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gideonite98:
Only a Fool will raise hand to hit someone first
But if a lady raised her hand on me first I will definitely return the favour but will never hit someone first either a man or a woman
I'm a gentle man but not a slowpoke.

Back to the OP matter
What the man did is wrong
Call a spade a spade
What he did is totally wrong
I'm glad I don't have sisters because I would have probably cause trouble because of them
U no fit beat my sister even if you're the husband as long as she's not the first person to hit you.
No try it
Settle it amicably

Dijavu97:
The man beating up is wife is totally wrong.
That the symptom of weak men.
Lost their glory just for ordinary exercise coupled with fluid discharge. Wat a shame.

Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.

southniyikaye:
Our violence is inbuilt, it is always in us everywhere we go...
The problem is, we don't know what might trigger it..
Her own got triggered in far away Indian....
I hope they don trigger her to life imprisonment..

I have never laid my hand on a woman before but my wife provoked me one day to the extreme that I took pastular and wanted to shatter her head with it cos I was full of rage.. Thank Goodness I didn't close my eyes cos na just life imprisonment I dey see all over her body.. I just calm down, na me even pet am las Las...
If you can survive not beating your wife, you can survive anything.. They can be extremely annoying sha

Fact1:
Hmmmm,,,

This life learn to ask first before jugding,,,,,, okay?


If you see a mad man if possible ask him why him dey do like dat before concluding dat he's a mad man,,,,,,,,,,


What happened is this,,,,,,,

I created the thread but me and ZINI derailed the thread by discussing another thing,,,,,,,,


So to me it doesn't make sense at all if someone else open the thread and the op post didn't tally with the comments,,,,,,,,,,,

So i have to erase the content because there's no delete bottom for nairaland,,,,,,,,,,and you know the nature of nairaland once you drop a comment in an old thread the thread may move to the front page,,,,,,,,

So that is what happened sir,,,,,,,

Don't judge things by what you see or think,,,,,, judge by what you hear(from the person whom it may concern) before judging,,,,,,,,,

You sha don talk say ano get sense,,,,,,,,,, no problem nigga don move on,,,,,,,

Lemme light up this weed because imma hit you if you dey my front,,,,,,

HRHQueenPhil:
if he looks up to GOD, I know GOD will help him do it successfully and sustain his new family but to trust in his woman or mentor, he may fall like a. Pack of cards

virginprincess:
Who knows maybe the father of the child must have promised to marry her, but nevertheless you are right.

modestbrowser:
This review is based on my own accord.. You may not like them, that's strictly your business.
Just read and laff, If you don't know how to laff, that's strictly your business..

1. She has a life- but it revolves around him!

Men can't stand a woman who doesn't continue to enjoy her own hobbies and take care of her own responsibilities while in a relationship. When he becomes her entire world, it puts too much pressure on him. He feels like he's responsible for her happiness and sense of being fulfilled, which isn't fair to either person.

2. She acts the wicked witch.

One of the biggest things men hate about women are the women who act rude, jealous, and bitchy towards other women. Criticizing other women's sense of style or fashion, among other things, is one of the top things men despise. Women who do this are unattractive and often do well at repelling men.

3. She can't fulfill herself.

When a woman doesn't love and care about herself enough to have a fulfilled life without a man in it, she becomes very clingy and needy when a new man does enter her life. It is important to know this one thing. You can't hope to have any man love you, if you don't love yourself first. It is impossible. Without self love and respect you can't and won't receive it from any boyfriends permanently. Men hate a woman who is clingy and needy all of the time.

4. He is her emotional support.

Tying into the above, men hate women who use him to lean on all the time. Yes, if something in your life goes wrong its okay to need someone for a little while. But on a regular basis your family and friends should be your 24/7 emotional support, not the boyfriend.

5. The compulsive shopper.

There is little men hate more about certain women than the ones who must shop all of the time. When they can only think, breathe, and do shopping, severe irritation begins to set in with the man in her life. To be a well rounded woman means to have a wide variety of active hobbies and responsibilities both.

6. She's too independent.

While independence is a quality men admire in a woman, taking it too far can cause more harm than good. Men need to be needed, to a point, to feel that they are a real part of your life. Men hate the overly independent woman because she accepts no compliments, acts indifferent, and makes no real space for a man in her life, even if there is a boyfriend in existence.

7. Jealousy, jealousy, jealousy.

Men hate women who are jealous and act crazy because of it. The girlfriend who asks, "Do you think that girl is pretty?" is certainly not appreciated for it. It puts the man in a very bad lose-lose situation. Women who become jealous of other women and act rude, cold, or distant towards them and others because of it are quite unattractive to men.

8. The High Maintenance Woman.

While at first this woman may be quite appealing by her dazzling looks and ultimate self confidence, all men will come to find this woman horrid. The high maintenance woman is not appreciated by men in the least. She is unable to act laid back, relaxed, and enjoy the company of other men and women without taking over the entire scene. She demands expensive gifts and pretty words in exchange for affection from her man, and seems fake and uncaring towards him.

9. The "femi-nazi".

If you look around you, you will find that nearly all men believe women are equals. In today's world, this is the norm. However, there are still a select few women known as "femi-nazis", women who love to bash men while calling it what it really isn't. Men love women who love men, in general. Women who take pride in themselves by belittling men and making generalizations about them are unattractive, rude, and not favored by men. Or most other women, for that matter.

10. The hysterical, emotional woman.

If there is one thing that men truly hate about women, its that many of them become emotional about absolutely everything. Be it a sappy movie, a broken nail, or the fact that they can't find their car keys, women go crazy over the little stuff often. No one is perfect, but a woman who is constantly in hysterics over every little problem or inconvenience will have no brownie points with the men she interacts with.
http://www.kiss9ja.com/2015/08/10-things-men-dont-like-about-nigerian.html?m=1

rainerboy1010:
Kai...


You are a good woman lol

Heavensent01:
is up to you to judge that, I'm not here to compare who's bad or good but what I know is ladies lost out most in broken relationship beside a man will always be man


before AD Or BC years I have read how men married more than one wives but I've never read where ladies married more than one man, men will always have advantage over ladies any day anytime this is why ladies must keep safe


you can't defend immorality with sanity

Heavensent01:
bit of fresh to you but its a keen of pride that you will be getting along with a lady of virtue, principles and dignity


you can keep defending and painting immorality with good paint, na u sabi


even if you claimed I lived in 12th century, we can't fall in love with stupidity consistently because I don't think how you felt it's alright for a lady to open her vagina for men she won't end up with

virginprincess:
I know what she did wasn't right, but if you read carefully you will see where it was written that the lady tried severally to put up a quarell with him but the guy ignored, to me the lady was already tired but the guy didn't want to let her go, that why she took such decision.

Abouwaza:
as u dey find damn nigga
damn nigga dey blow weed and bang pussy
so dey there dey find am

Kobicove:
What you did is invasion of privacy and it's done only by scumbags!

madridguy:
" [b]My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, [/b]as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them."

This part really touch me.

dotunibrahim7:
she's jealous bro you just showed her you've got options(abundance mentality)..shes threatened now she's gonna compete with the other girls to get your attention

Heavensent01:
any unmarried non virgin lady doesn't have dignity and when dignity is lost, where is the value?


go and find the meaning of dignity and value Madam

Heavensent01:
any unmarried non virgin lady doesn't have dignity and when dignity is lost, where is the value?


go and find the meaning of dignity and value Madam

virginprincess:
Yes 95% of men will do it, if she doesn't want you let her go, am very sure he doesn't want to let the lady go, that why she had no choice than to get pregnant for another guy.

thesilentman:
ilegend,this guy is a "tough" person.Even myself was surprised that he could be emotionally heartbroken to that extent.

thesilentman:
This sunday evening,i risked my life trying to wrench a broken bottle from a neigbour who was all out to stab his fiance.
The bone of contention was that the lady got pregnant for another guy-obviously she had been two-timing him.Hence,she had for the past one week,been trying to pick a fight with him that would lead to splitsville between both of them. The guy did not fall for the trick and then the lady had to come clean that the pregnancy is not his. This got the guy raving bonkers. Everyone tried to console him that he should forget about the lady,that life goes on and all that jazz.
Till now,he's still fuming and in severe pains.
How can i console him? I'm pretty much confuse because i still can't fathom whether his reaction is rational or not.
Guys can you fight over a snatched lover?
Is it worth it? Would you try what he did if you were in his shoes?
Happy sunday to all nairalanders!

Daguccizgreat:
She should give him be benefit of doubts. Don't forget people do change

Descortes:
Yiu dumb or something?? If you were comprehensive enough you'd have known I was actually laughing at the fact that she said he only cheated once.
and you ran into silly conclusions that I was laughing at her pain.. very dumbish

Bigdik70inch2:
No..
I don't mean to her hurt by cheating..
Just that she had hardly get naughty back..
She..seems jux too upright and I have told her severally..

Heavensent01:
you can tell naive men this your disposition, I can't settle with a lady with over used pussy even if I need to settle with non virgin lady God forbid


I'm in the class of men that have taste and get irritated to warn out pússy

rainerboy1010:
Mmmmm like

FanOfMyself:
"were"

Heavensent01:
it does look less in value, men that see himself as Maradona have his balls drop but the dickk doesn't lose his value no matter how it banged, that's the advantage men have over ladies, this is why ladies should be sensible when going into a relationship


in a broken relationship, the disadvantages is 30% for men that have spend enough of resources and no disadvantage for men that the lady take care of his bills in the relationship, on ladies side is always 70% or 100%

Angelacruz:
I don't know

Bigdik70inch2:
Maybe..u were forming too good girl for him..

Every guy..need at least a touch of bad girl Oo..

I plan cheating on my gf soonest too sha..

She too dey prove good girl to me..