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yemmit90:
That is not true my friend, an average legit immigrant on minimum wage abroad is 1000% better than legit MD in Nigeria. Majority of our people are suffering because of illegal ways they took to get there.

"immigrant on minimum wage is better than MD in Nigeria" BWAAAAAAAAAh you sir must be a comedian. if this is the type of lies you tell yourself in order to feel better about moving abroad then so be it. an MD in Nigeria lives a good life, not luxurious but good life, anyone on minimum wage abroad is a SLAVE living paycheck to paycheck barely making it. thats why its called a MINIMUM WAGE (and the reason why some need 2/3 jobs to stay afloat).

here is a simple: Mc Donald's pays minimum wage and i have NEVER SEEN anyone working at Mc Ds having a great life... thus why nobody works at Mc Ds more than a few months/year, and then move on.

abeg show us the boobs after baby don finish sukc em dry to "fallen slippers" standard

as i once said:"the majority who want to japa, need to japa and suffer in order to understand how tough life abroad can be for some. too many Brothas and sistas think that the minute they will land abroad, they will start picking money from ground and live like kings and queens, while the above is a reminder that many live a life MUCH WORSE ABROAD THAN THE LIFE THEY HAD BACK HOME."

to each their own misery!

cescky:
thanks bro, but that link isnt working

you can see that the link is broken in the middle.... copy and paste the whole link, dont click on it

vybzkartel:
I know her

again, you guys should stop bastardizing the phrase "i love you" with strangers that you only LIKE and know absolutely nothing about. you guys are quick to say "i love you" to someone just because they are nice to you and smile back at you, while you know absolutely NOTHING ROMANTICALLY about them.

do you even know what love is?

BTW i hope its not that married "friend" of yours with 3 kids who told you she was still tight down there and will come and fukc you soon, lol!

sadly, just like anywhere else on earth, MONEY TALKS and BS WALKS (aka no money no honey! )

the US is using Ukraine for their own selfish agenda, by the time this war will be over, Ukraine would just be a pile of rocks.

what a pile of arrant nonsense...

it means exactly that... aka BE CAREFUL OF THE LIES YOU TELL TO ONLINE STRANGERS THAT YOU PROBABLY KNOW NOTHING ABOUT.

the landord...

why wouldnt a billionaire think of death? whether rich or poor everybody knows that their time on earth is limited... the difference is that most rich people are comfortable enough to enjoy their time on earth fully.

FAKE LIFE EVERYWHERE, now they even rent wigs, kai!!!! soon they will rent underwear, nails and lashes too...
***spit on floor***

i think it doesnt matter whether tribe/religion is in the way of common sense... but the reality is that GREED/MAFIA TACTICS has a part to do with the downfall of Africa. the majority of the yeye presdos are either A) elected by the people, knowing fully well that these yeye presidos are working for the same mafia that looted the country in the past (thus simply recycling the same nonsense over and over)... and these political mafias only work for their own pockets OR B) they are elected thanks to some 3rd party international elements that helps them get in power (through corrupt means) and thereafter dictate what they should do as president... and its always beneficial to these international elements FIRST, never the black population... and sadly, so many are willing to sell your destiny for a few billions $$$$ gift. do you think its just coincidence that all the past presidents come out of their presidency with a personal fortune in the BILLIONS OF DOLLARS?!?!

but who are we kidding, is it not the exact same thing that happens everywhere else? you think Obama was running the country? he was just a puppet put in place by these political mafias to get the black votes. he did absolutely nothing for black people. Nigeria is a zoo but if you give Nigeria the right leaders and the same amount of money that the US borrowed aka 34trillions (aka their national debts) then Nigeria would also be as beautiful and functioning as the US

sadly, Netanyahu is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!... George Bush is a war criminal that invaded Iraq in 2003 under false pretense of WMD (when UN was clearly against the US invasion of Iraq) and who thereafter killed millions of innocent Iraqis, and he was never prosecuted for these crimes.

the hypocrisy with these people only going after who they desire, and ignoring other war criminals.
***spit on floor***

if Putin is a war criminal then Netanyahu is a war criminal and George Bush is equally a war criminal! if you go after one then go after all...

bride price (or dowry) is an East European/African/Asian/Middle eastern culture that has absolutely NOTHING to do with religion.

it all depends on why he is angry...
- if he is angry because of hunger the FOOD is the solution
- if he is angry because of poverty then MONEY is the solution
- if he is angry because of konji then CUDDLES is the solution

Darlingme:
Wao. So enlightened. I wish women can also think about themselves in situations like that. But it's very difficult for a mother to Walk away and think about herself alone

a mother has a special bond with a child (from the get go) that we fathers only get after many years interacting with our child/children. walking away doesnt mean we love the child any less, it just means that "for our sanity, and to be better parents, we rather walk away from that person (who makes it clear that its now a package deal....(aka both of them and nothing else)"... so walking away may look as punishment to the child, but it aint, its just a conscious decision to do whatever is necessary to not have to deal with this woman and her antics any longer.

it is well known that most sane women would fight tooth and nails to keep the custody of a child than give up custody to daddy.

oladipuposadeeq:
men would have jejely moved where? note not all men, some men commit suicide based on pressures from marital issues, based on my own opinion she shldnt have done this to herself, she ought to have thought about how are children,parents and loved ones would cope if she kpai herself.

Edusouls:
men commit suicide 10times more than women, women endure more, so stop talking rubbish, life has never happened to u

Mrfeel:
You haven't heard a man commits suicide cause of a woman?

grandstar:
Wrong.
There was a time I just got to LASUTH and a bus came in with a dead man. The man was around 35 and he had committed suicide.
Why? Marital issues.
A doctor was in wonderment why someone would take his own life

RickyJesus:
Men don't commits suicide? Men are equally emotional beings.

Berankis:
Some men too fall into this category. We see it online as well... Even for failed girlfriend relationship.

yes a few men also take their lives because of women, but the different between men VS women taking their own lives because of the opposite sex is like 1 to 100 (and i am being generous). women are emotional being and will rather kill themselves than walk away.... on the other hand, men's ego will have more men KILL because of women... thats why much more men are rotting in jail today because of women.

here is the link to the PDF version, thank me later...

https://archive.org/download/101-weapons-of-spiritual-warfare-d.-k.-olukoya-z-lib.org/101%20Weapons%20Of%20Spiritual%20Warfare%20%28D.%20K.%20Olukoya%29%20%28z-lib.org%29.pdf

there is always a yeye friend who believe that they are entitled to your success (and especially your money), because they were around you when you were coming up in the world (sometimes even claiming that they are the reason for your success). its foolish to even think that someone cannot unfollow you just because you guys grew up together.

many people have to get rid of such parasites in order to be able to evolve on their own...

BTW we all know what "forgetting him" means to that person (aka not helping him with money or whatever yeye biz venture he may have wanted Seyi Vibez to help him with)

if you couldnt contact Seyi Vibez directly, but instead decided to go on social media with your BS, then you were NEVER A FRIEND.

thats exactly what i said earlier about women being emotional beings, while a man would have jejely moved on with his life.

what else should a woman do but to divorce that abusive husband?! to think that she believed that death was the better solution than to walk away from that abusive marriage, kai...

so you get abused or whatever by your husband, then call the police and when they ask him to leave the premises, you now cry for him to not comot? lady, you are highly confused, to say the least!

Darlingme:
Alot of women have lost their life in domestic violence, all because they can't walk away leaving their children behind.
Many single mothers, held unto their children even when the society laughed at them and call them names.

But Why is it so easy for men to walk away living their children to suffer along side their mother?
We've seen cases where the husband walk away with another woman, abandoning his wife and children just because he had a misunderstanding with his wife.

Most baby daddies who left their pregnant girlfriend and some with their children, do these at ease.

To some people, once they divorce their wife's, they ultomatically forget about the well-being of their children.

Why is it always easy for men to abandon their children when having misunderstanding with their wives?
Is it a way of punishing the woman or why?
Does it mean men don't have strong affection for their children?
Does it mean a mother who gives birth to a child is the real owner of her child?

But why?

the answer to the above is very simple: women are emotional beings while men arent... so when our lives are in danger, we men would rather walk away without thinking of anything but ourselves, while women would rather stay and put their lives in jeopardy due to their emotional state of mind.

so when women use children as a tool to blackmail men into staying with them, men will rather drop both of them than stay with a foul woman (and coparent that child from afar). on the other hand, when women are in an abusive r/ship, they rather stay (for the sake of the child) and possibly die in the same process, instead of walking away from such abusive r/ship.

having a child with someone is just that, there is no unwritten rule that you must stay with that person, regardless of whats happening in that r/ship. if it doesnt work out, then just walk away and coparent that child. it certainly doesnt mean you are abandoning the child, you are just abandoning the foul mother.

BTW there is no such thing as "the real owner of a child", some people simply understand that you can still be a great parent to your child, without having to be with your foul or abusive partner.