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Can someone tell me how to say...sleep on that one couch tonight in Igbo?

Thanks in advance!

ikekings: Lol... Yea.. Don't you know?

Duh! I am married to one.

kezz ibee: Most women still bear their father's names along side their husband's. E.g miss andie michael gets married to mr gabriel derrik nd bears mrs andie michael-Derrik. As a woman, would you still like to bear your father's name, nd wots ur reason?

I don't see anything wrong with it but I am not married to them. It is all on the man that is married to said woman. If he doesn't have an issue with it...then it is all good.

preciousoz: "The Magic is not in the Size of the Wand but He dat Wields it"

That's what men with little and dead dicks say.

ikekings: Lol... They are not talking about anything... They just commented on a post made by a lady like you about ”kini“...

Kini is a dick.

Have you ever been in a domestic violence relationship and if so, how did you remove yourself from it? Have you ever helped someone remove themselves from an abusive relationship? What are your thoughts on domestic violence in marriage or dating?

I have recently encouraged a friend of mine to leave her abusive partner because she would always cover herself with make up and hoodies. I told my husband about this situation and he suggested that I remove myself from the equation and we got into an argument because I felt like he was supporting the abuser.

My husband said that he does not want his wife involve in something that has nothing to do with me and he will hurt a mofo if harm come my way. In some way, I am touched but still mad at him because I feel like if it was his sisters or mother...he would be like Boko Haram with atomic bombs. Why is it when it is someone that is not family...men will turn their heads?

My friend won't press charges and I am afraid for her children. She has two girls and one boy. She shared with me that her son is imitating the abuser by threatening to kill her and she need to sleep with one eye open. That bothers me because I know if she doesn't get out...she will be in a body bag.

I have successfully helped women get out of abusive relationship because their families were involved but she has not family that live in our region. She moved from her hometown to be with her partner and I was introduced to her by a survivor. This is exactly what she looks like and it is no lie.

How can a woman or man get out of an abusive relationship and do you think it is easy to do so even with a sure way out?

Two men talking about dicks is a scary image.

candieangel12: For the last time im bisexual not a lesbian

If you bleeps women...you are a lesbian. There is no such thing as bisexual and even my homosexual friends agrees with me!

[quote author=Atheist:-D]A common statement amongst women. "Only divorce when you are financially comfortable" hmmmm.... [/quote]That's not what I said. Don't make up shit. I am financially sound and I AM STILL WITH MY HUSBAND.

Wait a minute...is this a dick monogolue or relationship topic

No, I will not discuss my husband's appendage.

anitank: Who doesn't?

You would be surprised..there are many women WHO DO NOT like it big.

Let borrow this logic for a minute....

Do you think a poor woman who has nothing to show nor give will divorce her husband or the hand that is feeding her I am not saying poor women WILL NOT DIVORCE their husband but it can happens if the marriage is bad enough but unlikely.

The woman has the mean to leave her husband if he is cheating on her, threatening her life, or alienated her. I don't see any reasons why she would stay if she can support herself even without alimony/child support.

Once poor women who are in bleeped up marriages find a mean to an end...they would too divorce their husbands. It is about having that dough and courage to do so.

Deception and lack of reality.

I know the gay men are loving this!

tellwsdom: Mshew chima, i wld be in L.A soon, come and see me, so that we can

I would rather eat lead and swim with pirahnas.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]It was all for the green card. . . Imagine, he married her secretly.
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Hmm. You made an interesting point.

SAFO: No, don't marry her. Go and marry the woman your mother has handpicked for you. Maybe she can even pick out your underwears and clothes for the wedding.

Or here's one, maybe you can ....... Ummm be a man and make your own decisions?

[size=22pt]SAFO!! [/size] How far na?

tellwsdom: Shattap, urs is a crap. if only ur married

And you are not really a male...tranny.

tellwsdom: God forbid...They yansh too much, dats the reason they don't get fat ....btwn speak about ur own and not someone's

I spoke about mine blind bat.

tellwsdom: Your aimless letters are in the bin--come and check them

Awww jealous? You wish you have a marriage like the Obamas huh?

tellwsdom: Please beware of mshew chima's siblings--They divorce real quick

The siblings that are married...are STILL MARRIED. They got married before I did.

[quote author=Duke_Nija]Dude I feel you and where you re coming from.
I need you to realise that marriage is about Love, Tolerance, Commitment and That good feeling.
The questions you need to ask yourself are:
1. Does this woman fit my perfect picture of a Wife?
2. Does she share my dreams/beliefs/Fears.
3. Is she committed to our relationship?

Love isn't everything. There are common things couples need to Soar.
I'll tell you what, tribe doesn't make a woman Good. There are lots of Nigerian Women who believe in Divorce much more than AA Women.

Nigerian Marriages aren't the best I'll tell you. [size=44pt]Don't lose a good Woman who's part of your good history because of senseless attachments. Ask Obama.[/size]

Just Pray and Let God guide you.[/quote]Exactly. President Obama has a GOOD WOMAN regardless of her nationality...she is a good wife and mother. That's what a man should look for and if she happens to be green... oh well.

My husband and I actually wrote President Obama and Mrs. Obama, a letter thanking them for being such a model couple and we wish them much more happy marriage and prosperity.

jellyloveb: What else are looking for? The bolded says it all! She travel 2hours every Friday just so she could be with you in your roach invested crib.

Do you need a rocket science to tell you that she loves you?

And btw, stop generalizing, b'cuz Mr A and B got married to an AA, and their union ended in divorce, it doesn't mean yours will be turn out to be the same.

EIther she love him or she is retarded...any chick that travels hours to be with me as a man....I would take notice and appreciate that. But you are right though....there are failed Black American to Black American marriages, failed Nigerian to Nigeiran marriages, Failed Black to White marriages, and failed dog to human marriages. Do we not marry because OF ONE'S FAILED MARRIAGE or do we take a chance on our marriage succeeding because we have entered it in good faith?

That's how matured adults should think and people have said the same thing about my husband and I. Two of the haters are NOW SEPARATED and one is divorced. We are still married and will be welcoming a new member to the family.

The secret? We both love each other, entered the marriage in good faith, and are committed to our vows to make it "work" no matter what. I would be old and gray giving my husband a lap dance at his 60th birthday party.

carefreewannabe: you never know what your marriage will be like no matter who you marry. there is no guarantee. it's always a risk.

That's true. Just because you marry someone in the same group, caste, social status, region, religion, culture, and nationality doesn't mean you will have a successful marriage but it doesn't mean your marriage will fail. We need to think the results we want in our marriage or relationship. If we think our marriage WON'T LAST OR SUCCEED that exactly what WILL HAPPEN.

Our mouth speak LIFE AND DEATH.

Someone made a statement that Nigerians and Black Americans union always fail....regardless what nationality the woman or man is...if they entered the marriage with a scammer...there is no positive testimony. How can a marriage succeed base on lie and deception

Exactly.

[quote author=*Kails*]Lol @ the joke is on you guys maybe so...but i think its hilarious tbh.

Chima sis drop it. Its over my love [/quote]As long as fagg dont say shit else to me..we are good.

I dont rhink he she it think it is over.

shymexx: ^^^Yo fugly Igbo cheese fat bastard a la Mrs..Chima, keep my handle off your bs with shollypopz, no dyck getting fat slob...

This is the last time I'm going to warn you, plonker!!

I don't do wretched fat single mums, stay away from me...

I don't converse with you, do the same, pillock...

SHYMEX....NOW WHAT NIGGA?? KEEP BARKING FAGG!

MRbrownJAY: @OP
first you had a bf, then you dumped him on his Bday because he was too nice and you wanted a bad boy, then you started missing him and wanted him back, but he didnt want you back.......now you meet a gal and "supposedly" love her after a few days?!

sista you are very confused to say the least!

Wait a minute...she is a lesbian too? I didn't know lesbians dated men too! Let me call my dyke friend and get some answers cos this is some bullshit!

[quote author=*Kails*]Lol i dont know.
She was on here not to long ago. In fact im gonna see if she replied to me. I hope yall can get past what ever beef yall had. I know ppl on NL dont matter once you hit the signout but i hate to see what happened between yall. [/quote]Oh i am way past it... we were never friends anyway...just chatters agreeing and disagreeing points of view..if she speak..i will speak back and will continue to say what on my mind. It all started when i laughed at something MBJ said and she sniped at me saying i agreed/supported what MBJ said about women and he was on point too....I as a realist cant get mad at reality and facts. Just like I didn't even come at you when you spoke the truth about some Black Americans to Kony/Blyss and people shouldn't come at me when I speak the truth about Africans and other nationalities. MBJ was entitled to express his opinion and I was entitled to either laugh at him or cuss him out. I chose to laugh at him cos he was BENT ON making his point.

Hell..i even checked MBJ when it wasnt even my beef or argument. Dirt was slung and i slung back. The rest is history. The only thing I regretted was even checking MBJ because it HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH ME. My granny said to me years ago...sometimes when helping people it actually hurt them. I never could understood what she meant until I came on Nairaland. That's sad.

I know she was on NL...i saw her spiel on the thread you said shouldnt be revived. Thats what i meant by ghost of the past. She is right about one thing...plenty of ignorant black folks on both sides....educated or not. Thats real.

[s](reading for spelling errors at Shymex/Sholly)[/s]

[quote author=*Kails*]ikr.

ttyl.[/quote]Sis...did that girl ever sell that printer? I found it accidentally when I was reading some threads and laughed until I cried.

[quote author=*Kails*]im about to bounce.
gotta get ready for work. already.

kisses sis, and please leave this issue alone.
its bad enough i wasted on hours on them fo0ls.

its a new day ffs..let it go.[/quote]Aight! I finna get ready myself...I hate Monday! Arggggggh!

Sorry Sis...back to you. It was too EASY!

I ain't gon jump in...I pwmoise!