₦airaland Forum

PrincessEstates:
You see this your statement in bold ehn, never say it out loud in front of your so-called village elders o. Cos it implies that although you might relent on taking another wife, you will never consider becoming king in as much as your father is alive. Which means that your father is the major reason you're not willing to become the king. Which in turn implies(to them), that in as much as your father(the obstacle to them) is out of the equation(I'm very sure you understand), then there'll be nothing stopping you from becoming the king. Simple right? Yeah, not so simple. Because na from there your troubles go begin...
You think say uncles and aunties dem go fold their hands dey begin look you, upon say you no sabi, and your hands no dey the matter? You think say the new wife no go begin lord am over your current wife, say na she be the for-real-for-real wife, onto say she come from the same community as you?
As for me, nobody holy pass, so whatever decision you end up deciding to take, own up to it. Make such decision because you either want to become the king, or you don't want to become the king. Stop saying it's because my father is still alive o, or it's because I don't want to hurt my wife o, so that your village people will not put evil eyes on them.

See eh he doesn't have a point here..... David was anointed in the presence of his father, current Oni of Ife is a king for him papa face.... So why the noise....
As tradition demand that he must have a wife from their community and that's why they insisted on him getting a 2nd wife because his present wife is not from their community so they demanding him to get another wife from their community. .... So na where this conspiracy dey waka come now.

Nickymichy:
Even if u are to marry another woman from the community... Make sure u choose your woman yourself.. Don't accept any woman from anybody...secondly.. Ur wife really need a say in this matter.. If she gives you go ahead..fine

His wife don't have a say here..... Why they want him to marry another wife is because his wife is not from their community. And he must marry from there community if he's to be crown a King.

Blesyn22:
According to his statement it is conspiracy because he clearly stated that he did not lobby for it

It's not , why he's saying so was because his father us still alive..... And that does not make it a conspiracy .... Kings are Born, they are not made it happens in the Bible in the house of Jesse, king David , his father was still alive when they came to anoint him including Oni of Ife , his father is still much alive.

babaolofin:
If you check what I wrote earlier, it depends on where he comes from. Nobody rejects it and live a normal life. Experience is a great teacher. I can never pray for anybody even my enemies to experience it

Thanks you sir for this advice, I wish he understand your words of wisdom and listen.....

Blesyn22:
It is a conspiracy against your father, they are pitching you against him. An unheard of diety decision in Africa. Bro decline it.It is a family war brewing

This is a lie, nothing like conspiracy here , do you know how much people fight to be king and how much they lobby as well YET since last year and nobody has Rosen to take up the mantle from him at all cost.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Hmm. Are you indirectly telling me to take another wife and be crowned?

I don't know why you are beating around the Bush, because you knew very well that is a must and been a long time tradition to have a wife from you your town as a king and the reason they are demanding you have a second wife is not that you Must have 2 wives BUT BECAUSE YOUR WIFE IS NOT FROM YOUR TOWN.... Is straight, if you are to be crown King you must marry from your town.... Is this how you are to lead and rule over your people?, Sir with due respect if you search yourself and made up your mind to accepts the kingship then go ahead a look for a decent woman from your town and marry.... BTW I see no conspiracy here regarding you been chosen by the gods .... KINGS ARE BORN , THEY ARE NOT MADE..... Kindly go To the Bible and see for yourself, David was Anointed to be a King in the present of his father and mind you he's the last Born of the family .....

OPPPS:
Pathetic bigot/ Children have derailed this beautiful thread now

You will never say anything meaningful once it's coming from South East BTW this account was registered on June 20th and in less than 9 days you have posted over 250 comments, over 90% are showing your hatred, stupidity and bigotry as well as promoting division among Ethics.

Pr0cter:
Lol. Nigerians gats no chill

That's stupidity, he's tribal bigotry, an APC E-Rat....

Katier00:
read and comprehend. Thanks

I quoted you based on below statement.

I think this should be a personal decision considering who is involved and (the reason for cheating.)

What could be a reason for a married woman to bring a man to her matrimonial home...

Munzy14:
All this people above saying native names, You people don't know what is going on... The kids will grow to rename themselves especially on social media.

At the University a lot of girls drop their name.

You might be praying for your son Chisom, while he has acquired the name Kelvin in school..


You might also be praying for your daughter chioma, while she is answering Cynthia in school.

Names u won't know when they imported them.. smh

Nigerians no deh dull at all.

Every Easterners has BOTH Native And English Names probably you are talking about nicknaming themselves which is not a bad thing and it's very common ....

[quote author=CardiNice post=91152701]It's not like we are all perfect but i believe that if eventually you want to cheat on your partner.

Make sure you do it discreetly and don't get caught, do it with that person that don't kiss and tell.

There are people even married couples that have been cheating on thier partners for like more than 10 years and above and their partners don't even know and will never ever know forever.

Yeah I'm talking from experience.

I know of a guy that has been sleeping with a very rich married woman for 10 years now and counting and they will likely take the secret to their graves.

Some people are professional















How sure are you that the said husband don't know about it



See eeh forget am , sometimes they all knew about it just that they don't want one thing or the other for sake of the family, shame etc..... But at the end na the man go suffer am .....

A cheating woman brings disaster to the man's life as well of calamities yo the family......


P.s

Most of the husband knew about it just that because of Shame and stigma it will bring to the family and for the children in the future they cease to keep mute but no bi say people no dey see am too.
That's why in IgboLand before one marry the family of both the lady and man do go ask questions about the family their child intended to enter.

Katier00:
I think this should be a personal decision considering who is involved and the reason for cheating. I don't think I will want everybody to know my partner is a cheat especially my children if they are young. I will quietly leave or desist from any sexual activities from my partner.

What could be a reason for cheating married woman?, is their any justification for cheating ?,
what could be a Reason for a married woman to bring a man to her matrimonial home .......

P.s

Such a woman will kill her husband anytime soon to have more space for her adulterous life..

techmo:
Since your papa no gree buy radio for your family, you no fit hear the commissioner of finance make such announcement

And you think say I be you weh still dey your parents house....
Keep on fooling yourself in defending a Failed Government of thieves while they montage your future and of your future Generations to come.

techmo:




Idiot Makinde, Oyo State is having a huge surge with hundred new cases daily but this same idiot that held PDP Mega Rally during Covid 19 also wants to open schools, since he has finished the 2billion covid 19 funds he needs new money to pay off election expenses

His own wife and kids are already in America with best of hospitals

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Na your Papa give am 2Billion , Abi you think say na Gadollar we dey talk here? ...

ethicallyright:
Has he raised his hands on you before?

If he hasn't , he won't. Bleep the hell outta that man.

Stop this rubbish you are talking....

sexylassie2:
Next time, don't be broke.

Put your life together and work to get a better life for yourself.

She played a fast game on you, since you can't afford the life that she wants, she changed.

Also go check the paternity of the child and confirm if it is yours.

Your point and advice are good but it's never one's choice to be broke....


I will strongly ask him to go for D.N.A. Test for the child ....

GTFO:
Ask him what he does
What's up with minding your business??
Why can't you ask him yourself if that's your problem in life

You Nigerians are so gullible tbh!!! Especially YOU .. Infact, you're a SHEEP.. Ogun go jam you if you quote me and I'm waiting actually!!!

He's just hypocrite.... Is pastor asking people sourcing of there income before collecting tithes and offerings from them......

Discovery4today:
He who lives in a glass house should not throw a stone Sir. He's a media personality,who has his campaign "free the sheeple", he should have at least asked Hushpuppi what he does let alone how he made his fortune. I think Nigerians are now returning the favour to him

He should at least ask Hushpuppi what he does first...... Why is your called pastors not asking what people does for a living before collecting tithes and offerings from people..... See eeh i hate hypocrite..... Am Christian and I don't condole evil...... But you are sounding so pained here .

Golan007:
I know what I am saying.

This is not incompetence but the policy.

I myself had to leave for Nigeria because it was going to be quicker to obtain one there.

It is the same worldwide.

Passports are easier obtained in country of citizenship.

Alright Sir, but kindly tell them to do more for their citizens in diaspora.

Golan007:
I was turned back having more than 6 months left on my passport.

Just as you said, that is the policy and I had to adhere by it.

Don't qoute me to cover incompetence of the Buhari and APC Cow Government...... My own passport was and still remains less 4 months to expires .... Now I will be coming home immediately after the lockdown to renew in Nigeria because it's faster .... Because with big leg and money you will get it done within 24 hours ... Now tell me if I can't come home or due financial issue or due to paper work , what will be my fate over here....


P.s

Your passport must be valid at least 6 months months before leaving your native country not when you are residing in a country already.

Golan007:
But that is standard everywhere.

In fact, it is 6 months validity and not 3 months.

I went through the same.

The law is the law.

No Sir, if you go earlier they will turn you back on the same excuse .... I knew a man here that wanted to do same last year the same excuse was giving to him having 8 months left on his passport ..... BTW you are always told to have at least 6 months left on your passport before it expires when leaving your native country NOT when you are residing in a country already.

kennybabs1980:
Thunder fire them!
Who sent them to Indonesia?
Shey na Buhari wey never dey in control of his family in Aso Rock go know say anyone dey Indonesia?
Someone who left his wife to be humiliated by a cabal is been looked upon to protest them in Indo what?
Stupid people!

Go back and reread your trash, so it's now a crime to migrants.... What a stupid country with a useless citizens.

Abdulnur:
So....? You're happy now?

Go back and read, it was modified btw my apology but it's very bad the way Nigeria Embassy treats her citizens outside the shore.

Simplyleo:
Tell them.

God bless the womb the nurtured both of you.

Travel out and need help from Nigeria embassy, you come here come talk your experience.

Abdulnur:
Keep your papers up-to-date, and you won't be flying through the window when you hear that immigration officers are on the way.

Now should the embassy offer to deport these boys, you'll see how they'll run into hiding.

You MUST live by the rules in another man's country.

You are sick for this nonsense, I was in Nigeria Embassy last month just to renew my passport guessed what I was turned back for stupid excuse That my passport is valid for the next 3-months , now immediately the lockdown I be coming home just to get a new passport because I can't stay here while my passport is not valid and for the fast track of it I have to do it Nigeria because na Money talks ...... You know the rest.....

EVILFOREST:
.... na soo we see am ooo.
Although I no feel am for my side oooo

How e go take reach your side , the quake no the look face , abi e no dey fear... BTW the earthquake sabi him level na , you bi EVIL-FOREST so fear no gree am reach your side .... Stay Safe Bro.

Ikennamurphy:
Enugu-ezike people and wickedness..those guys have their minds at their backs

As in eeh , juju inclusive.

Which kind party be this self..... APC matter don even tire BMC and there members self...

Edopesin:
Because you choose not to accept the truth

Which of the truth .... All this APC And BMC people self.... Una too much sha.

Edopesin:
The Interest of Nigerians are more important than Trump's

But then again buhari has always emphasised at his desires at empowering Nigerian farmers and reduce the import of farm produce

Your points are not valid.