Let's take a look at how ur 800k
can take care of you.
Accomodation: 100k
Relocation: 50k
Capital: 300k
Registeration: 25k
Wedn tns: 50k
Upkeep: 75k
Savings: 300k
Total: 800k

1. Relocate: leave ur present location, I suggest you move to Osun state,particularly Osogbo.You can get a comfortable 3bedroom flats for 100k. Light in Osogbo is also good and the town is cheap to live in.

2. Swallow ur pride: most of ds big names u hear today have gone thru dirty pasts with lots of deprivation and 'shame', yet people run to pay homage to them today 'cos of what they av made of themselves, believe u'll soon be there and know that ds is temporary.

3. Buy a cab: I assume u can drive. Buy a used car or mini-bus (for intra-city) for lyk 300k and paint it in the state taxi colour (8k for auto flex), complete all ur reg with RTEAN other regulators (25k).

4. How it works: Since u avnt done ds b4 and u r new in osogbo, you need to be tutored on how transport biz works and how to ply the routes. So you'll get a driver, they normally deliver 2k for a new minibus and btw 1k-1.5k on old buses . What you'll do is that you'll set out with him every morning sit infront of the cab, see how he carries d passengers, learn the routes,learn about fuel administration, learn about obtaining tickets n daily permits , learn all you can. And you still get lyk 2k delivery fee as u both park the bus each nyt. If you work 5 days in a week ds way, dats 10k each week n 40k a month.

5. Financial Freedom: By the start of the 3rd month, u shld start drivn on ur own, keep savn the 2k evryday wyl u use the xtra 1k (u make btw 3k to 4k in actual py daily). Work only 5 days and use ur saturday to maintain ur vehicle n relax with ur young family. Keep savn atleast 40k per month. The extra 1k or 2k u make daily will go a long way in meetn ur daily need so don't touch ur savns xcpt for smt very important.

6. Update: keep searchn for ur new jobs, buy Guardian Newspaper on Tuesday, go to the cybercafe or browse at home on wknds, make calls to old colleagues , do weekend courses, start ur Msc at OAU (weekend part-time), just keep developn urself. You can also start-up ur wife in a small biz, maybe she can start a food packaging (rebagging) ryt in ur living room and then sell.

7. GOD : reference GOD in all that you do,appreciate HIM, praise HIM and pray to HIM. I believe before this tym nxt year,u'll be very alryt, be far more comfortable and be equiped with better biz ideas and capital. It is well.

I work in Osogbo,let more people come in.Maybe we could hang out one of these days.

Welldone Sir. My advice to you is not to pick up a fatherly role yet when u aint ready for it. You are not even her hubby yet. Let her know the money is just a kind gesture on your part, and that she isn't ur responsibility yet. I also advice you gey smtn to invest ur loose changes into. Investments that will appreciate.

Waoh,u'v got a good compilation.borrow me ur pencil.Proudly naija.

I also want to add that she could av atleast changed into another attire,or must she announce her abruptly ended wedding? Or does she think that will fetch her any sympathy? She only ended up embarassing herself and her new and gentle husband.

In my own opinion and from her pix circulated,it was not only a wrong,but also a silly decision. Leaving all ur family,friends and well-wishers behind to go write a test. This girl is only(I strongly believ) commited to her own feelings and she matters most to herself. This kind of wife will dump even that her new husband for money. Let's see how it goes.

I'm back again after following people's response to this lady's case. This is how it starts with girls o. I guess she's all this career focused babes,I guess she has been sleeping with all this up and mighty people, frolicking with the people that she thinks matters,just for the money and career sucess, ignoring her own guy and claiming the guy is treating her bad. I guess her guy must have seen the traits in her and concluded that she must be back at it again with this opportunity. Confess girl,u have something u are not letting us see.

This is a babe standing up for herself and what she believes in, good u took the bold step of returning to nigeria and taking that good offer because it will even aid ur career growth and before you know it u av achieved ur lifelong dreams. But wait,ur relationship must not suffer,although it seems to me some other guys are already keeping you warm here, and maybe a sharp babe is giving him the super treatment there too. I think you need to visit him on ur next break and sort things out. If he is ur guy he will understand. But ur guy hard sha,a whole babe.

Goodmrng all,ok I was on a trip out of lag yday,to a state not too far. My intention was to inspect some sites and return to lagos even b4 5pm,but it turned out to be that I slept there. Cos I didn't plan it,I took only 10k with me,out of which I bought fuel into my suv, so I had to look for a modest hotel. I got this lodge lookn cool n decent n d people there appear cultured n it was just 4k.everytn ws right until mayb midnyt today when dey switchd off gen,dat was when I discovered I had neighbours nextdoor and dat dey were multitudes. From "yee o ti pa mi o" to "rora now" to "oya wa se temi" to "everytn u can imagine or cannot imagine"---this mrng when I woke,I was surprised to hear "wale da"(where is wale) but I'm not sure if it's "manager" d guy was calln, I saw d 2 gurls jump into d guyz near-tattered primera and watch dem zoom off as I was takn my bath. If wale is added,dat makes 4 people in a room on a bout overnyt. My point is, what when we get marryd n we need to lodge with the family, this is definitely bad for kids to hear. I couldn't even sleep well, well,I'm typn ds insyd holdup cos I'm on my way back to lekki,the home of decency.

Mainframe's Abeni, so real,I feel lyk floatn n putn all into practice each tym I see it.

U are nt ready to be engaged n ur toyfriend isn't ready to engage u yet. By the tym both of u are ready,if ever it's going to be both of u,no one 'll teach u nt to be scared n no one 'll teach him to be extra-nice,even if it's pretence.

Congrats OP, dat u left,I know it's not cos of the ipad n bb money u left,but because of the seemingly extortional n opportunistic attitude of ur "would-av-been" inlaws, ur ex also didn't help matters,but mayb those gadgets where where included by younger people. I av seen some "donatn" aircon as part of d list n I'v heard of someone,a rich guy with GE calln it off cos of plasma tv included on d list,not cos he can't buy it,but felt exploited that mordern n costly tns found their way into a list that should be traditional;all just cos of some people's GREED. Tell this story to ur next gurl,she should learn.

U av made a mistake,no doubt,and many would av laughed at u no doubt,u definitely made a selfish decision to marry him,just be true to urself,u thought he's some rich uneducated fellow u could manipulate. SOLUTION: do not ruin ur personal life and that of the boy,a whole boy,father of a whole generation. Do not relocate to ANY village,talk to ur mum to help u with stayn wit them,write ur exams with a mind to succeed,MAKE SURE nysc posts u to mayb a good southwest state where life is more quality,then start ur life afresh, u can also start a small business to gen more income when u conclude ur exams,so dat by d tym u are servn,u are already rich n can take good care of ur kid,make him feel free with other kids and give him the good things of life,u also deserve to look nice and happy-PERSONAL BIZ n PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT is d way.dnt tink abt ur husband/master for now,when u start cruisn in ur hummer,he'll run to open d door n kneel. U are destined for the top.

That's an extreme pix of a dirty human,this is going psychological.mayb the guy sees no reason is wastn water,mayb he hates the cold touch,mayb he sees no reason for it.But for the teeth,he isn't only dirty,but lazy,unhygenic n unfair to himself. If he's still tinkn ryt,he should note the wife is driftn away.but wife's friend,pls let ur wife stay and make him a better man.

My urgent advise is that u shld let him know there are 2 reasons pendn before u can say yes to him officially. Let him start a reconstruction process on this bad habits now. But if he promises not to change,wouldn't u rather get him changed

I'm happy about the debate,so happy. This is good.

Nothing showing on channels tv and this is past 7pm,what about that?

I was thinkn there will be a debate showing live on channels at 7pm tonight, I saw it inside the newspaper and heard it everywhere, but I'm on channels tv now and nothing is going on. This is past 7pm already.

I think you are happy with this as u both enjoy it,bt u only av d bad feelns during an interlude before another escapade.only u can make urself happy,do what will make u happy.

Marriage without dowry, u got her cheap.

She should just go back to her ex and u also get a new and younger one who is not so wordly wise. You can't manage her,she will leave.

Thanks for this, and now they have sent out test invitations to people, we Pray for the best.

^^^^^^ Thank you so much.

Good Morning everyone,nice being here with you. Please I ned directions on how to post a new topic. I dont mean derailing the thread, i just want to learn. Thanks.

As for our nation's politics,majority are in for money and fortunes to grab, including all this self appointed reps---we only hope for the best.