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Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 9:44pm On Jan 17, 2016
ronald4lif:
Certainly will. I'm for believing anything that can be backed with evidence.
The summary of big-bang theor yis that the universe and its content were once a unit before an explosion that made them parted ways.

Lets consider what God told his messenger some 1400 years ago.
Quran 21 vs 30.." Have not those who disbelieve known that the heavens and the earth were joined together as one united piece, then we parted them"

Does this not explain the big-bang theory?
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 9:17pm On Jan 17, 2016
ronald4lif:
That's just sophism and can't be proven. I just stated possible reasons backed by science. If you have any plausible evidence to support God created the universe bring forth so we can argue for or against it.
I am not too good in arguing. Will you believe in God's existence if you see convincing evidences?
Family › Re: Should Adultery Be Criminalized? by mostyg(op): 9:05pm On Jan 17, 2016
Mindfulness:
It has already been criminalized by religious doctrines but even hell fire cannot stop people from cheating. grin
Going by religious doctrine, adultery is a very serious offence that is punishable by death. But where is it correctly practised today?
Many people engage in the act because nothing really deters them except their faith. They also believe they would seek God's forgiveness thereby knowingly committing the sin.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 8:53pm On Jan 17, 2016
ronald4lif:
In essence you're saying God created the earth? That hasn't been proven beyond what religious doctrines teaches. And which are unfounded.

There are a few theories as to how the earth came into existence. The key one is called "The Big Bang." It supposes that the entire mass of the universe is constantly expanding and contracting. At some point in the continuum of time, all the matter in the universe took up a very very small amount of space.

The pressure caused by this compression caused the universe to explode in a super heated blast (the big bang) sending it all over the universe. (It's a known fact that the universe is indeed still expanding - as proven by the doppler effect when viewing celestial bodies in telescopes)

Also, over time all these particles began to cool and clump together forming stars, moon etc and planets and such.

The gasses and temperature on our planet were just right so that certain forms of bacteria were able to come into being. The rest is a process known as evolution.

The likelyhood of this happening combined with the likelyhood that you can actually read this electronic message thousands of miles away from me is so highly improbable that anyone would have to understand it to be a complete miracle.

Nebular hypothesis is a more acceptable explanation to the formation of the earth and how it came into existence.
The big-bang theory doesnt in anyway proof that God did not create the universe.God could have commanded the universe to be formed in that way.
One sure thing is that the universe did not come into existence just by itself. "Everything remains in state of rest until an external force acts on it"...Newton
Family › Re: Should Adultery Be Criminalized? by mostyg(op): 8:42pm On Jan 17, 2016
donbenedict:
Leave the judgment to God!

Adultery is in his commandments.
Is Killing, stealing etc not in His commandment?
Family › Should Adultery Be Criminalized? by mostyg(op): 8:37pm On Jan 17, 2016
Men cheat and expect forgiveness from thier wives.Women cheat and also expect their husband to forgive them
Almost everybpdy in relationships nowadays are unfaithful.
Unfortunately there is nothing to deter people from cheating on their partners. Some are even proud of the act without any iota of remorse.

While pondering about this level of decadeness, a thought of criminalizing adultery came to mind. The negative consequences of cheating on the spouse, children and the society at large surpass that of already criminalized offences.

Since there are lots of court cases where couples accuse each other of infidelity, I do not see any reason why the cheated partner would not witness against the cheating partner.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 10:54am On Jan 17, 2016
I personally believe that most people do not get caught at the first time. If a woman/man is caught cheating, thats probably not the first time.
I also believe that "What is worth doing once is worth doing everytime".

I cant imagine my wife cheating on me but I doubt forgiving he.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 10:31am On Jan 17, 2016
Mindfulness:
@bold

Because ...

- they want to have their cake and eat it
- one of the partners has let him-/herself go and is no longer sexually appealing
- one of the spouses has a decreased libido and does no longer satisfy the other one
- the spark is gone
- for fun of tasting the forbidden fruit
- some people discover that they are polygamous in nature some years into the marriage
- the marriage is frustrating
- someone else is willing to give them something they miss
- one of the spouses has a fetish s/he cannot live out in the marriage
- they have an opportunity to do so without being caught
- they do not consider it morally wrong
- they can
- they married their spouse for wrong reasons
- they feel neglected and unloved
- to take revenge
- ...
Na wa ooo. What a long list of reasons?

I understand you only gave some reasons people who cheats give and in no way trying to support infidelity in marriages

Now that we know the reasons, are these reasons justifiable?

If one has taken a vow to be faithful to his/her other half for better and for worse, no reason would justify infidelity.
Family › Re: She Is Tired Of Her Marriage; She Wants To Quit by mostyg(m): 9:37am On Jan 17, 2016
Let her sit the husband down and have a family talk. Ask her husband what he wants from her and why he has not been treating her fairly.
If nothing came out of that, she should involve both families with hers first.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 9:02am On Jan 17, 2016
Mindfulness:
I wouldn't call it queer behavior.

Maybe you should stay true to yourself and re-consider whether a monogamous relationship is your preference instead of beating up on yourself to fit into societal conventions, which do not do yourself and they way you are any justice.

We have been brainwashed into believing that we can only love and desire one person and we should be doing so for the rest of our lives when in fact our natural inclination is a different one.
If I were to summarize your assertion to the best of my understanding, you are implying polygamy.

Please do correct me if I am wrong.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 8:56am On Jan 17, 2016
Why would someone.cheat in the first instance? Neither a man nor a woman should cheat in a relationship and if such happened, the choice of forgiveness lies on the party cheated.

Is there any woman that would be proud to come out and say " I cheated on my husband but he has forgiven me"

If a man could not make issue out of a cheating wife, he simply doesn't love the wife.
Christianity Etc › Re: See Why A Woman Slept With Her Own Son by mostyg(m): 7:32am On Jan 16, 2016
Nonsense
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pics:Victims Of Last Night Hotel Attack In Burkina Faso By Al-Qaida Terrorists by mostyg(m): 7:28am On Jan 16, 2016
So sad
Politics › Re: Customs Or Police, Who Is More Corrupt? by mostyg(m): 7:23am On Jan 16, 2016
This is my understanding of your question: corruption or corruption, who is more corrupt?
They both live and dine with corruption.
Politics › Re: Hameed Ali Orders Customs Officers To Declare Assets In 14 Days by mostyg(m): 4:57am On Jan 16, 2016
The general public can also help in getting rid of corrupt custom officials. If you know anyone of them living above his income please expose him/her.

We need a website/blog that would be dedicated to exposing corrupt officials List the location of thier assets and the worth if you have the idea. We need to assist this government with information.

Let kill corruption before it kills us.
Family › How would you feel if your mum become pregnant in your twenties? by mostyg(op):
How would you have felt if your mum become pregnant when you were in your twenties?
Family › Re: (pic) New Born Baby Thrown Into A Dustbin In PH by mostyg(m): 8:12pm On Jan 14, 2016
Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but there is no food.what an irony?
Politics › Re: FG Permit States To Explore Solid Minerals In Their Domains by mostyg(m): 6:23pm On Jan 14, 2016
Aufbauh:
Who is still in doubt about the CHANGE Buhari administration represent? Except there is a river blindness in the wailing communities. cheesy

Meanwhile this is another form of federalism we have been yearning for. It ripple effects will lead to competition among federating states and subsequent development that are people oriented.

Long live PMB
Long live Nigeria
As good as this news seem to be, I am not sure it was well reasoned. If states with solid minerals are licenced to exploit, what what happens to states with Hydrocarbon?
If this new policy must stay, Niger Delta states must also be allowed to exploit petroleum. Afterall what is good for the geese is good for the ganders.
Education › Re: #PHOTO: UNIABUJA Student Dies In His Sleep Night After Death Tweet by mostyg(m): 7:24am On Jan 11, 2016
skillet:
Don't mess with death. Truth be told, I just came to check out his religion and I see its islam. Without mincing words, only Christianity gives power over death. While. Islam and others try to give compensation after death, (eg 21 virgins in paradise), Christianity alone tells us that Christ went down to hell and tooK the keys of the grave. So, as a Christian, anytime you want to "postpone" your death, just say a little prayer. That's why I love Jesus Christ. He is sooo considerate.
You make me laugh with your deceit. So christians have power over death. Oh less i forget, there has never been any christian died in plane crash, road accident, fire disaster, etc. The death of Pastor Bimbo Odukoya is still fresh in our memory, wasn't she a good christian?

People like you make atheist mock religion. Nigeria has one of the highest number of child mortality rate, arent there christians amongst the dead.. I am sure your church as a cemetry, go and check and tell me the buried are only old men and women.And dont tell me those one arent christians.
Let me emphasize to you that nobody has power over dead. When it is your time you hadly can do anything to escape.

All souls shall taste death at their appointed time. From God we have come and to him we shall return.
Family › Re: Phobia For Ceiling Fans . Sometimes Had A Feel It Will Fall ... by mostyg(m): 6:50am On Jan 11, 2016
I can' t remember what my phobias are.
I don't even know if I have any.
Family › Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by mostyg(m): 6:35am On Jan 11, 2016
donpata:
Do u need government statistics or research results to tell u there are many Nigerians living below poverty line? this is something we see every day. and why have u guys simply concluded that married ladies must be over 30 yrs?
You mean anybody can wake up and just conclude on an issue by mere speculations without any statistical analysis.?
Family › Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by mostyg(m): 10:24pm On Jan 10, 2016
Where is your reference?

Who conducted the research?

Are you by implication saying there are more children born out of wedlock than those born by married couples?
Family › Re: Is There A Man Out There Who Would Forgive A Wife That Commits Adultry? by mostyg(m): 10:10pm On Jan 10, 2016
Women are jeolous but not as jealous as men. It is normal and good of a man to be jeolous over his wife. His jeolousy would make him protect.her from all harasment including sexual.
Men could go to any extent to protect their wives and so would not want anybody to touch her not to talk of sleeping with her. This is the reason it is always difficult for me to forgive an adulterous wife.
If you love your wife you will jeolously guard her from all forms of external aggressions.
A jeolous and protecting husband would find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife.Afterall women too prefer protecting men over a carefree ones.
Politics › Re: Soldiers Remove Veil From Muslim In Lagos‎ - The whistle by mostyg(m): 6:46pm On Jan 10, 2016
Before the boko boys started disguising using hijab weren't they bombing?

Few days ago some robbers in police uniform were arrested after raping some female corpers. Should the police uniform also be banned?
Education › Re: Agbo Odeh-Hillary Of BSU Breaks Academic Record After 17 Carryovers by mostyg(m): 6:51pm On Jan 09, 2016
Vision4God:
17 unit carryover & graduated wt 1st class?
I kinda doubt ds story.
How many years did he spend in d uni? And are der no pre-requisite courseshuh??

Anyway congrats to him
Please always read articles/stories before you comment.
Family › Re: Man's 1-day Old Baby Dies And He Shares Photos Of Her Burial On FB (photos) by mostyg(m): 6:44pm On Jan 09, 2016
No matter the age of the dead, she should have been wrapped or put inside a coffin. How could they have poured the earth on her face directly?
Politics › Re: How FFK Used Fronts To Receive Funds From Ex-nsa Dasuki’s Arms Purchase Funds by mostyg(m): 6:25pm On Jan 09, 2016
Who else is involved?
Crime › Re: Photos: Accident Hits Eko Bridge This Afternoon by mostyg(m): 3:40pm On Jan 09, 2016
Thank God that no life was lost. The accident could have been a result of over speeding. When you over speed to gain 10 minutes and you lost 10 hours as a result. Food for thought....
Politics › Re: Pastor Ayo Has Fallen From Grace To Grass-cardinal Okogie Blasts CAN Leadership by mostyg(m): 3:39pm On Jan 09, 2016
How much did he collect from D?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: University Of Ghent Scholarships For International Students. by mostyg(m): 6:32pm On Jan 08, 2016
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: University Of Ghent Scholarships For International Students. by mostyg(m): 8:53am On Jan 08, 2016
Thanks for the info. This may also be of interest www.KFUPM.edu.sa
Romance › Re: Where And How Did I Get It All Wrong?...pls Help by mostyg(m):
You need to read the stories of successful people, their roads were never smooth.

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