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Sighs.

I thought you was chasing INKIE?

If the shoe fits, wear it.

Orikinla:
Not all the time.

I know many very hygienic Nigerian men attracting very unhygienic women and even got married to them and then calling them nasty names during quarrels.

There are many Nigerian women with very clean loins. with pubic hair shaved off.
In fact the photo I posted reminds me of a pretty and sexy Nairaland babe. But she too had her price.

As pliant as Nigerian men are, they will not be with a woman that is smelling UNLESS they are after something.  Real talk. 

You mentioned that these "clean" men get with dirty women and talk about them when they are fighting them. GUESS WHAT? Dirty applies in EVERY ASPECT.

Example:

The woman's body is odorous and the man's mouth is SHITTY. Two of a kind attracts each other.

So my THEORY has been confirmed.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=602156.msg7704261#msg7704261 date=1297339759]@ Chima

woowwww

u just didn't get it. period- there was no cookie cutter anywhere in my post.

But that is alright - those that needed it - definitely got it.

in no way, shape or form is this aimed at you AT ALL.  if u had experienced anything that i posted in "your marriage" you would be able to immediately relate to what was posted.

i have experienced it very deeply in my previous marriage and am experiencing it right now as well.  hence the reason i strongly relate to it.

obviously nothing is for everybody.  obviously it wasn't for you.  my apologies if for some reason you didn't agree or took offense - where none was meant.

many people definitely do agree and have experienced similar.  when u marry the right person - the marriage institution in itself -  does definitely offer protection, security, love, strength and bonds those 2 individuals to be a much stronger as a unit versus single entities.[/quote]Shyone,

I have opinions just like you have opinions.  When opinions aren't on the same page it will not BE AGREEABLE.  I am a realist and I am of the world. Sugary realities aren't my specialty.

I did not say YOU SAID IT WAS COOKIE CUTTER, I said that MARRIAGE ISN'T COOKIE CUTTER.  I used me as an example because I am married and I can speak on it. 

Once again, Marriage is what YOU MAKE OF IT.  Do you people.

[quote author=UR, FATHER link=topic=602156.msg7702976#msg7702976 date=1297327251]All the guys in the house una too get time while reading the post of the poster i knew u guys will want to "fire" the poster with harsh words. @Mobinga no need telling the girls that they should dont listen, if them like make them listen and mrs eve pls if u r really married trust me u r decieving the single ladies or do u tell your hubby u r doing him a favour by marrying him and giving him the useless reason the OP is giving . ladies if una like listen na una palava be that [/quote]What the Bleep is you talking about? How the Bleep am I deceiving these single ladies? I never said a gotdamn thing about "doing my husband a favor by marrying him". You misunderstood what the poster have stated.

Please read the COMMENT for what it said not what YOU BELIEVE IT TO BE. Gotdamn! Yes, mofo I am married. My marriage isn't the gotdamn subject either. Now if you want to go there we can.

I advise you not. It isn't about you or I.

sandraa:
ARE WE ALL NIGERIANS?,  then the question is y r so many nigerians OLODO'S?

For crying out loud if you read very well (but no you wont cos u r an olodo) the post is talking to men that dont respect the scripture dat says "'HE THAT FINDS A WIFE HAS FOUND A GUD THING''
The kind that makes so many girls dont know their worth, the kind of men that dnt see the gud that their wife do for them!

If you r that type pls pour insult on me if you like i dnt ve your time!!!!!!!!!.(am actually busy dats y)

Then all you silly girls claiming i dnt want to get married blah blah blah , who made you ve such a defensive heart?, my guess that idiotic elebi guy dat u thot will marry u and all that and u dumps u and u r all ''i dnt want to get married , am happy with my life like dis blah blah blah'', pls spare me your gist abeg!

Of course there are chics dat dnt want to get married but most is cos of wat they ve seen with guys (as in men don show them pepper) or they ve not met d one dey feel something for!, and plenty more reasons,

If you read very well i didnt say dnt get married chics!,  or all guys r bad!,  am only talking to,

The likes of Mobinga, chim2pimp, haraki, 2buff and the likes of them that r such OLODO +++++++ am almost weeping for them cos if they try treat their wifes bad, well like they say give a woman a house and she will give u a home, give a woman trouble and she will give you hell #TRUESTORY#

Again said my piece!

You know when you oppose men, you will be coined as a MAN HATER and an old hag.  It is interesting to see how women are viewed in Nigeria.  It is sad when MOST OF THESE men have Nigerian mothers. 

I have always said this:  How a man view his mother will be the way he will view his wife or girlfriend.  SOME women will learn the hard way.

SA Lady:
@hirakiri, I'll be your baby mama anytime as long as you keep the baby. Dont worry I'll buy daipers once in a while whenever I feel like it and pay child maintenance like wise.

Life can be sweet girls.

Exactly.

You are what you attracts. 

If you are dirty and foul, you will attract the same person. 

If you are money hungry and everything revolves around money, you will attract the same person. 

If you think that you are inevitable, you will attract the same person.

Law of attraction is powerful and be careful what YOU ASK FOR.  You will simply get it.

Abekeade08:
Your above highlighted quote, tells me that, not only are you nigerian, you are a nigerian living in Nigeria, and to make matters worse, you just insulted all nigerian women inclusive of the women in your family. I suggest you go apologize to your mother ASAP.
@idowgbu, Thanks dearie, I especially enjoyed how you gave him a roundhouse kick with your words lol.

He is Nigerian (Yoruba) and living in Eqypt. I hear you though girl, you can take Nigerians out of Nigeria and they will still be Nigerians.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=601951.msg7701964#msg7701964 date=1297299596]Mrs China.
So you are.
And who told you i'm from Nigeria ?. . . [/quote]You wish. Keep dreaming boo.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=602156.msg7699518#msg7699518 date=1297274983]Marriage should improve the human species, becoming a barrier against vice, a protection to woman, strength to man, and a centre for the affections.

Marriage is a contractual partnership between two people, ie Male and Female. It does not provide any protection whatsoever.  Marriage is not a gun nor a shield against anything.  Even if you are in a partnership, you still have to fend for self.  If a man doesn't have strength BEFORE marriage, how can he have STRENGTH AFTER?  No one can give you strength for strength is from within.  There different "types" of marriage and a huge proportion of married couples ARE NOT AFFECTIONATE with each other/people nor show affection.  If  you are not an affectionate person, how can you exude such?

Marriage should signify a union of hearts

Marriage signify a union of two individual beings that is contracted as a sole entity.  The scripture in Matthews negates the "marriage for love clause" therefore SOME people who are married are not in union of hearts.


Union of the masculine and feminine qualities constitutes completeness. The masculine mind reaches a higher tone through certain elements of the feminine, while the feminine mind gains courage and strength through masculine qualities. These different elements conjoin naturally with each other, and their true harmony is in spiritual oneness. Both sexes should be loving, pure, tender, and strong. The attraction between native qualities will be perpetual only as it is pure and true, bringing sweet seasons of renewal like the returning spring.

Courage and strength is an emotion therefore a man can't give a woman courage nor strength.  A man's mind can't reach no higher than what he thinks of himself regardless if he is married or not.  There are people who are married where one spouse is spiritually opened and the other spouse is not.  Harmony exists when two or more people want peace and tranquility therefore some things aren't always a battle.


Jealousy is the grave of affection. The presence of mistrust, where confidence is due, withers the flowers of Eden and scatters love's petals to decay. Be not in haste to take the vow "until death do us part." Consider its obligations, its responsibilities, its relations to your growth and to your influence on other lives

Jealousy/envy is a sin and is disruptive period regardless if you are in a relationship or not.  If you are decaying you can't grow therefore there is no influence on self or others.  The problem I have with people who assumed that MARRIAGE modified things is absolutely ridiculous.  IF you go into a marriage with the ideal of what it should entails then that exactly how your marriage will present itself.  However, PEOPLE GROW up, down, or apart due to economic calamity, environmental changes, personality growth, and life curve balls.  In a nutshell of all this being said; Marriage is what TWO PEOPLE MAKE OF IT and marriage is not cookie cutter ideal meaning that WHAT WORKS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE may not work for my marriage.


mbe[/quote]What I got from YOUR POST is completely different from what I got from the OP post.

Faher:
Good girl?   After all the trash talking?
Anyway, how have you been? How's the hubby?
I was feeling lost here for a minute. Glad I can speak to someone civil

(Not that temperamental pweety)

Trash talking? Whatever. I been good and he is doing swimmingly well. Well, I am glad that you stopped "snapping" your fingers for a minute and kept us company. You going to be here a while or you DRIVING THROUGH?


Pwetty,

I am the man hater according to these dogs on this site so I am not suppose to like men.


Tosin,

Sitcho funny looking arse down and what children I need to talk to punk?

Faher:
Bosoms? No way. I've been receiving instead of giving.
I've been off NL for more than 6 months. You sound like an old poster (but this is a new ID). Can you remind me?

I have been here quite a while but I do remember you.  Well, let me introduce myself.  My name is Mrs. Chima and I take it that you are Mr. Faher?  Nice meeting you sir.  Hope the sun shines radiantly upon your face.   

I am the good girl.

Thanks a lot! Now, I will be looking at my husband funny from now on!

"Baby, why you looking toward my crotch area with a knife?"

What the matter suga? They asked you for a blackberry too? Come, I fixed some greens and cornbread. It will make you feel better.

Faher:
@Mrs Chima: Is that you, Queeneve? Long time. I see you're now married. I don't want to smell pheromones that have been mixed with a man's sweat abeg.

@190 & Pweety, I see you both haven't changed. Still very temperamental?

Who is Queeneve? Anyway, it has been a while. I see you got tired of sucking the boobies huh?

Damn Tosin.  Who are you going to marry if he spit on all the Nigerian women?   

I am laughing at you! You said you tired of Nigerian men! They aren't that bad, are they?

(laughing and wiping tears)

Girl! I was with you until I saw the cutting off the clittoris part! Ooh lawd! Fainted.

I hear you. I have seen a lot of the women in USA who are not Nigerian married Nigerian men and FOR SOME not all the men run back home after receiving their green card. But a quite few of them stay with the wives after receiving the green card.

Some of the Nigerian men complained when they bring Nigerian women abroad that their marriage are not as solid as if they were to stay in Nigeria. I interjected that if your relationship is solid and the love is real it wouldn't matter where you live and the fact that the marriage doesn't work has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE REGION. It just like me blaming the dirt and the air for the demise of my marriage. Come on that foolishness.

I hear you though.

You are pathetic.

I don't know what KIND OF WOMEN yall are dealing with BUT NOT ALL WOMEN WILL PUT UP WITH YALL SHIT.

WackyJ1:
They just seem to crop up everywhere.Yes oo So just because she made an excellent post about man and woman coming together to form a stronger union she's a man arse Kisser? Don't mind them, They think we sit around all day doing nothing, If they knew what women expect of a REAL MAN They wouldn't be talking like this.
Feminists talk and talk about how men are evil and all their bad characters. For their information women are not perfect they've got their faults but you don't see men complaining about it everywhere.

I did not SAY SHE WAS an arse kisser. I said ARSE KISSERS period. Do not put words in my mouth and I DO NOT HAVE ANY PROBLEM CALLING SOMEONE OUT IF I CHOOSES TO.

Now since you want to bring her in the mix, what SHE SAID has nothing to do what THE POSTER was saying. I know you are not used to see positive praise about men so you was excited. It is okay.

Hey Faher!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You like my new pheromones?

Abekeade08:
Wus up with all these nigerian men trying to bash Naija girls ehn? Why are you guys generalizing?? There are materialistic girls in all races. Only broke asses will complain loudly about a girl being materialistic, hiss

Dublanc, please go ahead and date any Nigerian girl that desires you, there might be issue with family acceptance, but if you are persistent enough and treat your girl well, then I think you will be welcomed into the family.
Nigerian women are raised to take care of their husbands, home and children, that's why Nigerian men always come back to us even when they have strayed for some years.

Don't let haters derail you, go ahead and do your thing, Trust me, you will be happy you took that leap.

I don't know about them running back home to Nigeria. But I can say for certain there ARE A lot of white women who are married to Nigerian men keeping tabs on them. These men already have their green card and still with these white women. So I don't know about the running back part.

chic2pimp:
I beg to differ. The ones that come running back are those that did not marry for Love in the first place.

That is true. That why I tell the women over here STOP MARRYING ILLEGALS. But many of them learned the hard way. Oh well.

I gave them proper way to do it. CHECK FOR GREEN CARDS/SS CARDS FIRST and then strike up a relationship. BUT MANY OF THEM STRIKE UP MARRIAGES first AND check for green card AFTER.

I see people quoting scriptures.  The bible even states that you shall remain a virgin BUT if you can't remain a virgin it is better to married than burn. 

If you do not want to marry then you don't have to.  The message is for BOTH MALE AND FEMALE.

Stop making excuses and POINTING FINGERS because you did WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO OR WANTING TO DO.

filani:
@ sandraa
Another day  ,Another Man Bashing thread on NL , Yaaawn!!! Like, What else is new?

Beautiful  !!! This post represents the mind of a woman who has her mind  right   I highlighted some sections but the truth is that every single word in your post is simply brimming with MATURITY , TACTFULNESS , INSIGHT & INNER BEAUTY  

Just when i am tempted to believe that all women have fallen under the influence of Feminist Man Haters some one like you comes along with a post like this to make me smile again, thank you  Shy one

You smile upon arse kissers huh?

That shouldn't be the reason why people should fornicate before marriage.  Just because a woman have a baby for you doesn't mean you will stay with the woman. Let be real. If there is no love there, NOTHING will make a man or woman stay in a marriage.

Men aren't forced to get married either.

annawhite:
hello miss chima,aw u doing
bet u dont have time for the sisterhood anymore,u r busy making earings with men balls ;Dmzdark skin,holla hollai'll go for mcdreamy! it's val,aint u asking me out

I sorry sis! How you be? I am good! I am fighting for sisterhood! You see me fighting all these men! Hold on, (drop kicked Mr. Cock) Now what you was saying? Yeah! Sisterhood!