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Family › Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by movement2020: 7:03am On Feb 22, 2020

Girlwhocares:
Yes,have been dating my bf for (15yrs)he was my first nd the only one have ever loved,our problem started when my dad said he witnessed where exhibited an unruly characters to some elders and also cos of the friends he moves with recently as at then and that he wasnt comfortable with our relationship (which i pleaded and made him understand everyone deserves another chance but cos how principled my dad was he insisted he won't consent to our union)
To be candid,this is the guy have share all my life with,he's all i wanted in a man but my dad opinion ruined our relationship.

I think seperation from my husband is all i need just for clarity sake but honestly,the more i try to make the marriage work the more i drift away from him and I dont know how to go about it.

I have visited two marriage counsellors without informing my husband all in my effort to work things but not yielding results as expected

That grudge is really embedded in you and love of 15yrs is no joke coupled with the fact that you didn't date your husband. The foundation was the problem.

Ma, no one and nobody should stay in a relationship where he or she is not happy. Your happiness really matters. You already know what you want and making efforts to make it work is not yielding positive response.

Few questions more

Would you drop the kid for him?

The seperation you're seeking, is it to re-strategize in order to develop love from afar or date a new guy and see if that would work or go back to your former relationship if he has not married (I doubt).

Do you find it hard to tell him your inner most mind?

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Family › Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by movement2020: 6:21am On Feb 22, 2020

Were you seeing someone before you got married to this man?

Do you still get in touch with your Ex (s)

What do you think you can do to love your husband?

There are some attributes you want in your dream man that he does not possess? What are they?

Yes, love grows but you closed your heart due to some reasons best known to you.

What exactly do you think would solve the problem? Seperation or Divorce.

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Politics › Re: The Moment Borno State Gov Zulum Met An Igbo Primary School Teacher By 6:30 Am by movement2020: 9:23pm On Feb 08, 2020

You know what the Gov did that enticed me, he went to his car himself to get the money and gave the woman. What a humble leader he is. May Allah bless him and bring peace to Borno State.

Hard work and deligence pays alot. After 31yrs, the woman met a Gov in person, received instant cash (not audio), and got promoted within 48hrs. God bless you, Ma.

I have emulated this a long time, I make sure I get to work before 8am.

NYSC › Re: How Do I Verify My NYSC Certificate? by movement2020: 11:30am On Feb 07, 2020

cucumbar:
thank you. I have seen this link before now, but it states that their database starts from 2010. I served in 2004, so my details will not be here.

That could be the reason.

NYSC › Re: How Do I Verify My NYSC Certificate? by movement2020: 10:10am On Feb 07, 2020

cucumbar:
you don’t know how grateful I will be if you could help me.

https://verify.nysc.org.ng/

NYSC › Re: How Do I Verify My NYSC Certificate? by movement2020: 5:26am On Feb 07, 2020

cucumbar:
I presented it somewhere and they said it was not genuine.

That's weird. Let me see how you can go about it.

NYSC › Re: How Do I Verify My NYSC Certificate? by movement2020: 11:10pm On Feb 06, 2020

I don't think you can personally do. Your employer can verify. If still in doubt, check the procedure on Nysc platform. Besides, why the doubt?

Education › Re: Please Help Me Get To Abeokuta Jamb Office by movement2020: 2:40pm On Feb 06, 2020

Wherever you are in Abeokuta, tell bike man you're going to Lands beside CBN or Abeokuta Club. Immediately you get to the road, Jamb office is first office before you get to Lands or Nysc office.

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Politics › Re: Fayemi: APC May Collapse When Buhari Leaves Office by movement2020: 6:30pm On Jan 19, 2020

Don't use style to tell us, Oga Fayemi. APC will definitely collapse. Power tussle with Oga Bourdillon will the immediate cause. It's no mathematics, we all can see the handwriting on the wall.

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Health › Re: Dark Patches On My Skin. Dermatologists, Please Help. by movement2020: 10:50pm On Jan 18, 2020

DonMoel:
I'm a male. I haven't tried natural soap but I sometimes use the Antiseptic soaps.

None of my parents on siblings has experienced it

And no, it doesn't itch. Nothing at all except for the skin deformation.
Thanks.

With this and your visit to the dermatologist, I think you need to start doing

1..Change your soap to maybe ose dudu or any thing natural. Don't go herbal because most of these stuffs have been mixed with all sorts. Use ori (shea butter) or olive oil as your cream. You can mix alovera which is homemade. You can do that.

2..Check your diet. If you're the type that takes groundnut alot, remove it from your diet. Check something you are so much addicted to, and stop for a while.

3..Visit another hospital preferable a general hospital. Try as much as possible to see an old dermatologist with years of experience. Such Doctor would have witnessed something similar.

4...Since you said it's over three years and if at the end of this year, you try all I suggested or what you deem fit, and no changes, it would be advisable you go herbal. It may be inside the blood stream that needs cleansing.

While doing all these, you can do thorough research online. I know you would have done that. You can as well go further making use of online dermatologist on social media platforms like LinkedIn.

Such happened to my younger sister many years ago, it was all over her face. A light skin lady just went dark with no form of illness or symptoms of any sort. It didn't take up to 6months when treatment started that she passed on. Yours differs in many ways but don't handle with kid gloves either.

All the best bro..!!!

Health › Re: Dark Patches On My Skin. Dermatologists, Please Help. by movement2020: 7:52pm On Jan 18, 2020

Are you a male or female?

How often do you change your soap or cream?

Have you tried any natural soap or cream?

Any itching?

Do you suspect if any of your siblings or parents has it? Probably, it's hereditary.

Education › Re: Amotekun Is Cheetah Not Leopard by movement2020: 8:49am On Jan 18, 2020

Venerable612:
This is wrong.

First off the name Amotekun has nothing to do physical semblance as such.

It literally translates - “one who knows as Ekun”.

Again, you are wrong that Yoruba doesn’t have a transalation for Tiger - because our fathers didn’t have an encounter with them.

In fact Tiger has two Yoruba names. It could be called OGIDAN or EKUN. That’s why they say this provide - “Ogidan o ni se Barber, ki aja de be lo ge irun”.

And “KAKA KI KINIUN SAKAPO EKUN, OLODE A MAA RODE.“ Mind you Lion in Yoruba is Kiniun. And no one will ever compare a Lion with a Leopard. No animal can stand the Lion grit for grit amongst the Cat Family other than the Tiger; hence, the comparison.

Also, when Yorubas jokingly refer to someone as Ekun - it’s to represent that the person is a Strong man.

Thus,

Lion - Kiniun
Tiger - Ogidan and Ekun
Leopard - Amotekun
Cheetah - Owawa.

Hope this helps.

Thanks for the lecture. Appreciate

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Education › Re: IMSU Aspirants & Direct Entry. by movement2020: 6:22am On Jan 16, 2020

kckings250:
IMSU aspirants should drop their number in other to be added to the group WhatsApp for more and precised information concerning Screening and Admission process.

Pls, can you give a guide in IMSU DE.

Is there any need to by DE form from IMSU or just rely on Jamb?

What about transcripts?

What level will HND start from if offered admission?

Any whatsapp group?

Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by movement2020: 6:05am On Jan 16, 2020

Good day folks,

Please, do we have or know anyone applying for DE to Imo State University this new session. My nephew has HND in Architecture from Laspotech.

Is there any need to buy DE form from IMSU or one has to rely on JAMB DE form only.? If yes, please, how much was the last one?

With HND, what level would he start from?

Any other requirements/information for the admission process?

Thanks.

Politics › Open Letter To Governor Dapo Abiodun by movement2020(op): 8:12pm On Jan 03, 2020*

Without much ado, Sir, I believe you know about the plight of the newly recruited into the Ogun State Civil Service by the immediate past administration because on assumption of office, a committee was set up by HIS Excellency on 27th August, 2019 to look into promotions and appointments done by the last administration three months prior your assumption of office. The committee's report was submitted and received by HIS excellency on 4th November 2019.

Sir, I would want to briefly inform you on the recruitment process. The form was collected in December 2017 and after series of exams by ASCON and interviews in 2018 by CSC Chairman, Permanent Secretaries, Directors and Head of Agencies appointment letters was issued in May, 2019. We have been going to work, done all necessary documentation, posted to various stations/units in all the 20 local governments in the State.

Sir, for the past 8months, your administration have neglected us, made us look like slaves in our State, turned us to letter writers, beggers, hostages in our State and other jobs graduates and professionals like us should not be found doing.

Sir, what we want is very simple and we do not think we are asking too much as due process was followed for our recruitment. With no reservations and no iota of fear, we would like HIS Excellency tell us unequivocally

1. Your administration's stand on our appointment not minding the committee's report. Is it positive or negative?

2..If positive to the above,when exactly are we getting our entitlements paid? We can still endure and have more patience since we know the pay day

3..If negative, kindly send a circular to all agencies to relieve us of all our duties so as to find other means of survival. Pitch tent with God who will definitely make a way for the downtrodden.

We cannot be held hostage under the guise of "it was last administration's appointment".

A yoruba adage says, Orisa bo le gbemi, semi bo se bami.

Sir, this letter should not tagged antagonistic or given any political inclination. However, it should be critically considered without any form of blackmail thought. I can put it to you, as a father, you cannot accept this for any of your children. Staying in the sun for hours, controlling traffic (Trace Officers), Medical Personnel, Social Workers, Environmentalist, Agricultural Officers and others in out stations travelling far distance without being paid in the present economy.

Sir, your response to the plight of the young, vibrant and hard working indigenes of the state would be highly appreciated

ffcecee01@gmail.com
Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State

Family › Re: I Hate My Life by movement2020: 4:30pm On Jan 01, 2020

Chinyerelove:
I am 19 years old orphan , we are 4 children 2 boys and 2 girls , dad died 14 years ago and mum died 8 years ago. Am currently staying with my brother , his wife , my younger sister and their daughter. B4 my brother got married life was so good that he was taking good care of us and made us not missing our parents , he took care of all our needs and we were all going to school but ever since he got married , everything was completely wrong, after finishing secondary school , he told me schooling the 3 of us is consuming lots of money which he can’t afford to send I and my other brother to university at the same time , I have to stay at home until he get the money to send me back to school meanwhile I told him I want to learn handwork like catering or tailoring , he agreed but told me to wait and I have been waiting for 3 years now . When his wife had the baby , he told me to take care of the baby until she is at least 1 year and 6 months when she start school so I can go and learn tailoring too , which I was okey. I am not doing anything, his wife turned me into a maid , I take care of everything in the house , cooking , washing , cleaning , babysitting the baby from morning to night , I don’t have any free time for myself. The baby doesn’t sleep well at night so I have been taking care of her all night while her mum is fast asleep , I wake up tired every single morning and sometimes I don’t even have the strength to clean and if I don’t clean the house by the time she comes back from work , she will start insulting me and calling me names and even if I do the work she doesn’t appreciate me and she will always find faults. I was excited that my niece will be turning 1 year 6 months by May so I can go and learn tailoring so I can be happy again but my brother wife is pregnant again and they are expecting to be at home again when this new baby is born , they don’t care about my life , all they want from
Me to be spending all my life taking care of their children and they want me to be useless in the society. I just hate my life , I just want to leave the house and go far from them. Maybe he is treating us like this because we don’t share the same father , maybe if we were same father he would have treated us much better. I’m dying in pain and can’t stop crying

I appreciate your high hopes, diligence and strong will to make it happen despite the problems.. It will definitely happen as you wish. You will become whatever you choose to be so far you don't loose guard.

To me, you're jumping the gun. You have to call your brother in his happy mood, appreciate his effort towards you and your siblings, jokingly let him know his promise and that you have kept your own bargain of the "deal" so, you would appreciate if he does so on his part. Tell him your mind that age and time is going and you have to achieve something for your life.

I think he would also think otherwise and see to what you have said. Be calm and make sure you don't deviate from the issue at hand. Don't bring the house chores or wife's issue into the conversation. Let it be strictly your issue, and how to get it done. Make sure you stand on your point of learning the trade. Don't argue if he shouts and gives unwarranted answers. Let him be. Trust me, he would rescind his decision..

Easy does it bro.. It is well.

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Romance › Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by movement2020: 10:27pm On Dec 31, 2019

Marriage has it's high and lows. Uncle, this is your very low,pls,try and use wisdom to keep it intact. Your predicament would pass oneday and someday. The struggle makes the home one to emulate which the children would be proud of.

Call her, let her know your thoughts and feelings. Don't nag, don't constitute a nuisance either. Just accept was fate brought before you and as I said, seek for divine wisdom so that when the tremor stops, you both would have learnt, trained the kids and be glad you sacrificed.

Please, always remember, the end matters alot and every thing can never be rosy all the time. It is time to see the other side of your wife and learn what money turn people into. Take it as a way your creator is using to teach you the lessons of marriage, woman and life.

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Family › Re: Just Need Someone To Talk To by movement2020: 9:25pm On Dec 31, 2019

ptaller:
either ways bro i'm 41 & in Lags. Nos is 08076746916

Can you briefly narrate the problem?

Family › Re: Just Need Someone To Talk To by movement2020: 9:09pm On Dec 31, 2019

ptaller:
I'm really depressed right now that life & everything dies nite make sense to me, pls I need someone to talk to before i lose it. I've called all the people i know but they were not picking. Pls I need help. Thanks in advance

Here or private?

Your location and age range, pls

Family › Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by movement2020: 9:05pm On Dec 31, 2019

The level of infidelity among married women is so high that if care is not taken, high percentage of next generation kids would come from broken homes. Just this evening in my area, a man caught his wife being dropped in their house. Come and see beating. Smash windshield and damaged the car. The wife ran into another house. The concubine was restless It was just unexplainable.

Op, your thoughts might be right. Take necessary steps to cut the awkward relationship. Safe your home before your wife is influenced by bad company. Like the warri proverb someone said, na from clap dance dey take start..

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by movement2020: 8:10pm On Dec 31, 2019

DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

I don't insult people but since I was once in Op's shoes till I got a bone of my flesh,I would say, woe betide you.

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