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lalasticlala:
Funke Akindele and her husband JJC Skillz pose with their twin boys.

Her husband, JJC Skillz shared the adorable photo on Instagram.

The couple recently celebrated their babies first birthday. Funke Akindele revealed her sons turned 1 over the weekend via a question and answer session with her fans.

nlPoster:
A quote from a previous topic on Yoruba/subsaharan African history.

nlPoster:
A quote from a previous topic on Yoruba/subsaharan African history.

Lamanii22:
I remembered... Me and my sisters screamed.... Although I was still very small then... I wanted to become the 2nd agbani darego but when I clocked 13 I was really fat... The fat has not left me since then.. I did everything so I could become slim... But nothing worked... So I chose another dream...

MZrapper:
I have two CARrots.

portune:
What sho6uld I do about this? I am gainfully employed. Gives her 60k for house upkeep. I buy bulk thinks like yam , rice, oil tomato etc. She locks shop on me always. I need your thoughts on this pls.

Always giving excuses. At night, "I am tired". In the morning, "go work abeg others have left and making money and you are here looking for who to ram."

Even few moments I press her to it she will insult me sotee my prick falls down.

prettysassygirl:
Won't this wish cause harm to all mentioned parties? Remember your wish mustn't cause harm to others.

nlPoster:
Interesting he refused to engage you after you told him you're Nigerian.

Perhaps he was Nigerian as well?

Princecanada:
Sex is cheap. Not looking for sex, but Love.

prettysassygirl:
Goodday y'all
In the light of the season and the spirit of Christmas,Santa is here to grant two wishes only.
Rules
1, Its gonna run from now till 31st and on the 31st night I would choose the two wishes to hon our.
2, The choosing is totally at my discretion and no person is allowed to judge my choices.
3, The sentence making up the wish should be no more than ten words.
4, No one is allowed to make more than one wish .
5, Nothing outrageous
6, Your wish shouldn't cause harm or have the intent to cause harm to others.
7, On 31st night,I am at the liberty to choose no wish,make my two wishes and honour them. But hopefully that won't happen cos I would be in the best of moods.
Alright then,the floor is open.Goodluck guys.

Princecanada:
Hi,
I will try to be as brief as possible. I am 25, an only Child who lost his Dad at the age of 5. Was brought up and trained by my Mom who is a Seamstress. My first ever love was in Secondary with a lady who comes from a family wealthier than mine. We were in love but then, I had esteem issues, was so ashamed of where I lived that I wouldn't let her pay me a visit when she wants to. I won't go into details, but I will like to say she is happily married now, and will still call each other and communicate as friends. She's the first Lady to show me so much love, and I can never forget that. Now that she is married, she is like a sister to me.
Through my University days, didn't really develop interest in any lady till I graduated. Served and started volunteering in an organization. Most often I have tried to start a relationship with ladies I admire, but even after they have said yes to me, a month or less later, the love dissipates and I quit the relationship. I feel guilty sometimes because these girls did nothing wrong. A major deal breaker for me is that once I discover that a lady is no longer a virgin, being a virgin myself I feel cheated and wouldn't want to proceed with the relationship. However, there is a lady I had a crush on, a virgin to mention, beautiful and young, she really loved me, and offered me her body when she slept over at my place through the night, I declined and didn't touch her because I felt she's not the right one for me. This is someone I really had affection for before. There were others who I could have laid but I didn't because I didn't find them worthy.
Being an only child of my Mom, she is on my neck to get married, and I really need to start a relationship to build our love before marriage. Education, literacy, and morals are important virtues I look for in a woman. There was this girl I asked out when I was in another town last year, she is a Homely, beautiful, and smart girl currently in the University. She accepted to date me but I have since lost interest in continuing with that relationship as I don't want any long distance relationship. She is pretty, educated, and beautiful. But then I don't know what my problem is.
I recently got a job in another state where I earn averagely 300k monthly. I am really interested in starting a relationship here but it seems I don't know what I want. Saw this girl in the church and she caught my attention. Besides the frequent eye contact every Sundays, I haven't really had the time to get to talk to her. And today, I wanted to have a moment with, greeted her younger sister who was more receptive and welcoming, and also greeted her to get her attention, but then she answered the greeting and walked away like she's trying to get away from me. She couldn't even look at me. I said to myself, I won't try again. Most ladies who tend to be interested in me are older than me as I am just 25, and as a result, I can't think of anything relationship with them. No matter how much I loved that girl, if she had even accepted to be my friend and we eventually start dating, the moment I find out she has no tertiary education, I quit that relationship. I am still a virgin because, I can't imagine sleeping with lady I know I don't want to wife.
Only one thing makes me sad at this stage of my life...I am not in love or in any serious relationship. Loneliness is eating me deep from inside out...

Princecanada:
Hi,
I will try to be as brief as possible. I am 25, an only Child who lost his Dad at the age of 5. Was brought up and trained by my Mom who is a Seamstress. My first ever love was in Secondary with a lady who comes from a family wealthier than mine. We were in love but then, I had esteem issues, was so ashamed of where I lived that I wouldn't let her pay me a visit when she wants to. I won't go into details, but I will like to say she is happily married now, and will still call each other and communicate as friends. She's the first Lady to show me so much love, and I can never forget that. Now that she is married, she is like a sister to me.
Through my University days, didn't really develop interest in any lady till I graduated. Served and started volunteering in an organization. Most often I have tried to start a relationship with ladies I admire, but even after they have said yes to me, a month or less later, the love dissipates and I quit the relationship. I feel guilty sometimes because these girls did nothing wrong. A major deal breaker for me is that once I discover that a lady is no longer a virgin, being a virgin myself I feel cheated and wouldn't want to proceed with the relationship. However, there is a lady I had a crush on, a virgin to mention, beautiful and young, she really loved me, and offered me her body when she slept over at my place through the night, I declined and didn't touch her because I felt she's not the right one for me. This is someone I really had affection for before. There were others who I could have laid but I didn't because I didn't find them worthy.
Being an only child of my Mom, she is on my neck to get married, and I really need to start a relationship to build our love before marriage. Education, literacy, and morals are important virtues I look for in a woman. There was this girl I asked out when I was in another town last year, she is a Homely, beautiful, and smart girl currently in the University. She accepted to date me but I have since lost interest in continuing with that relationship as I don't want any long distance relationship. She is pretty, educated, and beautiful. But then I don't know what my problem is.
I recently got a job in another state where I earn averagely 300k monthly. I am really interested in starting a relationship here but it seems I don't know what I want. Saw this girl in the church and she caught my attention. Besides the frequent eye contact every Sundays, I haven't really had the time to get to talk to her. And today, I wanted to have a moment with, greeted her younger sister who was more receptive and welcoming, and also greeted her to get her attention, but then she answered the greeting and walked away like she's trying to get away from me. She couldn't even look at me. I said to myself, I won't try again. Most ladies who tend to be interested in me are older than me as I am just 25, and as a result, I can't think of anything relationship with them. No matter how much I loved that girl, if she had even accepted to be my friend and we eventually start dating, the moment I find out she has no tertiary education, I quit that relationship. I am still a virgin because, I can't imagine sleeping with lady I know I don't want to wife.
Only one thing makes me sad at this stage of my life...I am not in love or in any serious relationship. Loneliness is eating me deep from inside out...

MZrapper:
You just had to quote me.

ikechukwu21:
This is a true evidence that most people don't read. How will you add value like this my man?

Preciousgirl:
I am buying a sewing machine for my husband.

And you?

ikechukwu21:
I am a man as you already can clearly see from my moniker so there's no need trying to get upset as though it was a woman who is writing this post just to defend her gender.

Few days ago this great post emerged on the front page https://www.nairaland.com/5585155/money-delaying-getting-married-read titled "If money is delaying you from getting married..." and I must say that I was impressed just like a whole lot of others too and we can judge by the almost 800 likes that post gathered. So why did that post gather so much likes? It is simply because the guy in question was bold enough to do what most men think is impossible. I read some comments on how that he will suffer and all that silly talk. Some even went as far as insulting him. But take it or leave it that post has changed a lot of wrong perceptions that has been formed by young people in our generation. I read that post carefully and I came up with few conclusions:

The young man claimed that the lady in question is a virgin. Now we know that a virgin who has reached the age of marriage is hard to come by. Why is this so? This is because of the high moral decadence in our generation. So for a lady to preserve herself for maybe over 25 years amidst the tension and pressure around her to conform is highly impressive. She must have sustained a very high level of discipline to be able to do that. So how can a guy who cannot even afford to raise 500k be able to get her to accept marrying him knowing very well that so many guys with much money had failed to convince her without any success? There could only be few reasons...

1. He must have something that is more valuable than money at the moment which is a sound mind. Now what is a sound mind? This is the ability for one to be able to develop their mind spiritually and physically. It is the ability to operate with a wisdom that is rare. It is the ability to see deep into people and be able to bring out the best in them. You see, it is impossible for you to encounter someone with a sound mind without being affected positively forever. A man with a sound mind has a plan for his life and knows how to go about it even though you may not always agree with his methods. A man with sound mind can be able to navigate life very well even without money and still have the required results he wants. A. Man with a sound mind is a leader. He knows what to do per time. He is hardly stranded nor confused. This is just to mention a few. Now as easy as this 'sounds', many people do not possess it. Most people have a mind but not a sound one. Women of this stature look for men with this kind of mindset. They need real men not grown up boys with some money to throw around.

2. Value: Anything with value naturally is expensive. What make a thing expensive? It is the fact that a lot of work and expertise was required to make it become unique.
Now a man of value has invested much in himself in terms of knowledge both spiritually and in other matters. Haven't you heard women pray for God to give them a God fearing man? He must not necessarily be a pastor but he must be a man who can be a priest to lead his family to God. But that's not all. Men of value are men who have subjected themselves to much learning hence are less ignorant about various aspects of life. Such men may not have money at the moment but give them time and you'll be surprised what they'll become.

3. Honesty: honesty is one thing that is rare in our generation. A man will hustle from Monday to Saturday only to squander all the money on a woman just to impress her; just to make her see him as a big boy which actually he isn't. Women of value can read through such men. Any woman you lose because you tell her your true financial state is not actually a good woman. She was there for your money.

4. Being a man of yourself: Most men are too clingy and insecured. They are like cry babies. They have no self control. They can hardly stay away from their woman for a whole day. Some men are too jealous and controlling. It's as if they don't have a life outside their relationship. A girl once told me that the guy she's dating is too nice and she always gets irritated with the way he clings to her. He can't seem to make any decisions on his own without consulting her first. She was even questioning whether he had any friends to hang out with apart from her. This guy was making serious money o. Sometimes he is even being paid in hard currecy. But guess what? She left him for me who didn't even have one naira to give her. I was even staying in a one room apartment then. If you see this babe ehn... Over fine and shape dey worry her.

5: She needs a partner not just a husband. A smart woman needs a man with whom she can work together with and who will also challenge her to grow not just a man who throws money at her face. Such men are rare.

Bonus:A man who is funny: Do you know that the most dangerous guys are not the ones with good looks or much money? They are the funny ones. They will keep making a woman laugh until she remove... . Lol funny but true. Now I'm not actually asking you to be a comedian but y please be cheerful and optimistic. Let your cheerfulness be contagious.

Let me stop here. Am tired of typing. But the main thing is don't try to be someone else. Improve yourself, work hard and get a woman when you're broke who will understand your life process and journey to wealth not juat a stranger you bring in when you have finally made the money and have become grandpa with semi white hair.

For those of you who wish to argue with me I have just one question for you: WAS YOUR FATHER A MILLIONAIRE BEFORE HE MARRIED YOUR MOTHER? THOSE WHO ARE MILLIONAIRES IN OUR GENERATION... ARE THEIR MARRIAGES AS PEACEFUL AND LONG LASTING AS THOSE OF OUR PARENTS WHO DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING BEFORE SETTING OUT IN LIFE?

If it was money that you used to attract a woman, you'll need more money to keep her and lest I forget... The day she sees a man who has more money than you do, if she has the opportunity she'll flee from you. Who no like better thing?

Young men please be guided. Not all women are motivated by money. There are women you can never get if the only thing you have to offer is money. Please become a person of value. At that point, money will matter less when a woman decides to stay with you. This is how good women think. Take it or leave it.

Ladylite:
I work in a hospital, you can come and you will know that your existence is a joke unless you believe in a higher intelligence

Hisduchess:
See the president of afonja republic wailing . Wail on sir.its well

Ladylite:
Buy a car of 650k and do Uber with it, either you drive or use higher purchase

Import phone and computer accessories from China ND sell. Since you are an engineer, to repair won't be an issue so you make more cash

Sit and think of what problems people in your community face and then provide the solutions and you will be paid.

For example, if you live around campus students simply sell wigs, phone gadgets, repair services etc.

All these things should not cost above 1million and keep the rest or invest it with in very safe investments like treasury bills or others.

Ellaelite:
They are still beta than u dat is displaying stupidity here.

BlackBigBlog:
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Manynations:
My conscience has been unsettled... I have to confess and say the truth now..

Ladylite:
Dumb dude. Atlanta Georgia, you are not even in London.

Fake nihggas everywhere

Ladylite:
Chill bloke am not always in Nigeria. Am currently in Atlanta

YOU LIE..first u say u in canada..now u in Atlantis.
....too many chicks lying to impress juss coz i drive £40'000 (cash) BMW & am from London (shaking my head twice)

Hisduchess:
My thought exactly

Ladylite:
Hello bros.

I salute your government

We don't usually greet in Georgia