Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Satisfier:
Please i need ideas from entrepreneurs, business minded men and women. Please what kind of company can I start in Abuja with 30million naira? I want a lifetime company that can make billions in the future, something stable and likely to become an empire with good management. No jokes or childish comments please. Thank you

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute.
Just be strong.
Everything will be fine.
Bros can you teach me how to make legitimate money online.
I am tired of begging

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Oluwa18:
A little back story.
I am a 36 YO guy with no university certificate, was too wayward to finish school in FUTO then, left school in my 2nd year for a 4 year course.

Tried my hands on business years later and currently have 7M naira saved.
Now, I want to go for degree and eventually start a family .
I am considering seeking admission in a UK or Canadian school. Luckily, I have sponsors .

For a guy of my age , looking to study IT related course or physiotherapy and eventually seeking residency, would you recommend UK or Canada?
Please I need supported answers.

Thank you all.

Lavisha:


I meant "Short bigass ladies are a menance"

Lavisha:
should bigass ladies are menace.

Worldlychild:
I have finally made up my mind to join cultism then from there become an armed robber or kidnapper.
so either way I get killed or die easily.
how comes am getting old and such a failure?
how come my suffering won't end ?
how comes I can't afford a meal ?
how comes I stay 4 days straight without eating?
how comes life treat me this way ?

Kriss216:
Bayern is highly overrated!



Ordinary over 2.5

The soul of my lost ticket will continue to haunt them.

lkillbrokehoes:
At least she's brainy unlike that brainless girl causing nuisance on this forum, same nuisance that had an extra year in school. Kudos busirat I wish you all the best

Xeedee:
What happened?

Englishisamust:


Kwasu

Englishisamust:
Na yahoo boys just dey opress us for here. Coming to school con be like I dey waste my time.

DayTen:
See Pre-wedding Pictures here https://www.nairaland.com/6362316/pre-wedding-pictures

We are grateful to God Almighty for making this come to pass.
Corona tried and failed...
Thank you Jesus.

Viking007:
Holla,

Having been on Nairaland for almost 7yrs+, I think it's fair I let Nairalanders know even though I'm a very private person.

The wedding is on the 16th January, here in Abuja.

Free rice & chicken for the first 5 comments.

micki1:

Laptop brand and model?

micki1:
Desktop or laptop?

KingDash:
meanwhile one boy for my area that couldn't feed himself last year, nigga looked so malnorished like a cast from the walking dead, just bought a 2.8m car yesterday.. na wa oh.

udemzyudex:


I can't say until I know the level of damage.

udemzyudex:


It is probably dead, I can fix it for if you're in lag
08064724259

GIdiata:
Happy New Year to us all
God no go shame us