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Mercychen:
Thats why Ive stopped picking his calls. Let him look for someone that will give him battalion.

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not picking his calls doesn't stop anything. open up and tell him that you are not interested again and see him moveeee

This thread was created by the op for cruise sake. don't take it serious. it's just a topic for discussion. Period.

Kobojunkie:
According to whom?

according to common sense.
All things being equal, most people will opt for More than one kid (at least two).

Myer:
You're such a misogynist that's why you do not see my point.

Anyways read the OP again then read my post slowly this time.

From your point of tagging me a misogynistic, would it be fitting to tag you a misandrist ?
Yes or no. Take a chill pill and rest.

Moreign001:
It's use to input temperament on movies.

ok. does it has a name?

Myer:
Place yourself in her shoes.
What would you do?
If you were the one who met a lady that checked all the boxes you need in a wife. Would you stay or leave?

This your question is not logical at all. It's like shooting yourself in the leg while making an argument.

Kissiemu:
Really? What for?

prayers for nnamdi. read the post towards The end.. you will see the report.

paramakina202:
They want our people to feel more pain that is the reason they shift it on tuesday.
They are contemplating extending the sit at home for more days a week....they are just testing the microphone.

This is madness

Moreign001:
I sincerely appreciate all of your comments, and words of encouragement, the criticism too helps a lot
.
Let me reassure you guys that I'm fine, relaxed and mild. I feel bad for myself a bit because I lost a wonderful woman, but I'm sincerely gleeful for her. I won't cut her off communications, I will stand by her, support whenever. One thing I understood about love is this. If you genuinely love someone, their happiness should be your first preeminence. Allow them to do what ever makes them happy, and still love them regardless.

Yes we spoke lengthy tonight, and I understood exactly how she feels, I understood deeply how our parents and guidance keeps pressuring their children, pupils and siblings against their wish, not just in marriage, but even in careers and others. And also how parents are forcing children into marriage in other to help in assisting the family burden. How is this right?

Life is love, so I have decided that I'm never going to cut her off, or act as if she never exist, she deserves better. But I will never get involved with her again. I'm mentally strong, and I built it on love. Right now i'm so concerned about her happiness, not her leaving me. I just want her to be happy and fine, that's all. We should never criticize people when they make decisions, maybe we would have made worst decisions in that same position.

Yes, I had intention of marrying her, she knew. She is not a cheat, she's a very good girl and I respect her. The main reason why I brought up this post was because lots of girls are after marriage, some are forced into it without having nothing to offer. I personally asked what's her plans after school, and she said she will open a shop (Food items) until after her Masters programs. I was ready and willing to support her.

I told her to hold on until we're done with our Nysc which should be next year by God's grace.

And those asking why I didn't marry or engage her... Even if I had billions in my account, I still wouldn't have married until I'm done with my Nysc. You don't rush it, we were students for 4years and that's our love duration, we needed at least some time outside school to see how ideal we were.

And to some persons saying she doesn't have time... I pleaded for just one more year, for our Nysc..
Don't encourage people to rush into marriage because of age, she just met this guy, they don't know and haven't tolerate themselves. This is one of the major reasons why marriage keep failing because it can lead to trust issues, violence and others. I understood her very well, she's a very jealous individual, and I can tell you that the new guy doesn't know this, now how about if he doesn't want a woman who is loaded with jealousy? But it's fine, many read to criticize, not to understand and learn.

My advice to every girl out there, try and add value to yourself, this won't just make your husband respect you, it will also stop your parents and guidance from going against your preferred wish.

it's well.

Yoighaman:
@OP: With all this nonsense you just wrote, I have no iota of pity for you anymore and I won't mince words.

What is wrong with you? Are you sure you are in your right senses? Someone dumped you for another man without considering your emotions, and simultaneously using histrionics and gaslighting you, yet you are still supporting her.

Are you mad? You dey ment ni? Aaahhh! now I see why red pillers for nairaland dey always para...jeez!

Your own don pass simp, you don craze finish. What kind of a low-esteemed human being are you? A girl did all these to you and this is what you write?? Wow!..who do you this kain thing? You be mumu ni? Mr. Mumuni.

Let me stop writing, I dey vex gan....

naaa waah o. why u de vex so

Kissiemu:
Today is Tuesday or is this yesterday news?

the madness was continued today.

paramakina202:
Forcing people to stay at home and pray for Nnamdi Kanu is madness,who is he by the way?
His supporters can go on a years long fasting and prayers for his release but shouldn't impose it on the general public.

was yesterday not Monday? why didn't they bring the prayer something yesterday.
People are still observing sit at home stuff in Monday in most South East State

worldclass68:
Going through what may likely be the same for me too...
So I met this girl during my service year, and finished together bout a month now....
Did I all could do to break up the relationship ( broke up like 10times with her walai the thing no gree break o ) she fought for the relationship, and this is a very pretty baby face beautiful girl, and got other suitors trying to have her but even got to a point she was ready to die for the relationship (attempting suicide stuffs) we re both in love but age is not on side too,but she's insisting she wants me, but I doubt she's going to wait for me to generally balance...I don't put too much hope, I don't want heartbreak, although I'm not dating anyone else, if she's going to wait I'll marry her regardless of anything, but if otherwise, I'll wish her good luck and focus on my self even more...its a win win.....

try make arrangements to marry the girl now or take a stand to let her understand the situation of things now before many years will pass.

besides, Moreign001,I love the wheel chart on your dp. What's it called? would love to know.

Moreign001:
It will hurt me the more. I just want her to happy.

You better protect yourself o. Start looking after your own happiness.

Moreign001:
It will hurt me the more. I just want her to happy.

You better protect yourself o. Start looking after your own happiness.

Moreign001:
She has brought up this before, But I told her to just wait after our Nysc next year. But....

why couldn't she not wait till after service before she now make the move?

Iyaebe:
Mtcheww, see them legalizing fornication and one of them up there is saying happy family. Hbd to the innocent kid there.

innocent child from fornication

DarkCaesar:
will the Kinsmen take away her affection for the kid?
And do you think a woman with kid still has 100% to give her man?

1. No. though she doesn't have the kids alone, the husband parents may want some sort of connection with their grandson. that's where I'm driving at .

2. Yes. So far the lady is resourceful and a home Maker, nothing spoiled.

DarkCaesar:
quite Fortunate I’d say, Single mother who also doubled as a widow……some really simple and loving man he is, I pray God bless their union

I gree. the husband's kinsmen might request for the baby sooner or later.

PENNYSWAP:
I will be more that wealthy to afford even more

There is huge success in the research and volunteers has come forward , it is estimated that before the end of 2022 it will be tested on humans.. it was tested on animal and was a huge huge success...

My friend the world is evolving so fast but we here in Africa is behind schedule.

People are now preserving their dead ones hoping that a medical process that will be invented in the future will revive the dead to life .

Already there is a brain transplant in play ..

You can download memory of a dead person and instal in a human like robot, the robot will have the sense of the dead person and can tell stories as far back as when the dead peeps. Was small.

Technology is the 12th wonder of this world ..

Nothing is impossible under the sun ...

If Jesus doesn’t come till next 100 years , I will be alive and very young too

I love your dreams and enthusiasm. May you live till then and may you not lack the needed resources.

PENNYSWAP:
By 2080, I will be alive and even more younger .

Let me shock you, jeff bezozs is funding a research that will make people younger and more healthy , like reducing 20years of their main age , the therapy builds new cells and replaces the aging cells , a lot of things , the world is going to a dif direction .

If you say it’s impossible, then you will say in 1960 that GSM is impossible too

Will you be able to afford this expected advanced medication and technology that would assist life? would you? add 80years to you correct age and tell yourself the truth after calculating facts at hand. Even the Bezozs of a guy can't be alive that time.

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TheOldGods:


See, it doesn't work on us anymore, using the scare tactics, keep decieving yourself, you have not even died, why don't you die, then come back and tell us what you see?

Die ke. the guy fit curse you if you talk am again.

Emergingnation:
Keep decieving yourself, it will shocked you at the very last hour

The last hours you were told or the one you have seen?

MALIGNANTGuest:
When I close my eyes I will remember nothing.
I remember nothing because;
DEATH is simply a state of complete and permanent loss of consciousness with cessation of heartbeat with subsequent enzymatic actions and putrification leading to global tissue necrosis.

the person you're writing doesn't understand the English you are writing. he only understands damnation and suffering.

Kobojunkiee:
don't confuse me with your person abeg!

Lol Lol

you're an interesting character i swear

Ebukawaylaid:
Good morning Ladies and gentle men.
This morning, I got a call from my younger sister telling me that she has seen her WAEC Results. However, the tone of her voice was somehow not good. I suspected that something was wrong... I saw the results finally and here are are grades

Christian Religious Studies - E8
Economics - F9
Government - C5
Literature-in- English - C6
Civic Education - E8
English Language - D7
Yoruba - C4
Mathematics - B3
Catering Craft practice - F9


Please, help me advice her on which course she can study in the university with this WAEC results.
Mods , please I will appreciate if it is moved to front page for more advice. Thanks

She can't study any thing with this result. for a person to get admission, 6 credits (including English and math) are required. even if she had credited English , it's still not up to 6 credits. Good luck in her next setting.

Kobojunkiee:
How do you happen to know so much about this woman? Are you talking of the same woman described in this OP or your own woman abeg?

You have yet to reasonable approach what you claim is my defence so how can you consider it watery to begin with? You are instead still stuck pretending pretending have the woman all figured out beyond what the OP said in His opening post, so ...

Lol. perhaps, you (we) have lost direction to what we're conversing about.
Our comments are based on similar issue raised by one commenter , not on the OP's case.

Besides, no comment is reasonable to you if it's not coming from your spectrum of reasoning..so
(inserts your confused emoji here)

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts.

My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little.

What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family.

Please don't insult me because I am in a relationship though it's a young relationship and I cherish my man I just see myself falling for this neighbor.

how many times will this your Story make front page.

felixzo1:
if we were married if not no

hence, she was a virgin it just wanted to maintain the standard of no marriage no sex ?

don't mind my intruding Sire.

Kobojunkiee:
Her changed usual weird attitude? Dude, you don't know the woman at all to even assume this of her at all.

You now know the lady more than those she had been with before the incident? The lady in question,up till now,has failed to explain the weird behavior she exhibited which was new to what she has been done with .
Dude, your defence are watery.
A person that can't explain her behavior is the person you are assuming to be accused . Do you make sense to yourself (inserts your confused emoji here)