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FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:20pm On Mar 30, 2023
Etizz:
Actually, you took those words from my mouth.....it will never be possible for her mum to live with me....they should look for someone else who can take care of her in her house I wil be paying for that.....in fact, she cant let my mum leave my house sef....
the above is the 1st issue... how can a man throw his own mother out their house like that?!
the 2nd issue is... for peace to reign in the marriage, he asked his own mother to leave...now wifey is trying to use reverse psychology and saying that:" for peace to reign, her own mother must move in with them"IMAGINE THE NONSENSE!!! lol
CrimeRe: The Principal Of A School Was Scammed Of $100K By A Fake Elon Musk by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:12pm On Mar 30, 2023
booksdey:
This scam is a reminder that even the most tech-savvy people can be fooled by fake emails. It is important to be careful when receiving emails from people you do not know, and to always verify the sender's identity before sending any money or personal information.
the above is false...only a very foolish person will send $100k of their own money to a phoney bank account to receive donation (from Elon Musk of all people).
RomanceRe: Which One Can You Manage Because Of The Sake Of Love by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:04pm On Mar 30, 2023
lavylilly:
1. Mouth Odour
2. Body Odour
3. Sexaddiction
4 Dirtness
i cannot fall in love with someone who has the above trait... as it takes time to fall in love with someone, and during that time i would realize the above and either try to fix it or bounce.
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m):
dangotesmummy:
so just because you want to get even,you will allow an old woman to die avoidable death just because it's family rules? Sometimes you have to BEND THE RULES to fit in to certain situations.we are talking about a human being here not cockroach or rat.all this do me I do you philosophy is why the world has gone chaotic.a home should be the first place where husband,wife and children experience genuine love, forgiveness and tolerance of each other's inadequacies
again, this is NOT about getting even, this is about FOLLOWING THE RULES AND REGULATIONS of their household, regardless of sentiments. you are either tough and follow the rules regardless of who they are hurting OR you dont put rules and regulations to begin with. you CANNOT/SHOULDNT selfishly bend the rules because (if you do that) they will be unfair to someone in that household. was the husband (or his mother) not human beings when the wife said he MUST get rid of her?!

the world is indeed gone chaotic but its not the fault of people who followed the rules, its because of people who think they should be above the law and do what they please....you either follow the rules or you dont, but dont be a hypocrite with having a set of rules for his family and a different set of rules for yours. you are putting sentiments into this issue, while the wifey was adamant that THEY SHOULDNT CARE ABOUT SENTIMENT.,,, thus why his own mother was thrown out.
RomanceRe: Lady In Shock After She Got Dumped By Boyfriend For Not Flushing The Toilet by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:50pm On Mar 30, 2023
onadana:
Why will you even go to a guy's house on the first date and shit?
thats the million Naira question...
FamilyRe: This Is Killing Me I Am Dying I Need Advice? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:33pm On Mar 30, 2023
drugs messed up with your body digestive system (aka you always feel hungry)... just the same as these drugs will make you lose hunger when high.
PoliticsRe: How Yul Edochie Son Slumped And Died� by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:30pm On Mar 30, 2023
this is why medical check ups are very important, even if you feel as healthy as a bull. its obvious that the child had an undiagnosed medical condition.
TravelRe: Japa Nairalanders, Let's Discuss. by MrBrownJay1(m):
studyless123:
This is not a woman thing. Men and women change. There have been a lot of men who were brought by their wives/girlfriends and they changed.
It is natural for people to change. As we go through life, we have experiences that shape our beliefs, values, and perspectives. These experiences can lead to changes in our personalities, goals, and attitudes. In fact, change is a constant part of life and can often be positive as we grow and learn from our experiences. It is important to embrace change and see it as an opportunity for personal growth and development.
Why on earth should a man beat a woman, that's a barbaric attitude and the man rightly deserves jail.
true we all change...but a woman who meet a man in the village, get married in the village and live their whole life in the village, wont change drastically, while the village babe who lands in NY would AUTOMATICALLY change...thats the sad part that many men living abroad dont understand.

yes you are right men AND women go back home to find spouse to bring abroad.

as for men beating their wife scott free in Nigeria/Africa (let us NOT dwell on "why" it does happen).... but its a well known issue and most often, wifey just go back to her parents or talk to her in laws rather than call the cops and have you arrested (let alone throw you out your damn house)
TravelRe: Japa Nairalanders, Let's Discuss. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:59pm On Mar 30, 2023
shegzhkn:
About the wife thingy, get this - people don't change they are revealed.
And if you are actually enlightened there won't be much culture shock or whatever.
if these women never leave the village, they will never be "revealed"... and would continue to be who they really are (aka African village women). the minute you take her out her own environment then she cannot remain the same. the issue here is that these women simply ADAPT to the culture of the country where they land. i dont blame these women, i blame the clueless dudes who go back to Africa thinking these women will remain "village women" while living in some big cities of the world AND in countries that gives EQUAL RIGHTS to women. lol... now tomorrow, you think you can raise your voice at this woman or even beat her black and blue (like they do back home), and act surprised when "village woman" sends you to jail and/or throw you out of your own damn house.
RomanceRe: Lady In Shock After She Got Dumped By Boyfriend For Not Flushing The Toilet by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:40pm On Mar 30, 2023
she is ASSUMING that this is the reason he never called back...

but if you went to pee and forgot to flush, i can somehow take it but if you A) went to shiit during a 1st date at a dude's house and B) you didnt flush...then something is seriously wrong with you.

BTW in many countries in South America, when you go to the toilet and clean your nyansh with toilet paper, you are not suppose to throw the dirty paper in the toilet bowl (due to bad plumbing) and instead, to throw the paper in a dustbin next to the toilet. i HATE THIS DISGUSTING SHIT and even if i tell people to throw the paper in the bowl, i always see the dustbin filled with shitty toilet paper AAAAAAAAAARGH!!!!
***spit on floor***
RomanceRe: Lady Rejects Boyfriend's Proposal With A Car (pix/video) by MrBrownJay1(m):
that man is MAAAAAD for real... marriage proposal after just 1month??!? it better be fake...
TravelRe: Japa Nairalanders, Let's Discuss. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:27pm On Mar 30, 2023
Gerrard59:
NL's most prolific globetrotter! Na so one say you never see airport. grin
lol, i remember the dude.
SportsRe: Neymar Reacts After Losing €1 Million On Live Poker Hours After His Twitter by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:22pm On Mar 30, 2023
NEWSFLASH: Neymar is sponsored by that said poker site, and does NOT bet his own money, duh!
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:20pm On Mar 30, 2023
pocohantas:
There was a time they were wishing her son death. Going to her IG page to type mean words and I asked, what for? Little did I know the bigger tragedy was coming. And it is women going to type these comments. Nawa!
i think a lot of women hate her simply because she became a 2nd wife, and majority of these women put themselves in the shoes of the 1st wife. they wouldnt blame A) the husband who needed "more" in his marriage, nor B) the wife who obviously couldnt keep that man to herself... therefore they have to blame the other woman, as if it wasnt her, it wouldnt be someone else marrying that man.
FamilyRe: Nobody Can Take Care Of Your Child Like You Do! by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:14pm On Mar 30, 2023
Lawricast:
Nobody can sincerely take care of your child like you do, it takes the heart of a mother AND FATHER and the fear of God from others to play such role. It is not advisable to place absolute dependency on others because of the nature of your job, check your child properly, spend time with them and ask questions on the things that happen when you were not around, check their body to find scares and interrogate. we have seen cases of nannies eating children’s food from their lunch box, leaving the children to stave in the name of “they don’t always eat their food ma!" some children experience rape trauma from neighbours house because that is the assign place they have to wait till their parents returns. We have also seen parents trying to force their kids to spend holiday with their family members but those kids were maltreated. Nobody can sincerely take care of your child like you do,not even a maid, guardian, nanny,family or stepmother can assume this God design role,so while you are not around keep them in prayers and close monitoring.
[thanks for reading this piece,i do hope it add value to your parenting knowledge,i sincerely like to get a feedback from you]
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CrimeRe: The Greatest Thief In Human History. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:09pm On Mar 30, 2023
Alvelt14:
I actually stopped reading after the bolded
Bold of you to think God is from your village
as usual yeye people bringing religion to a discussion thats has absolutely NOTHING to do with religion.
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:05pm On Mar 30, 2023
pocohantas:
They are already on her IG page. Some Nigerians no too get sense.
thats the sad part about Nigerians, they have to blame SOMEBODY, regardless of whats happening.
CrimeRe: The Greatest Thief In Human History. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:01pm On Mar 30, 2023
Alvelt14:
Kindly explain the meaning of “blessed” for me because I am not understanding you.
a country that brought so much terror on earth can never be blessed. yes, America is a great country compared to Nigeria, but thats about it. i can easily find 10 countries around the world today better than the US (in every ways)... how much is their debt again, 30 trillions?! so much homelessness, so much racism, so much death, so much violence, so much yeyeism (lgbt issues, trans issues, cancel culture etc).

as for their HYPOCRISY.... sending 100s of billions to Ukraine while the money sent could have easily solve their homelessness issue at home
dont get me started bro....
CrimeRe: The Greatest Thief In Human History. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:48pm On Mar 30, 2023
Alvelt14:
What are you on bro?
Where did you see everybody in my post
They in my contest mean the country USA
And correction bro I have been to the USA
You don’t even know me
Don’t just assume and think people will follow
yes the country is Rich, their citizen are not.... the country nor their citizen are blessed.
TravelRe: Japa Nairalanders, Let's Discuss. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:47pm On Mar 30, 2023
colonelwealth:
Wawu!!!
Your list of travels is very impressive.
Pls share some of your experiences in these countries.
bro there are too many to mention.... its been decades. but my favourite countries in the world, by far are Australia, Japan Brasil, in no particular order.... and let me just say that, i have been to the US quite a lot, and i am still trying to figure out what the attraction IS. i only like Miami (and possibly Atlanta)
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2023
watch how everyone is starting to bring irrelevant issues (such as 2nd wife) as if it has any relevance to the child's death....
CrimeRe: The Greatest Thief In Human History. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:39pm On Mar 30, 2023
Alvelt14:
One answer
USA
They stole everything
They steal the land
They steal the people
They steal gold
They steal the oil
They steal the ideas
They literally stole everything

That’s the reason they have things in abundance
That’s the reason they are rich and blessed
That’s the reason they are number one
so you believe everybody in the US is rich and blessed?! lol! obviously, you sir have never been to the US
TravelRe: Japa Nairalanders, Let's Discuss. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:35pm On Mar 30, 2023
colonelwealth:
So true sir....
Which country did you have your experiences from.
i am born and bred in France so pretty much traveled all over Europe (Spain Belgium, Italy, Holland, Poland Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Ukraine, Russia Sweden finland etc) ... but i have actually lived in the UK, Norway, Denmark, Poland, Czech republic, Switzerland, China, Japan, Australia, Argentina, Brazil, Colombia... and of course, as you live in these places, you travel to neighboring countries to visit.

...and again, in any of these countries, i can tell you a story (whether good or bad) about Nigerians
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:21pm On Mar 30, 2023
dangotesmummy:
the Bible talks about forgiveness na.wr should LEARN to forgive each other's shortcomings because as long as we're in various relationships with each other,we will offend EACH other.moreover marriage is about forgiveness again na her money she go use take care of her mama not his money, resources or time
A) marriage is about RULES AND REGULATIONS.... if you are telling me that we shouldnt have guests, then i dont bring guests over, but if some miraculously come over, and you are pissed off about it and ask me to throw them out, then i will because these are the family RULES AND REGULATIONS. these are the rules they had with HIS family, and therefore thats the rule they should have with HERS. you cant change the family rules when it fits your selfish agenda.

B) it was HIS money that was used to take care of his mother, and yet she was still against her being there. why should this suddenly be
different because its HER mother?!

C) funny how now suddenly people are all religious and want to talk about forgiveness. there is nothing to forgive...

Imagine the resentment the woman will have if he didn't allow her mother and the mother now died because of lack of care.it Will definitely affect everything pertaining to that marriage- their sex life, communication, finance etc.so the disaster unforgiveness will do is worse
imagine how the dude feels now that his mother is dead, after his wife refused to have her stay with them? marriage is about TWO individual, not just one. so if it was ok for husband to suffer because of the rules and regulations of the family, then let the wife go through the same suffering.
RomanceRe: YOU Saw Him In A Facebook Group: by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:00am On Mar 30, 2023
better a baby mama than a HIV+ patient... well done!
Christianity EtcRe: Help: My Girlfriend Has A Spiritual Husband by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:57pm On Mar 29, 2023
all you people listening to yeye charlatans out there, deserve all the hardship you get in your life, following this mambo jambo arrant nonsense!
RomanceRe: Pls Help! I Masturbate More Than 1o Times Daily by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:52pm On Mar 29, 2023
advanceDNA:
I mean there are porn and masturbátion addicts that are married.... U clearly don't get what I am saying
i fully understand what you are saying...and just because married people mastrubate, does not mean that this man who mastubate 10 times a day doesnt need a woman. you cant compare a man who has NO access to toto (thus why he masturbates 10 times a day) with a married man tired of mounting his hideous baby whale looking wife thus masturbates with photos/videos of sexy babes he fantasize about.
SportsRe: Indonesia Strips Of Right To Host Under 20 World Cup by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:47pm On Mar 29, 2023
Ecos:
One Muhammadian Islamic head slamming terrorist spotted grin
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/4d.gif
RomanceRe: Pls Help! I Masturbate More Than 1o Times Daily by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:44pm On Mar 29, 2023
advanceDNA:
Masturbation addicts actually have seperate desire for pórn actors from the woman they are dating or married to....it like virtual cheating....I hope u know married men watch porn and masturbáte...
the above you mentionned is called a "fantasy" which every single person on earth have... and different from a man finally getting unrestricted access to toto. here is the difference: one of them is hoping to finally taste toto while the other married one is tired of mounting the same toto.
SportsRe: Indonesia Strips Of Right To Host Under 20 World Cup by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:14pm On Mar 29, 2023
the hypocrisy of the world.... israel bombing/killing in palestine no different than whats happening in Ukraine. yet Russia was quickly banned from every sporting event.

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