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Romance › Re: How Many People Are You In Talking Stage With? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:08pm On Apr 08, 2024

how many people in Nigeria can afford to do DNA TEST (or even know where to get such test) sef, for Nigeria to be ranked 2nd?

Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Runs Mad After Discovering The Increasing Rate Of Ashawo by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:06pm On Apr 08, 2024

a babe shows you she is a prostitute then you JEJELY WALK AWAY... why be upset? you should be glad the undercover olosho showed you who she truly is so that you dont waste your life/time/energy on these women.

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Romance › Re: What Does It Mean To Be A Man? Proudly A Man. by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:39pm On Apr 08, 2024*

FRANCISTOWN:
This is not about ego. This is what I've tested and handled. I know what I've done for people and how I've come thru for them. But I'd rather I took loan everyday of this life than run to anybody for financial assistance. Try BOI. They offer a great loan plan.

again, what you are saying makes very little sense... so you have family/friends that could assist you financially, yet you wouldnt ask them because you are too proud to ask... yet you are ok with going to beg financial assistance to a bank that will charge you commission for it?!
does the above even make sense to you or are you so blinded by your misplaced ego that you dont even see it?

Asunkungbade. Why should I cry because I'm having my first kid? Why? Haha, I don't understand o. If I were to be your elder brother and I saw you crying. I would have slapped your cheeks.

what a sad statement you just made... so to you, tears of joy are also wrong abi? so you are saying that if your younger brother is crying of joy from seeing his first child coming out of the loin of his woman, happy and joyful that his child came out healthy and with all its limbs etc, you would slap him to stop him from being emotional about such an important event in his life? what kind of sad person are you that would kill a person's joy for life? whats wrong with you that you even have a problem with the joy of life?

Being sad may be a result of pain or hurt, being happy may be a result of enjoyment or contentment.
Do you cry after eating a lovely meal to your satisfaction?

all of the above are emotional state... and there are different levels of being emotional. so you will now compare the joy of something you do 3 times everyday since you were born (aka having a meal) with having your 1st child? you want to compare being sad because your car has a flat tyre (for example) with being sad because your parent died?

Then of what use is a wife?

now that you are an independent adult man, probably living on your own:
- would you have your mother as your lifelong companion (like she is to your father), or is that not the marital duty of your future wife??
- would you have sex with your mother to create your own family lineage, or is that not the marital duty of your future wife?
- would you call your mother to counsel you and give you life advices after a long day at work, or is that not the marital duty of your future wife?
- would you now call you mother to care/nurture you when you are down, or is that not the marital duty of your future wife?
- would you ask your mother to raise your children or is that not the marital duty of your future wife?
- when you come home after a long day at work, would you ask your mother to give you a relaxing massage or is that not the marital duty of your future wife?
etc etc etc

again, you wife is NOT your mother, and vice versa! if you dont understand this simple concept, then no wonder you cant find a good woman out there. you are seeking for a mother, and since you have only ONE mother, you best go back to your mama's place if this is what you are seeking in life.

This thread is about men. Not about plants and animals. Men should begin see themselves as the perfect work of nature.

we ARE... and just like women are too. we go hand in hand in this world. a man without woman is NOTHING. this world without both men AND women is nothing. so just as we should praise men, let us not forget that we also have mothers that also should be praised because that part because of them that we are here...same as our grandmas, sisters, aunts etc

I insist that there is no such thing as the right person. Not in this 21st century. The right person you think you've seen is basically a woman that her cover is yet to be blown or is yet to receive a great deal of power.

ok sir, if thats what you believe then fair enough. i meet perfect women everyday. perfect to me starts with their physical outlook/beauty and then as you get to know them, you discover their character. so if you've met countless of perfect women physically and after talking to all of them, none had the proper character then i have to say it again: the problem is you (not these women)... and you should either change the way you look for these women or WHERE you go look for these women.

People who are a mess today once thought they also found the right person.
Right person my foot.

you have to understand that as much as some people are perfect for one another... with time, and with whatever interaction you may have together, that person may change. it all has to do with how you guys grow together. some people can be perfect today and after a few years they no longer are perfect...this can be due to childbirth, marital issues, marital boredom, marital abuse, marital neglect etc
but ALSO, some out there remain perfect for one another for decades.

My sadness was due to pain. Pain sometimes may not be the result of emotion. If I hit my head on the wall. Will I not be sad about it?
By the way. That was many many years ago.

if you hit your head on the wall, you will be EMOTIONAL because you hit your head on the wall. its the pain that brought that emotion, just like anything else that makes us emotional on this earth. some people get emotional because they went on a rollercoaster, others because they bought their dream car/house. same emotion, different reason.

It makes a man an idiot. A cry baby. Imagine you are crying and your kids are crying too. What a family of town criers.

as a father, my duty is to make my children understand that there is nothing wrong with being emotional. i am never gonna try to pretend to be someone i am not, in order to fit in this yeye belief that daddy is superman. hell no! daddy is human, and its a NATURAL HUMAN EMOTION to cry. telling your male children that its wrong to cry, is not only a failed way to raise a child, i would even call it abuse.

you see the problem here is that people like you. they DO cry, but you have such a misplaced ego (you are so proud of yourself for no damn reason) that you would go and hide to cry, and PRETEND IN FRONT OF THE WORLD TO BE WHO YOU ARE NOT,

Men are kings. How does it even look when a king cry because he's emotional at the presence of his subjects?

it shows his subjects that he is HUMAN like them... rather than pretending to be a tough king, and then go cry yourself to sleep in the darkness. same fake nonsense that politicians do, they will tell you all the right things to get elected, but all of it is pretense to get the job (but NEVER to get the job done). i guess we are different... i will never lie to my children, i will never pretend to be who i am not to my children so that they fully well know how to deal with me, rather than raising them with this fake attitude,, aka being a stranger (same goes with their mother)

Submitting to their holy books is different from submitting to their pastors.

same thing... the pastor is the wifi password to get to the internet (aka god) connection

I can't die for my parents. Worse comes to worst, I can only die for my kids. There is no other human being in the picture.

i respect that... and i am sure you would also do it without being emotional, right?

If my mom calls be and goes like, "My son, I'd like to see you by weekend."
If I'm gonna be busy. I'd say "I'm sorry, not this weekend but Polly next".
If my father said the same thing. I'll make sure I find a way around seeing him by weekend.
Respect and love are two different things.

i guess we are different on this issue... i treat both my parents equally as they are exactly the same thing (aka the same value) to me. there is no preferential treatment for any of them. i respect honor love and cherish them the same way.

I'm failing to understand what must have given you this impression.

lol,your below statement (you just made) gave me this impression:
AGAIN: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A GOOD WOMAN. THE 21ST CENTURY WOMAN IS NOT A GOOD WOMAN

You will think they have a great marriage until the husband conducts a DNA test on all his kids. By the way. Those marriages are not 21st century marriage.

the amount of marriages that have paternity fraud is less than 1%, let us not try to make it seem like it happens everywhere and everyday. just because we hear about a few paternity fraud (while not focussing on the millions of marriages without any paternity fraud)
if thats why you base your negative claim on women, then its not accurate.

The 21st century woman is really good for nothing. Let's not lie to ourselves.
Give me just one good thing that a 21st century is good for that can't be found elsewhere. And I'll deactivate my account and never visit NL again.

pls rephrase the above as i dont understand exactly what you meant... but if you meant:"what 21st century women are good for?, then i will reply:"THE EXACT SAME THING 20TH CENTURY WOMEN WERE GOOD FOR"

And if the money doesn't finish, what happens?

if money doesnt finish then you are still a lonely man surrounded by pay as you go useless oloshoes who wouldnt even spit on you if you were on fire.

Living with a woman is annoying, irritating and nauseating. Oh my Jeez. Ew! Except she's your daughter. 20years down the line, looking at flabby arms and sagger face. You'd feel like dying.

ALLELUJAH!!!! finally you are showing us all were your dislike for women comes from... hopefully someday you will find someone that does not irritate/annoy you for you to have great relationship with.

Why should a woman be with me whether I'm sad/broke/happy/wealthy/or whatever state I'm in?
Men are really a lost cause. Why should a woman be there. Unless for material, financial gain and societal pressures. Women don't even want men to be there. It's only the men who are desperate for women. Women are not desperate for men.

this is where you lost me... here you are trying to focus on how great men are and calling us the perfect work of nature BLA BLA BLA... yet you dont understand that a woman should be with you FIRST AND FOREMOST because you are a great human being, and as your are proud of who you are, this is what you should proudly present to women. be here you are asking "why should women be there when you are sad/broke etc, and instead you are claiming that they should only be there for material/financial gain" BWAAAAAAAAH!!! no wonder you cant find a good woman in your life if this is the type of woman you go for.
here is my advice to you: if a woman is solely with you for material/financial gain then that useless wh0re has no business being in your life... and you should get rid of that animal ASAP!

I guess this is where we are getting each other wrongly. My question is, why must you spend your life with a woman at all? Be it dirty hookers, Single mothers, not single mothers, unintelligent women, "intelligent" women or whatever women or anybody at all, except your relatives. Why must there always be a woman in the picture?

there is no need to always have a woman in the picture... but if one good woman present herself to the picture, then allow her in as it will make your life easier/better... rather than look at woman as the devil.

The more I grow in years and cash, the more I feel the needlessness of a woman.

ask yourself this simple question:
- why do you think that Jeff Bezos OR Bill Gates, after losing almost half of their fortune to their wife, still went ahead and get in a long term r/ship with other women?
- why do think that Elon Musk get so many divorces and yet still find babes to be with in long term relationship and impregnate?
the answer is very simple: as a heterosexual man, you need your own woman for companionship so you can enjoy the better things of life with someone worthy. AND to possibly bear you princes and princesses and build a family with... rather than laying down with dirty oloshoes that open their legs from Jide's bed to Tunde's back seat of his car to Ahmed's shop every day... to make a living.

Is it just me, or does anybody else feel like vomiting just seeing a woman who is not a relative?

i think its just you brotha... for the rest of us, diving into the wet sweet honeypot of a good/intelligent woman that sees you as her one and only; a woman that is willingly offering you her body FOR FREE and who is ready to please you in anyway shape or form, and treats you like the king that you are.. that is LIFE.
being a KING while having no woman to call your queen and/or nobody to treat you like a king (unless your houseboy/gateman and driver) that is no worthy kingdom. FACT!

Christianity Etc › Re: Men And Women Should Not Be Treated Equally. Basis Of Polygamy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:55pm On Apr 08, 2024

Veecruz:
Do me i do you works in every case whether pursuit of elder in church, pursuit of career.

And each case is treated on their own as this threads show.

https://www.nairaland.com/3082941/pls-help...my-career-marriage#45264580

https://www.nairaland.com/4417231/wife-doesnt-want-me-start#66136769

And this case is Polygamy AND NOT PURSUIT OF OFFICE OF ELDER IN CHURCH, So invalid!

Clearly, you are not able to find any valid argument.

And clearly, He is as proven by all of yous inability to validly prove the case.

Off point!

Genesis 17:1, which you stated already shows God Commanding or more accurately, Re-commanding Abram to "walk faithfully and blamelessly"

2.Things in that Commandment; to wit
1) walk faithfully
2) walk blamelessly.

And what was Abram's score at the end?

Hebrews 11 shows us He scored well Faithfullness and The bible calls Abram faithful Galatians 3:9

But on blamessness, NO ONE CALLS ABRAHAM, BLAMELESS.

And Romans 4:3 just made it worse for your case for it clearly shows that Abraham almost did not make it. God just just used his faithfullness to "count it unto him for righteousness."
BUT THIS IS NOT SO FOR NOAH, JOB AND DANIIEL, FOR GOD OPENLY AND CLEARLY CALLED THEM "BLAMELESS"
THEY SCORED BOTH THE WALKING AND THE BLAMELESS SCORECARD!
AND THEY WERE NEVER POLYGAMOUS!
So yet again you are WRONG and have no valid argument.and your bible knowledge is shitty!

And yet again, like others before you, you Lie and blaspheme God, whenever you say he permits polygamy, whereas, His Very.Laws destroy the doing of polygamy

you can claim all yeye nonsense you want... any smart educated intelligent person understands the simple points i showed you to clearly make you understand that A) if you believe that you can dismiss polygamy because these polygamous men dont want their women to be polygamous too, then you can also dismiss anything on this earth (and call it evil), like your religion/god for example.
B) your god thought very highly of many polygamous men of the bible to the point of having convenant with them, which convenant are the foundation of what your religion is today. there wouldnt be any bible today if it was not for these POLYGAMOUS MEN... so continue claiming yeye nonsense about these obviously perfect men that your god entrusted with such important biblical task.

if you want to continue being a clueless religious person (and wallow in your ignorance of the bible teachings), then by all means, be my guest.
I EDUCATE RELIGIOUS SHEEP LIKE YOU ON A DAILY BASIS, THANK ME LATER!!!!

Christianity Etc › Re: Men And Women Should Not Be Treated Equally. Basis Of Polygamy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:55pm On Apr 08, 2024

Veecruz:
And this is the change of post for i did not say "EVERYTHING SOMEONE DOES MUST BE EQUALLY DONE BY WOMEN"...I said "if that same food is served on them via their wives going out to marry a second husband, they too confess that it is evil." aka do me, i do you.

so your husband decides he wants to be an elder in church, and now you want the same food served to him, so as a woman you want to be an elder in church TOO and your church will refuse?! why wouldnt you equally call that evil then?!?!?
so "do me i do you" is only valid for polygamy? its not valid for anything else abi?

That's why i said "YOU JUMPED INTO This God based thread."

i jumped into a thread on a public forum where i see too many people writing arrant clueless nonsense, and therefore, sometimes someone with COMMON SENSE has to step in to correct y'all. look how you opened a thread and made it seem as if your holybook/god was against polygamy.... BLASPHEMY!!!!

Is that not God commanding Abraham[b] at the beginning[/b]to walk faithully and blamelessly?

you people are indeed clueless about your holybook, abeg sit down, LET ME EDUCATE YOU:

god had already promised Abram a convenant between himself and Abram, thats why he commanded Abram to live his people in Genesis 12...
Genesis 12
12 The Lord had said to Abram, “Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you. 2 “I will make you into a great nation, and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing. 3 I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.”

so Abraham left and travelled the world with his people... after decades, in Genesis 17 (after so many promises of that convenant), god appeared to Abram and told him to "walk before him and be blameless" aka present himself before god, and when he did, then god fulfilled his long awaited convenant with Abraham... same UNCONDITIONAL and ETERNAL convenant that god had with Noah/Moses/David too.

to remotely understand the bible you read today...you have to fully comprehend the 4 very important convenants that god made in the Bible (before Jesus own convenant aka the NEW CONVENANT)... these convenants are the foundation for what you have today. these convenants are with Noah, Abraham, Moses and David. without these convenant, nothing your read today would be remotely possible. these are the men that god chose, these were/are your god's chosen ones.

now come again to lie to us saying that these polygamous men(Abraham and David) were not perfect in the eyes of your god
***spit on floor***

Family › Re: Which Of These Will Raise Well Behaved Young Men? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:57pm On Apr 08, 2024

soulhelper481:
I have no intention to do that. And I don't want him coming to my place when I pack out.

he doesnt need to come to your house to coparent... you can bring the children to him whenever he has them on the weekend and holidays. et voila. regardless of how you feel about this man, you will have to make it work together, for the sake of these kids.

Family › Re: Which Of These Will Raise Well Behaved Young Men? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:16am On Apr 08, 2024

A) young boys indeed need a father figure in their lives. women can only go so far until that male child is bigger/stronger enough to not take advices or commands from his mother. by that time, only a father's strong no nonsense approach can fix that.
B) although you have all the right to step away from the father of your children, you have absolutely NO RIGHT to keep these kids from their father. you guys should understand that, because you cannot be together any longer, that doesnt mean you should deprive your ex of seeing his/her children. regardless of how bad a father you believe this man is...
C) why do you only have such extreme solution? why cant you move, get your own place and coparent these kids like 2 mature adults, so that your children can be happy and so can you? there is no point in you staying in this miserable union, and maybe separating from this "supposedly" bad man can solve all your problems.

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Romance › Re: What Does It Mean To Be A Man? Proudly A Man. by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:56pm On Apr 07, 2024*

FRANCISTOWN:
I never said men shouldn't beg for help. I said men shouldn't beg for financial assistance. It makes you become a bother and people easily look down on you. I do not request for financial assistance from people, not because i'm arrogant but because taking stuff from people when I haven't worked/ earned it makes me feel like shit.
A man should always learn to figure his eon shit out, by himself.

if a man ever needs financial assistance then let him ask his own family and friends BEFORE going to take a yeye loan from any thieving banks or loan app. i'd rather my family/friends came to me for financial help because if i can help then of course i will. thats what friends and family are also here for.
the reason why so many brothas fail is because they think they can figure shiit out by themselves while help is just a question away (but their misplaced ego is in the way of common sense)

When I closed a deal that changed my life I didn't feel any special thing. I didn't attend my own primary school graduation, my secondary school VS, my UNI convocation, when I completed NYSC I didn't even make a fuss about it. I don't wish myself on my birthdays.
When my kids graduate, it's a normal thing. When I lost my best friend so many years ago, I was sad. Nevertheless, I dusted myself up and went back to school the following day. I had papers to write.
These things are normal things that everyone does. Why should I feel special and emotional about them?

so being sad is not being emotional, abi? remember, being happy is also being emotional, being upset is also being emotional.
as a father, i cried tears of joy (like a baby) when i saw my 1st son being born; as a brother, i cried like a baby when my dear brother passed away... and there is nothing wrong with a man being emotional, this is something completely NORMAL. it doesnt make you a woman, it doesnt make you weak, it makes you HUMAN... only a very evil person would not shed a tear when his parents/sibling pass away.

Now the problem is, the kind of love a man wants doesn't exist. A man wants a mother in a wife, which can never happen. You can't drill your mother, but you drill your wife. That's already a big clause.

the above are not men, the above are yeye people who think that they can recreate in a wife what they have for their mother. WRONG!!!! your mother is your mother, she is unique and can NEVER BE COPIED/REPLACED by any woman; your wife is NOT your mother and will never remotely be your mother; you are highly confused if you expect your wife to be the same as your mother. your mother gave you life; your mother breastfed you; your parents raised you for +20yrs and made you the man you are today, how dare you want to compare them with a woman you just met a few months/years ago?!

Secondly, there are no good and intelligent women.

BWAAAAAAAAAAH so this is what this thread is really all about... abeg, open a new thread on this exact subject and lets discuss this issue... which really is that; YOU have never met a good/intelligent woman or that YOU cant attract a good/intelligent woman

Thirdly, there is no such thing as the right person.

its called the right person FOR YOU... and that person is mostly easy to find. if you've met tons of women in your life and never met a perfect woman then the problem is YOU.

Emotions are weakness, it leads to feelings and feelings are useless. You might feel like not going to work, but you gotta go regardless of your feelings. Therefore, feelings are a waste of human precious time.

there is nothing wrong with having an emotion but sadly, men like you automatically assume that being emotional means a man is weak. being SAD means you are emotional.. didnt you just write you were sad when your best friend passed away? although useless to you, thats how you felt and there is NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT NOR WEAK ABOUT THAT.
Btw remember, emotions can also be HAPPINESS, PRIDE, HOPE, THANKFUL, LOVE etc.

Tears don't solve anything. Therefore, why should a man cry?
Life is always unfair, and full of misfortune. Men should always have this at the back of their minds.

there are plenty of moments in life when a man can cry (tears of sorrow/joy) and that doesnt make a man weak... it makes a man HUMAN

I agree with the fact that, if a man must cry. He should be by himself alone and never do it in front of anyone else.

so now its ok for a man to cry (aka be emotional), so long as nobody sees him cry? again, thats your misplaced ego talking...

Men who submit to their pastors are stupid. E.O.D.

as much as i am an atheist... i disagree with you on this point too. many of these religious people believe that by submitting to their holybook's teaching, they will live a better/righteous life. some people out there need the guidance that their holybook gives them. i dont need a holybook to show me right from wrong, but its obvious these religious people do. to each their own way of life, so long as it aint criminal or against our knowledge of right/wrong.

The language of love that a man understands is honour and respect. You can playfully tell someone you love that "you are not serious". Can you try that with your father?

i LOVE, honor and respect my father and mother because they gave me life, raised me, instill the right value in me and made me who i am today... and as much as i love/honor/respect the mothers of my children, it certainly aint the same thing, i love/honor and respect these women for a completely different reason. i can die for my parents (even though they probably wont let me), i can NEVER give my life away for a woman i "chose" to love. even the love i have for my children is different than the love i have for my parents.

Women don't understand respect. They want love and affection. You honour them with your love.

i dont know about you, but what i have/feel for my father is the exact same thing i feel for my mother. the LOVE is the same; the HONOR is the same; the RESPECT is the same (regardless of who they are).

Is a woman deserving of love? Why does she deserved to be loved?
That useless love which is a misnomer for lust will render one useless and pitiable.

again, its obvious your issue is not with MEN being proud about themselves, its about women (as the enemy or something).

This is what weak men use to console themselves. How would a woman bring the best out of a man? By nagging, sleeping around, wasting his money on frivolities or how?

its obvious by your above writeup that you have never met a good woman, thus why you think like the way you do... if you believe that nagging/sleeping around and wasting a man's money is only what describes all women out there (while any smart man understand that it only describe useless good for nothing liability women), then no wonder you open such a thread.
AGAIN: if you've never met a good woman, with great character, intelligent, hardworking, caring, compassionate, etc...then the problem is YOU, not women.

How did a woman bring the best out of Nikola Tesla, Isaac Newton, Leonardo or Will Smith, and many more who have fallen by the snares of women?

why dont you equally look at the MILLIONS of great married men out there who were happily married? or do you solely use these above handful men to judge billions of women out there? BTW quickly remove the undercover homo on your above list with entanglement issues.

Again and again. The 21st century woman is not a good woman.

says who? just because you see all these yeye good for nothing liability on SM posting foolish pictures and saying stupid shiit, doesnt mean that ALL WOMEN are liability good for nothing pay as you go oloshoes.

Why should a man be scared of living alone, who should a man wanna share his good time or bad time with anybody? Those men are like babies, they are idiots. They make me feel nauseated. Ew! I even feel like throwing up thinking about it.

a man shouldnt be scared of living alone, just like he shouldnt be scared to live with someone and sharing his life with someone. only a very sad person would want to be in his huge mansion sharing his life with nobody, apart from part time yeye women just there for a handout and good times, and when times are tough (OR money don finish) these women dont give a damn about you. same women that wouldnt even look at you if you didnt pay them to be around you.
if a woman doesnt desire to be with you when you are down/sad/broke, then this woman does not deserve to be in your life when you are up/good/wealthy. so who will you spend your life with? dirty oloshoes that anybody can buy with a few Nairas?! is that the type of life you see for yourself?! do you hate women so much that you'd rather be with yeye good for nothing pay as you go oloshoes than finding a good/intelligent woman for yourself?

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Health › Re: Abroad Returnee Suddenly Goes Insane On The Streets. Do You Know His Family? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:45pm On Apr 07, 2024*

he was just drugged so they can rob his phone/money etc... this is just temporary effect of colorado or any other powerful drugs. by the time he regain his head, he will share his unfortunate story.

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Family › Re: Fear Women-my Wife Who Refused To Forgive My Mother Now Wants My Forgiveness-pt by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:30pm On Apr 07, 2024

A) so you mother gave your wife the herbs that killed the baby?! what kind of mother is this (regardless of whether the baby was yours or not)?!?!

B) divorce that demon your called "your wife" and be merry. if she can do the above, then nothing is off limit to this demon.

Romance › Re: What Does It Mean To Be A Man? Proudly A Man. by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:12pm On Apr 07, 2024

i fully disagree on a few points you made (as it seems is just misplaced ego speech):
- so a man in need shouldnt beg for help? if you are in need and you need to beg your family/friends/acquaintance for help, then by any means do that. these people are there to help you and so are you there for them (if needs be)

- so a man cannot be emotional? just because women bring yeye emotional nonsense to argument doesnt mean a man cannot be emotional. the day you sign your 1st big contract, BE EMOTIONAL! the day you have your 1st child, BE EMOTIONAL! your kids graduate, BE EMOTIONAL! the day your kids get married BE EMOTIONAL! if/when a dear person in your life pass away, BE EMOTIONAL!

- there is nothing wrong with a man's desire to find LOVE... love is a great thing, especially with a good/intelligent woman. whats important is to make sure that he finds love with the RIGHT person, and not some yeye liability

- so because a man has goals in life, he cannot be emotional? again, there is nothing wrong with being emotional and have a life. if you want to go home after a hard day at work and cry/vent yourself to sleep so that the next day you are fit to attack your issue head on, then by all means, do so.

- many men out there submit to their holybook, religion and/or their pastors. to each their own.

- any man understands that his love for his parents/siblings is different than the love he has for a wife. these are two different set of people, with two different set of love. the love a man has for his parents/sibling is natural, they can be the worst person on earth and you would still love them, while the love you have for your wife is an emotional/wise decision you took because of who that person is.

- men who rape are mentally sick criminals... just like pedos, whose urges should send them to jail for a LOOONG time. these are not human beings, these are ANIMALS!

- so a man cannot/shouldnt LOVE his father?

- so a man cannot/shouldnt RESPECT/HONOR his mother?

- so a man cannot/shouldnt LOVE his wife?

finally, as much as we should be proud of being men, we should also understand that LIFE being alone is worthless, unless you have someone worthy to share your life with. someone to share your good times and your bad times with; someone to be able to open up and talk to with no fear of being judged etc; someone to build a life/family together with; someone to grow old with etc. if you dont find such person then cool, but if such person present itself to your life, then embrace her and welcome her into your life so you can become the BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF (only a good woman can bring that out of us men)

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Romance › Re: Hello Everyone I Need A Serious Relationship by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:31pm On Apr 07, 2024

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Christianity Etc › Re: Was Adam Created With Another Woman Before Eve? Was The First Woman Lilith? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:16pm On Apr 07, 2024

it is well known that Adam's first wife was Lillith.... sadly, the bible will rather tell us the Eve story first.

she isnt mentioned because she was a troublesome wife who thought of herself as equal as (and not under) Adam, since they were both created from the dust of the earth... thus why he left her.

Education › Re: Masturbation Notice At The University Of Waterloo, Toronto by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:14pm On Apr 07, 2024

i refuse to believe that SP.ERM can make a pipe burst...

Christianity Etc › Re: Who Taught Bobrisky, James Brown, Macmilan, DragQueens,And Others What They Know by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:11pm On Apr 07, 2024

ocnovakmichael:
If you don't care about what the Bible says, why should I care what biology say?
I don't get it. You said gender is male and female, which is exactly what the Bible says, " Male and female created he them." I don't understand what's the confusion here.
When a man says he wants to be identified as a woman then he is a transgender; and that is not in line with creation. What if a dog says it wants to be identified as a pig, wouldn't that sound ludicrous? In basic natural principle, it is male and female, anything outside these two genders is an orientation from the pit of hell.

the problem here is that you are mixing their GENDER with their SEXUALITY. thats where you are failing in this issue. there has been homos since biblical days and this has nothing to do with their gender; there has been crossdressers since biblical days and this has nothing to do with their gender; there has been men fukcing donkeys since biblical days and this has nothing to do with their gender... this is their SEXUALITY, and that in no way changes the fact that there is only TWO gender on earth (male/female)

Romance › Re: When A Rich Man Marries A Small Girl (pictures) by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:06pm On Apr 07, 2024

faceland:
The second picture is 21 years old and a 65 years old. I don't know how he can tolerate her for one day (everything she say would be painfully stupid or uninteresting).

VERY TRUE, but the toto would also be as sweet as a ripe plum, and i guess thats what really matter to these rich men... ask Ned who was around 58yrs old when he got married to 19yr old Regina (and they are "happily" married 5 yrs later).

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Christianity Etc › Re: Men And Women Should Not Be Treated Equally. Basis Of Polygamy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:01pm On Apr 07, 2024

vdestro:
Off points arguments do not count. The topic is polygamy and "not should women preach in church"
So, this is you dubiously trying to change the argument since you have cannot argue on the point!

oh lawd, another blind religious sheep, bringing yeye nonsense to this discussion... this discussion is about bringing valid point to the table and not yeye clueless nonsense. Veecruz stated that since polygamous men dont want their wives to have multiple men then polygamy is wrong.... so i ask a very simple question that she hasnt answered yet:
IF THATS THE CASE, AND EVERYTHING SOMEONE DOES MUST BE EQUALLY DONE BY WOMEN FOR IT TO BE RIGHT, WHAT ABOUT YOUR RELIGION WHO DOESNT ALLOW WOMEN ELDERS IN CHURCH?!
the above is not called "changing the subject", its called using your failed analogy to show you that you are wrong. Abraham was a polygamist, Jacob was a polygamist, Esau was a polygamist, King David was a polygamist, King Solomon was a polygamist, Gideon was a polygamist, Caleb was a polygamist, Moses sef (who received the 10 commandments) was a polygamist... as for Adam being a fornicator/polygamist (thanks to Lillith),this is a discussion for another thread.

Again, i did not argue against you saying it is against God,, save when you brought God into it, after jumping into this God Based.Thread so your judgment and opinion here is A LIE!

reread the initial post... GOD is mentioned FIVE TIMES, to try to claim that polygamy is wrong. so this whole discussion brought by Veecruz is about she claiming that god is against polygamy....which is completely FALSE!

Yet, God did not call him blameles and "PERFECT" at the end even when God clearly went back.and picked Noah, who was before him, Abraham and Job and Daniel, both, after him,."AND CALLED THEM PERFECT.

its obvious you read your holybook upside down. again, sit down, go drink some chilled water and reread the below passage (then come tell us that your god didnt call Abraham "blameless" and made him father of many nation etc:

Genesis 17:1-7
17 When Abram was ninety-nine years old, the Lord appeared to him and said, “I am God Almighty[a]; walk before me faithfully and be blameless. 2 Then I will make my covenant between me and you and will greatly increase your numbers.”3 Abram fell facedown, and God said to him, 4 “As for me, this is my covenant with you: You will be the father of many nations. 5 No longer will you be called Abram[b]; your name will be Abraham,[c] for I have made you a father of many nations. 6 I will make you very fruitful; I will make nations of you, and kings will come from you. 7 I will establish my covenant as an everlasting covenant between me and you and your descendants after you for the generations to come, to be your God and the God of your descendants after you.

Family › Re: Man Lost His Properties 2 Years After His Nigeria Wife Joined Him In Uk(vid,pix) by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:13pm On Apr 07, 2024

thats what happens when yeye ignoramus go to Nigeria to marry total strangers... there are plenty of women available in the UK, the problem is that these yeye men think they can marry a village "stranger", bring her to the UK, and expect her to remain village minded lol.

the minute you bring anyone to the UK, then this person will eventually turn into the exact same people that are plenty plenty in the IK (same mindset etc). it is foolish of a man to think that the village minded person will remain as if she was in the village.

if you want a village minded babe, then KEEP HER IN THE VILLAGE!

Travel › Re: Foreign Carriers Engage In Price War To Frustrate Air Peace Out Of London by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:07pm On Apr 07, 2024

THIS IS THE SAME OLD NORMAL PRACTICES DONE FOR GENERATIONS
why do y'all think there are airline alliances? if Air Peace is going for a market share, they will have to fight for it , and lose a lot of money before they can succeed. its always the same things done when a new airline comes to the game.

these long established airlines (British Airways, Air France, KLM etc) will lower their flight cost at a loss (because they can afford it), to kill the new comer, then when the newcomer is out, they will raise back their prices to 25% more than the normal price (since they are the only ones offering such route). BINGO!!!

Christianity Etc › Re: Who Taught Bobrisky, James Brown, Macmilan, DragQueens,And Others What They Know by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:47am On Apr 07, 2024

ocnovakmichael:
I just got through saying, in the Bible God creature man male and female. My question to you is this: are you corroborating the truth in the Bible or you want me to think you're smart?

i dont care about what the bible say, i am just telling you what BIOLOGY says. being a homo/transgender/bisexual or any other yeye sexual orientation is NOT a gender, thats just sexual orientation. GENDER is your sexual organ, that comes in only two form (unless deformed) MALE and FEMALE

Christianity Etc › Re: Men And Women Should Not Be Treated Equally. Basis Of Polygamy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:39am On Apr 07, 2024

Veecruz:
If i did, you would have said it . So now, you are lying.and have started to insalt me because you see you cannot argue your case validly.

i have said it already in that discussion, but you were just too busy arguing blindly to see it:
here it is once again:

D) what a hypocrite you are! your religion doesnt allow you to be an elder in church as a woman. will you now equally claim that you religion is evil because the same food should be served to women too (and if women cannot be elders in church then religion is evil)?!?

Veecruz:
A judgment is an opinion
Dictionary.com
the ability to judge, make a decision, or form an opinion objectively especially in matters affecting action;

again, you have the right to believe whatever you wanna believe, but the minute you boldly claim that its against your god bla bla bla, thats not an opinion, thats a FALSE STATEMENT! and i am obliged to correct you.

O i, see
This thread is a fall out from the other threads i posted where i challeged all wbo said God supported polygamy which i proved that He did no such, which is what led to the examination of the unjust and imbalanced mind of the polugamist in this thread, which you cane into, on that flow and moved the issue to.judgment.
And it was based on my counters that you raised and pleaded the bible.

again, i dont know about any other thread but this one, where YOU stated that your god is against polygamy, which is FALSE!

This thread and all the other threads already prove you wrong most especiallly.AS NONE OF THOSE PEOPLE SCORED GOD'S MARK WHERE HE OPENLY CALLED THEIR NAMES AND DECLARED THEM "PERFECT" AND ACCEPTABLE BY HIM.

i dont know anything about any other thread but this one, where you proved absolutely nothing but some narrow minded opinion attached to nothing tangible. even the above you just wrote is utter nonsense. NONE OF THESE ABOVE WELL RESPECTED MEN WERE EVER VIEWED AS SINNERS (DUE TO THEIR POLYGAMOUS NATURE) BY YOUR GOD...FACT!

But only Noah, Job and Daniel, got God The Very Praise and Direct Honour of God Himself, Through His Own Mouth, Where He Directly and Openly Called them "PERFECT'"
And none of them is polygamous.
So, you are wrong, just like the others before you in the other threads

BWAAAAAAAAAAAH you are truly clueless about your holybook: here is what you god said to Abraham:
Genesis 17:1-7
17 When Abram was ninety-nine years old, the Lord appeared to him and said, “I am God Almighty[a]; walk before me faithfully and be blameless (aka PERFECT). 2 Then I will make my covenant between me and you and will greatly increase your numbers.”3 Abram fell facedown, and God said to him, 4 “As for me, this is my covenant with you: You will be the father of many nations. 5 No longer will you be called Abram[b]; your name will be Abraham,[c] for I have made you a father of many nations. 6 I will make you very fruitful; I will make nations of you, and kings will come from you. 7 I will establish my covenant as an everlasting covenant between me and you and your descendants after you for the generations to come, to be your God and the God of your descendants after you.

Christianity Etc › Re: What Story In The Bible Seem Complicated To You? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:32am On Apr 07, 2024

mine is the story of all these highly respected men of the bible (King David/Solomon, Abraham, Jacob etc) that were obviously fornicators with countless concubines, babymamas and mistresses yet were not seen as sinners...

the only one that was remotely punished for such act, was simply because he had sex with a MARRIED woman. but if the women were single, there was never any problem with being a fornicator.

its the hypocrisy of the bible as it is obvious the bible sees nothing wrong with a man having multiple wives, as below verse shows:
Deuteronomy 21:15
15 If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons but the firstborn is the son of the wife he does not love,

Exodus 21:10
10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights.

Judges 8:30
30 He had seventy sons of his own, for he had many wives.

2 Chronicles 11:21
21 Rehoboam loved Maakah daughter of Absalom more than any of his other wives and concubines. In all, he had eighteen wives and sixty concubines, twenty-eight sons and sixty daughters.
... and the list goes on.

Celebrities › Re: Mummy Of Lagos, A.k.a Bobrisky Pleads Guilty Over Naira Abuse. Judgement Passed! by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:18am On Apr 07, 2024

Tunde835:
The real reason this dude is getting arrested is because he's gay.

no, the real reason is because he messed with the wrong dude (verydarkman) and got him locked up....so when that dude came out he snitched on Bobrisky's crimes, and therefore the crossdresser has to pay for his crimes.

see that DUDE's face after a few days in jail sef... make up and eyelashes don finish, abi!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/lolof1.gif

Christianity Etc › Re: Men And Women Should Not Be Treated Equally. Basis Of Polygamy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:10am On Apr 07, 2024

Veecruz:
It absolutely saddens and disgusts me the amount of people who claim Christianity because they go to a place called church and read the Bible.

Most people who call themselves Christians will be thrown into hell for they’re not of God and especially when someone rebukes them they say, “thou shall not judge.”First, that verse is talking about hypocritical judging.

the above in bold is exactly what you are and what you are doing.... hypocritical judging!
undercover satan's advocates.

Christianity Etc › Re: Men And Women Should Not Be Treated Equally. Basis Of Polygamy. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:07am On Apr 07, 2024

Veecruz:
We already have it which is why you are doing it right now and as you have done to the guy complaining about his wife's sisters exposed dressing which you tried correcting him saying
"as a married man, you shouldnt remotely look at your spouse's sister/friends in such a manner anyway?"
it says a lot about a man who cant even control himself, because regardless of whether it is his wife's sister OR the olosho shopping at the mall, if you cant control yourself (when you see tittays jiggling) then you will ALWAYS fall!

You just judged the life of another.yet you say i should not judge. Very funny.

AGAIN... its called having an opinion, while you dont have an OPINION; you boldly claim that what they are doing is against god.... thats not an opinion, thats FALSE CLAIM!!!

now since you are also BLIND, read again the below that i just wrote:
nobody is saying that you shouldnt have an opinion/view on a subject... i am just saying that you shouldnt say that what they are doing is wrong/evil in the eyes of your holybook (As if you are the spoke person/representant for the bible), and instead say that YOU dont believe that what they do is right OR that YOU are against what they do... which you are entitled to.

You are the one who brought in the Holy Book. I just said polygamy is evil and i proved it without the Holy Book.

your 1st post is all about GOD THIS and GOD THAT, but everything you know about your so called "god" is because of what is written in your holybook called the bible. you even had the audacity to claim falsehood to make a wrong point. again, you can pretend all you want, but at the end of the day, YOUR BIBLE WAS NEVER AGAINST POLYGAMY, AND MANY HIGHLY RESPECTED MEN OF THAT SAID BIBLE WERE POLYGAMISTS (that were never viewed as sinners)

people like you are the true demons of this world....claiming yeye nonsense about your god. all you Satan's associates!

Romance › Re: It Is Right Only When It Favor’s You Ladies by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:55pm On Apr 06, 2024*

same with women who dont want to date a short/broke/fat dudes (as a dating preference) but if a man says he doesnt want to date a fat/short woman (as his dating preference), he is automatically attacked (by women) for being an insecure male bodyshaming women.... some would even say its a toxic male trait, lol

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