₦airaland Forum

ngmgeek:
And we now have to worry about everything any twitters use says.

How did we get here, NAIRALAND?

My broda, e taya me no be small

Where are the tweets...mtshew..

It is a shade to d stone age men who believe their women must wash their clothes, even wt hand.

STALE NEWS...

Silvereze:
That's good.. Is the rice produced in our country. Thanks for answering

Yep. Locally. Kebbi state farm the rice in agreement with LASG.

soulpeppersoup:
There are good but lack integration. A few people are building a new Lagos and alienating the real Lagos. It will be horrible when it get half way complete.

A visionary government integrate the old into the new.

Restructuring what you have is the key not creating new things. The people are looking for good water, road network, power, housing, internet, cooking gas etc. There are not looking for better looking estates.

These basic amenities can easily be integrated into the existing system by any visionary government.

Which government even reason in this line by the way?

So sorry, which part of Lagos you resides? Just before we come on here to spew ignorance. At least observe, understand what is happening around and then query if you a different view. All dat u mentioned above are presently being delivered, in the case of water, the state is already on that. Government is continuity, and understand that the scale of the infrastructure provisions with the budgetary implication is what set the tone for priorities and progress and its successful completion.

soulpeppersoup:
Lol! Lagos is a mega city in Nigerian concept. There is nothing city like about any city in Nigeria. We live here in deception because we like competition and fighting to prove we are better than the rest.

What u called Nigerian concept is a blueprint and it is a basis for continuous improvement with time, a case in view, is the 2nd BRT scheme. Bro, we can deceive ourselves but when there is an observable movement in the direction we have long expected let's appreciate and encourage it. Rome was not built in a day , America u employed as ur benchmark was not packaged and dropped from heaven. My bro, wait till u become a governor or president of this country some day and let's have your wizard approach to solving Nigeria'S problems in 4 maybe your 8 years rule. Have a wonderful xmas, broda.

He didn't realised he was him....I can tell.

Silvereze:
I wanna get this straight... is Lagos state Government sharing free rice to its indigenes?

Nope. LASG is selling her locally produced rice at 12k against the 19k imported.

soulpeppersoup:
Vision can do it. Even Lagos has not articulated vision. It is just a product of accidental fortune. Nigeria as a whole lack vision for development.

If I may ask, what is Lagos vision for the next 10 year with realistic goals.

Really?.....let me help u, the mega city idea was accidental to u. Or LASG woke up suddenly and started laying rail track or the BRT was a stumbled vision. When u see tinubu fashola Ambode alongside alhaji Lateef jakande of different eras, launching project together. What is that, stumbled across vision to u? U need hot slap.

A won oloshi, light nor dey as I type......wait.....

Her name is Jumoke Orisaguna not ex bread seller, stop addressing her that way, pls

HBD Oga Danjuma

Nice one.....way to go Nigerians. Nigeria Market is large for easy competition among of any automotive manufacturers....Let's buy our own.

Less we forget the 'incorruptible judge ' back in our days at secondary school.

Pls don't refer to us as 'members of the public ' - we are Nigerians

My fear for Christianity in Africa is such misguided practice that faded the traditional religion, may eventually occur. The reason the traditional African religion is repulsive is because of enemy vs enemy approach which in turn made it repulsive and evil. Hence, the advent of Christianity and Muslim, I can tell the future of these two religion would be determined by these misguided practice. Note, terrorism and fighting enemies with destructive prayers are synonymous. I rest my case.

Oluwa alaye...wetin? see many pple viewing ds topic

hybeenoni:
Truth is the north doesn't even pity nor like itself.
It rather prefer to use BBOG as a political tool just to gain power but now condemn the same BBOG, does this same region deserve people's sympathy?

The north brought this calamity upon itself!!!

true bro, the same way the avengers are, the black minds left me bewildered.

Kaduna
Kano
Katsina(NYSC)
Lagos
Oyo
Osun
Ogun
Edo
Rivers
Ondo
Ekiti
FCT
Kwara
Kogi
Niger
Jigawa
Nassarawa

of cos .... since Don Trump... Nigerian will make a version of any US trend sha....

Una own sef too mush...wetin concern u

So some1 was christened John 'Gboyega' and oyibo man turn am to Boyega, he came to Nigeria and we follow dey call am Boyega....hmmm. SMH cos he's fame..Hypocrisy

That's so true....many of all this guys i.e artisans, traffic hawkers etc. are earning far more than some of us on regular pay jobs, the white collar shitty job , you argue wt ur sef but first do the calculation on their daily earnings and make their profit deduction.

Mc4larin:
Today is my birthday, please wish me success!

Happy birthday.

as long as i dont condone such act....where is the battery? Abegi....Police sef

edwife:
Thank you very much for this post, no wonder we have a lot of angry,frustrated and nasty people in Nigeria."No one cares because they have been through worst" you will hear many Nigerians say. Human compassion is close to nothing.

This guy doesn't just need "forgive and move on because he is an adult" ,this is just one of the many steps he should take.
He needs psychological help.

His childhood was chartered by many events ranging from:

-his mother's abuse
-His mother's abandonment
-His father bringing in different women at such a tender age
-Him being sexually abused

-Lack of love
-Lack of a normal childhood
-Fending for himself at such a tender age

He had a rough childhood and still he has no one to turn to. He did more than enough in giving himself education and being responsible not many came this far.

Dear lollmaolol, what you need now is a professional to speak to.Don not ignore it and "just shake it off".It is not something you can shake off because you are an adult.Seek professional help, you need to heal psychologically and mentally.

Family history of violence, sexual abuse by a female, maternal neglect, and lack of supervision were all associated with a threefold-increased risk that the abused would become an abuser.

You might not see it now but you will end up having trust issues in your own word:


A wife won't bring nothing to you no matter how good she is,do not marry until you sort yourself out.Leave women alone for now.

For your parents, you should talk to them and let them know how you truly feel, then tell them that they should let you sort yourself out first and that you will communicate with them when you feel you are ready,how long it will take you to forgive them and get over that it is entirely based on how well you feel. Healing is a long process and should never be rushed.

I wish you well and I appreciate you courage to come forward and seek help ,it is a great step to your healing journey.
May you find closure and become the man you want to be.

You ultimately spoke well on this issue..as a matter of fact, @op story is an inch close to mine, and it's such a terrible one at that...his courage to seek advise thru ds medium had inspired me. I will like to share mine and how well am doing on the path to healing which had started for quite a while, having listen to pro advice just like urs.

Another salient point u made - A wife won't bring nothing to you no matter how good she is,do not marry until you sort yourself out.Leave women alone for now. See, i was going to get married early enough and put all behind me just so I can focus on my life...I felt a deep inside that this hurt may affect my marriage as a matter of fact, it affected the relationship - going - to marriage I had then. I used to say to a childhood friend that making the mistake of my parents will be my worst misery in life and can actually take my life. am not married but I passionately do not wish my wife and kids to go thru what i am going thru. Let's put it to a stop here. Thanks for ur advice.

edwife:
Thank you very much for this post, no wonder we have a lot of angry,frustrated and nasty people in Nigeria."No one cares because they have been through worst" you will hear many Nigerians say. Human compassion is close to nothing.

This guy doesn't just need "forgive and move on because he is an adult" ,this is just one of the many steps he should take.
He needs psychological help.

His childhood was chartered by many events ranging from:

-his mother's abuse
-His mother's abandonment
-His father bringing in different women at such a tender age
-Him being sexually abused

-Lack of love
-Lack of a normal childhood
-Fending for himself at such a tender age

He had a rough childhood and still he has no one to turn to. He did more than enough in giving himself education and being responsible not many came this far.

Dear lollmaolol, what you need now is a professional to speak to.Don not ignore it and "just shake it off".It is not something you can shake off because you are an adult.Seek professional help, you need to heal psychologically and mentally.

Family history of violence, sexual abuse by a female, maternal neglect, and lack of supervision were all associated with a threefold-increased risk that the abused would become an abuser.

You might not see it now but you will end up having trust issues in your own word:


A wife won't bring nothing to you no matter how good she is,do not marry until you sort yourself out.Leave women alone for now.

For your parents, you should talk to them and let them know how you truly feel, then tell them that they should let you sort yourself out first and that you will communicate with them when you feel you are ready,how long it will take you to forgive them and get over that it is entirely based on how well you feel. Healing is a long process and should never be rushed.

I wish you well and I appreciate you courage to come forward and seek help ,it is a great step to your healing journey.
May you find closure and become the man you want to be.

You ultimately spoke well on this issue..as a matter of fact, @op story is an inch close to mine, and it's such a terrible one at that...his couraage to seek advise thru ds medium had inspired me. I will like to share mine and how well am doing on the path to healing which had started for quite a while, having listen to pro advice just like urs.

Another salient point u made - A wife won't bring nothing to you no matter how good she is,do not marry until you sort yourself out.Leave women alone for now. See, i was going to get married early enough and put all behind me just so I can focus on my life...I felt a deep inside that this hurt may affect my marriage as a matter of fact, it affected the relationship - going - to marriage I had then. I used to say to a childhood friend that making the mistake of my parents will be my worst misery in life and can actually take my life. am not married but I passionately do not wish my wife and kids to go thru what i am going thru. Let's put it to a stop here. Thanks for ur advice.

BEHT WHY IZ IT ALWAYS IN KENYA ALL DDS MADNESS EMANATES FROM? BIKO...KENYANS...UNA NEED GOD O.

We need to stop all these hero-worshiping of our leaders...it's hypocrisy of the highest order...this is 21st century, world leaders are taking on 21st century problems and finding worthy solutions...it's the leader's job to do all these, none of these is beyond a Nigerian state. Let's focus and move on. I dont need compare what's been done in other climes in terms of military reinforcement and armories. Let's CHANGE our mind set. We have alot of work to do for our children and the ones unborn. God bless Nigeria!

Have i made money today? Someone get me outta here....

the guy die?