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dontrulee:
It's only a trap when you're not wise and strategic about it. Stake only what you can afford to loose, don't chase your losses, stake 30-40% of your capital, withdraw 20-30% of your profits daily. If you do that, it's a reliable steady flow of cash flow

Agbadocassava:
Wishing you a very Happy new year nairalanders

jobbitto:
Hi family,

I hope we all are having a great time this festive season.

Quite a while, I have been looking for job outside Nigeria, care work to be precise. Since this is one of the easiest route to leave Nigeria. A friend in the uk gave me a Link, an agency to be precise that would help in the process. Although, he has not used them before.

When I contacted the agency via mail. They told me their terms and conditions, I accepted and proceeded with them to help get a care job. I paid in about 499 pounds as consultation and processing fee. After a month, an interview was conducted and I scaled through.

The agency now said they are going to conduct a background check on me of which I am to provide some documents. Below is the list of documents


Proof of employment letters
Payslips
Discharge / Resignation letters with the cause of leaving the employment clearly stated
Academic Qualifications
Recommendation Letters
4 References
CV

The entire set of documents mentioned above must be submitted for each of the following employers. If some of the documents are missing or unavailable, They could provide a self-declaration letter confirming the reasons for such missing documents

ALL THE EMPLOYERS IN THE LAST 10 YEARS

If there is any employment gap in between or from the completion of their education, They will need to write a letter of explanation of the same

All the documents to be put in a zip file with a separate folder for each employer

Once the screening is successful, The client would receive an employment contract to sign followed by the COS within 3 working days.

House my question now, is getting this documents visible? Or they are 419.
Please mod help me push to front page. I need help.

Antoeni:
Ladies Please interpret this picture. Guys What do you think

Jewessgratitud3:
Sorry.. every relationship must not have a sexual tone to it. I'm not like you dear. I don't date for sex.

FRANELCLINIC:
Once you know the problem, you have the solution (the worst use of time is to do very well what needs not be done at all).


IF IT IS CAUSED BY LACK OF SLEEP, then start getting 7 hours of sleep a night, and after many months it should sort itself out.
Be sure to drink lots of water too while you're at it, and check that your hormone levels are up and normal.

AreaFada2:
I used to think that men wanting to have male kids were just archaic. But experience has shown me that an average African should have both male and female. It is not about whether the girls could become NOI or Amina Mohammed and the boys may end up as vulcanisers tomorrow. It's not about who becomes more successful in life. That is too simplistic. There are roles that different genders fulfil culturally. As a son, I only realised the importance of my role culturally a few years ago when push came to shove. Most ladies will never have to play that role to understand, so need to even go into it.

We are Africans and anyone who cherishes key African values needs to know that. Any responsible dad should appreciate God for having kids, whatever their gender. If a man is economically capable enough, he can take a second wife. It is when the first wife refuses that it becomes an issue. Some women refuse to have a co-wife and lead to divorce. The story can have pepper and Maggi added to it later to become "wife was thrown out". Things normally lead to it including lack of compromise.

From my observation, when a daughter narrates how her divorced mother was treated in her marriage, it is 99% biased in favour of their mother. A lot of manipulation of daughters goes on while growing up. The daughters of a colleague who separated from his wife are going through that manipulation right now. The eldest daughter is increasingly taking her mother's side. The younger daughters will probably increasingly do same years from now as they get older. Even though they all used to condemn what they witnessed their mum doing to their dad. There is a reason why so many women try so hard to avoid letting kids visit their dad often when divorced. They want to control the narrative.

This is not to support or exonerate useless dads out there but these things are more complex.

iPrincess:
he earns way more than me. Like x10.

I give him gifts not money. Like the last time, I noticed his toothbrush was already rough and when visiting I brought one.

Not much but I think he appreciated it. Him no too sabi show emotion sha

iPrincess:
no be money carry some of us enter relationship.

We know when e dey and when e no dey

israelmao:
You called something secret yet you wanted them to share it on public domain..

lesbiconverter:
They actually performed, It's the Mandela effect

greenermodels:
she asked you not to play with her heart, please, don't play with her heart. As long as she hasn't done any wrong to you,don't do any wrong to her first. Entertain her with food and drinks and maybe discuss your friendship with her, you can stylishly tell her that you want an open friendship where each of you can keep other friends etc. Just be considerate with whatever you do with her.

EndSARS77:
I decided to get a drug that can help me abstain from sex because I have this personal conviction that excessive sex (for men) contributes to erectile dysfunction and low sperm count. The drug I am using is a mood stabilizer

Obavoh:
My beautiful wife turned 21 yesterday.

I decided to give her a special birthday treat because she has been the best wife I could ever wish for.

She is kind and honest. A great mother to our four kids.




I bought her this beautiful outfit. She loved it so much she took more than 100 photos on my phone and begged me to post it on my Facebook. Funny woman

AFvckingAlpha:
Omoh nah trenches love be this o.

Your wife is 21 and already you have 4 kids.

And you go wan still dey fire go like this

Na you marry am sha, if you like kill am

I said what I said

NoApology:
Source: https://twitter.com/makavelli275/status/1584452742935851008?s=21[/quote]DIVORCE!

4teenblaq:
OP, if I were you.. It is nothing to think about.

Tomorrow morning, tell her that you really need to "consummate" the relationship that you can't wait any longer.

Oboy, she won't hesitate to give it to you. Since she is manipulative, she will been thinking finally, you'd fallen for another trap of her.

Oboy, as you dey Bleep am, Bleep the girl with all vexation. Give am message.

After the knacking, tell her to pack her bags and leave! Don't even allow her to argue, just show her the chat.

Trust me, the pain will be more than yours.
She would lose in three folds.
1.pregnant
2. You
3. The other guy.

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

LadyRosa:
Lol...
As I stubborn reach na so so quiet men dey date me. So I've had great experience from past relationships and currently another quiet one dey my side. What I noticed with them


They are highly intelligent, don't talk much, don't mingle much, social function almost zero.
Them sabi cook oooo! Few clothes, expensive or not, they are well arranged,ironed.No scatter scatter. So once I'm looking for something they help me look for it because I go scatter their wardrobe and leave it like that! No time!

They are calculated and secretive. Don't gossip at all. Going into their house and coming out seems like sneeking around, so people don't know if they are in or out.

Don't like loud music.Those who go to club rarely dance, them go dey laugh who dey dance . When they decide to party, the subsequent days makes them really dull and want to 'rest'. Even during outings after few laughs and a drink with plenty water, next na to pick their car keys or flag down a taxi , time to go

Don't wear loud bright dresses. Dull dresses are their Craze.

Observe rather than talk. When they talk everyone is silent.

No toasting, they were too shy to say their mind. They will look and make few remarks, then look again. Relationship usually start from me taking the lead by keeping them talking with questions. "Do you like me?" that's enough to make them blush with relief and acceptance.

Spend thrifts. Show offs is foolishness to them.Not really into social media, few pics, most times like to be anonymous. Also, they can be nasty in secret.

Gadget lovers. Will spend money on the latest Playstation.Dont mind playing against computer for hours. Those who don't like video games, hardly watch football matches or are simply in different about sports. The passionate ones likes to watch it indoors, if they must watch outside na only them go sit down one corner for chair like zombie.
Simplicity. Eating out is not their need, so if they must, mostly snacks rather than cooked food. Neat freeks!
Forgives easily but with serious warning.
Don't like the silent treatment during quarrel. They will appear calm at first but, Na lie . Just pretend you no longer find them attractive or appealing and all hell breaks loose.
Not too romantic but very supportive and reasonable. Calm in the face of overwhelming trouble. Why others are panicky, they keep clear head, and think of solving issues diplomatically.
The ones who cheats do it well. You may never notice because they will never pick the other woman's frantic calls, if them too disturb they block them temporarily till further _drilling notice.Them no just like wahala from nags.
Have soft spot for women and can easily be manipulated to give out cash to them even without sleeping with them. Even an ex will continue to reap them off Even if they are no longer interested.
Don't get angry easily, but when they get you'd be sorry. Really really sorry and disappointed in yourself. They will lay all your 4ck ups and corner your defense on every angle

But them still dey talk o, but na inside house. Abuse them and meet a brick wall, no reaction. As my mouth sharp reach, I don't use bad words on them like I do on the street,They hardly use insults to drive home their point once an argument be like say e won bring insult, they ignore and find their way out. There are people that their level of maturity controls what you say.

Modified :
Seems all NL guys suddenly are now quiet guys.

Flier:
Tried for just 11 years! Depressed at 26yrs because he didn’t blow and gave up
Fatai rolling dollar tried for 65 year,blow at 80 years then accomplished what those that started early couldn’t accomplish in a spate of 2 years
Lesson learnt! Wait for your time
Anyway Rip.