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Mature men usually think ahead before venturing in marriage.  They will complete school first and then search for a job to support a family before seeking a wife.

I agree. Men are visual so their perceptions are optical.

Women need to be self confidence in themselves before venturing out in relationships. I have seen women jump in a relationship foot first and often stay in the relationship because they do not want to be coined "single" which is sad.

An elderly man said "Just because a couple isn't outside fighting doesn't mean they aren't inside fighting".

In other words, love yourself enough to know whats you want and demand the love of your partner or go somewhere else.

Nayah:
Mrs Chima in fact I think this is not about gender, truth hurts for everyone

I am talking specifically of women since this thread for women.

lefulefu:
master chima u well so?

Sorry the white men didn't take you. Perhaps too ugly?

Just grab a kid. That's what white men do.

Nice.

Women also need to know that there are women that will tell you what you need to hear because it could save your life or give you ammunition to make a decision in your life. I have noticed that some women get defensive when you tell them the truth.

Ignorance isn't always a bliss.

lefulefu:
hmm my own na for love o
i love my oyibo girlfriend to death and besides its mostly the fat old oyibo women that yahoo yahoo boys scam easily
no sexy white lady would be that despirate to throw all her money at some annoymous person she met on a dating site and come to think of it its mostly old lonely ppl yu see on dating sites

"Sexy" white woman are scammed as well.

LMAO@only fat white women get scammed

As I have stated all over the section, Marriage couples keep your personal business between YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE. It doesn't matter if you have trusted friends or family members.

General subjects are okay because it affects friends and family but when it comes to something as personal as cheating, financial issues, sexual issues, and the likes should remain private.

If the heat is too unbearable then consult a LICENSED AND CERTIFIED therapist/counselor. They are trained to listen to both side objectively without bias before giving an advice.

Goldieluks:
Hey ho.

Hey area ho.

r231:
^^^^^you go come with me abi

You are going as my bodyguard.

lefulefu:
they send u very sexy pics to make u fall for them.They would send u a picture of Ramsey Noah giving a sexy pose or dat of Van Vicker and dem go claim say na dem dey the pic or if na oyibo woman dem wan scam den dem go send one sexy hot pic of one fine looking white model and u go see how do woman go fall all over because of the pix and she go start to dey do anythin wey d scammer want make im do.firstly the scammer go ask for the mugu make im send money to am make im join wit im own so make im travel over come join am and d foolish woman go use all her pension money on the scammer.some ppl dey foolish sha

Is that how you got your Oyinbo child?

rhymz:
Seriously, Mrs Chima abi Na Mr Chima needs some Rev Eddie Long stroking to help her behave, .lol
Your wits are as stale as an innocent fart that rips out un-noticed. . ,what a bore!!!
I wish I could help you but I can't Ma. By the way, Did you try the Cyanide I prescribed for your ailment?Seriously, Mrs Chima abi Na Mr Chima needs some Rev Eddie Long stroking to help her behave, .lol
Your wits are as stale as an innocent fart that rips out un-noticed. . ,what a bore!!!
I wish I could help you but I can't Ma. By the way, Did you try the Cyanide I prescribed for your ailment?

Long line at Cyber Cafe huh? You wasted your free time on ME. I am so flattered.

OP

How much you paying?

Sijo01:
What d hel is going on here?
mrs. chima, tpia@ & lax75, can u 3 plz tel me wat's going on, wat hav u pipo turned my thread into?

I am innocent this time! I was just trying to help the love birds settle down into a room but they were too explosive. I tried. Sighs.

That's pathetic Sis.

Toto Bandit has awaken.

When I was single, I wanted a man that has a pulse and black.

I don't think my list was too unrealistic wasn't it?

Lax75:
Errrmmmmm

Don't worry. I won't tell her you are one of my victims.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=553419.msg9080224#msg9080224 date=1315194635]Chima - that is ok - it is all water under the bridge and quite pointless now.

I know that you get caught up in the heat of the moment (as have I as well on other threads but I am trying hard to change that) and really many writers do pick with you alot.  I don't know where this all went wrong or who is still upset from a previous thread or even if alot of it is said in jest and fun.  But the topic is now dead and buried.

While off topic - I hope you are advancing well and are taking care of yourself for the little one.[/quote]Thanks Shyone.  Well, you know unexposed people doesn't like the truthsayers.  You already know I say things with salt and unexposed people aren't used to that.  

I don't tell people things they want to hear but rather what they should hear but I have refrained from a lot of things I would say simply because I know they can't handle it.  They shouldn't be complaining for real though.  Even Mz. Darkskin said I am too nice to them and she is right because typically mean people do not respond with sweetness of some sort.  

Remember the screen name I told you I wanted to create?  BitterSweet?  Someone already beat me to it!  Grrr.

Your arse isn't innocent Lax75!

Shyone, I tried to make the slaughter less bloody and messy but it didn't work. My bad.

Lax75:
Mrs Chima, what is she on about? She keeps saying you fell into my trap etc. What is she talking about please? I don't understand her English because the only English I understand is the one we were taught in the classroom. Not the jungle.

I guess talking to you mean you have trapped me. I don't have the slightest idea on what you have "trapped" me with.

I hope whatever you have "trapped" me with give me the connection to Van Vicker.

He's so delicious.

Is it that serious?

Lax75:
Tpia started it. She should just allow me to help those who wanna bust wolees. End of story.

Did you just tell me END OF STORY? You done bleeped up now.

Let me tell your black arse something YOU DON'T tell me end of ANYTHING. You bow down to me!

Now drop and give me 40 push ups.

LMAO@Lax75 narrating like I don't see the posts.  

You missing the cyber wars huh?  It isn't that important.  

Lax75:
You know, I see why she hates me so much. I created an organization that whoops the @ss' of wolees (fake @ss prophets that scam people with their fake @ss visions/omens/dreams/doom/gloom etc). The same ones that won't give tpia her refund after lying to her that she would be a happily married woman by now. She is barking up the wrong tree, but it's ok. She says most nigerians would send me to the mad house, claims she doesn't have time for my posts, yet she is quick to jump at each and every comment I have made, passionately too! Aborigines need love too, but definitely not from me.

She likes you.  You know shy women aren't expressively outgoing.  Help her come out of her shell a bit and you may discover a diamond in a pile of poo.

Psst. What is it that you supposed to have "fed" me? She is ranting that you can't get her like you got me. I didn't know we were dating.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=750365.msg9079945#msg9079945 date=1315186031]please use your gumption so you dont fall prey to nigerian scammers who will mess with your brain.

dont let lax75 turn you into his zombie.

point out anywhere here where i called you jobless.

its very annoying when people let others do their thinking for them.[/quote]Then you better talk to that white woman from Canada that is planning a trip to Mexico to see her Nigerian pen pal for the first time.

Just for the record, all North American women aren't gullible.