MALIGNANTGuest:

.....So the LADY should move to a Guy that's ready and no longer the Guy that's Tall, Dark and WEALTHY ..
when Age starts creeping in, the Guy that's ready becomes the potential man & no longer the classy man.

The tall, dark and handsome that she is loving is already chickening out because of her age.

Na still Una go insult her if she's marrying at 35, the old newspaper tag comes to mind.

The girl mumu, so she go wait for you.

Eval123:

she is a good gal, I know almost everything about her past. so not everyone is a bitch

If a girl (This is a mischaracterisation of address; she should be called a lady) of 35-year-old is not good, at what age do you expect her to be good. 50?

Your own wants to wait for you till you are ready and mine wants me to get her pregnant or come see her people and am not even ready financially , Different folks different strokes..... anyways if you won't disappoint her in that five years time then I see no issue in her waiting for you but five years no be beans o for someone to just pause.

Eval123:

she is a good gal, I know almost everything about her past. so not everyone is a bitch

Then why are you complaining

Eval123:

For the record, I never lied to her about my age, it was all a mistake. but she is currently aware of my real age and still wish to stay. and for the marriage, she knows am not ready, and we have been planning our lives together

End the relationship now since you're already having second thoughts.

If you disappoint her after making her wait an additional 5 years she will pour acid on you

lol na 35yrs old woman u dey call girl...

Bro, 5years is indeed a long time, if you wanna be truthfully and honest with yourself, jus let her go. Her clock is ticking don't hold her down. After the 5 years and you still think/feel the same way, you can come back to her if she's still available.

Buh most of all, call her and talk to her about it, state it as it is, don't sugar coat anything, DONT make a promise. Jus be truthful.

Eval123:

please I need advice.

Am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day. She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her. Now am confuse, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, there won't believe she is my senior.. pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age..

Tedpgrass:
Some comments here are at best polemic but largely opprobrious..

Shake my head for the lady in question.


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Oyibo rékpèté

Romanoff:


My dear na from experience and poor choices of mine, friends and people around me, na him I use wise up o.

Hmmmmm.....


Eyes don see things.....


Ear don hear things......


I love you!!!!......

If not for the situation of things, at 28, you should be married yourself.

Papertrails:
Your own wants to wait for you till you are ready and mine wants me to get her pregnant or come see her people and am not even ready financially , Different folks different strokes..... anyways if you won't disappoint her in that five years time then I see no issue in her waiting for you but five years no be beans o for someone to just pause.

Lolsss... bro men dey see things ooooo....


My own dat year say she no go leave me until she get married... las las she found her true husband, introduced him to me, invited me for the wedding but unfortunately i couldn't attend due to my schedules.. We dated from 2011 till 2019...


Bro understanding is the key to a healthy relationship....

PLEASE LET HER GO
U already have a huge burden of DOUBT in u
5 years of Doubting(def not dating)
Would end up suicidal
HEADLINES like
LADY STAB LOVER OF 5 YEARS started like this
Stay safe bro

Eval123:


she is already aware of my real age, though she wasn't too cool but then the love we share still makes her stay back. she still wants to wait for me if I won't disappoint her later.. and for the 5 years thing, I don't have any means of income currently else I would have done that. cause outside the love, we are very compatible

marry her now, don't worry money go come

ebicon:
I really like your sincerity about what you both share,
Don’t let society dictate how to love and live , you might get someone younger that will leave you miserable and sad. You can be lucky to get a good paying job , you might not need the forecasted five years , Time are hard but people are making it ,leave societal standards, it does not work for everyone
Do what will make you happy but if you feel you cannot marry 35 yr old woman , please leave her to those that will appreciate

Abi o @ bolded. People like us.

What he doesnt know is that those small girls out there are more problematic than the older ones. Besides, they would have grown much into each other by the end of 5 years. Probably, he's apprehensive because he doesn't like her as much as he claims.

talk2hb1:

This Your Grammar Self...
She is Older than you, not your senior

Oga if person old pass you for naija and una Dey any kind of relationship , na your senior she be. Respect her !


If I was the woman , I’ll slap the op the day him cal me name without putting sister lagbaja itrespective of the fact that we’re dating ..


Arrant nonsense

seanwilliam:



Oga if person old pass you for naija and una Dey any kind of relationship , na your senior she be. Respect her !


If I was the woman , I’ll slap the op the day him cal me name without putting sister lagbaja itrespective of the fact that we’re dating ..


Arrant nonsense

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Ṣé bí she don wait ni, you better enjoy while it last.

You sound like a player. Someone who wants to eat his cake and have it but remember, what comes round goes round.

If you don't need her, leave her and let her go. She will find her match.

If you can't marry her now, and you feel she'll be too old for you at 35, then the only option available to you is to let her go

Who release this mad man from prison


Mental patient spotted






..uote author=demmymoney post=100649060]Dump the bitch

U are still in ur 20s for bleeps sake why wud u b in an exclusive relationship with the opposite sex in ur 20s and the foolish thing is this one has already hit the wall. Guy don't u know ur value or are u dumb!!!

U should make yourself ur mental point of origin. Focus on ur goals and spin plates. Don't have onetitis for that bitch nahh jeeezzz [/quote]

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

You are confused. Better not focus on your life and what you want to be... Stay here and remain confuse

simps
.... before u start loving... have u shined the kongo?

shine the longo first before making any hasty decisions.

If you know you won't marry her kindly,let her go rather than waste her time on fruitless journey which you have already started with lies and deceit . No woman deserve such treatment , you aren't ready for marriage yet tell her to move on .

An older is the best you could ever get. I love 'em

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

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Do you have any steady stream of income?

Do you have sense? Did you check when he met the girl? Reason girls are dumping you people, because even if they stay and bear, you people will later say they are old.





uote author=FalseProphet1 post=100652012]Proposing to a lady above 35 years is not an engagement, it’s a rescue mission... This I have seen.[/quote]

But u dey chop old Toto abi? See ur life!

Tell her. Pleaseeeeee.
I beg you in the name of God, tell her.

Piper come and read your real life situation here oo
Abi na you disguise type am sef i no know.