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jay bee:
^^^^
IMO, Crazy is an understatement when it comes to the accused mofo
She's def not mentally alright and probably need to be detained indefinitely

Don't use my words without MY PERMISSION! I am the originator of MOFO and I am suing you for copyright infringement!

Hey sugas! Yall missed me?

Are you sure about that N.Delta that White men do not run after Asian women? Who are they running after?

:-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x

Then how would you get a date?   

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=645013.msg8170050#msg8170050 date=1303292966]Mrs Chima snores very loud coz Her neighbours always complain. TRUE Story [/quote]At least I have neighbors, Shrek.

Smh.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=646049.msg8165143#msg8165143 date=1303232702]
In terms of media coverage, I would say yes many of those people in the divorce rate mentioned are celebrities but overall all, there is a high divorce rate in the US. And those people you mentioned not being of American heritage, although many of them may not be of American heritage, a lot of them are second or third generation children and are very much familiar with American culture. Its not like majority of them are "fresh of the boat" and have no understanding of American culture besides, if you do take a good look at some of these celebrities who's parents are not of American heritage you will see that many of them do come from countries where the sanctity of marriage is highly respected.[/quote]I am not saying that high divorce rate doesn't exist in US.  I am saying that we need to look at the people that are divorcing and if we are going to be statistically correct more white women are married in US than Black women. 

It is not common to see black couples in the limelight getting divorce however you will see either white women with white husbands getting divorced or white women with black husbands getting divorced.   Many of these celebrities that are divorcing or divorced are not American born.   

So again, we need to look at the people that are divorcing and not where they are divorcing from.  Even if these celebrities as you say are third generations the culture is still there if they respect their culture and honors it. 

No one can influence you if you don't allow it. 

I do not mean any offense, but women in Africa do not have the rights as they should when it come to lifestyle choices and being able to divorce their husbands if it proves to be unbearable.  No one should be in a marriage where they are being abused on a daily basis not knowing if they are going to live or die.  I am not saying it is the case for all but I do know for a fact that if a man divorce his wife she may be left with nothing.  So it makes sense for the woman that if she doesn't have a way out to even think about divorcing her husband.  I am willingly to bet that if the government favors women more in Africa the divorce rate would skyrocket as well.

I know for sure ANY WOMAN or man that is unhappy in their marriage will not stay in it if they had a choice.  Let keep it real.   

The MAIN reasons why divorce are so high in America because RICH people can afford it.  It is cheaper to get married than it is to get divorce.  That why I said most of the people who are divorcing all nilly willy are people with money.  A poor couple ARE not opting for divorce but a rich couple who doesn't love each other will pay that cash so they can dash. 

In America, women get half of the divorce settlement otherwise specified whereas in other regions are given nothing.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]Actually Chima one or two of those wives were not Naija, one of them being Jamo. 
but i get what you are saying. Lack of tolerance, respect and ability to tame ones temper should not be excused
with claims of 'cultural shock'. Everyone knows that killing is wrong regardless of race, culture or s3x.[/color]

I hear what you are saying however that were two cases perhaps that identified the wives being non-African however there are African wives either being killed or abused because they decides to branch out of their "culture" and assimilate with the pop culture.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=648750.msg8160704#msg8160704 date=1303190514]
Sista Chima, I love ya girl but I gotta disagree with you there. Suggestion is not an order. If you and I are shopping and I see a nice item and suggest it to you, am I telling you to buy it? Or if you and I decide to go Six Flags and I see a ride and suggest that you go on it, I am telling you to go on it? No. Ultimately, the decision would be up to you because I am not forcing you to do it nor am I telling you that it is a must.

lol, the question should be will I even get married? Anyway to answer your question, with all honestly I don't know. I might marry a Nigerian and I might not marry a Nigerian--it's pretty much up in the air. I'm open minded when it comes to dating people of other nationalities, ethnicities, or religious beliefs. At times, I get the feeling I may not marry a man who is from the same national ethnic group that I'm "from". I used to think that even if I didn't end up with a Nigerian, I'd at least end up with someone who was African regardless of what region their from. Even if i don't end up with a Nigerian or African, I'm ok with the idea.[/quote]Inky, You know I love you too girl! However, in order to suggest something to someone you must tell them of your suggestions. Suggestions is not a forced action nor telling is a forced action. I can tell you to jump the bridge or suggest that you jump off the bridge both will have the same effect because of the correlations.

We can "pretend" that suggesting something to someone is not telling them.

Thank him and wish him well.

I don't.

Hello Shyone!

You have a booger in your nose.

That makes sense.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=645013.msg8165049#msg8165049 date=1303231903]Where is Mrs Chima? I heard she snores very loud [/quote]You can hear? I pegged you as Deaf and Dumb.

desholah:
What's classic about that?

Exactly. Some people are slower than molasses.

REAL TRUTH:
@MissyB,,,so in all you have said what is your conclusion in a logical form? You agreed the world shouldn't be stagnant,,so doesn't that tell you the definition of TRADITIONAL? For every students of Economics,, its a common knowledge to know that taste and fashion changes over time,,
How in this world would you say that I do not understand the concept of TRADITIONAL even with clear cut explanation or definition that times and tides of the trends of the day,time or age defines what traditional implies?
In real sense I do not see any need to respond to your posts because you re only aggravated by the fact that you can't accept or do not want admit reality of online dating. Online dating is a reality of our time and its a big issue,,the more reason the poster have it on here.
In the US and Canada,,its a way of life,,,and there are countless single sites that has met several individual needs for spouse(s). There re a couple of sites such as eHarmony,,Christian singles,,etc,,,if you re based in Nigeria,,you definately would not be able access simply because of certain people fraudulent act,,,
Now as I speak to you,,there re people(even Pastors) in Nigeria who have singles network where eligible bachellors and spinsters meet to see if there is a connection that would culminate in to love and ultimately marriage.If online dating is not pronounce activity in Nigeria,,its only going to be a matter of time.When suggest that a young upward going young man should change his environment cos of meeting a lady of his environment,,,the question is what is the possibility of meeting with such lady in the environment he relocates to,,,when you re in a eharmony for instance where you would meet thousands of young eligible professionals looking for a spouse,,why would you want to change your environment when you can actually bring the world to your door step?

Bottom line: If online dating is no different than traditional dating then why are you making it a deal that MOST people on here have chosen traditional dating as THEIR choice regardless if you feel they are stupid or not?

Why is it hard for the likes of you to respect that everyone have different opinions and life choices? If everyone believes in the same thing or does the same thing the WORLD would be boring. Accept diversity and move on.

REAL TRUTH:
Certainly not through postal services,,,and with your submission it simply buttrees the point that online dating is a reality.The crux of the matter with online dating,, just like any other dating is if the parties are in it for the right reasons.There are very great and dependable online dating sites in the US that has been in existence for almost or more than 20yrs,,,eharmony and Christian Cafe are examples,,,you would need to be a financial member to sign up and use their services,,,and yearly thousands of couple are getting hooked up.
If you live in the western world or US,,,you could verify these,,,but you can not access it from Nigeria because certain people in Nigeria has taken advantage of it by been fraudulent. My main thrust is that,,I am soon hoping to launch an online dating in Nigeria,,,,just watchout!!!!

If you wants to shun your own people that on you. My point is that like everybody else Nigerians are heavily involved in Online Dating as well regardless if they are using it to scam lonely suckers or not.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=649725.msg8160785#msg8160785 date=1303191965]@OP: Hmmm, I don't know how to describe it but kisses are special to me which is why I hate when people sneak a kiss from me. I don't go around just kissing anyone [/quote]Don't you hate it when the person tried to kiss you with morning breaths? Goodness!

I am willing to share my Hair Spray and Lighter action with you.

[quote author=N.Delta link=topic=639119.msg8160812#msg8160812 date=1303192640]for posting the above as my reply to a thread. its the second time this has happend to me. OK i thought it was iice because her name came up in my email. but its cool sha. i think you guys are doing a great job here its not easy to govern people. cheers[/quote]You are good at brown nosing.

It was the content of his posts.

I am sure the Super Mods and Admins aren't that anal retentive.  Geez.  

Suggested something to someone is telling someone suga. Otherwise, how would they know what you are suggesting?

Keep in mind that those high divorce rates are MAINLY of celebrities. Many of these celebrities are not of American heritage and are immigrants from other countries. My thing is this if other groups value their cultures so much then they will not be divorcing each other in foreign countries.

Someone said that you can take a lion out the safari but it would still be a lion that is used to safari lifestyle. So the excuses for people blaming foreign countries for their inability to keep it real is sickening.

I agree with someone who said that their are African men who are killing their wives in America and these wives are AFRICAN WOMEN so what excuses do you have now? None. It is sad that one will kill before they will divorce someone they absolutely loathes and despises.

Sad.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=648740.msg8151782#msg8151782 date=1303096809]I agree with you There.

I am good - been on NL for a few hours today. I'll catch you another time. Have a great evening Chima.[/quote]You take it easy. Adios.