage extra marital affairs being committed by the husband?
In my candid opinion, not all problems could be solved with the bible.
Thank you.

[quote author=zemaye post=41308047][/quote]Bravo...

[quote author=LegatusGlaber post=41320382][/quote]That she can't share with a known woman but probable with an unknown one...

My sincere advice for you is to stock your house with foodstuff that can last you for a like 2-3months. It is not your wedding that is important but life after your wedding (Marriage).
Trust me family, friends and well wisher will contribute to your wedding ceremony but what happens afterward is your sole responsibility. So spend less on the ceremony.

@ Op, how would you have felt if it was one of your children (assuming they are grown ups) that MISTAKENLY entered unto you?
Always cultivate the habit of
1. locking your door
2. Switching off the light
3. Not being completely unclad

Afterall you are not recording or acting.....

Your heaven/Paradise lies under the feet of your mum. You can either work for it through her or throw it away.

Jesus is never and couldn't have been God. All evidences point to that.

Why not? Because her family house is unkept does not mean she's dirty. I actually do not see that as a reason not to be married to someone. Everybody has his own dirty secret/weakness.

I feel sorry for you my sister,that you are already going through this just six months into your marriage. I wouldn't advice you to stay or leave but you should bear in mind that infidelity is a good ground for divorce. At 22, you are still very young to start life allover.

Your husband has a double personality no thanks to the social media He is a chronic womanizer who knows and understands what he's doing.. Men like him would do anything to protect their 'pseudo-reputation'.

You have to let your parents know about what you discovered about your husband and listen to their advice.

I wish you God's guidance in your decision.

Which of the favors of your Lord will you deny?

The beer parlor guy still have to pay for the TV since it was stolen while it was in his custody. How much he will pay is what I can't fathom.