₦airaland Forum

chic2pimp:
More like they understand that Giving is a two way thing

You should give from the heart. If it not in you to give then you won't give. There is nothing wrong with gifts but PEOPLE put too much importance on gifts and it is sickening.

White women doesn't have a problem buying love.

If the women didn't put out YOU MOFO MEN WOULD BE BITCHIN.

Hey Mz Dark! How you be sis?

(flies toward Mr. cock and maimed his arse)

harakiri:
Would you prefer to get pregnant without marriage? I'm pretty sure i ain't the only guy who would prefer that arrangement to the wahala of marriage. You women are the ones who put pressure on us for commitment,marriage and kids. When you get what you want, you still complain and nag. I'm pretty sure if beauty and biological clock issues extended till 60 years of age, you women would make shakara and wouldn't marry until your heads are covered with grey hair. If you feel marriage is too stressful for you, then do us and yourself a favor by opting out to be a "baby mama" instead. Trust me, the man losses nothing. Marriage is geared towards the well being of a woman rather than vice versa. A man doesn't need to marry to have sex,kids,companionship or a cook (i am the best cook i know and i am yet to see a lady that can impress me in the kitchen). Women can also play it that way and avoid marriage (if they can). We aren't the ones who need commitment,dedication and the need to feel loved. . .YOU ARE! Get your mind right girlfriend!

There ARE MILLIONS of women that don't give a Bleep about marriage. It is the MEN that put a stipulation on a woman that she has to be married in order to be worth something and to bear children. So don't put that bullshit on the women knowing damn well if a woman is without a husband and have children or living alone she is WORTHLESS in the men's society.

Poster,

It is a wonder that men THINK by marrying the woman that he is saving her from THE DOOM.  I have been telling women that they do not need men to survive and if they must have a man then to know that they still have needs and make sure it is met.

fainted.

Ujujoan:
I'm not e-fighting JB . . . someone's got to put that lady in her place! She too do . . .

How is that working for you so far? Good workout huh? Keep trying.

Ujujoan:
Meanwhile I remember the white 'arranged' marriage my cousin got himself into . . .  Just for papers oh!

The f00lish oyinbo woman no know say na second wife she be . . . .  If you see the way she was buying all sorts of gifts for the guy's relatives and friends! Lol

I dey laugh!      

It wasn't that big arse white woman that 190 posted a few days ago? He created a thread titled "Nigerians and Green Card" and Jaybee deleted it. He posted several pictures of barnyard dinner party and the guy looked as if he been shoveling sand all day. The white girl that he married to was a hot mess.

Don't tell me that was her!! She had on some curtains as a dress.

jay bee:
OKKKKKKKKKK
Party over
No more e-fight sweet ladies  

You got a message.

Ujujoan:
^^^ LOl    

For someone complaining about 'gifts' . . . I bet you had an 'ukwu mango' wedding!      

You just mad because you didn't get a gift from that white woman your brother married.  It brought back painful memories.

Ujujoan:
You flatter yourself to think I would know what you can or can't do 'by now' . . .

I bet you think we are so daft that we can't detect a sarcastic comment!

Okay sorry for mis understanding you . . .  In the spirit of asking questions, when do you Americans celebrate your National sh1t day    

Don't mind this I-better-pass-my-neighbor akata woman!

Please tell her how our men marry us here . . . It can't be done online!        

Aww.  You had an online wedding.  I would be testy too! Or you still waiting on that frog prince?

I am still trying to figure out WHY IS SHE TESTY about some gifts? I guess I have to be NIGERIAN TO UNDERSTAND HUH?

Asking a question is looking down?   Seriously you need to get off of it. 

You should know BY NOW, I do not need to speak in riddles if I want to SAY SOMETHING. If I looked down the culture you WOULD HAVE BETTER evidence than that shit you quoted.

Mobinga:
Spot On. She probably regrets.

@Topic

https://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Disgusting/piss.gif

Why did you have to tease her?

One last time, I do not need to LOOK DOWN on ANY MOFO TRADITIONS OR CULTURE.  If I don't want to ADHERE TO IT, I won't. 

If YOU REPRESENT what being Nigerian all about, I should be relieved that I am not Nigerian.  You are representing them so well.

Come back when you CAN TELL ME THE REAL REASON YOU TESTY.

Ujujoan:
And I want you to get this into your apparently thick skull . . . . If you were Nigerian, you won't have a choice! 

I want you to get this in YOUR THICK SKULL, I do have a choice.  I don't have to follow tradition nor culture whether I was Nigerian or not.

I know you are not getting upset or testy over some gifts.  What is the REAL DEAL?   

Ujujoan:
And where did I say America was a race itself? Or America does not belong to any race

The same goes where did I say the color of my skin doesn't make me less of an American? I know I am American and my views has nothing to do with BEING American.

jay bee:
Mrs Chima
I can guarantee you that you would have danced to their tunes If you had to go marry your husband in Naij.
I'm so not traditional myself but i know my as. is going to be roasted if i had to go do the whole wedding shenanigans in naij.

Don't bet blindly.

Ujujoan:
The colour of your skin does not make you any less of an American.

Again I say, don't make assumptions on things you know absolutely nothing about.

American is not a race. Don't make assumptions on things you know absolutely nothing about.

Ujujoan:
Bullshit is what you just said!

You cannot come to Nigeria and marry a woman without adhering to the customs. The millions of Nigerians doing that are not recognized by tradition as married and if the woman dies, the corpse belongs to her family and not her husband's family!

And yes this is foreign VERSUS Nigeria!

Dont assume we myust do things your way!

I think you preaching to the wrong American because I AM NOT INTO TRADITION BOTH AMERICAN OR NIGERIAN. I will compromise if it mean that much to my husband but I am not doing too much back bending. I am not a robot and will not treated as such.

I want you to leave here knowing that Mrs. Chima do not impose any TRADITION ON anyone nor she cares.

chic2pimp:
The real question however is did He pass the Test Drive?

Apparently not. The poster wouldn't have created a thread if he did.

Ujujoan:
I didn't mean you personally . .  I meant your race. Just like giving gifts is not based on personal preferences, but the culture has to be adhered to . . .  whether one likes it or not. And if your husband was a true Nigerian, he would have told you that!

Your sarcastic comments did not go unnoticed!

Who said he DIDN'T TELL ME?  My race is black and WE DID NOT CREATE THE WHITE DRESS nonsense.  My ancestors didn't adhere to what the WHITE PEOPLE DID to get married.  It was similar to what YOU GUYS DID before the nonsense exposure.

There are millions of Nigerians that know the traditions and culture and do not PRACTICE THEM.  So please do not make this FOREIGN VERSUS NIGERIAN bullshit.

It wasn't me that created that NONSENSE you called it. I wasn't even born then!

I be damn! Just because I STATED that I don't have to give gifts, I am looking down on traditions. SMH.

My husband is NIGERIAN AMERICAN.

LMAO@good luck!  Ooh, you are so funny! You need to be on stage!

jay bee:
Offcourse you don't have to but i'd advice you to. You don't just marry a man from a family Q. You marry into a family
Family is everything to us in Naij

How old r u Q? Like seriously

A GIFT has NOTHING TO DO WITH FAMILY.  Seriously get off of it.  What age have to do with what I WON'T DO OR DO? 

If I WANT TO GIVE THEM A GIFT, I WILL. IF I DON'T WANT TO GIVE THEM A GIFT, they sure the hell won't get a gift from me. Don't expect anything, you won't be disappointed.

r231:
you are not rdy

i am still trying to recover from mine


hello stranger lol

how is it going

Not ready? I am already married into the family. WTF?

Ujujoan:
ROTFLMAO . . . as usual, these foreigners think they know it all . . .

I dey laugh!    

I never PROFESSED TO KNOW IT ALL. Why are you salty? If I was Nigerian, I DON'T HAVE TO give in-laws gifts IF I DON'T WANT TO.

I don't have to buy anything for the in-laws if I DON'T WANT TO. A hug and a smile is sufficient.