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Effizybozz:
I actually don’t fancy things like watching football that what 90% of guys do, I only fancy adventure, movies, wrestling and the likes…

bro, nothing wrong with the above, each to their own pleasures in life. men are different in so many different ways. just be you!

Effizybozz:
As I guy I'm always shy around my fellow guys I don’t know why, im trying to overcome the shyness is not just working I act a little bit feminine but not all that girly tho, I’m always shy that they will monk me or say something I wouldn’t like…
How do I overcome this shyness, it actually ki!!ing Me, im an introvert because of this. There are some guys I’m not comfortable around them, when I’m with them I want them to go, secondly if I see group of guys, I will be shy to pass there… if I walk into a place sometimes and I see lots of guys I will be shy at first, then when I look at their faces, the shyness will reduce a bit
What do I do? Is it normal.. I need advice please from Matured minds only

you shouldnt really care how you feel around guys, but instead focus on being the best you can around WOMEN.

Candidlady:

Why not just embrace the feminine part of you.. there is no sin in that...
Ask Samueltemi337 Miracrood2 and poweredcom

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again?! kai, this dude is dodging rape charges like...

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ask her to show you HER OWN STATEMENT of that day, showing that she received only one transfer from your account.

he and babymama must be hooked on drugs...

Kukutenla:
You know, the most ridiculous part of your argument is this idea that the govt is "helping" the poor to manage themselves. The poor are already managing. What they need is to get them out of that poverty by improving their standard of life. I don't know about you but if you're giving me money to maintain my status, you're helping me but not making my life better.

stop believing that the gov has a magic wand that will solve Nigeria-s problem OVERNIGHT.... some people need help today, and thats what the gov is doing to help these people.

Your argument is same that was employed by those who we defending 5k in 2019. How many people have the 5k helped out of poverty? My point is 8k is going to reinforce the poverty not bring people out of it. I'd rather you use the whole 96bn to provide access to drinking water, or rural electricity, or well equipped primary health care centres, or sanitation in rural areas, or worst case use it to bring down the cost of basic foodstuffs. Those things will improve quality of life than 8k to a family of 6,9 or even 15 people.

so the above will put food on poor people's table?! ask any of the poor people out there if they would rather have 8k dash or the above built in their neighborhood, and see how you would fail on this issue. saying that 8k wont improve the quality of life to Nigerians is a damn lie. many will greatly benefit from that help... especially for those making 15k every month that would now manage with 23k instead.
as much as i understand that you would rather all these people go out of poverty, remember that this is the REAL WORLD, not some fairytale imaginary world. thinking that you can solve the Nigerian poverty issue overnoght is a joke. if you think Nigeria-s problem could be so easily fixed, then you sir dont know what you are talking about.

Yes. It is wrong to give them extra 8k because it makes no difference whatsoever. Is someone who earns 23k/28k an average earner to you? That's so below the present pittance called minimum wage!! 8k sounds like the money they give the poor to buy their votes for crying out loud.

that would be much more than the 15k they earn presently. as for you saying that it would make NO difference is a DAMN LIE! as for you saying that the gov is not helping better the lives of this people, that is a DAMN LIE!

I'm not asking that question about how many poor people you know or help to measure dick. I'm asking to know if you even understand what we're talking about. How many of those who did n-power are out of poverty now?
Why are we going round in circles wasting money for christsakes

we are talking about the gov helping the masses in need, and whether it is 8k or 100k, they are doing something. whether it is enough or not, this is not for us to judge (there are many people out there who will be glad they receive the extra gov help). whether you believe that would benefit these people or not, its all on you.

you people make no sense whatsoever when you expect the current governments in place to solve in a month what govs for the past 60years couldnt solve in 6 decades. give them time, give them a break, stop having unrealistic expectations from the gov. they are just starting, stop being greedy, Rome wasnt built in 1 month!

Kukutenla:
Ignoring all other bullshit. My point is 10k is not money in Nigeria not to talk of 8k.

to "you" it aint... but to people who havent got a Kobo to their name, it will make a GREAT DIFFERENCE (regardless of how little you think the money is). so you want to make us believe that if you are broke and with NO MONEY, someone is trying to offer you 8k to manage, you will refuse the money because that wont help your situation in any way whatsoever?!?

Let me ask you for real. Apart from pontificating on NL, how many poor people do you know and have you helped get past a month?
Your tirade is absolute nonsense when you realise that most poor people actually earn between 15k to 20k a month. So I ask again, what will 8k do for them given what's on ground presently?

i guess in the fantasy world you live in, every adult person in Nigeria, every household in Nigeria is earning at least 15/20k, abi?!?!?
but better yet, let us foolishly assume that every adult in Nigeria is gainfully employed, and that the bottom 40% makes only 15/20k per month (aka they survive on such little amount).... are you now claiming that, if they receive an extra 8k from the gov to top up their 15/20K monthly salary, it is WRONG FOR THE GOV to give these people an extra 50% of what they are already earning?!?! really?!

BTW this is not a dikc waving contest... the amount of people i help/employ every month is irrelevant to the issue at hand.

Nasri100:
I am even questioning if you are really a Man. After all, men know how difficult it is to attain wealth and will never mock another man for being broke. The same Dangote you are praising will probably think you are an a s s hole.

ARRANT NONSENSE #1
BWAAAAAAH so because its difficult FOR YOU to attain wealth, everyone on earth should act like you do?! here is a clue: some people have wealth ABUNDANTLY, and should do what they please with their money!

I don't see any other man that doesn't have what I have as broke or poor. I know life is a process. I know women get the advantage in life while men have to earn it.

ARRANT NONSENSE #2
this is NOT an issue about men VS women, it is an issue about MONEY AND POWER! and men with money will use it to fukc anybody they desire (especially in poor countries like Nigeria). so lets call a spade A SPADE: broke/poor men who think like you and believe that rich men shouldnt use their money to feast on your "possible" future GF/wife's destiny, are living in LA LAND!

Now lets say I even want to go in your level, why are you so pained the user is advising Nigerian men on what to do with their money? Why aren't you allowing a debate? Why the dictatorship?

ARRANT NONSENSE #3
so because i gave MY OPINION on the subject and you didnt like it, you got into your feelings and YOU started quoting me (trying your hardest to make me change my mind), it means I am the one who is pained?!?!? BWAAAAAAH

If you think in your little world that Men should be allowed to do what they want with their funds, why are you so pained someone else is advising the same Men not to be careless with their funds. You keep saying broke and poor. Relax.

ARRANT NONSENSE #4
its called a discussion AND an opinion. i suggest you educate yourself on the subject. a man who expect a rich man to live below their means, (simply because they aint as comfortable as they are financially) is broke/poorer than these men who spend lavishly on these oloshoes.

Go outside, take some fresh air. Its a democratic world these days. People are allowed to have opinions. Heck the country you are in is practicing democracy. Follow the route.

ARRANT NONSENSE #5
yet you are butthurt because i believe that these rich men should do what they please with their money, lol!

This is my last response to you, little man.

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ruggedtimi:
8k is $10... What is $10 for every household, how much does tinubu son spend on airtime in the morning alone

thats 10$ EXTRA THAT THESE POOR PEOPLE AINT GOT (that would certainly help them). just because Tinubu's son is rich and drives a Rolls Royce while flying private jets, doesnt mean that if his father wants to help people, it should be so that they "too" can drive Rolls Royces and fly private jets. what a narrow minded way of thinking!!

somebody is trying to help a poor person, and that same poor person is here making mouth that the dash money is not enough. what a failed state of mind, of UNGRATEFUL/GREEDY people! someone is poor and want to dictate how much the gov should give them, IMAGINE!!!

Kukutenla:
Really? 8k is going to improve the life of Nigerians?
Bro I've spent 10k today already. How are you guys living?

someone who has NOTHING will be glad the gov is dashing them 8k to alleviate their suffering... you may not see the value of 8k, but someone hungry and destitute would. but hey, since you believe this is not enough, why dont you show us the amount of "enough" dash money the previous gov of Nigeria (since the 1960s) were giving to help the masses.
you people are some of the most GREEDY/UNGRATEFUL people on earth. you are broke and will tell someone (who is trying to help you) that 8k aint enough?! BWAAAAAAH!

BTW, while you've spent $10 already today, while others already spent $1000 today.... whats your point?!

Rostikol:
Stop being stupid. A palliative is not a salary.
It’s like you’re broke and someone gives you 3k and you start asking him how will this feed you and your family for a month! It is NOT supposed to do that, but simply to help you along the way.

exactly!!!! sadly, as you know Nigerians na and their narrow minded ways of thinking, they will now be questioning someone who dash them free money, that it aint enough to help them out of their misery....IMAGINE!
so these people are broke, they have no money, someone is trying to help you by offering you 8k to manage, and you will say that its not enough, lol!

who cares why she did it...? if someone doesnt want to be around you, then accept it and move on with your life. what else do you want to do? beg her to give you attention or what?

shouldnt you blame yourself for being a SHE-diot?! so the person told you they will repair it for 150k, you accepted, and now want to blame the worker because someone else told you they could do it for 20k?!?!
are you ok?!

if 12000 poor households will really get 8k, then this man is trying to improve the lives of low income/poor Nigerians.... and we cant fault him for that

now the important queston IS: how will they decide who receive it or not?

this is just a helping hand, not a SALARY... or would you rather continue going with ZERO?!? somebody is dashing you free money, and you are here questioning them...kai!

majority wont be able to make ends meet BUT if thats all you got, then you have to make it work, the best way you can.
if you live at your mama's house and your job is a walking distance from home, then although not ideal, you can make it work. you can even make it with NO SALARY, if you have the right back up.
if it wont make any difference to "you" then dont accept it et voila...POVERTY HAS LEVELS!

NBAjunior:
You don fall my hand see advise can’t you see he is childish

IMHO, no man on this earth should reward an ungrateful GF. none! so regardess of how childish that man may be, he was ready to offer this babe an Iphone 12, thus (to me) thats all that matters to understand that he was doing everything in his power to accommodate this woman, who was GREEDY, UNGRATEFUL and CONCEITED.

Nasri100:
The only thing I strongly supported was a poster advising Nigerian men (from a country that is the Second poverty capital of the world) not to break the bank for this sex thing. Utilize that money for something else.

AGAIN: anyone who can afford it, should do what they please with their money, regardless of what broke people believe. all you broke people trying to tell successful people what they should do with their money is a waste of energy (just as foolish as coach potato men telling Messi/CR7 how to play football). you do what YOU desire with your pocket money, and let others do what they please with their fortune. how dare you come here and dictate what others should do with their money?!

you people dont understand what POWER means... POWER MEANS THAT YOU CAN WALK AROUND AND USE MONEY TO FUKC ANY BABE YOU DESIRE. THATS POWER!!!! and until you understand the adrenaline rush that such power brings, you people will continue talking arrant nonsense about what these successful men should do with their money (while you have none).

who cares if these men pay for these babes while other men fukc them for free. these men CANT fukc them for free and even if they could, they would still dash them top dollars, so that these biatches can LEAVE!!! y'all problem is that you aint got that much money, the day you will, i can bet my life that you will do worse than the Dangotes/otedolas/Adenugas. dey there dey lie to your own self. as if these people havent already invested in everything created on this earth to invest in.

Gerrard59:
You should understand by now that the majority of Nigerians are educated illiterates who missed economics classes during their secondary school days. They really irritate me. If I had not attended public schools right from nursery school days, I would have said it is the system. But these people, including on Twitter, where one would have thought otherwise, are just too poorly educated.

bro its crazy how some people think... as if they are in the same league as these rich billionaires when it comes to how they treat their mistresses and oloshoes. they will be quick to tell rich men how to spend their money, as if these successful men dont already know exactly what to do with their money.

it is well known in the industry that the majority of these instagram "models" will all fukc for a price. the more followers they have, the higher the price. i personally know a lot of them back in Czech Rep who were working for an agency that would fly them around the world for billionaire to feast on them. these billionaire dont go down with dirty street corner oloshoes, they get flown top women from around the world. remember the two Canadian sisters (the Matharoos sisters) that were being passed around among the rich elites of Nigeria. you think these babes were charging 10k to fukc? these babes were broke yet flying private jets and flaunting on yachts in Nigeria, left right center....their mistake was trying to blackmail Otedola, if not they would still be in Nigeria making top dollars.

Nasri100:
You are still pumped up. Again, relax.
About the broke man views you suggested above, i think its insensitive to brag about wealth online especially since, maybe, 80% on this forum are in Nigeria and you know what's going on in that country these days. . So if you think I am writing from A Broke Man view then its alright.

Over here though its 50-50 when we go on dates. You meet a girl that even wants to pay if she's into you and then s e x is not a big deal (Not just white girls, even our kind cause I assume you are black?)

So if the guy I quoted above is advising Nigerian men not to break the bank in the endless pursuit for s e x then he has a point don't you think? I mean what's even the minimum wage in that country these days? Remember not everyone has the kind of wealth of the Dangotes and Adenugas

Then finally, you talked about how Men are of different sizes financially. Mate did you read when I said Women are already sorted in life?

Its Men that need to struggle to create wealth. That's the punishment. Those women will always have helpers.

these are broke men views, yes.
so you think dangote and the likes are bragging about their wealth?!?! whats important here is that, do you actually think that you fukc the same oloshoes as the Dangotes/otedolas/Adenugas etc? there is levels to this. expecting them to not splash on the top coochie (probably flown from switzerland or Colombia) is funny. bro, some top totos out in Nigeria are fukcing for upkeep of over a million Naira a month, with men that can afford it 100 times over. you cant sit here and now say this is a waste of money, just because you've never made half of that in your entire life.

everywhere you go around the world, it is the same game.... some will fukc women for free (even be taken care by women) while others with money will splurge 1000s of $$ on top babes out there. check these arabs that are spending upwards of 50K to shiit in women's mouth and have them fukc dogs and horses. it may be a waste of money to "you", but to these sexual deviant men, its money well spent (because they got it abundantly). you cannot use your little mind to judge a big man's pocket because everything you believe they can spend their money on (instead of oloshoes), they probably spend 1000times on it already (aka successful biz, cars , mansions, stocks, family, travels around the world etc etc).

Indonesian dont go about beating up innocent people for no damn reason... he must have been involved in some shady biz or must have done something to offend these people.

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