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Okay...one black man doesnt speak for all. In fact 60 black men married non-black women since the article published.

This thread still popping

Smh.

Donlittle: mrs chima wat do u mean? she abused me first though, i shouldnt do anything?

Did I say your name You sound a bit guilty.

[quote author=Idi-Amin]Madam you making assumptions here. I would defo have an issue with my kids naked around aother people. we are a close family, i have been like these with them since they were babies. It's no big issue for them, they dont even look at me, or my manliness. it's not like they go around the house laughing 'I saw daddy's manliness, hehehe'. because we are a close family, they dont even look, I can be in the shower, my son can come in the bathroom pee and walk out without even acknowledging that I am naked in the shower. I get your point though[/quote]Making an assumption? You just said YOU DIDN'T CARE!! HOW CAN SOMEBODY ASSUME SOMETHING YOU HAVE CONFESSED TO! You said you don't close the door and have piss contest with your son! That is PRANCING AROUND! GOODNESS!

SMH.

rokiatu: Are you angry with your wife? Lmao.

stillwater: ^^^No need for duh, we are all learning. I would just like to know what marital problem that can be solved by denying sex, instead of trashing out the problem itself.

It is clear that having sex sure doesn't solve marital issues EITHER OTHERWISE people wouldn't be cheating sexually. There are men who have confessed their wives give them sex whenever they want but they STILL CHEAT. Now what?

Take your time.

[quote author=Idi-Amin]Look, it is not like I am walking around the house with nuts dangling from left to right. I wear clothes in my house, let's get that clear. It's just not in me to close the bedroom door when I come in from the bathroom just because my kids are downstairs and they could come up anytime. if I am lotioning up and one of daughters walk in, should I dive for cover behind the bed, and shout 'get out'.

I undersatnd my wife's feelings but I have to consciously think about it and do what she is saying. it's mot like I think to myself 'should I do it or not do it, my wife might get annoyed. I will do it anyway'[/quote]Oh now you have clothes on....dude whatever.

You just basically proved my point when I said...you don't give a Bleep. So what is the point of this thread?

taryour: you just noticed MOST married men have security locks on their phones,,, my question is HOW MANY MARRIED MEN PHONES HAVE YOU CHECKED to be so sure that most married men have security locks on their phones

Since OP doesn't have an issue with prancing around nekkid...then he shouldn't have an issue with his children prancing around nekkid to other people as well.

If he doesn't give a Bleep...neither should the kids. Prance on!

[quote author=Idi-Amin]Even if they dont ask at home. dont they go to school? they will ask sooner or later, they will have peers in school. When you start hiding this this education from your kids and make it a taboo to ask about their private parts, that is when they will start exploring at age 13 and bring disgrace into your house[/quote]Huh? You prancing your body around is EDUCATING YOUR KIDS The boys have the same thing YOU HAVE and the girl have the same thing HER MOMMA HAVE...why must YOU SHOW YOUR BODY PARTS to simply remind them they have the same thing?

You can properly educate your kids with proper names for body parts that is acceptable because they will learn it at school but to prancing around like a human chalkboard is not necessary.

[quote author=Idi-Amin]tell me why do you think that because a little girl has not seen manliness before as a child, then it means she will grow up morally better than the one who grew up seeing her father's manliness.

what do you mean by 'there are some lines you should not cross' I am not a peadophile abegi, and will not be Nigerian Josef Fritzl. It just does not bother me, that is all I am saying.[/quote]YOU DON'T HAVE AN ISSUE BUT YOUR WIFE DOES. You do not owe no one an explanation on this site but you do owe respect to your wife's feelings regarding your flaunting around your body in front of the kids. She is uncomfortable with you prancing around or you simply do not care?

We can't help your marriage nor we can prevent whatever comes your way but you simply asked us our opinions and we gave it to you. Now you can simply have a chat with your wife and find out what is good for the both of youse...until then she is unhappy and you don't give a Bleep.

MRbrownJAY: ^^^you meant THAT INDIVIDUAL VICTORY got me swollen.......anyway let us not derail this nice thread.

Your team still lost.

stillwater: Can you gimme reasons why a couple would deny each other of sex? 'Cos I can't think of any.

I cant speak for other couples and if they were denied..it has to be a reason for it...duh.

Before jumping into conclusions....people need to first know why the man was denied sex and stop supporting cheating...two wrongs doesnt make it right.

I see little boys are still pulling ponytails in the sandbox. Such a shame.

What kind of church do you attend? Why have two weddings

A wedding is a wedding is a wedding. Once married there is no undoing to get married again. If a church wont marry you because you are married and pregnant..you need to another church that is not demonic.

In other countries that is considered child abuse.

MRbrownJAY: ^^ ahahaha i am sure we will find plenty of thread to get our fight mode on....but be ready to lose!

Whatever...that two extra points got you swollen.

Excuse me....is the wife knowing the code will prevent the husband from cheating or committing a crime

Real talk.

Mbj!! I was looking to fight you man!! Get out myhead bro!!

Grrrr.

Well people do fall out of love and want out. Why would anyone stay with someone they do not love and unhappy with

I dont have any thoughts on it for it is their marriage and not mine.

4llerbuntu: have'nt u heard? BIGGER IS BETTER

Women like it LARGE
CC mrs.chima

Not all women.

ikekings: Hmmm... Mrs.chima... ....

Yes love?

ikekings: Lol... You must be joking right? ...

Do I look like I am joking?

Can I buy a vowel, Pat?

I give Ikeking a 2.1.

He is not that ugly....a good thing.

I give him a 2.

Now some people on Nairaland have swore up and down that people need to respect other people's cultures. We can't pick and choose which cultures we will embrace or analyze without accepting ALL CULTURES. I have seen people promote their cultures and ideologies....people had better accept it or they wouldn't be considered ignorant.

What is good for the goose should also be good for the gander. What if that is their family's culture that the girl prove her fertility? It may not be something that YOU would do but there is a big world out there that is larger than Nigeria, Africa, and America.

I am sure many of youse think your culture is normal and sane....so do other people. It is the girl's choice if she wants to be with a dude that test her fertility if she loves him then let her deal with him...we don't have to deal with him personally.

People need to stop that flip flopping.

Go ahead and marry him. They are jealous.

phineboy1pimple: [color=#000099][/color]Apparently, open relationships allow people to spice things up and keep life interesting. Wouldn't it just be easier to stay single?

I don't engage in open relationships otherwise I wouldn't have gotten married. I am heavily into clean health and body.

fastlane84: Tanx. I hv already made up my mind 2 b with her..... Mrs chima z so unbelievable



Tanx. I hv already made up my mind 2 b with her..... Mrs chima z so unbelievable

Awwwwww. You decided to be with your fat azz chick huh? I wish you all well. My job is done! Come kids...let get another sucker!