₦airaland Forum

get a gf/wife, and your konji filled life will be easier. there is nothing wrong with having a fantasy but if you have a woman with whom to get the konji edge off your life, then you certainly wouldnt be tempted to watch p0rn on a crowded bus etc

some people out there either dont have time to watch p0rn or dont care about watching p0rn...

saladinnoir:
Thank you. Yours is the first useful comment here. Is there any time limit to using the drugs, like it can't be used after certain weeks?

up to 2 months...

you are not trying to understand whats going on in the life of this frustrated man, and he therefore needs time to focus on his own hustle without you pestering/asking him for anything...so he advises you to do exactly what HE needs to do....aka stay away from you and focus on his own hustle.
remember, just because you guys are in a r/ship or you helping him, doesnt mean you dont annoy and/or frustrate this man.

if both you and your gf dont want the baby then go to the pharmacy and get the following abortion pills....mifepristone (Mifeprex) and misoprostol (Cytotec). the 1st one will halt the pregnancy and the second wil flush it.

sadly, thats because you are looking at rape as just another sexual encounter while it is a CRIME (whether done by men or women).

here is a clue: if a woman full of deadly diseases and with maggots coming out her toto tries to rape you, would you still be cool with rape?!?

Dtruthspeaker:
And I say back to you a thousand times, even unto every member of your family and their generations and their children unborn.

and i say, may anyone you care for in this life suffer til eternity, and the children of their children suffer the same evil fate that you wish upon the innocent children of this world. nothing you devils touch in this world should ever succeed....and you and your evil god should continue failing in your miserable lives.
***spit on your evil corpse***

Sixfeetbelle:
I like that you used the word "most men"
I'm not hopeless then.

yes there is indeed hope.... because you will find some men willing and ready to give you exactly what you desire (just so that they can sample your honeypot), and then they will simply let you understand that they either A) have no money but pretended they did, just to sample you or B) they dont care about you AND can never marry you as you got nothing to offer but sweet toto AND that (especially in Africa) there will always be a fresher/newer/sexier/finer babe out there to marry so they will instead pass you on to their other friends with money, until you have been sampled by them all and thrown back to the gutter like a squeezed orange with no juice left..... by then you will be so desperate for money that you will be ready to do anything, aka go to Dubai to eat shiit and fukc dogs for money, but as time goes by, you will be well in your 30s/40s now, unmarried and showing your age, desperately trying to marry anyone (even the gateman), but it will be too late.

... because their desire to rule/control the world is bigger than their desire to save their own people from poverty and homelessness.

look at the US spending 800Billion dollars on wars/military EVERY YEAR etc while only 30Billion dollars per yr would eradicate homelessness in America for good.... $150/200Billion per year would eradicate homelessness AND poverty combined in the US!

do you see the face of these men? do you believe they are complaining or unhappy? as much as i wouldnt do it, these men seem to be ok with it. she OBVIOUSLY makes all the money at home, and they are cool with it, so be it. their choices, their life, their wahala.

to each their own misery!

DyshApp:
If you really want to get to know your partner these are not the questions to ask it would seem more like an interrogation rather that a date. A Date should should have a conversation that naturally flows well

of course these questions shouldnt be asked straight out on the get go...but instead they should be slipped in between jokes and silly banter...example (at the bar/cafe):
oh you love that drink, i myself i often enjoy a good vodka, but they are so strong and i cant drink that much. i am passionate about bla bla bla and i want to be able to wake up tomorrow morning and indulge in (that passion) bla bla... what about you? what are you passionate about, what makes you happy?!

demanuel:
Take away sex and child bearing, what tangible thing can you give your man? What other value will you add to his life?

bro, what man in his right mind would want to have children with such a woman? when a woman gives you such answer, what else but RUUUUN can a man do, really?! her desires in life are MONEY MONEY MONEY. you marry a woman like that and the day a man with more money than you comes along, she will be gone (even if you'd shower that one with 100 dollar bills). such woman can NEVER be satisfied, ever!

to each their own misery.

Rikkely:
I'm talking with a yahoo kid chai, good luck

the original yahoo of this world can be found in the west... Africans only learned from their western counterparts.

as much as investing your money is important to many people, not everyone should invest money... some should, others shouldnt. it all depends on who you are. many people out there lost ALL THEIR MONEY by foolishly investing it in the wrong field.

then after he takes a puff or a sniff of that drug of his, he will start again talking yeye nonsense on social media.

Rikkely:
I am done with you, why don't you Africans stick your ass in African/Nigeria and stop going to western countries for greener postures pasture, Nigeria is irredeemable country and I believe only way to create development is to divide the country so that people like you will never get to power

Africans go to the west because the west has been stealing Africa's natural ressources for centuries, and now that you have looted Africa and suck all its blood, and decided to build western wealth in the west, you think Africans are gonna settle for your leftovers?! when that yeye queen came to Nigeria and/or Europeans decided to share Africa among themselves, nobody told these yeye people to go back home so why do you want to tell Africans to go back home today (when they are doing exactly what these western people did in the past)? Africans will go wherever they desire and there is nothing you or any of the people who think like you, can do about it.

kyber:
I was just jejely going on my own with my small #500 as there was cold I decided to buy hot suya #200, garri #150,sugar #50 and groundnut #100.

Only for me to get there and 2 of my school met me there and asked me to buy them suya, they were thanking GOD they met me there. Then they were hyping me as a celebrity cause I’m quite popular in school. I did not want to fall my hands so I bought them the suya with the only #500 with me.

Now I have nothing to eat this night and I’m hungry.
Did I do the right thing?
What do you think think I should have done ?

Mr popular hyped Celebrity....you've done well. now go stand in front of a mirror and pls slap the dude you see in the reflection.

do people really fall for the above yeye nonsense?! unless these people send you a GUARANTEED 5 out of 9 winners every week, they are UTTERLY USELESS at betting!

Samantha124:
What if I say I see myself as your house wife after 5 years?

i would simply believe that you must be desperate to wanna be a total strangers wife.... and would make me believe you must tell that to every total stranger you meet (thus i am not special at all, you are just very desperate to be anybody's wife)

Sixfeetbelle:
- what makes you happy? :Money
- where do you see yourself in 5 yrs? :Married to a rich man with money.
- what kind of man are you looking for? : A rich man with money.

Any more questions?

as much as you are entitled to your own opinion, this (below) is what most men asking you these questions will do right after you gave them the above answers.... (which makes it obvious your only desire is towards MONEY)

https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/nwld.gif

Rikkely:
What have you contributed to stop it? Op is right

stop what exactly?! people steal/kill EVERYWHERE and this is NEVER EVER GONNA STOP! they did it back in slavery days, they did it in the 70s and they will certainly continue do it now. you better get used to it.

the problem here is to believe that this is an African thing, while whites or brown people are doing worse on this earth. if you need any confirmation, go see whats happening in Ukraine...

so HIP SURGERY is the new name they use to call BBLs now....?! lets be honest and tell it like it is: she went to get a new nyansh and died.

who taught them how to steal better, if not the same people who have been killing entire nations and stealing entire nations of their natural ressources?

Kai, that dude suffered in the hands of Nigerian police/Gov...

Dtruthspeaker:
How many times have we said I curse you and your generations unborn? (Sins of the Father visited upon his children).

As I said, you cannot know who is innocent and who is not, so leave that matter.

... and i curse you and your bastard god in return, for the sake of all the innocent children.

foolish person...she should have only invited her yeye husband to that group and warned HIM...aka the only culprit here who has no respect for her.

SundayNightGist:
Why do married men cheat?

the same reason why married women cheat!

They are everywhere- men and women who though are married- still take pride in sleeping around with other women and men (both single and married). They are in our offices (public and private), churches, schools and markets- some are even reading this post right now.

FIXED

Thing thing has not only become rampant, it is fast becoming normal but disgusting to would-be married men.

as much as many married men/women out there do cheat, this certainly shouldnt be a reason to A) believe that everyone does it or B) stop yourself from getting married.

Is it that these people don't know that chasing other women when you have your own wife at home is abnormal or you still think you're single or you just hate your wife so much?

it is indeed abnormal to some but who are you to dictate what other married men should (or not) do in their lives? if some people want to cheat let them do what they please with their sorry lives, and make sure you do what you desire in yours. in the yeye Nigerian society that we live in today, i fully understand why a man/woman would marry someone they dislike and thereafter cheat on that same person. blame Nigerian SOCIETY/CULTURE for that.

I keep asking, what is the essence of getting married when you'll still be cracking dirty jokes about women in bars and changing women like diapers every week?

because they can.... why would women all over Nigeria be falling head over hills for married men? isnt it because many of these married men sometimes turn these GF into 2nd wives etc?! how will a man find a 2nd wife if not by cheating? the Nigerian society is to blame for that, and nbody else.

Why all these lavish weddings that end up being a smokecreen for nothingness?

the desire to portray to the whole world that they are happily married, even if they are not. dont you know that marriage ceremony in Nigeria is synonymous with HAPPINESS CONFIRMATION?!?!?

Is there something married men who continue to live promiscuously after marriage are not telling us?

yes.... that you can be the worst kind of human being in this world and still be "happily married"

What could be the main reason why married men go about committing adultery?

again, NIGERIAN SOCIETY/CULTURE... if the society didnt force people to get married at any cost, many wouldnt marry total strangers to thereafter cheat on them.

as for men who cheat because their wives turned into a baby whales after marriage...

OLAADEGBU:
Don't worry about ycat because she's covered, the blood of Jesus speaks for her and the more reason you should get on the Right-side of God.

then i am sorry to say that, whatever god you are talking about (that covers her) is useless in mathematic...

No matter how many times you say this you should remember the 13th Amendment, three strikes and you're out. You made a Left when you should have made a Right. Your first try of 16 is what has been registered. Thanks to ycat.

i plead the fifth and call on the lies that Ycat wrote about me. i never wrote 16, my answer has always been 15 (anyone can change a quote for their own selfish agenda).... what kind of conspiracy against my good name are you guys running?!?!?
here below is how easy a quote can be fixed/changed with lies:

OLAADEGBU:
i am a gay fornicator hiding under this religious agenda

AGAIN, my final answer is 15 and Ycat (the teacher's daughter) final answer is 70.... give us the winner!!!

1) sue the patient
2) get some pocket money from the crazy patient
3) jejely continue working...

"Sought after" not SORT after...