WibusJaga: What Salah & other celebrities are doing in the name of celebrating Xmas is not even a Christian practice & had nothing to do with Christ. Their Xmas celebrations are more of traditional practice. It's like condemning a Muslim for eating chicken on Xmas day.
You are sounding off key.. How did you dictate that Christ has nothing to do with their celebration of Christmas.
You can just say that you don't believe in Christmas not to ripe all Christians in a group of not celebrating Christ in their Christmas.
afrorossiyatv: Happy Christmas my people! This is Tochi, your favourite Naija Boy in Russia reporting directly from Putin's land
You guys know how much I love promoting the image of Nigeria and culture here in Russia. I'm crazy about ogene music and all traditional Igbo music so I decided to introduce my Russian girlfriend to our beautiful egedege music remixed by Flavour, Phyno, Larry Gaga and the legendary Queen Theresa Onuorah.
So here is a short clip of me and my girlfriend dancing to egedege, hope it will bring a smile to your face this Christmas
edego2up: I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration, By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.
He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.
I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone
The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.
The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.
Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones. If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.
Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?
which one be divorce her and life goes on? na so you de marry for una side say any external challenge you get you divorce your wife? just know That your uncle in law is over stepping his boundary, let his own in laws and children do Christmas for him too. or don't he have children?
Richdoh: I'm a young hard work guy who's planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in, we have done our introduction, what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding.
But this girl started showing some nasty attitude. There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocke of my life , my fiancee warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave.
As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn't had light for 2days so we couldn't pump water. Normally when there's no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound. Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom.
To cut the long story short, my fiancee refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower. She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour, I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain. I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around. She said in her house, she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki's and buy water from them. She told me that she can't leave a suffering life of having to fetch water, she can never do it.
Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for?
LOL
Oga, if things ever red for you na then you go realize say na OYO State u de so. e never clear for you yet Lol.
agirlwithaname: Sending you e-hugs...... Just take each day as it comes, before you know, you'll be fine......I was in your situation early this year, now I am doing okay.....So sorry.
I don't your cases are the same. hers wasn't mutual.
Jessica57: Thanks guys… I really appreciate your words of encouragement….. I haven’t really been lucky with guys.
most people (both male and female) have not been lucky with any thing like relationship but somehow, better things still come their way. Just be positive.
Jessica57: Well I thought We had something going on fine…. Oga relocated to Abuja…. All through those times he was away I thought he was really busy like he always tell me due to the fact that he neither call nor text me anymore. I never knew he had someone else he was seeing over there. His sister just sent me the invite of his wedding which is happening on the 28th of this month… I have been crying since . Now my heart aces so badly. NOTE..I did everything a lady could have done to make a relationship work. I guess we weren’t meant to be. I’m really really trying to move on but my heart aces so bad right now and I live alone…. I just pray I don’t hurt myself…. Maybe I loved him more than he loved me.. this breakfast is the worst I have ever gotten. My Xmas is ruined .
Samakus: Phew!! Started a relationship last December, it wasn't perfect but we're good. Have already made up my mind that I'm marrying her. August came, banny reconnected with her ex who left her and travelled to Dubai. Omo, na so she begin give me attitudes. Eventually lied that her family said that Anambra guy won't marry her. I read the handwriting on the wall and moved. Lost weight aswear.
To cut it, I used that rejection as a motivation. Started a business, and it's moving. Banny noticed that my financial status is beginning to improve, and she's back begging to be accepted. The Dubai guy don lash am again, move back to Dubai. Maybe she don see say money no too dey Dubai like she think. She's a student, while my staff is a graduate. Na that one dey ment her
Told her straight that nothing can ever bring us back. I'm holding out a little while and I will enter a new relationship. Hopefully I will have better luck this time and settle down 2022. God's speed to me
Emily22: I told mine I want to collect an apartment next year and rent a workshop so I need to save with strict discipline.
I noticed her reaction.
I also told her if she will handle the kitchen wares cuz I still have to take care of chairs, gadgets and much more.
Next morning, she uploaded a status on her WhatsApp saying "don't date a man that want to make u contribute in everything he ought to be doing alone,don't date a 50/50 man.
I ignored the status and same day, she called to ask for 25k for her hair and I told her I can't date a burden any longer, you are a working class, remove from your December salary and pay for your hair...
We never talk till date.
Starting with a new babe next year after my accommodation/biz is ready.
Nat404: On that faithful day, she came to my house with her friend. Seeing that I live in a comfortable home, her friend began to ask me questions like, are you married? Do you have a gf? Are you on WhatsApp? She screamed and said to her, babe stop that! He's my boyfriend.
Few minutes later, I went to the kitchen to get the girls something to eat, her friend followed me.
Then later, I went straight to my room, called one of my niggas to come to my house, because i'm already in trouble. An hour later, my nigga came, he tried to take her friend out but she refused.
Nat404: Respects me how I got the money back. Furthermore, if I write here how I got it back intelligently within a space of 1 hour, Nairaland would explode.
She later asked me if I was in a cult. That how did the money she stole disappeared in her bag right there in my house?
ccollins: Nigeria women see relationship as a job and a means to an end. They always follow a man for money ,marry a man for money and are into coded prostitutions. Many Nigerian ladies see relationship as a poverty alleviation scheme . it is very true that what most Nigerian women cannot afford by themselves, they look for a man to pay it for them,that's why they do not love when they see u have nothing and you are broke because all they are after when they see you is your status and wealth. Be careful. I used to read about Allah Kaduna nzeogu on Facebook and how he warns Nigerian men to stop being SIMPs and be wise with these street women who got no love n are pretentious
chiefobdk2: Na so one girl say make i send my account number.. She press me 2k.walahi shame catch me... I been wan send am back but didn't want to be rude... Dis na person wey i don buy phone for 3 times
Except of she has a well paying job eeh, she try o because Naija girls don't knowo weti be giving , na only collecting them Sabi
Kiingdomjw: Una Weldon ohh. My friend is a non Graduate, he has been paid only September, but them don give am 27K (Description: Feeding for 2nd Month) Another 42K (Description: TRANSPORT AND LAST FEEDING)
Abeg which one be this and why the Feeding money no reach me.