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elantraceey:
it's been hours, where's it?

elantraceey:
it's been hours, where's it?

RichardFuld:
The idea of having an orgasm or feeling arousal during rape or molestation is a confusing and difficult one for many people, both survivors and secondary-survivors (friends/family). Many do not believe it's possible for a woman or man to achieve orgasm during rape or other kinds of sexual assault. Some believe having an orgasm under these circumstances means that it wasn't a "real" rape or the woman/man "wanted" it.

The studies and reports on physical response to molestation and rape shows numbers ranging from 20% to over 50% of survivors having this experience. That this is not an exact figure shows the need there is for more and better research.

This is not a topic often open for discussion even within the mental health community and there is concern that raising it outside the professional community will lead to misinterpretation and misunderstanding (e.g., the myth(fact?) of victims "enjoying rape." It's also one reason why there isn't more research done on this and similar topics.

ladyteska:
none of the two

ladyteska:
none of the two

Geestunnar:
Crackhead?? Same oll sh1t, be nice and I will post you 5pence to buy food. Hungry scalamofik mosquito looking dude

Geestunnar:
Same thing with you, fake AH

Geestunnar:
Yeah I am, the question should be are you OK?
Abumikey you can go about deceiving others but not me. Gerrit(no offense)

Geestunnar:
Yeah I am, the question should be are you OK?
Abumikey you can go about deceiving others but not me. Gerrit(no offense)

runnazz:
like i give a sh1t

runnazz:
yeah Fck u too London rat..run to ur rat hole

runnazz:
hahahaha Just been confirmed Mrcock is a mad,raving Lunatic on the loose...chaii i pity the ppl that are looking up to u sha..wasted sperm,wasted yrs,wasted breadth...do urself a favor son..drop dead or i come kill u myself!!!

runnazz:
hahaahhahaha.see ur level? i thought as much...another lowlife punk.How can £10 buy a suit...u no even get small sense no need to waste time on u keep ur filthy 10 or use am fck those cheap hookers make konji no kill u

runnazz:
MrCork abi Mrcock, u still dey fool yourself with this ur London fever na wah oo. How much u even get for bank or ur narrow mind dey tell u say u get to be Uk based to get money...I mean which kind work u dey do for the "so called London" ...maybe its been long since u came to naija make u see men & young boys when dey control money..i know ur type bush man & i hear say na spare parts u dey sell for east come Nl dey form UK boy...Money no dey London & even if u dey there sef i bet u never ever enter any better place there probably staying in one low cost shitty crib...see what u made me do now & i promised not to be using abusive words on my fellow NLer's..u better start mingling with better ppl there or u go old dey brag about London when time dey pass u by

skyfullofstars:
If thats a joke it is a disgusting one.

Geestunnar:
Abumikey, I see you

stupidity:
Please pardon my moniker, I am more than serious with this post. Your advice is needed. And please don't try to point out my "gbagauns".

We knew each other in class(course mates) we started off from helping each other with class works and assignment. From there we started visiting each others house and spend time together, some of my friends even thought I was dating her. Later I started having feelings for her, and I wanted to ask her out but I noticed something about her, she welcomes too much guys into her social life, she doesn't have a female friend, only guys. Almost every guy in my faculty(not only department) wants her as a girlfriend or sex-mate. when taking a walk with her, she will excuse me like almost 9/10 of guys that passes by to greet them. When she's at my home, her phone is more than a business line. Always guys asking her where she is and inviting her over, at times she leaves my place to another guy(s) house after receiving the call. She also spends weekends at these guy(s) place, she doesn't sleep her room at night, she said she's scared of sleeping alone, rather she sleeps at her lodge mates room(a guy) its soo annoying and too much from her. Though I don't know if she's having sex with these guys, I am trying not to believe she's sleeping with them. But she spent the night at my place yesterday and we had sex. After the sex it got me thinking she might be giving these guys too. I am trying not to believe it, I think she's just being jovial and friendly type. I want to make things official with this girl, I want to make her my girlfriend but how can I change her from this her lifestyle? It kills me with jealousy. I confided in a friend and he insisted I take my "share" and let go of her or continue being a "share holder". I don't want it that way. I love her, though am yet to tell her. What if I advice her and she makes me her enemy? She might think its because we had sex that prompt me to come up with such advice. Please how do I advice her and how can I change her lifestyle?? I am in love!!!

elantraceey:
So you mean you can get Apple pie and chicken fried burger at a supermarket? Else I don't see the reason why you have to make the emphasis that its not a supermarket.

Unibenstudent:
I do notice some girls giving some guys hugs freely but when it comes to some set of guys,she will say she doesn't hug guys,ladies what's up,what's happening nah?

elantraceey:
Now we're back to where we started, you need to learn how to talk to a woman.

dharay99:

I say datz an impossible yes

Danhumprey:
I'm fine. Where can we talk? Our usual platform seem to have gone dormant.

elantraceey:
I rather impress my dog than to impress you .