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Abetterperson:
I'm not joking at all. I have always suffered from depression. My ex, whom I dated as a teenager, caused me trauma, which led to depression and a craving for love. I lost my virginity to him, got pregnant, and had to abort the baby. He blamed me for the abortion, saying he wanted to be a father, even though he didn't have a job and I was in university. He wanted me to keep the baby, drop out of school, and be with a jobless man. I tolerated him despite this.

Since the abortion, I have been going from hospital to hospital, spending my own money trying to find a cure because I no longer menstruate normally. This year, after years of dating, he said he is no longer interested and doesn't like me anymore. I laughed, but I'm already depressed and have had chronic depression for years. This period has been the worst, and I'm going through everything alone.

He isn't giving me money for treatment and keeps blocking me. I have already made up my mind to commit suicide, which is something I am at peace with.
Have already made plans on how everything will go tomorrow
Tomorrow I will speak to a friend of his, and if he's mentality hasn't changed
Well our stories we be all over the news
Too sad we wouldn't be able to read it

PS..he said he wanted to baby but took me to do the abortion, paid the nurse
Dude is just looking for excuse
Because he is a guy, he thinks he can just move on, he messed with the wrong person

Offpointng:
Of lately I've read several post of Open disturbing Questions of If a guy needs help, who does he run to for help??

This is the sad reality of an average Male child in our world today. We just have ourselves and God for help and that, if God doesn't come through for us, the ugly situation either end us or we just overcome it anyhow and in anyway.

So this evening, I passed by this guy to enter a bus home, Nigga probably just closed from work and was heading home, but looked really stranded. I could see it in his eyes he was kinda shy to ask the ladies passing to enter the Bus so he just stood there waiting if hope will come his way. Cuz of fuel issues, T fare got doubled from the regular 250 to 500 this past week, but nigga had just #100 on him. he looked to try his luck by asking me sharply if I could pls assist him. he asked in a way that if I had said I no get, he wouldn't really be embarrassed cuz ion think those in the bus heard him.

With all smile, I told him no problem boss, enter mai we go. Nigga just kept thanking me and still did when he alighted. Tho the help rendered was very small but I felt very happy I didn't look away from my fellow guy's current predicament.

My conscience did pricked me tho cuz I should have just paid everything and asked him to keep the cash he had, probably for tomorrow. but what can I do? I realised after he had left.

I made a promise to myself and I'd swear to fulfil it, that, when God blesses me, I'm going on a Guy's development campaign and may God help me with it. What's the morale behind my story;

Pls guys in any way you can be of assistance to your fellow Nigga, either its thr oppurtunities or financial aid, pls don't hesitate to, Men go thr a whole lot in life and There's a sad saying that goes Na only God dey help man pikin for this life. Shout out to every real Bro on the planet, sending y'all Peace and love.

Offpointng:
Of lately I've read several post of Open disturbing Questions of If a guy needs help, who does he run to for help??

This is the sad reality of an average Male child in our world today. We just have ourselves and God for help and that, if God doesn't come through for us, the ugly situation either end us or we just overcome it anyhow and in anyway.

So this evening, I passed by this guy to enter a bus home, Nigga probably just closed from work and was heading home, but looked really stranded. I could see it in his eyes he was kinda shy to ask the ladies passing to enter the Bus so he just stood there waiting if hope will come his way. Cuz of fuel issues, T fare got doubled from the regular 250 to 500 this past week, but nigga had just #100 on him. he looked to try his luck by asking me sharply if I could pls assist him. he asked in a way that if I had said I no get, he wouldn't really be embarrassed cuz ion think those in the bus heard him.

With all smile, I told him no problem boss, enter mai we go. Nigga just kept thanking me and still did when he alighted. Tho the help rendered was very small but I felt very happy I didn't look away from my fellow guy's current predicament.

My conscience did pricked me tho cuz I should have just paid everything and asked him to keep the cash he had, probably for tomorrow. but what can I do? I realised after he had left.

I made a promise to myself and I'd swear to fulfil it, that, when God blesses me, I'm going on a Guy's development campaign and may God help me with it. What's the morale behind my story;

Pls guys in any way you can be of assistance to your fellow Nigga, either its thr oppurtunities or financial aid, pls don't hesitate to, Men go thr a whole lot in life and There's a sad saying that goes Na only God dey help man pikin for this life. Shout out to every real Bro on the planet, sending y'all Peace and love.

BigBasher:
So, in your mind, 'buying pucccccci' is the same as buying love.

You are far from the truth.

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

Peterodion49:
Please can I find true love DM me on Whatsapp 08171096446 I reside in Abuja

OT2024:
"Tayo, I'm on my way," T.K, my brother, called out from the sitting room.

It was Monday morning and the time was about five a.m. He always said this Monday to Friday, about the same time. T.K was on his way to work on Lagos Island and he must leave home early. He was a chartered accountant with an audit firm, while I, his junior brother, was still jobless.

I left the bedroom, went to the sitting room, and followed him to the exit door to the apartment.

"Have a nice day at work, brother," I said, wishing him well.

He nodded and smiled. That was one good thing about him. He was always looking jovial.

"Have a nice day too," he said.

I locked the door after he had gone and returned to the bedroom. It was a two-bedroom apartment and I was 'privileged' to be given a room.

I knew sleep would not come again that morning. I would just loiter in bed until I would get up to take my bath.

I intended to go out that morning in search of a job. I did this regularly. At twenty-five and a graduate, I was still searching for work two years after graduation. I had read Economics and I had always believed that in spite of all the obstacles and economic travails bedevilling Nigeria, I would get a befitting job. I never stopped believing that.

By eight o'clock that morning, I was set to leave the apartment. I was dressed in casual jeans and t-shirt. In my hand was a black folder in which I kept photocopies of my credentials.

Today must be very good for me by the power of almighty God, I said in my heart. I indeed believed something good would happen that that as I stepped out of the house.

OT2024:
"Tayo, I'm on my way," T.K, my brother, called out from the sitting room.

It was Monday morning and the time was about five a.m. He always said this Monday to Friday, about the same time. T.K was on his way to work on Lagos Island and he must leave home early. He was a chartered accountant with an audit firm, while I, his junior brother, was still jobless.

I left the bedroom, went to the sitting room, and followed him to the exit door to the apartment.

"Have a nice day at work, brother," I said, wishing him well.

He nodded and smiled. That was one good thing about him. He was always looking jovial.

"Have a nice day too," he said.

I locked the door after he had gone and returned to the bedroom. It was a two-bedroom apartment and I was 'privileged' to be given a room.

I knew sleep would not come again that morning. I would just loiter in bed until I would get up to take my bath.

I intended to go out that morning in search of a job. I did this regularly. At twenty-five and a graduate, I was still searching for work two years after graduation. I had read Economics and I had always believed that in spite of all the obstacles and economic travails bedevilling Nigeria, I would get a befitting job. I never stopped believing that.

By eight o'clock that morning, I was set to leave the apartment. I was dressed in casual jeans and t-shirt. In my hand was a black folder in which I kept photocopies of my credentials.

Today must be very good for me by the power of almighty God, I said in my heart. I indeed believed something good would happen that that as I stepped out of the house.

aisha1314:
I don't give a shit what society expects. You should live life your way and not give a damn what anyone thinks, as long as you don't hurt anyone.
It's good to be a non conformist.

Davoneskay:
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A4alpha:
There is not like jokingly here, he should confront the MF and warn him to stay away and never ever give lift, make sure this warning is recorded, you might need it later. Men should learn to maintain boundary and don't cross the redline. Op that's (most) women for you, they try to downplay their idiocy making it look less an offence cos that's their current state of mind as they try to filter, digest and validate their next line of action while hanging onto an excuse to finally cheat. heating her to her means validation and a big push to fall into the MF hands.
Journey of a 100 miles start with one step, from dropping her off to picking her from your house and next show of effection to her family in other to win her over. Note, the easiest way to a woman's heart is through her children (just be kind and friendly with her kids then identify with the husband).

Her eye don dey outside already just watch and monitor her to find good ground to finally dump her arse. Meanwhile hitting her is so wrong and it's totally foolish to do so. you fit woza her a life changing hot slap or two then bounce and go somewhere and chill.

Surface2AirToto:
Nairalanders, please help me ohh, my wife wants to destroy our marriage and she sees nothing wrong in what she's doing.

It's been two weeks now since the first day a guy at her place of work started dropping her off with his car when they close from work. First it was just dropping her off after work, now it has graduated and the same said guy has started picking her up from our marital home. I asked what was it all about and if she knew and told the guy she was married with a child, she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend, i kept calm ohh, until on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me. We had a serious argument that turned physical and she has refused to talk to me ever since, no longer cooks before she leaves home anymore, even our baby she barely gives attention. Please Nairalanders i need your advice because i don't want to do what's in my mind right now because somebody might get hurt.

Leemzyy:
Hmmm go marry and stop spoiling people's daughter

Prettygirl200:
I had a dream that Nigeria was divided and it was so real, frankly speaking one Nigeria is not working, we have tried to love each other, we've tried to remain united but each time we try the northeners are always against it, since we have tried this method for deacades and it isn't working then division is the best option.
Imagine a country with over 300 tribes, a country that one part of it's region opresses the other, a country where there's isn't love you expect that country to be one and grow? NO!!!

A wrong foundation has been laid already by the colonies and the only way to correct it is through division, the northerners feel they love themselves so much and they also feel they are entitled to everything in this nation therefore it's better they go their way so they can use that entitlement mentality and religious bigotry to rule themselves.
The igobos should also get their own country, I know and I believe they will do absolutely well if they form their own nation bc they are intelligent people. The yorubas too since most of them are divided amongst themselves it's also better they go their way. While we the south will do well and manage our oil well.
This is just the thought have always had and have always wished for, if this forthcoming election is rigged there might be war and it will cause the division cause we already know who the winner is ,have had this dreams severally. If it's not rigged and the man that the youths wants emerges he will rule and after his tenure this division will still happen, WHY? Bc ONENESS isn't WORKING!! This is my thoughts and wishes don't know about you!!!

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AngelSlay:
You don't even know how to write good English.

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aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

AngelSlay:
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paxx:
She keeps on telling me she wants to have abortion even though I said I would support her 100%...

paxx:
She keeps on telling me she wants to have abortion even though I said I would support her 100%...

Nataliace:
I know that times are hard now and some people finds it difficult to feed.

I am inspired to do this because I have met alot of people who finds it very difficult to feed. How can I contribute my own quota to the society and extend hand of help to those who are far? This is the means to reach out to the needy.

I will be giving N2000 to each person who's in need and shows interest. Please note that this giveaway is strictly limited to the ones who can't feed themselves regularly. Also note that I can't give you more than N2000 regardless of your financial challenges. Also note that you may not get it immediately I get to hear from you.


Make sure you quote me here before you send me pm. I will not entertain anyone who pm me without quoting me here.


Thank you.

Nataliace:
I know that times are hard now and some people finds it difficult to feed.

I am inspired to do this because I have met alot of people who finds it very difficult to feed. How can I contribute my own quota to the society and extend hand of help to those who are far? This is the means to reach out to the needy.

I will be giving N2000 to each person who's in need and shows interest. Please note that this giveaway is strictly limited to the ones who can't feed themselves regularly. Also note that I can't give you more than N2000 regardless of your financial challenges. Also note that you may not get it immediately I get to hear from you.


Make sure you quote me here before you send me pm. I will not entertain anyone who pm me without quoting me here.


Thank you.

StPete:
One beggar spotted above 😑