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jericco1:
Ingratitude Supercilious attitude Laziness Low IQ

Smoothbabykong:
Hi guys,
I need your honest opinions about my relationship.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while but I don't know what is happening at the moment.

The problem is this, we both live in the UK. We have made plans to get married and we have plans to start up a business in Nigeria. The truth is that she kept some money with me and I used it to sort some debts out but was planning to give the money back to her when she is ready to leave for Nieria.

What really happened was that there was a certain money given to me by another to help him send down to Nigeria. Out of trust, I told another friend of mine to handle the transaction but unfortunately it all went sideways. So I had to use the money with me to sort the debt out while I recover the other from my other friend.

My girlfriend has been asking me for the money and I lied to her that it's in my account but there has been sort of a problem with it which she believed. The day she was suppose to go to Nigeria, she still asked about it and she told me if I was busy my friend (she knows the guy) can pick up the money for her because she needs to sort some things out enroute to Nigeria. I called my friend and told him to lie to her that the money is with him and I will know what to tell her till I can recover the money from him.

Later that day, she called me and was crying that I betrayed her. She told me everything that happened to her money which means my friend must have told her. She hung up. I tried calling my friend, he has blocked me. Lots of things were through my mind. Dont know what to do. She sent me a few messages and blocked me on both WhatsApp and via calls. When she got to Nigeria that same day, she unblocked me. She told me I have to pay and I said yes I will. I admitted I lied and I tried to explain to her why I lied. Its been a week. I have tried apologizing twice. She read it and ignored me. I told her send me the account she wants the payment. She didn't reply. Fortunately I have her brother's account number and sent her 70 percent of her money and I sent her the receipt too. I only managed to get that amount after selling my car off with a few gadgets and electronics in my house.

I don't know whether to just forget about her or to wait till when she is ready to talk.

She has done outrageous things in past which I have overlooked also. I have even resulted maybe she has another person with in Nigeria and I should just move on.

Thanks for your opinions

Davepal:
About 15 of us have not received September stipend

valowizzy:
I have not received. The status changed from Processing--failed--pending--failed again. These people are not serious.

Drinokrane:
Actress Stella Damasus has corrected some Nigerians who call her as Stella Damascus, saying her name is Stella Damasus, Igbere TV reports.

The mother of two made this known in a Twitter post on Sunday.



https://twitter.com/stelladamasus/status/1467608414775824392

Reacting to her tweet, some fans jokingly said they will continue to call her Damascus.

SmartyPants:
Are you adding to or subtracting from my post? I'm not sure what your point is ...I mean that with no malice

SmartyPants:
Bruv, you no go school to study law. Dey your lane na?

Total misrepresentation of the law and facts.

In the Michigan case, there is evidence that the parents actively aided and abetted by ignoring the clear warning signs and in one case, his mother even texted him "don't get caught" when he was caught searching for ammunition.

Totally different cases.

Now, the school authorities can be held responsible if it is found that they acted negligently, or wilfully encouraged such beatings, or then covered it up when it happened. But never just because the beating happened at school.

Avoid misinforming people.

ashjay001:
He didn't die immediately, can't be murder

victorazy:
Two things are involved:
1. Your an attention seeker
2. Your daft.

Eclipse has been occurring yes, have you ever seen a report of Eclipse from Antarctica? That's to tell you the sign is now all over the world.

Read the book of Revelation...

It says Sun will go dark, wearing sackcloth with hair like wool (Thats the bright light you see round the dark circle) is called Corona and that's where the corona virus came from. They are wiser than you.

This is end time. Corona Virus is the end of humanity.
(What is the shape of Corona Virus?) Is it not round with hair on it like Cardigan?(Sackcloth) learn how to think deep.


I don't expect you yo understand this.

KingGBsky:
You are the biggest clown because at the end only time will tell.

silibaba:
The Bible says, I am the way, the truth and life. NO ONE goes to the FATHER except through ME.

Ignorance is not an excuse in heaven.

silibaba:
Heaven is not for everyone.

John 3:16 go and read.

If you don't believe in Jesus there is no place for you there.

oluwaseyi1759:
The harder they fall choir version.

BigBashiru:
you don't have to be married just to be with a partner as long as your hearts are sincere to each other and ur hurting no one.

portiphers wife would have done adultery with Joseph as she was married.

there's nothing like "fornicate" it's a scary word designed to prevent people from being human beings....

silibaba:
is not true.
Only Catholics can make heaven.

Iyaebe:
You expected me to shy away from the bitter truth? it is the reason I'm always the odd one out in most opinions on issues because i spit reality,you are enjoying marital bliss and other conjugal enjoyments but you don't want to spend,are you her creator? As long as you are sleeping with her please don't complain of any demands from her,nothing is free,not even the air we breath.

silibaba:
No non Catholic can make heaven. Go and read Mathew very deep.

This is believe.

BigBashiru:
Christians are the among the most stupid set of people on earth. Half of you are brainless. Do you know the difference between fornication and adultery? what Joseph avoided was adultery.

As for "fornicate" there's nothing like "fornication". when two willing parties are attracted to each other they mate. now if we gonna be thrown into hell for that then we know we went to hell for acting out how we were made.

The so called marriage these days is with unattractive old women..... so Christianity doesn't want you to hv an attractive woman. most ppl these days marry wen they old and u won't even enjoy the fukk then to ex oloshos now wives.

think with ur head!

Amotolongbo:
He was a prince and made a king by inheritance and had everything at his disposal. What extra intelligence did he use to acquire those things you talked about?

His father, David, wasn’t born a prince and had many successes attached to him, that is wisdom and power.
Tell me about Solomon’s wisdom

oluwaseyi1759:
That song is just too good for my soul pls if anyone here know how to get the song, should pls help.

Kriss216:
But, you're yet to condemn continuous attacks from Northern Nigeria Fulani herdsmen against innocent and helpless farmers in Southern Nigeria.
Hypocrite!

You now care about lives of Ukrainians.

zed7:
Do you know the meaning of a vasectomy? If you run off with another man or God forbid you die, what happens?
It's either you do family planning or you guys use condoms. Stop talking nonsense about vasectomy to a young man.

I've been stumbling on this lady's posts occasionally and it's easy to observe that she not so 'alright'.