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bjcole: i hear u madam, & that will nt aggrevate him, like u advised, & if u r nt pregnant, u wil also tell so that he can be happy, those r ur important info abi? let me ask u, wil u tell if ur boss is bent on sleeping wit u or friend? why did he get angry wit u after telling him urself, estabilsh that, nt dat nigerian r teritorial & jealous, may be american men r better.

You need to comprehend carefully...the statement about Nigerian men was FROM A NIGERIAN WOMAN.

THERE IS NO PERFECT MAN IN THIS WORLD AND IT DOESNT MATTER WHO YOU MARRY....EVEN THE DAMN POPE ISNT PERFECT!

Hmm....last time i have checked flaws come in all shapes and shades.

I will have a better chance of learning perfection from an alien.

20 hours later and that slobbering and vapid nigglet still bleeding like a little biatch. That was some good ole country azzwhooping!

Buahahhahabababbabababba!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]http://blacksportsonline.com/home/2011/10/official-police-report-showing-draya-michele-was-arrested-for-child-endangerment/
this beauty has done the most shocking things you can imagine including endangering the life of her own child. as a breadwinner would you put ur career before your family? if so how would u justify it?[/quote]It is difficult to embark on the rumor when the accused is saying it is not true. But generally speaking...some people choose careers over family and not everyone can deal with handling family. I think people should do whatever they are comfortable doing and know that they are able to handle.

But I would agree with one comment made on youtube video that said if women and men aren't ready to be a parent then they should practice safe sex or keep their legs closed. Once a child is brought into the world..it is no longer about you.


So it is all about preferences in my opinion.

This is a video of Draya clearing up the rumors about her abandoning her son and sleeping around.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4QIzRgsbyE

UmericanGirl: What is the use of telling your man something if you KNOW he is going to get angry/upset about it. Shouldnt a lady want to keep her many happy and NOT cause stress for no reason?

I hear you. When my husband and I were just dating..I would tell him little things that he didn't really need to know because I thought that it was a sign to him that I have nothing to hide...my husband actually told me that I didn't need to share with him everything little thing and that he trust me otherwise he would leave. If we can't trust each other then there is no point....we established what we both consider "important information to share and what is not necessary".

Now if I slept with a man and got pregnant of course that is something I need to share with my husband but I am referring to simple things as a man paying me a compliment or I received flowers from a male coworker.

1920MaMa: study him b4 telling and mind wat u voice out. if he's an abuser, chances are he will surely use them against you in future.
old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.

I agree with you on the old things...if it is old and before your relationship...let it go. There is no point in rehashing old bullshit. My suggestion for people who are not in relationships is to get rid of their baggages before getting into the relationship that will prevent any drama in your new relationship.

Out with the old and in with the new.

bjcole: If it does nt work 4 u, doesnt mean it work 4 others, & why generalising nigerian men. A close family friend to my wife's family, that we so much respected becos f what he did during our weddin was disturbing & wanting 2 sleep wit her, I got 2 knw & i was very upset even wit her, we agreed on what 2 do,he was so ashamed f himself, when he got 2 knw dat i m aware. how much r willing 2 keep

Huh? Are you confusing my comment with several others? First of all...no one generalized Nigerian men. I was sharing an opinion of another Nigerian woman in regards to Nigerian men that loves their wives and are territorial. Okay fine...not all Nigerian men are territorial and give a Bleep about their wives. Gotcha.

We can't control our partner's emotions and no matter if we do or do not share with our partner..it will not change the outcome of their decisions. My husband could have simply decided not to get upset just as well as he could have decided to get upset. Why would I cause unnecessary drama with my husband if I can prevent it by not telling him every little detail of what happened with me when he is not around?

Do I need to tell my husband a man smiled at me? Do I need to tell my husband that I used some of his lotion? We need to choose our battles with our partner...everything is not MEANT TO BE SHARED and the important things are crucial. My husband can live without me telling him a man smiled at me today. What is the point?

My husband will not tell me what his friends tell him in confident and I will not tell him what my friends tell me in confident. That is called respecting our friends' privacy and friendship. If our friends wanted other people to know then they would have told them publicly.

Onila.....this thread was a sad attempt to get your attention...please lose your "virginity" so that nigglet can rest.

Thanks in advance.

LMAO@that mortal kombat uppercut.

He had to get in a boxing stance just to execute that uppercut.

carefreewannabe: stop talking shit cameroonpride. you have a nice attitude but you're attacking the wrong person.

it's a natural right of every parent, male or female, to have custody of their child(ren). unless they are mentally retarded or sick and so dangerous to their children or heavy drug addicts or similar. am tired of you people. you are not trying to understand but to win. don't try to prove me wrong.as you said, you know too little about the topic. but IMMEDIATELY you're taking the position of someone who wants to make feminism appear like a devil act and deadly sin just because this man considers women a danger. [size=33pt]feminism was about women's rights and still is, if you have a problem wit it I pity your wives and daughters[/size].

Whooooooo low blow. Damn. Girl...you said wives as in plural...you know these nigglets trifling as hell.

Po Cares....bless your heart.

You know you got to use pictures right? Words are too advance for them.

carefreewannabe: EXACTLY !

why is it so difficult to understand for some people?

Lack of common intelligence.

BrownGold: Great to read how a post changes from its original topic... [color=#550000][/color]

Lol.

Black Kenichi: Again with the sophistry.
When a person calls someone a negative thing it doesn't mean that the person that said it is a great example of anything.

Someone saying negative comments =/= Great example

At least stop being intellectually dishonest, Mrs Chima.

Stop being unintelligent. Focus on improving that nigglet.

carefreewannabe: But I can give them a job. On the condition they don't talk

Anytime a male has an issue with women advocating rights that men have....he is the reason why his daughters will never succeed.

They better look up the definition and do proper research before spewing bullshit. There is a difference between fighting for rights for women...feminism...and not wanting to be with nor love men....misandry.

Dummies keep confusing the two.

carefreewannabe: I know

Reading their comments makes me truly understand why our female ancestors had to try so hard for our generation and the future to come to have more rights.
Nobody will tell me that feminism is so evil when my daughters have all opportunities women should have always had thank tp our grand grandmothers. grandmothers and mothers. End of discussion.

Girl Bleep them dumb azz nigglets....they are scared that women are TAKING THEIR JOBS. Oops...they don't have one!

carefreewannabe: you're repeating yourself. get out and don't just say it.

run lil boy, run

Correction: nigglet run nigglet run!

pleep: kenichi i suggest you get out of here also. preserve your masculine engery, dont let them bring you down to their level!

[size=33pt]That's right...get your nigglet and RUN[/size]!

Change your tampon too!

Black Kenichi: Actually I said I have low standards. At least read what I said previously! Here's the quote:



Anything else or just more "shouting" and awful music!

When you tell someone that they are unladylike and etc....that is telling them how to act as if YOU ARE a great example. You are simp...you are excused.

pleep: I really hope you guys are stay at homes moms, because if i had to work with you guys i would strangle you.

oh wait... single mother have to work! hahah bye bytches pleep is out!

Thank your mommy for keeping you when your daddy didn't want you or her. She is a strong single mother.

ThatS right manbitch..[size=44pt].RUN! [/size]

carefreewannabe: that is exactly the problem. the definition, where is the f...... definition?

You know they have that picture dictionary!

carefreewannabe: you mean they don'T affect you?

It affects him otherwise he wouldn't have cried and whined three LONG AZZ comments about racial slurs....and nigglet isn't a racial slur by the way.

Black Kenichi: Now this transgendered is "shouting" here pointless bulls**t. Typical black feminist.

F@ggot...didn't you say you have better standards? Is that what sophisticated men behave? Like trailer trash? Are you reneging or you couldn't help yourself? You still don't know whom YOU ARE TALKING TO.

Keep guessing loose booty nigglet.

Dumb nigglets ARE PURE ENTERTAINMENT.

carefreewannabe: it's for fun sister.

Have fun girl! They are making the hours go by so fast! Yay it is friday!

LMAO@the nigglet calling you dumb cos HE can't define words properly.

[size=44pt]Hit manbitches BARKING AND SLITHERING ALL OVER THE THREAD![/size]



STILL LMAO@FEMINISM STARTED IN THE 60'S!

Nicki Minaj play that record girl!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7mLhLPBBXc


Why you mad, mad, mad nigglets?

LMAO@feminism started in the 60's!!

Cares...you got time girl! You can't argue with stup!d!

[size=44pt]Slobbering nigglets mad than a mofo! [/size]

Two f@ggots tag teaming and shit! Only a weak azz nigglet need help to debate a chick!

Black Kenichi: So whatever you say, I should believe!?
Typical feminazi! So when are you going to send the "gynestapo" after me!?

Typical misogynistic f@ggot.

[size=44pt]Heerrrrre comes manbitch Pleep dikk.[/size]