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guyXander:
I used to have a female, but she's not fine. She's average.
And when I'm that vulnerable place those thoughts creep but I down them by just opening my gallery and looking at pic. Then I'll hiss, and close it.
Only ugly girls are allowed to have makes friends jor.
My standards are so high, so I can't even think of dating her cos after a week or two, when I'm so sober, I'll must break up with her. And I hate to be the bad guy so I just don't.
This year, I just quit all affiliations with females as friends.
To be frank, if my self control no strong, ... Do the math.
Female friends are a no no! They only gain from the friendship.

your last sentence is very legit. lol

Never knew he was married o

jamesbridget13:
she should definitely change her ways but what brought op here was d issue of buying undies. He needs to tell his wife that he is sorry about that n explain to her that d girl picked her undies herself while he paid. That's my suggestion.

It's good to bring peace to the home as u suggesting. Still, He doesn't need to apologise anything. There's no need to enable her attitudes and the way she thinks.
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Rather, they should talk about this issue in a serious manner. If he apologized now ( which I don't even know what for) it will lead her to be more careless with her ways and attitudes - tomorrow now she can even accuse him of sleeping with his kids too.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

Age could be used to predict the size of those things u mentioned. all one need is to communicate with the sellers with the appropriate physical information of the person then the seller, out of experience, can now use those information to predict and select the right size for the intended person.
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And besides, I think the op went with the girls together with his kids for the shopping. You ladies should stop thinking as perverts o.

jamesbridget13:
No Nigeria woman will take that lightly. Though d clothes buying is cool but undies oga ei no good. My girl with me i do buy them myself once in a while.

I think u should henceforth delegate d duty of underwear buying to her. So matters like this don't up again. Talk to her n apologize

Apologize for looking out for her niece she should have taken the duty of looking after? why has she not bought anything for the little girl for the last two years even after being told by the husband in different occasions .

The woman should ashamed of herself for her neglect and having a dubious mind. She should change her ways.

Since she feels that it's her right to buy the underwear , what was keeping her from buying it since 2 years ago? why has dgecnkt bought it since?
Your wife is exhibiting some trait of a wicked person and even worse. And she has a dubious and corrupt mind to even think ill of your action and to even linked it to even sleeping with an under aged niece of hers is something to worry about. Your wife is keeping bad company - it has finished!

A lot of people here are trying so hard to sound woke while being hypocritical at it. Have you not at a point in time of your life used your head to carry load before - whether heavy or not. Now, what's wrong in telling a 6/7 years ago kid that they can use their head to do same?
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Spiral curriculum will sure change the content of what they are being taught as the gradually move from simple to complex studies in the same concept they are studying .
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Some of your abusing the author and even the publisher have not completed OR even attempt to carry out a research work in their life. make una chill out Abeg. Inukwa sue the school, for what!?

fabuloz1:
Since the creation of this thread, I was following every comments. First thread I followed even till now. I have read his comment days ago before I saw yours. I understood every fucking thing he typed

Very well.

casspersteve:
Exactly the same thing I'm going through here.

There is this girl,she is my course mate, one day out of my flirtatious tongue, I called her my crush.

Like that o, we became close. The babe helped me with her notes which I read for exams.

This lockdown, we keep talking almost everyday, yesterday I asked her who I was to her, and she said don't I know. She has a boyfriend o, her parents knows the guy, because he comes home often.

I told her I don't know, she said I should find out. The babe calls me My love and all of that. She is addicted to me, I gave her that attention she needs and off lately I'm reducing that shit.

Today I haven't spoken to her, and she texted and called me right before I typed this. She was like I'm snubbing her.

You could imagine, somebody that has a bf.

she need that attention she's getting from you man. Her man might not be giving her that. in this case o protect yourself first if u can't deal emotionally

Samm9y:
Your brain is not working. Read my post well or better still get someone to read it and explain to you in your language. Smh

Lol. it's well. I have heard you.
but, it won't be needed.. stop commenting in half .

fabuloz1:
The moment I read his confession, I understood what he meant. I knew he was referring to whatsapp. Learn how to comprehend someone's 'not too good expression' without him delineating more.

The message was half-expressed.
You must have understood him after I engaged him. if you claimed you did at first, well that's is good.

U want he to be your bestie abi... lol u want to someone's son to assistant boyfriend lol Madam de your de.

rs172:
Mr Ominipresent na wa for you ooo

OK.

Samm9y:
Are you daft? Saying i saw her wedding pics on her WhatsApp status the next day should explain to you what I meant

Wise Man. go learn how to communicate effectively.

At first u said u were with ur supposed lovers on the night before her wedding - how is that possible huh? Anyone that read they would think that u were with her physically and would think that u are lying liefer.

then I asked a question - u added whatsap chat which u never indicated.

If u are making up a story to be among those wronged in a relationship, try to cook up a more believable story as an intelligent wise person u are.

Daft. lol.

You are just trying to import trouble into your union. You said you both have forgiven the past you guys had, you have mentioned the good qualities she has and supportive too. then, have let her confiding in you develop a headache for you? Except she's still in love with the ex or you're no longer in love with her.

zedegit:
Somebody should bring chain.

� � lol lol lol lol lol

kizzoh:
I have never told anyone about this ,, have kept it bottled up inside me. Guess this is an opportunity to let it out.
There was this very beautiful girl I was dating back in the days. I loved her so much , took care of all her needs including her education. Everything was going on well with us, she had proven to me countless times that the really loves me , She sticks to me like glue, never letting me out of her sight for one minute. I had no reason to doubt her love and fidelity for me .
So I was to travel out for a business trip and went to Lagos to pick up my Visa. Bae called me evey second my way back, got to town late and picked her up from school . Immediately we got home , straight to business because I missed her and we can't bear to be apart even for minute. As I removed my di..k from her vg to change position , I noticed something on the tip of my penis, pick it up and examined it and it turned out to be broken condom.
The experience still hunts me till date .

And that was the end between both of you. what was her explanation to that?

Samm9y:
WhatsApp chat

It's reasonable now. You should include that in u initial comment.

Ussycool:
I no force am o... She was fully responding.

na shame , pride and ego de worry am. she no fit look you for face after that sex incident.

hope4nigeria:
bro that thing no funny oh, Na so I just become deputy boyfriend.

lol e de happen

pocohantas:
“She dumped me. Now I have a job, car and nice apartment. She wants to come back.”

I don’t think there are up to 7 Nigerian guys without this EX story .

It happens everywhere, not only in Nigeria. or, you think it does not happen?

Chuky7:
she walked out on me on my birthday...she was jealous of how I was always rolling with my guys every time...
The day of the birthday she and I were to go out to a nice guest house n chill. we were to meet at a certain junction. on getting there she my friend with me and got pissed off and went home. saying stuff like we were supposed to spend time alone and together. I was so fvck pissed off I went to the guest to chill with my guy instead. ordered drinks like mad.
Girls get moved by stupid shit sha

since u agreed to go out with her alone, why bring a friend? you were insensitive to her feelings baba.

Tapout:
liking lesbians or requesting for a three-some absolutley has nothing to do with being depraved. dunno where u guys get and believe all these theories about a gender totally different from yours. it's just what it is that most guys are aroused by what they see. seeing a nude lady is enough to make an average guy go haywire talkmore of two which just doubles those visual stimuli. most guys if not all will definitely choose looking at a nude lady over a nude guy simply explaining y most guys find anything pertaining to being gay disgusting. it's totally okay if you don't understand or agree with whatever i wrote cos you are not a Guy/male.

there's some amount of sense in ur comment to the explanation of why these things happen .

ArewaFanatic:
I met her in my second year at University. I was barely 19 then and as is common with greenhorns, threw caution to the winds and literally made her my goddess - possibly a sort of rival to the high God. I fought everyone for her, made enemies of invaluable friends, wolves of well meaning family members; I literally just threw everyone out.
Then came the day she told me: "you are a nice guy Abdul, but you are quite naive. You will make a great companion to anybody when you grow wiser. I am not willing to wait". I was 22, in fourth year.

stories that touches the heart.

Wendybrown:
What does ghosting mean?

to distance yourself from someone till they forget about you. no call, no message no nothing. It's a subtle way of breaking up with someone.

Greenbullet:
Mine was very tricky because she she was a smart girl , I had to hack her phone , her text messages and calls to see that she was cheating on me , I summoned her to my house with enough evidence and made a power point presentation , she burst into tears , I acted like I forgave her , i gave her a mad hard knacking , she couldn't even stand well after that I broke up with her the next morning when she went back home , sent her a text message, she called tire , I no pick , she came to my house to look for me , I was staying with a friend , after a month she let me be.

PowerPoint presentation? U'r Mean o

Samm9y:
We were discussing how many kids we are going to have on the night of her wedding but I never knew. I was so ashamed of myself after viewing her WhatsApp status d next day. Ladies are heartless.

she's with you the night of her wedding? Haba oga.. easy

hope4nigeria:
I unknowingly paid her transport fare to visit her boyfriend. When I find out, I just broke up with her.

to see her boyfriend? what were you, an assistant boyfriend? � � � �

osejie17:
Mehn. I do hear from people how their heart gets broken and all that. never thought it will happen to me during my NYSC 2 yrs ago.i met dis babe she happened to be posted to d same ppa as me. Dem she's beautiful and sexy. we fell in love. made love did shit together. I love her pass anything. I buy her stuffs even though she never asked for it. wetin come happen be say after Nysc mehn wen she reach house she sent a text saying sorry am done. we should break up. just like dat. I beg her beg oooo wetin happen wetin I do. shes doesn't date a guy dat is far from her dat contract don finish. I shocked. it was painful Sha

You were even lucky self. Just move.

Tom05:
She said; My pastor said we can’t get married. She later married the pastor in question. But mind you” she later called me to share this story. She never knew pastor get wife for another state. Begging me for forgiveness and friendship.

Friend what?? I think you are mad ��

some Pastors have caused many wahalla for this world for ladies than they have solved. o di egwu

Sewa90:
Lol thought he was sorry for real,he invited me over to a restaurant, so as to apologize, he was checking my phone for recent pictures,baba codedly stood up to receive a call,went with my phone and never looked back lol,he called almost all my contacts asking them for money.....The guy na bastard

Choi!

Ussycool:
Back in the university days. I was accompanied her back to hostel and we have issue with security men in the entrance gate, and they didn't allowed us in. As a staylite, i know one backyard road to the hostel. Sharply, she agree to follow that bushy road. In the middle of road we started good night kiss that leads to hot sex without even protection.

Nemesis
The following day, i wake up and saw her sms telling me it's over between us. Like play, she avoid me till i graduate. I beg tired and nothing like green light o.
I love that girl die, I swear.

A-ah! Weti u do de girl. u force am for the sex thing. I understand no o