₦airaland Forum

McSquishi:
Now when a woman says something like “don’t date a man who can’t assist you urgently if you ran out of cash today” or “I dated a guy and dropped him when he couldn’t give me money” then you will call her a liability and a gold-digger. You will tell her not to look for ready made men but help build one up

I swear hypocrites are everywhere

It’s now ok for men to be looking for women with money who can give them urgent 5k

Well, women are good at twisting words just like you did but I'll quote you.

Your statement will only be valid if the ladies take care of thier guys because logically he was referring to guys whom we know always do all it takes to meet at least a few of their girlfriends need. You can still twist this as well.

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The only funny thing

"Take us back to where you picked us from. We don't want improvement again"

You have a good heart and may God accept your soul. Amen. You will surely get a good post in heaven for your good deeds

No news again on nairaland. A recycling of the old book

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If your song is wack then congratulation

Na wack song dey sell for we country

warrenweste:
Is Hugo diamond the same with HugoExpress?

Check if both of them have the same setup then conclude

Yesterday was like this

You dey learn work

The confidence this lady showed here shows that she's been doing it for long.

If you say this thing no sweet or what is the big deal?
My answer for you is simple.

POVERTY GO KILL YOU.

humilitypays:
Your case maybe different from his so don't use your case to judge and to advice him to follow your path which may not work for him.


Maybe you have good friends and family members who contributed to your wedding success....some people don't have anybody, in fact some guys are the lifeline of their generation; every family member is looking up to them, so how do you expect such guy to get married with empty pocket



The time has come for we Nigerians to realize that the life of a man or woman is not tied to marriage. Although I won't advice any lady to remain single if she can find a husband because it is more honorable for a lady to be married than to remain forever single.......marriage helps replenishes women......but for guys, they need to get their financial life sorted out to a good extent before embarking on that journey called marriage.


Paying house rent, taking good care of a newborn, helping his wife's family side (it must come so long as you are a Nigerian), etc all come with a financial burden that requires adequate preparation to avoid early death rampant among Nigerian men.

If you check, life expectancy for Nigerian men is around 53yrs while in USA its 78yrs and Ethiopia is 66yrs.

This point should be in front page.

setobaba:
Hello Nairalanders,

I’m 30yrs of age, and I never for once consider getting married, I lost interest totally, but this should incase i decide to tie the nut, how much should I have in my bank account to be on safer side before dragging myself into a life time contract with someone else daughter??

I currently own a car, and managing a salon plus other bussiness thag comes once a while, I’m working towards having a building of my own before getting married, but you see the country is so messed up right now that building a three bed room apartment for yourself is so difficult.
Families and friends are dragging me to get married without considering my financial status, they all felt I have what it takes to get myself a wife......lol tho I’m not moved or shake by their claims but I really need to know this.

Can one settle down with an available balance of a million naira and feel safe?

If you recently get married here, can you pls do a cost implication of the said wedding and cost of running your marriage since inception??
Many guys are scared, I swear

When I was reading this I thought I was the one that typed all this. I am 30 as well, own a car and salon. Lolz. Such is life bro. I have a girlfriend I intend to settle down with but in two years time hopefully. By God's grace.

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derrick015:
Good morning.

Please I need suggestions.

What kind of prayers should I pray when the temptation arises, which Bible verse should I read?

Please know this is someone who's been addicted to porn for more than 7 years.

Please note that most pornstars were injected and enslaved to do the act. It's called human trafficking. Avoid watching this slaves cause they wouldn't have done the act if they were not injected. So many innocent women out there. There is an American movie(can't recall the name) that exposed this based on a true life story.

TheManOfTheYear:
There's this girl I wanted to go out with this weekend, but when I did a due diligence on my account balance, I decided it was not worth it.

I mean what the hell do I really need a relationship for? When all they do is drain your pocket and we have many issues and problems to worry about, we are still struggling to get on our feet and stuffs like that.

Relationship just isn't worth it for now.

You just spoilt her dream of taking shawama and icecream on first date. Something she will hardly want to buy with her money. Men done wise up Sha.

Get your PVC everyone. I am voting for any youth that wants to change the country to a better place. Please don't join APC or PDP cause they've failed us. We are too old to be fooled.

If this is not yet the end of the world I wonder how it will be when the world eventually comes to an end. A world without God, a world without grace. Imagine lawlessness, imagine hellfire.

I don't care if it exists or not but what I'm seeing alone shows that the heart of a wicked man can never be controlled.

Oh God please forgive me and my family including those who understand and doesn't want to face your absence in their lives. Please forgive us all.

If this is not yet the end of the world I wonder how it will be when the world eventually comes to an end. A world without God, a world without grace. Imagine lawlessness, imagine hellfire.

I don't care if it exists or not but what I'm seeing alone shows that the heart of a wicked man can never be controlled.

Oh God please forgive me and my family including those who understand and doesn't want to face your absence in their lives. Please forgive us all.

Henix:
Do we still have a President in this country? Can't he address the nation and see how he can calm down the situation? What is really happening at Aso Rock? Nawaooooo

I guess they are still practicing how to stage the fake Buhari as usual.

The thought about what is currently going on in Nigeria is making me feel depressed

I love that guy's placard which says
"60 years old but still crawling"

What a shame.

I weep for our generation ruled by dark heartless leaders who does everything for their own selfish interest. What a country.

Las Las Na scam but we go still Kuma buy am for fun

I think Stanbic as well cause I've not been able to login. Kept saying error in network

Because of this video self Buhari fit increase this SARS to double. Foolish excuse.

PoliticallyInco:
Give a lady money? How many ladies have given me money and who says I have to give a lady money.

These ladies have hands,legs and brains. So why should they be a charity case? God forbid I raise daughters this way. Just because nature gave you a few features to enable you bear babies, you have turned it into a commercial venture? If nature wanted you to rely on men so much it would have not provided you with arms, legs and a brain. One was quoted as saying girls are now wise, they are following the money. That is wisdom? Well okay. If stupid things make you happy who am I to talk. As long as you aren't getting the money from me and as long as you don't come complaining when your economic master that you are a slave to treats you like shit because he pays the bill, then I have no problems with your decision. Enjoy.

Or are we saying the society affects girls so much that they become mentally retarded at making ends meet? Are we saying the society has stunted their mental and psychological development to such a grave extent of mental retardation that they can't possibly work to make their own money and use it as they will. Was a curse placed on them never to make their own money and spend it how they like? Do they enjoy being economic slaves? Recently a lady said most young girls/students will die of hunger if married men remained faithful to their wives. While I am no saint, it is not that these girls will die of hunger. THEY WILL DIE FROM GREED! GREED FROM WANTING THINGS THEY CANT AFFORD AND HENCE NOT LIVING WITHIN THEIR MEANS.

I will screenshot all of this, print out and paste it on my wall for myself, and my future kids. Thanks a lot

That means she deserves another award.