₦airaland Forum

Ms. Potato

Interesting.  Stigmatization is real and we can cover it up as much as we went and it will never end.  You can't turn it off like a light switch.

kokoye:
I roll my eyes at you

And all this time I thought you was having a seizure. My bad suga.

[size=22pt]Pleep, pleep, and pleep [/size]

Rokiatu and Hottie Tima,

Somebody on another thread said I am OYINBO!!!!

I need to see that damn cat!

pleep:
Your a white american right?
( I like to be aware of these things so I can keep the black nationalism/kunte-kinte to a minimum)

LMAO@me being oyinbo.      Let just say when I showers I do not smell like wolves.   

Please do not keep your black nationalism and kunte kinte to the minimum.  I embrace REALNESS.  Be you. 

(still laughing at me being oyinbo) You are so funny!

Rokiatu, where is that damn cat at?!!!

How are you wifey? Where is my concubine Hottie?

No. I am not Nigerian. Thank you.

(singing in high pitch) I will always looooooooooooooooooooove yoouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

Cry me an ocean.

I see exactly what Tpia are saying about Nigerian men bashing their own. Bashing of Nigerian men are no where near as saturated as bashing of Nigerian women.

As much as you love Nigerian men but you must also keep it real of the behavior many of them perpetrated against Nigerian women. If you want the world to stop bashing Nigerian men then they will need to lead by examples of NOT BASHING Nigerian women. It is that simple.

Some of the chatters on here are associates I know outside of NL and they asked me why are you defending them if they are not defending themselves. It is also interesting that another one asked me that today. I am not standing up for Nigerian women but I am standing up against bullshit.

As I have stated in previous threads, it will always be a stigma in BLACK COMMUNITIES around the world as long as BLACK PEOPLE PERPETRATES negativity and it is a generational curse. It is a black thing you wouldn't know nothing about. It would take CENTURIES of DE-STIGMATIZATION to reverse the damages been done.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0055bb] Chima wth? [/color]

Sis! I just read that and I was like WTH too. I was just fucking with you El Gualpo.

Hormones are a mofo.

El Guapo:
ms chima go tru dat post again u'ld find out that i meant u

Did you fell out of the bed suga? It was a hell of a YOU WISH dream huh? How long has it been since you found out? (putting on white jacket and rubber gloves)

Open your legs a bit, I am just going to check something.

MRbrownJAY:
@Mrs C
some conmen are better than others at finding desperate women.

as i said and repeat: most brothaz that go to a country with a 90days visa will focus on ugly and fat women to have a better chance at having a quick marriage. if they find a  skinny one who fit that ¨desperate¨status, that most fat/ugly women posess, then why would/should they turn her down?!

the fact that your co worker is skinny and got played doesnt change the facts!

Of course, opinions and facts are two different things.      Hypothetically speaking, If you couldn't find a desperate fat and ugly chick before your 90 days was over would you pay 50 grand to a chick who wouldn't mind the extra cash?

Richvkunt:
1.Men and women are created to perform different functions in this life.

[b]Men and women were created to live as a testimony for God, be fruitful, and spread the Gospel. Since you like to quote scriptures, you needs to understand the scriptures you are reading.  In the book of Genesis talks about the creation of humankind and so forth.  

Adam and Eve were instructed not to disobey God.  They both disobeyed God according to the same scripture you have skim reading.  As the result, the man was forced to have toil in his labor to provide for his family and the woman was to struggle authority with the man and endure pain.  

Before the act of sin, God created Adam first symbolically showing he is the head and the woman second symbolically showing that she is the neck.  Without the strong support of the neck, the head will not function effectively.  They were considered an unit, ONE, fertilized egg, and homogeneous.  "Help meet" in marriages means partner NOT SLAVE, not a LovePeddler, and definitely not your child.  

The other identification of roles appears AFTER the beginning of civilization and accordingly to MAN's point of view.  God's idea of what is wholesome are completely different from WHAT YOU consider wholesome.  Don't forget that.[/b]

2.Women are created FOR men.1st Corinthians chapt11 verses 8 and 9.

Verse 8: A man did not come from woman, but a woman came from man and verse 9: man was not created for woman, but woman was created for man. These verses simply means:
Eve was created when God saw how lonely Adam was and needed a life partner and not a slave.

3.Women are not prevented from advancing themselves in terms of education or job placement PROVIDED they stick to their God endorsed natural role of being a helper to their men by cooking,washing and warming the beds of their men.

[b]You need to read the scriptures with the guidance of the Holy Spirit and pray before opening a bible if you have one.  Bibles are available to anyone who wants to read them and if you are not careful people like me will call you out on it. These are the roles the bible has for a woman. Isa. 3, Tim. 2, Esp. 5

She is to adorn herself with holy garments and praise God in thanksgiving and joy.

She rules over the children.

She is to remain reverence (not a slave nor an area rug) in the plight of holy services while men lead.

She is the bearer of children.  Sex was designed for PROCREATION AND PLEASURE for BOTH PARTNERS. There is nothing in the bible states women are to PLEASE THEIR HUSBANDS IN BED OR ELSE.

She is the keeper of the home, while the husband is the keeper of the field.  Remember this, a woman and a man cleaved into each other when they are married.  They are considered a unit and therefore if a woman was the keeper of the field, the husband should be the keeper of the home.

Today, economy doesn't allow the woman to remain home unless the husband can provide support of TWO INCOME for the family then the woman can remain at home or vice versa.  
She is to submit or reverend her husband when he is SUBMISSIVE AND REVEREND TO GOD.  If YOU are not submissive or reverend to God, then you should not expect your WIFE to do the same to you.  Submission doesn't mean become slave or gullible to the husband but to respect his decisions that it is GOD APPROVED.
She is the JEWEL of her husband's eyes.  
[/b]
4.Men are to meant to be the providers for the women.

Only if the woman is the keeper of the house. If the woman is working outside of the home therefore you are not the sole provider and both are joint providers.

5.However at times Men stray from their women because men by nature are polygamous and find it difficult to stick to one woman.

The bible speaks AGAINST adultery and cheating. It also illustrates ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN as well.

1 Cor. 7
It is good for a man not to touch a woman.  Because of sexual immorality, let each man have HIS OWN WIFE, not wives and let each woman have HER OWN HUSBAND, not husbands.

Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.  Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer.  Come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your LACK OF SELF CONTROL.

You thought I forget about your arse huh? Not that easy!  Refer to the bold response and relish it dearly.  It is also not rocket science to read the bible for what it is and not what you wish it to be.  

SouthChi:
We may not always agree but it is a pleasure joining you in the fight against ignorance.

It is refreshing to see someone with a third leg understands and feeling exactly what i have been saying for the longest. Oooh lawd!

Ignorance isn't always blissful.

Peace and hair grease to you too.

SouthChi:
Where I'm from its not uncommon for successful women to give all praise to allah or jesus for all that they accomplish.

We can't speak for everybody. However, everybody can speak for themselves and should be allowed to.

Brother, I encourage you to find love in a strong woman that compliments your strengths, challenges your weakness and completes your purpose in life.

I just had a cyber orgasm. Sorry. I am so damn proud, SERIOUSLY.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=indigo]South Chi, you are a real man and I applaud you brother! 

we ALL know some women are not ideal wives. We already know some women are not worthy as they have lost their values or interest in being
upstanding women with dignity and self respect. Some women know nothing about womanhood or what it means to be nurturers. This we all know, but what I respect about you bro, is the fact that you emphasize the importance of celebrating the women who are on top of their game, who has their eyes on the prize and make it a point to seek education or be upstanding citizens for the sake of their children, siblings, husbands, parents etc to have hope. Such women should not and do not deserve to be placed with "wutless" women who are too concerned with finding a 'baller' and not a husband to support while being supported by him. As you said beautifully a woman should not be viewed as competition but rather a partner.
Some of these men would literally kill another for disrespecting their mothers, daughters, sisters; etc but are willing to degrade those of another. Seriously? SMH BIG TIME!!!

@topic: What kind of man believes he must flex his muscles on a woman by way of calling her names and declaring her place is to be his in house "punny"? Really? Is that what your mothers are to your fathers? or are your mothers the women who gave birth to their children, raised them and behaved as the PARTNER to their husbands? Even if one was not so fortunate to have both parents act as a unit muchless live together, we human beings are born with basic instincts to let us know right from wrong. You cannot tell me that you feel like a man bullying women. NO MAN can tell me that for in reality he is but a punk who too afraid to pick on his fellow man so his woman has to feel what he is afraid to deliver to someone of the same s3x.

Seriously tho, I have to ask. Why are these same men who are obsessed with str!ppers, pr0stitutes and other half n@ked models now coming on this thread bashing them? we all know there are l3sbians who purchase or download such pictures but the main target is that of men. Do not indulge in such things then try to degrade such women and style them as trash when you are practically giving these women the 'ok' to do such things. It's call hypocrisy. [/color]

Caliente my sista! I would like to add:

we ALL know some men[/b]are not ideal husbands. We already know some [b]men are not worthy as they have lost their values or interest in being upstanding men with dignity and self respect.

Some men know nothing about manhood or what it means to be providers or virtuous men.

Richvkunt:
@SouthChi,

It appears you do not understand this thread.
Please don't be in such a hurry to ride to the defence of the other s.ex.
I know you want to be seen as a knight in shinning armour,but I suggest you go back and read my first post, carefully so that you can assimilate what I am talking about.
You have been on my case all day trying to j.erk me off(No hom.o)
I am gonna explain it to you just once then I am out.

1.Men and women are created to perform different functions in this life.
2.Women are created FOR men.1st Corinthians chapt11 verses 8 and 9.
3.Women are not prevented from advancing themselves in terms of education or job placement PROVIDED they stick to their God endorsed natural role of being a helper to their men by cooking,washing and warming the beds of their men.
4.Men are to meant to be the providers for the women.
5.However at times Men stray from their women because men by nature are polygamous and find it difficult to stick to one woman.
6.In conclusion the onus is on the woman to prevent her husband from straying by taking care to be submissive,cook his food,wash his clothes,warm his bed and bear his offspring,while he provides for her.

It is not rocket science,and it has been going on for ages and will continue to the universe comes to an end.

LMAO@#5 

So you admitted that men are natural whores?   Hmm.  Interesting.

(waiting patiently on your answer to Natash's post)

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=681907.msg8455516#msg8455516 date=1307216315]duh and what do you say about men who cheat even when their wives give them all these you mentioned  
Men and women were created for God A woman's job can never end in the kitchen or in the Bedroom don't even quote the Bible since you know the Bible so much I guess you heard of the woman called DEBORAH  [/quote]

Friendly flirt or sexual flirt?

I have seen people experienced some horrible bind dates and I am guilty of always matching folks up on blind dates.  I wouldn't do it though.  

r231:
thinking. . . . . .

I seen your profile on www.blackstallionhunks.com The leopard print singlet was a bit much but creative.

Omolola1:
sighs

Exactly.  

LMAO@Babe    "Yeye kindergarten purple font"

Op,

Its depends on what type of "partners" you are referring to? There are many different types of partners and each expectations are different.

I am assuming in order to online date, you would have meet your partner online right? So if there are no marriage license involved therefore both parties are still on the market. Until both say I DO, he or she can have an online dating profile but that doesn't mean he or she will do anything with it.

Anything can happen before both partners jump the broom. Engagement is not a secured promise nor is marriage. Now if they are married partners then there shouldn't be any dating profiles on both sides.

May the snake violate you ooo

(laughing at some of the UHMMM replies)

[size=13pt]LMAO [/size]

The chain has been yanked.

amefi:
I always crush Mzd n Mrs. Chima wt my 18'' ,

Sleeping on the couch alone is getting to ya huh?