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FamilyRe: Beware Of Reverse Genderism by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:29pm On Mar 28, 2023
that shiit can only happen outside of Africa...
Foreign AffairsRe: The US Screens Ghanian Security Agents In Their Own Land. Shameful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:19pm On Mar 28, 2023
Elisonken24:
Those argueing only watches nollywood and zee world. They don't watch intellect action movies that involves presidential visits and how security details are handled. That's a vice president of a united state we are talking about here. With the level of enemies US have all over the world, ghanians needs to be rescreened like three times. And don't forget ghana is not a strong military ally with US.
exactly! imagine if any dikc Tom and Jide could just get close to the president with no security screening whatsoever, lol!
FamilyRe: What Rightful/peaceful Way Can One Divorce A Partner? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:15pm On Mar 28, 2023
Dearlove2me:
pls more enlightenment pls
dont you know the type of wife you got? you should know exactly how she will react and what she will accept as divorce settlement. before going to fight it in court, try to have an amicable divorce with her...

BTW there are so many variable here as we dont know WHY you wanna divorce...is it something you did? is it something she did? is she ok with it? is she a violent person? is she one of them "til death do us part" type?
RomanceRe: Money Is All That’s Needed In Marriage. Not Love Or Anything Else! by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:09pm On Mar 28, 2023
Adexgentle005:
You tend to spend more when you are married unlike when you are single.
true...because marriage isnt a joke and before you get married, you make sure that the woman you will marry is gonna bring more to the table than just nice face and big nyansh/tittays. if you marry a gainfully employed wife then you wont spend more, nor would you spend more if you are careful not to have children you cant afford. sadly, in Africa/Nigeria, marriage means you MUST have children regardless of whether you can afford them or not.
RomanceRe: Is The Use Of intimacy gadget In Marriage Advisable. by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:03pm On Mar 28, 2023
Vrant:
My fear is won't the dildos enlarge her count?
thus the reason i gave you the above point C

Secondly,I just don't feel our love will grow with the interference of sextoys
if your babe needs it to ENHANCE you guys sex life then its no problem, the issue is when women use these intimacy gadget because they are not satisfied with anything/everything you have to offer.... thus they need something to bring them the pleasure that you cant provide (aka wrong in my book)
RomanceRe: I Just Experienced The Worst Pandemic In Life by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:59pm On Mar 28, 2023
the African heat is part to blame...
FamilyRe: What Rightful/peaceful Way Can One Divorce A Partner? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:49pm On Mar 28, 2023
Dearlove2me:
Legal practitioners in the house?
Experienced people in the house,
Pls, help out with this informations.
What rightful, peaceful way can one divorce a partner without violence?
For a marriage of three years, how can one go about with divorce?
What are the procedures and duration?
How can one do it without turning to an enemy, but just move on In a separate direction?
Thank you
it all depends on the type of partner you got... even if you offer the best ever divorce settlement, some partner will still say it aint enough.
RomanceRe: Is The Use Of intimacy gadget In Marriage Advisable. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:47pm On Mar 28, 2023
there is no problem with using intimacy gadgets so long as ...
A) she doesnt look for pleasures in ways that are against your sexual beliefs
B) you are always present when these intimacy gadgets are used
C) the toys she uses to pleasure herself are not bigger than your own JT
RomanceRe: Money Is All That’s Needed In Marriage. Not Love Or Anything Else! by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:42pm On Mar 28, 2023
Islandboi:
Yes I said what I said. That thing called marriage is not for guys that are still struggling. 3 of my neighbour pikin are not going to school again as I speak. The man is even owing 7 months house rent and it’s draining him.

Landlord don come house use vex throw them outside. His wife is working as well but the money is just not enough. Love is just never enough. It’s really a tough one on them.

Note : I’m not using my neighbour predicament to laugh or anything. I’m only stating the fact and to advice young men out there not to venture into marriage when you don’t have money.
what does the above got to do with MARRIAGE?!? are you saying that single people with no money dont struggle in life?!
MONEY is needed for everything in this world... whether you are single or married!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Was Scammed Today At My First Day Of Work by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:39pm On Mar 28, 2023
Adebisi0070:
Added three hundred naira to the bill for the added time (the eatery & waitin for him)
if thats the case, he should equally deduct money for the FREE MEATPIE he got, lol....
Foreign AffairsRe: The US Screens Ghanian Security Agents In Their Own Land. Shameful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:35pm On Mar 28, 2023
Pinkybae:
Why don't you show an evidence of a public screening in those countries. I challenge you to post a single link here. Africans have a long way to go to clear up slave and neo colonial mentality
so you really believe that people dont get security screened before going anywhere near a visiting president (or that its wrong to do so)?!?! you are the one with a backward mentality....
Foreign AffairsRe: The US Screens Ghanian Security Agents In Their Own Land. Shameful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:27pm On Mar 28, 2023
Pinkybae:
If there are particular agents assigned to work with her entourage should be screened behind the scene. Not public humiliation in their own country.

It's called imperialism😡
anybody who comes close to the president will have to be security screened/cleared... whether behing the scene or otherwise (as we know there is always last minute security changes).
Foreign AffairsRe: The US Screens Ghanian Security Agents In Their Own Land. Shameful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:24pm On Mar 28, 2023
Pinkybae:
The US won't do that in Canada or United Kingdom. Get a grip.
If you don't trust me, don't come to my house.
Nigeria won't let them do this either.
Wait, to screen me when I visit your country.
You're is typical neo colonial mentality.
ARRANT NONSENSE!!! they do that in every single country they go to...if you work anywhere near an embassy, you would know that this is the job of the security officers when the president comes to that country....they will have to vouch for ANYONE AND EVERYONE that will come close to the president.

BWAAAAAH in countries like Nigeria and its BH terrorism issues, they will triple screen security agents!
PoliticsRe: See What Blessing CEO Wasted N5m On by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:19pm On Mar 28, 2023
sadly, having a hippo looking backside is the new trend these days.... and right after the operation, to put yeye clothing to flaunt that new body part.
Foreign AffairsRe: The US Screens Ghanian Security Agents In Their Own Land. Shameful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:17pm On Mar 28, 2023
every single country does that? only a foolish government would send their president to a foreign country WITHOUT screening the security agents that will be anywhere near their president.
SportsRe: Hakimi's Wife Brands Marriage To PSG Star 'a Failed Project' - Pulse Sports by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:09pm On Mar 28, 2023
why wont she divorce her husband, as he confirmed that he fukced the accuser (although he claimed it was consensual)?
EducationRe: What Should Schools With Limited Teachers Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:07pm On Mar 28, 2023
simple solution: HIRE MORE TEACHERS BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY (even if they have to pay better salaries)
FamilyRe: I Feel I'm Far Behind My Mate, Will Turned 27 In Months Time by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:06pm On Mar 28, 2023
FamilyRe: MEN, PLEASE STOP DOING THIS!!!. MY HEART IS BROKEN. SEE WHY by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:01pm On Mar 28, 2023
EriMma1:
Oga, change. If the post affect you, change. Stop fighting with your conscience. Listen to it.
MY CONSCIENCE tells me that when women like yourself have failed assumptions about men, i have to point out the hypocrisy in your incoherent rant against men
FamilyRe: I Feel I'm Far Behind My Mate, Will Turned 27 In Months Time by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:59pm On Mar 28, 2023
UYEMDO35:
Yah! But I don't watch it, dey only saw it on my phone.
i guess you dont watch p0rn but p0rn appeared on your phone by miracle, abi?!
RomanceRe: Which Of Them Is The Simp? (image) by MrBrownJay1(m):
SPAMBOX7:
Take a few minutes to read the story below and lemme know who is the simp in the story
https://www.nairaland.com/7630118/experience-sisters-rich-boyfriend

As for me the rich guy is the simp. Why? Cos he is about to wife an already used product. A single mom. A washed off product. How can you be so rich and be like that? Typical characteristics of a simp.

To those calling the family gold diggers they just wanna dig a simp. I don't see any crime there. Let the simp be dugged.

As for the first guy he was being responsible. If he had left the bitch he'd be tagged a deadbeat dad. He just played his role so his babymama will have something doing and be able to take care of basic needs including his son's welfare. IMO I don't see anything wrong in what he did.

Well who do you think is the simp in this story? Let's hear from you guys
there are no simp in this story (apart from yeye brotha):
- old BF had a child by this woman (isnt married to her) and spent 200k to open a shop to empower the mother of his child. thats not simping!
- new BF is a rich man exchanging small chop money and marriage proposal to get unrestricted access to a biatch toto (telling a girl you wanna marry her is the oldest trick in the book to get unrestricted access to her toto for a few months/years) thats not simping!.
- IMHO the only simp here is the brotha who turns out to be the biggest fake in this story... he saw the dude building a house and suddenly is in all admiration of this rich guy bla bla bla ready to be on his knees for this guy. forgetting that, as a man, you should always put yourself in the other guy's shoes and see if what you are saying makes any sense OR if thats the way to go.
- they all get what they want in this story, but if the brotha believes that the way his sista acts is the way women should act, then THATS THE ONLY SIMP IN THIS STORY!
FamilyRe: MEN, PLEASE STOP DOING THIS!!!. MY HEART IS BROKEN. SEE WHY by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:44pm On Mar 28, 2023
EriMma1:
You better Change. Ranting on my post will not help matters. So take the one that concerns you and run with it.
you are the one ranting aimlessly about MEN this and MEN that, with failed assumptions that A) she has AIDS for sure and/or B) that its 110% certain that its her husband who infected her.

OPEN YOUR DAMN MIND!
FamilyRe: I Feel I'm Far Behind My Mate, Will Turned 27 In Months Time by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:39pm On Mar 28, 2023
UYEMDO35:
thanks bro. But what does porn video got to do with dis.... 😡😡😡😡.
I no like ham.
are you not the one a few days ago that told us your story of getting busted with p0rn on your phone?
FamilyRe: MEN, PLEASE STOP DOING THIS!!!. MY HEART IS BROKEN. SEE WHY by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:37pm On Mar 28, 2023
EriMma1:
It now dawned on me that the husband prolly infected her with the disease. Now he's dead and gone. The poor woman is now falling in and out of sickness with three children to cater for.
Men, why?
Why do you people like to put your family in such pains just because of 5 mins fun with another girl who you know nothing about her health status?
the above is such a FAILED ASSUMPTION.... she could be the one who infected her dead husband (after SHE cheated) , isnt it?!
why do you automatically assume that A) she has that disease and not another one like cancer etc?! B) that it was her husband who infected her with your imaginary disease or C) that it was certainly through infidelity that he got infected and not through sharing of needles or any other way that people get infected?!?!

You men know yourselves and know how you loose control at the mere sight of a womans body and want it so badly at all cost, not minding what happens thereafter and won't rest until youve laid her. Whyhuh? Now see what this woman is going through all because she agreed to marry a man. Men why??
stop assuming nonsense!!!!
as if women do not cheat... or that this has anything to do with marriage.
***spit on floor***
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Was Scammed Today At My First Day Of Work by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:29pm On Mar 28, 2023
budaatum:
I think he's added non-tangibles like loss of sweat, cost of "still there and is more than an hour", and cost related to him thinking how silly he must have been.

My calculations was even higher than his at 2.7k
its his 1st day as an okada driver, hopefully he will learn a great lesson today.
FamilyRe: I Feel I'm Far Behind My Mate, Will Turned 27 In Months Time by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:24pm On Mar 28, 2023
UYEMDO35:
Please bear with my grammatical errors
In a couple of months, I will be turning 27 and I feel am far behind my mate and I'm not successful with whatever I chose to do.... No achievement to boast of, I already feel like a failure, some times I goes into depression because of the huge responsibility ahead of me....
When I was 18yrs, I was so sure of what I was going to become but as time goes on everything started falling apart.


My story goes dis way..... I believe I have been living my life for the sake of my Dad.... Who has always been in control of everything concerning me.... While growing up at the early stage of my life Dad and my late stepmom were very strict on me. I have always live a life of fear... I was never permitted to have friends not even associating with my distances relatives because dey see them as evil. I was never social and I live a boring life throughout even getting to dis present stage.
I have always been a loyal son always submissive and obedient to my Dad.
Even the school I put in for.. it was my Dad's idea. After been admitted, on getting to d school, I got to discover it was a part-time programme instead of Full-time, I informed Dad about it and he instructed me to go on with it since am not the one paying for my school fees. I knew I was never going to do well because I was too young to put in for part-time program nobody to motivate me.. I believe part-time is meant for the working class people..... Fast-forward I graduated and I've been waiting 4 a year now just to obtain my statement of result. And according to a friend of mine, he told me it might even take up to 3years before it will be ready and I think it's just too much, I'm begining to lose patience.
When I was in school I lve a boring life, I was always indoor and never ready to make friends maybe due to my low self-esteem.

as soon as i rounded up my studies, Dad ask me to come home... And now, here I'm with Dem.
Things as been very rough for me ever since I came home, I'm Just stranded always indoor, no freedom to do whatever I want to do. Few days back I tried to go round to check what I can lay my hands to do just to get little cash, At least to maintain myself and take care of some of my essential needs but when I came back home, I was been caution to mind the way I go out otherwise it won't be funny. Just imagine.
At dis stage when am supposed to be totally independent am still asking my Dad to give me money to have my haircut, to buy boxers ,foot wears and so on. Sometimes I get insulted before been given.
When I was in school Dad even got married without my consent on returning home..... My stepmom is looking down on me as a failure including my younger siblings..... I'm Just tired of everything .... I have always try not to apply force so that I won't messed up everything for myself. I have always try not to do anything illegal in other to keep my good reputation but Right now , I want to stand out and become the best version of myself.... I don't mind going extra mice just to achieve my purpose.... If I don't make a choice now, I will be kicked out from the house anything soon....and believe my step mom is working towards that becuz she sees me as an obstacles to d house.
My Dad is an influence person he has promised to secure a job for me as soon my result is out...But how long am I going to wait for that...
I just can't continue leaving my life this way.... I think I need to do something very fast before I will be force to lve d house.
Please bear with my grammatical errors
you can either A) follow what your father wants you to do and blame him for whats happening to you OR B) do what you want to do with your life and accept the consequences of such action. good luck in your choice, but tremember to stay away from p0rn video and/or always lock your phone, lol!!
CrimeRe: In The Name Of Islam Women Are Banned From Attending University by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:04pm On Mar 28, 2023
their country, their people, their rightfully elected government, their business...
HealthRe: #bigbellefitkillperson Big Belle Not A Sign Of Wealth But A Sign Of Bad Health by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:02pm On Mar 28, 2023
Nigerians cant be blamed for the above, its the greasy unhealthy SUCCULENT food (they are eating) that is the culprit...
EducationRe: Can One-on-one Coaching Help Me Accomplish My Goals? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:57pm On Mar 28, 2023
Fab21:
What are your goals?
thats the VERY IMPORTANT question that OP need to answer 1st...
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Was Scammed Today At My First Day Of Work by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:56pm On Mar 28, 2023
Adebisi0070:
Good Day N'Ls..
Finally, I fixed the bike I bought last week. Driving my okada today and I was able to raise about 3k! While riding under the hot sun, I was flagged down by this tall well looking, fair guy.. He told me his location and we agreed for transfer, he's to pay me 200 naira. While on trans, he told me we should branch an eatery, he needs to get something for himself. Baba went inside after I packed the bike, came out with 3 meatpile. All of a sudden, He gave me 1meat-pie! Claimin he loves the way I drive.
We got to our destination, immediately a boy of about 10years+ came to him and whispered something to him, immediately he became uncomfortable. He asked me to give him 2k cash that he'll transfer it to me with my okada money and that it's a matter of life and death. I gave this guy and he ran into a compound, tho he told me he'll be back in now now now.
I'm still there and is more than an hour and bros is no where to be found, i'm at home now thinking about my loss of 2500, this life sha..
i dont know whats more crazy/funny here...
A) you accepting food from a total stranger, B) you giving this yeye person 2k and letting him run away with it just like that or
C) saying that you lost 2500 while anyone who is good in math understand that 2000 + 200 makes 2200, not 2500
CelebritiesRe: “I Am A Celebrity, You Don’t Have The Right To Arrest Me” – Portable Cries Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:51pm On Mar 28, 2023
yeyebrity....cunt E new!!!!

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