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again:" THOU SHALL NOT TRY TO DATE/MARRY OLOSHOES... AND IF YOU FOOLISHLY DO, THEN BLAME YOUR YEYE SELF FOR THE OUTCOME.

maasoap:
Stop referring to people as animals just because you don't like what they do or because they are doing what you don't like, not even to you directly. You are referring to her husband, have some respect! When we don't even know if you are worse than the Op husband. Mtcheeew!

i call every cheating person "animals", whether male or female. thats just me. if you dont like it, then so be it, but thats just how i see such people who enter any r/ship and cheat like untamed animals.

cjudy:
Are you married?
Do you have a serious girlfriend?

I guess my answer is NO.
People like you rush into matters that doesn’t concern them.

you have the right to believe whatever you desire... just because you dont understand what respect in marriage (or any union) means, doesnt mean we are all like you.

thewinning101:
This is the mindset that made you to be stagnant while UAE, Japan and China have moved on since

Listen to yourself. How many people in China speak English? Yet where are 90% of the devices in your house imported from if not from China? Dey play

sadly some misunderstanding people will always use China as a medium, while that same person doesnt understand the world. here is the difference between Chinese language.... Chinese people people dont need to speak any other language in China because they have EVERYTHING (in China in Chinese). their books are in Chinese, their infrastructures are in Chinese, 100% of people in China understand written Mandarin, so to these people, they can survive in China without having to learn any foreign language.... now try to compare that country with you and your igbo (that is not even the main language in Nigeria).

BTW you will be surprised to know that as much as old Chinese people dont speak English, the majority of the younger generation all do learn/speak some English. here is a simple clue for you: with the amount of business done in China for export, do you really think Chinese dont need to speak English? you sir are lying to your own self.

again, as much as your children should know how to speak your native language (igbo), they will be failing miserably in Nigeria if they dont learn to speak/write English, which is the official language in NIGERIA.

100smile:
You speaking from experience??

yes, i am speaking from WORLD EXPERIENCE... and many are using money to use/Abuse people in poor countries (gays in Nigeria aint different).

eventainment:
Well said. I've met these idiots severally and they all come with the same strategy. they want to help or uplift you. They will want to get you down first. Tbegare more concerned with the mating than whatever rubbish feeling they claim they have for you. Omoh they are everywhere even in the church high-held position. They last one I encountered was a lawyer. I was doing decorations for one wedding and he took my number with the guise of giving me a decor job for a birthday party. My first guess was correct I sensed he was gay cause I've met them severally. I talked to my g's and my friends about it that he was gay because they haven't had the thrill of meeting one they asked I play along to see the outcome.. 😆 the irony of the whole thing is that these guys are sometimes married with kids. This one was so desperate he couldn't stop calling he was acting all smart cause he was a lawyer he didn't want to say it directly that he was gay.. I met him up in an open place out of curiosity lol 😆 bad friends influence. Someone that gave me handshake and used his index finger to scratch my palm. I told my friend to call me and remind me of a meeting so I could bail out. It worked and I promised to see him another time. I then told him on getting home that I wasn't interested in whatever he was selling. He then entered defense mode that I should have known his intentions before revolting that he was just testing me. He said Thank God he told me he is married with two kids someone that scratched my palm twice. Omoh he played lawyer throughout our meeting I wanted him to outrightly say he was gay but he didn't. He was asking if I approved of gayism I wanted to play along so he opened up as well but he was too smart.

and sadly the above is the important fact: gays and lesbians are everywhere, and in all walks of life... and in countries like Nigeria (where they are not welcomed), they get married to women in order to throw away the suspicion of their homosexuality, while doing their deed undercover.

Wizzy13:
my girlfriend have been telling me how men gives her money and gift and want me to accept it is normal.
Someone i have been spending my money on.

lets face it bro, your GF...

international NIGERIAN BRIDE/GROOM PRICE loading...

its only when the shiit hits the fan that all these "supposedly" democratic countries will act even worse than the countries they point fingers at.

when China bans all the foreign websites and apps thats against China, they say China is wrong, yet now that it will help their cause, they are doing exactly what China did to get their own peace. BLOODY HYPOCRITES!

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.

you can ...
A) divorce the animal before he infects you with some deadly disease
B) shut up, stay married to the animal and live with the consequences... as its obvious this man doesnt care about what you think OR has any respect for you and the marriage you guys have.

BTW cheating back is by far the worst possible thing you can do. why turn into the animal that he is? how is that gonna solve the problem (remember, he doesnt really care about you)?

Fryx:
I really flow well with many people. Just that, you can either love me or hate me.

its not really about you flowing well with people, its about your desire to be alone all the time, your desire to be away from people, your desire to not have anyone around you, you desire to have no one in your way at home, your desire to have nobody visiting you, your desire to have no noise around you unless its coming from you etc

no offense but thats not normal bro...

tallfish145:
As a woman assuming your husband who is going through some financial stress walked up to you and ask you to sell any of your valuables to start some business that will be for the interest of the family. Note,the intention is to use the money to start something that will be for the benefit of his family. Can you make such sacrifice

i think a man asking his wife to do such move is highly irresponsible...
- so you want your wife to sell her valuable to do something that may (or not) succeed and/or solve the problem?
- starting a business is a gamble that may (or not) succeed, unless you can guarantee that it will work (with proof), nobody should sell their valuable for you.

what a responsible man should do instead, is to sit down with his wife, and A) tell her the problem and explain to her how it had to get to this point before you could speak to her and B) show her that the only way "you" think you guys can get over this is to sell her valuable and C) ask her to put her input as to whether she has a better idea as to how to get through this financial issue (as its obvious you are useless at successfully running a business).

its highly irresponsible for a man to leave his wife out the nonsense you did with your money/belongings, but then when you lost it all, you now expect your wife to sell all her belongings to now start some other yeye venture that may also end in failure. sometimes a good woman has to tell you to stop all this nonsense useless business ventures and to instead focus on getting a DAMN 9 to 5 JOB.

Fryx:
For some reason, I hate having people around me. Like, I just want to stare at the four walls of my room, move from one room to another without any human obstructing me.
I want to keep my things and meet it exactly as I kept it.
I don’t like any form of noise except it’s coming from me.
I hate any form of smell or body fluid, even my own.
I hate people visiting, I will always tell them I am not around. Except of course, it’s a lady, and it’s a lady I love. I mean, why will you even visit me as a guy— you no get work?
I love listening to my own breath, thoughts etc — no external interference.
I know I can’t be in the same house with a woman for long, talkless of kids (I will kanra mo wan like maaad)

although there is nothing fundamentally wrong with the above, it is a bit weird for one person to have all the above.... at best you are a loner ho enjoys your solitude or someone very inadequate with people.

Chinweotitoaa:
In 2022 i was workhng in a supermarket where i sell provition
One day like that a man came to buy something Normally i do interact with buyers
So as this man entered i attented to him He was about to leave when he turned and asked me
what class are you? i told him he then said can i have your number?
Hmmmm, i asked him Why sir i dont know you
He said i doens'nt matter that he is touched to help me
At this point i just gave him D number he said he will call me later
so later at night a number called it was him He started from How are you
how was your day
WHAT DID YOU EAT THIS NIGHT
at this point guys i new what he was upto

He started telling me that he went to SEMINARY School that he is a FATHER That he saw me and like me he will like us to be more closer that he will provide anything i need money is not the problem
Jesus!! i didnt repond to him he just ended the call with shame.

many gay men are using money to use and abuse desperate straight men...especially in poor countries. why do you think that now pedos that were going to south east Asia to abuse men/children are now going to places like Kenya, Senegal, Ivory coast etc?

Gbadugbakun:
Next time don't end the call send your account number to him to credit you since he's the one that said he wants to help you. Let him help

you sir, if you are not careful they will fukc your nyansh tiiiire.... these people will never credit your account, instead they will tell you to come over their home to get the money and sadly, money will only be released when they finally have their way with you.... like a donkey and the carrot. the minute they tell you their nonsense, the best way is to end the call and block the animal.

thewinning101:
If the first language your child leanrs in not Igbo, you have possibly damaged the child forever. Imagine giving birth to an Igbo child that thinks in English.

The entire monologue in their head is carried out in English language. His ability to think like an Igbo is permanently removed.

You have mentally damaged that child forever. The Igboness that God gave that child for free, you have taken it away from them.

even if that child's whole education is in igbo... (aka igbo geography books, igbo math books etc), the world out there is driven mostly through English. thats why even Chinko phones/computers have an English keyboard for international reach. so unless you want your child to be confined in a igbo region and only dealing with igbo people, i suggest he learns ENGLISH at best.

i was born and raised in the west from Nigerian parents, and as much as my parents spoke native Nigerian language to us, it served us absolutely nothing the minute we stepped outside the doors of our house. it was fun to speak it when guests came over but apart from that.....nada! i dont need to speak a native Nigerian language to know about Nigerian culture/history etc.

the important question is WHY?! this story is fishy. so a 35 yr old man decided to kidnap a 19yr old man, he didnt abuse him in any way, just fed and raise this grown man for no damn reason whatsoever for the next 26yrs?

so if it wasnt for family inheritance issues, his family would have never told? KAI!

so many mad people roaming the streets out there.

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another mad person roaming the streets of this world.

so many mad people roaming the streets of this world.
eventually, she would have the next few decades in jail to think about what she did... thats what you call a beautiful mad person.

so that 2003 G Wagon that his mechanic said it should be scrapped for metal, he hasnt paid fully for it?! kai!

udomonday:
no need to vomit,just collect one better hotel room with AC and sleep till you hungry again the next day .

look at the guy's face after he finished eating...he looked sick, ready to vomit..

all these eating competitions all around the world are getting out of hands... there is also the chilli pepper eating challenge where they will make you eat some of the strongest chilli pepper out there. insane!

Media145:
Stop twisting my words pls. Why are you people so wicked and vile?

There was never a time I said a total stranger should trust me with N10m with no collateral. Was that what I asked for? Was that what I requested for? But you have twisted it to suit your evil mind and evil intentions. As someone clearly said before, you're clearly a very wicked man and you will never go unpunished for derailing this thread and trying to spoil this thread.

I never invited you to this thread in the first place. This thread is not meant for negative minded people like you, it's not meant for evil people like you, it's not meant for wicked people like you, it's meant for kind hearted Nigerians who are willing to help.

So be seriously warned. Stay away completely from this thread in your own interest. This is a serious thread for a serious business and not for unserious people like you. Be warned.

By continuing to derail this thread with your negative comments, you are automatically bringing a curse upon yourself. Be warned. Stay away from this thread in your own interest.
A word is enough for the wise.

yes o... i am wicked. wicked to save Nigerians future sorrow and headache if they ever put up their property as collateral (even 100k sef) to a total stranger with no collateral whatsoever. NOBODY SHOULD EVER DO THAT. i am your voice of reason. even your customers (that know you) dont even trust you but you expect NLers that dont know you to trust you?!?!?!?!?!? ok sir. good luck in your plot.

ibechris:
Leave God out of this nonsense u posted here.
So,u mean u don't have a guarantor since u started business?
With the way Nigerians display dishonesty at every aspect of life's endeavour,I don't see this as a brilliant way to seek for a guarantor.
It is indeed absurd!
As an experienced loan officer,many of u end up becoming defaulters and one of the symptoms are when they are fond of calling God,but after the loan,u will end up becoming very wicked and abusive to loan recovery officers thereby, finding ways not to pay up ur obligations.

Lastly,leave God out of this as no one except ur parents will be the one to take such a risk at this time of economy furore.

there is a reason a bank or loan apps wouldnt borrow him shit... yet he thinks that it would be financially wise for someone to do so, lol! yes, majority dont care about the person who loan the money (when they finally have the money in their hands) and this one could simply disappear and never pay the loan back (since he has nothing on the line as collateral).
sadly thats how people are quick to use god to try to play the religious card here, in order to sway people. if that person was a religious person, then he should have gone to his church and ask his pastor or church members for 10M, let alone collateral, and certainly not NLers.
only a very stupid and deluded person would put their own property on the line for a total stranger with no collateral... is it not a few days ago that we heard the story about a guy who killed his own friend who loaned him 3m, so that he wouldnt have to pay him back the loan?
here: https://www.nairaland.com/8088209/man-arrested-killing-friend-borrowed

Media145:
Thanks for your comment.
You have done well!
May the Lord reward you accordingly.
Regards!

the people that know you (your frends/family/acquaintance etc), they dont trust you... your own customers (that deal with you) dont trust you to give you the money before they see the goods first, but you want total strangers on NL to trust you with 10M with no collateral?! you must be a comedian...

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/orly.gif

keeper303:
Your comment is very wicked. If you do not want to help or don't have the means, why dissuade other kind harted people who might want to help?

then why dont you put YOUR property as collateral for the 10m loan for this stranger with no collateral whatsoever?!

what i wrote is not wickedness, thats COMMON SENSE! this has nothing to do with kind heart, but all to do with doing what is RIGHT (when it comes to money). any loan of such amount should come with collateral. i hope Nigerians are not that stupid that they would put their property on the line for total strangers that could disappear the minute the money is in their hands (and you will have absolutely NOTHING to cover your property that was put up as collateral).

officialwdhtv:
Crossdresser James Brown arrests neighbour who assaulted him after accusing him of attempting to steal her man.

let me get this straight: so a woman assaulted this crossdresser because she thought he was gonna steal her man?!?!?!?! shouldnt this woman get rid of her homo/bisexual yeye man instead? so your man is interested in this yeye crossdresser, and you are upset and go attack the crossdresser (instead of questioning the sexuality of the bastard bisexual/homo he-diot you call "your man" )?!? oh yes, you need to be arrested!

ladies, if some yeye crossdresser helps you discover the true sexual orientation of your man, then you should THANK THE CROSSDRESSER instead of trying to beat the bobrisky wannabe.

why would any stranger put their own personal assets for you to secure a yeye 10M loan? thats not only very dangerous, but thats very stupid!

the fact that you think that someone will put their own personal assets on the line as collateral for a stranger's 10m loan is ABSURD!!!!!

after receiving the money, na to just vomit all the food.

let it be some fake post...
but if true... the yeye parents of these 2 h0rny children should be flogged mercilessly as well as these lost kids.... what does a child know about raising children and being responsible parents?

so many questions:
- how are they gonna raise that child?
- how are they gonna feed the child?
- how are they gonna put a roof over that child's head?

becoming a father/mother is the ONLY JOB where you get the certificate first, and then you spend the next 18yrs studying/practicing for the subject.

safarifarms:
You guys would just sit at your beer joint and receive announcements from your fellow drunkards of what is said every Sunday and you go about saying what you don't know.

sadly some of us are very well versed in your holybook teachings, and therefore this is the reason why we simply gave up on the fable in the sky.. thus why i can tell you that the majority of these CHARLATANS IN ROBE you call pastors, i call them demons.

here is a simple clue: even the pope or the Vatican own (nor need) a private jet, but your yeye corner street CHARLATAN/FRAUDSTER IN ROBE will tell you sheeples that they need one (and they will use your tithes to pay for it), same with Rolls Royces and fancy mansion, while you people still live in your misery hoping for a miracle in your life... but ok sir, CUNT-E-NEW!

correctguy101:
In response to ya meme...
Simple, so they could help you destroy the evil thing you worked so hard to earn...

so you mean to say that these "supposedly" holy men need money to destroy evil things we earn?! by all means, please tell me how do these fraudsters in robe use Rolls Royce, Banana island mansions and a private jets to destroy the evil that we get? BWAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

btw SHOULDNT THESE HOLY MEN SIMPLY SPREAD THE GOSPEL?!

safarifarms:
Atheists always feel they know the Bible. Can you point/mention the portion of the Bible that says Money is the root of evil?

i never claimed it was written in the bible, but sadly thats what your FRAUDSTER IN ROBE tells you every sundays...

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@OP
yet you wrote all the above without giving his CAUSE OF DEATH.....wandaful Mr blogga blogga!!