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MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

Stomoney:
Almost what happens to me bro. (10years relationship) We both lived together in osun state before i was transfereed to ogun state. Last year we had introduction and planning to have our wedding this year but unfortunately i lost my job early this year. Before I knew it she started giving attitude after I lost my job, it got to a stage where she receive calls distance far from me and i began suspicious of she having another relationship. One day I caught her red handed Omo that day eh I lost myself I couldn't control myself; my legs were shaking , i confronted her and she cried n pleaded. Told her mom about her doing but couldnt narrate to my family because I was in love, so we continue again. A month later, i travelled to ibadan from osun for another interview of which she knew about and thank god i got employed that same day. I started calling my babe Immediately i left their office to tell her how everything went but to no avail.
I got so worried when I got home and i was told she said she was travelling to Lagos. Till now I couldnt here from her.
lots happenf after her traveling to Lagos which almost separated her parents but na dia wahala

Relationship ended

last month i was packing my luggage trying to relocate to ibadan, omo come see several packs of used postinor under wardrobe cabinet
That babe almost finish me but God saved me.

Ever since then, nigga don wise
Nigga be fuxking those holes hard
Nigga be making more money
Nigga gotten so many investment

No love for Niger just make more money
Live good

phorget:
Make una no marry liability una no go hear...
Why should I be the one to set up a lady? What has her parents been doing? And such parents will still expect me to pay bride price o.

soundOsonic:
The First step to solving a problem is that you know you have a problem. That's a good step already. You are making progress.
You are jealous because of how you were brought up. Your parents or guardians or teachers would have been comparing you to other kids.
It only takes a hit at your self esteem. Rather than celebrating others what you think is "this could have been me." It is not an emotion that propel you out of mediocrity but that which makes you wallow in bitterness. Most Nigerians suffer from this syndrome.
You don't hate others for being successful, No, what you hate is yourself for not been successful.
First understand your yourself, your strength and weakness, make goals that are achievable to make small wins to build up positive mindset. Know your limit and work towards self development.
The journey of success is not a race. It is a climb to the top of a mountain. The people who are celebrated are not those who come first or second but those who finally made it and manage to reach the top

Missyajoke:
People rejecting you may sometimes be God communicating to you to wait and be patient. Mike Bamiloye Then said he asked a lots of ladies out they all rejected him with one excuse or another or it may simply means you have a spiritual problem or there's a mark on you. You see sometimes we should thank God for the ones we miss and wait for the one we will meet. Some people are called destiny stoppers, if you marry them your life will be stagnant and you will never move forward and as a result you will be stagnant for life if you marry them. Some People are Glory emptiers once they marry you like this everything that has been sweet will turn sour, we've seen rich men becoming poor by marrying such and a whole lot more. Sometimes God may be using that to communicate a wait for you.


My humble and honest opinion though, call me a religious freak I don't care

Jeremani:
No what am thinking is that what if she end up not getting the complete fee and then time for payment closed

thesicilian:
Most wise people prefer to save their moneys in assets such as lands and landed properties, stocks, mutual funds, bonds, profit yielding businesses etc instead of bank accounts.

Obina6295:
Read below it

EnemyofGod22:


God and satan doesn't exist

Know this and have peace of mind.

mannasseh:
I need to build more interest in football, how can I achieve this ?

Sebastine1994:
I see some people saying falz should be president or prime minister,

Let us be realistic, will falz make a Good president?.

No I can't vote for falz, please don't make another mistake, Greece voted a comedian, today they regret it.

Pakistan voted a cricket player, théy regret it.

Falz should first change his local government, charity begins at home

Liberia voted a footballer, they regret it

America voted a clown and today they regret it.

MrToothBrush:
Did you later see this troll

UndauntedYOCA:
Maybe a research should be conducted then. People use people and that's just the truth. Some men have also destroyed the lives of some women.
What I'm not so cool with is making one gender look like they're saints while making the other look terrible and I also mean it with some ladies making it look like all men are the same, like they're cheats, users, rapists etc. I won't support a gender at the detriment of the other.
Unless everyone in the world is asked to tell their story, you won't know the ratio. Society is messed up, some ladies won't tell their stories neither will some men but no particular gender is good, no particular gender is bad, each is responsible for his/her actions, not their gender.

Tmo4:
Lag they learn, com to Abj na.oga am into cctv have actually work for the likes of.....ATIKU, nd is son, danbazou( the formal minister of interior) all the service chiefs. Have works in an estate one building is sold for 150million nd the man built 200pieces.not to mention some unknown billionaire.

slydog:
What kind of jobs have u been applying for?
We must not all work in offices and knot tie.
After nysc, I immediately picked up secondary sch teaching job, 40k. Money I made from nysc I used in picking up msc form. I was teaching in secondary, doing msc and ofcourse missing classes, but was also making money doing lessons for students. All the while I kept applying for jobs.
I wrote recruitment test for FBN, spdc, mtn, vmobile, stanbic ibtc, standard chartered Bank and union Bank. It was when I started writing my thesis that Union Bank clicked for me. 1 year inside union Bank, msc done and dusted. Immediately I picked up PhD forms. Years down the line I'm a PhD holder.
Morale? Get busy.
Applying for jobs is not an excuse to be idle. Schools just resumed, send your CV to schools you'll be surprised. I advised someone on this, she got two offers. One sch paying 35k and another paying 50k. She took the 50k. Weeks later, she told me that teachers make cash from lesson in the sch, lesson there is 20k per month, gather 3 students do lesson for them and you are paying yourself.

Funny enough you studied Chemistry and education I think, wtf are u looking for with a safety certificate when your line is education and you can use that as a spring board? Except you really don't know Chemistry well, do you know how many parents will pay for lessons for their science kids to study Chemistry and physics? Dude,....

Realdeals:
On the island, If you don't have at least 3k, you cannot feed yourself good meals daily.

house10s:
because u dey like dey house early doesn't mean every one will b doing same