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[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=585869.msg7538648#msg7538648 date=1295104523][color=#0055bb]Lol I'm good girl. Speaking of gays, FagStranger's true identity. . .

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annawhite:
sure u would but u will be daydreaming about dat proposal!
it's not healthy for u darl

Oh! I am not talking about that kind of like sister! You know the standard like as wanting him to be my friend but knowing my husband he will not be comfortable with that.

koolchicco:
From what I've observed herein overtime, you wouldn't be surprised if the latter trends. . . now would u?

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Ladies, according to the uhmm male representative if you do not allow your husbands to read your diary or share personal information of your past with him then he is a dummy.

Why am I not surprised at these 1920 male species?

Mz Dark,

I noticed your fan haven't came in yet. You know the one with a tag on it.

Mz Dark,

I love how those gay men say "Heey", "I am Fierce", and "Honey". They put so much emphasis on the last syllable!

I knew you was gon come sister! Heey boo! How you be sis?

I would simply tell him no.

fstranger1:
At least, they all arent in chains like y'all fellow AA brothers

Yoruba men that are gay look FIERCE in Rokiatu's leopard print stilettos!


(snapping fingers and twisted hips saying "Heeeeey"

Aww damn! Too late Annawhite!

I hear you Annawhite!  I was trying to give you protection from the bullets you will get from THOSE MEN.

Yes, Yoruba men are some master players.  They can teach a class or two on MACK DADDYism.

When the numbers decrease and the sunshine increase, men are more whorish than women.

Hee hee! Annawhite! Yoruba men aren't that bad! Well,

The flowers suffered tremendously.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=586219.msg7537327#msg7537327 date=1295085763]@Mrs.Chima
U are threading on dangerous grounds n u know it. This 'liking' is too emotional n u can't even trust urself so u had beta just kill it rite away. Telling your husband is not going to help cos he will see rite through u n u know wats gonna happen.
@MDS
jay is spot on n am glad u agree. Anoda technique is to take dat incident turn into an object in your mind then in your mind look at it like sometin in a store put it on a shelf in your mind n shake your head n say I don't want u d same way u reject sometin at a store. I use this n helps calm me n makes me focus on d positive.[/quote]So a woman can't like a guy without having romantic feelings? Are you talking to me from the modern platform or you dabbling in the African men platform?

Mcleo007:
Culture plays a less role in determining the subversiveness of an individual. Same with upbringing. Am from a polygamous home of 16 children,but can tell u none of my siblings is looking in that direction. A cheat is a cheat,whether he's yoruba,ibo,italian,german or whatever. My advice, tell him how u feel about everything; that your feeling hurt and can't tell the future between you both. You'd know what he's up to from the response he'd give (be careful though,some pple are good at conceiling their emotions).

Precisely. It is interesting how SOME men overlooked the fact that they were singled out by someone who found out she was cheated on by a sister from Nigeria.

oyinbo85:
Mrs Chima I thought you were 'outtie',

You haven't noticed how "quiet" it was before I graced this thread?  You still salty?

gozzilla:
Ignorance gone on rampage.

Precisely. And to think THAT one is exchanging information from a roach that doesn't like Igbo tribe.

Priceless

Oyindo,

I will not lose sleep because you don't like me. Boohoo. I am not the one being cheated on and STILL confused on whether I will forgive a DUDE who came home smelling like SEX. Just like Reality said, STOP Babbling and handle your red shit.


Fstranger,

Don't get mad at AA because your gay AA boyfriend cheated on you with a woman.

Jaybee,

I wouldn't be tripping if my husband was to tell me he like some girl. I would have ask him do he want to be with her and if he said no. That would it for me ad we will continue doing what we were doing. Okay, let me just flat out say this. I like this matured, handsome, and black brother in London. I just want to kiss his brain. I do not want to do anything that would jeopardize my marriage.

I am basically asking can I add him as my friend although I am married. I know my husband would trip and I am torn! Sighs.

Hmm.  Interesting.

Jaybee,

I am not lusting over this man. I like this man because he remind of someone I used to date a while back. He is sexy and his brain make me wanna kiss it.

jay bee:
I'm guessing it's the same dude always passing sexual comments to you and if its him then the ONLY solution is you complaining to your man. He knows his friend and he has to do the talking/putting him in line if he loves you. It's really that simple suga

I know he will put him in his place knowing my husband he would use talk and force which why I am trying to see of another way my husband can deal with him.  You know how you men are yall get uhmmm animalistic when someone is fucking with yall pod.  

I am very certain that he will handle it.  It the method I am worry about because my husband is an ex fighter.  You know how that play together.   Okay.  I guess I will have to tell him and hope I don't be there when he is "HANDLING" his friend.

Justwise,

So basically what you are saying that a married woman can't be a virgin?

jay bee:
You've got one here suga. Bring it on
As much as i appreciate/understand the difficulties that the ability to let things pass brings, i generally believe you always have to look at the bigger pictures of things. As an example, if it's your b/f that did something you are finding it hard to let go then just look at the good things he has done and use that as a parameter to judge if you really ought to be getting mad for things that have past and obviously has no direct bearing on the outcome of your relationship going forward with him.

We human beings constantly always have to look at bigger pictures. Why get mad at something that doesn't define us or better still something that wouldn't shape our future.
It's really not so hard to let things go trust me.

Okay, I like this guy and I do not know how to tell my husband. What should I do from a male perspective?

I hear you, Mz Dark.  I have very tough skin and usually come off anal rentitive because I am harder to crack however, there self discovery seminars and courses you can take to improve the inner awareness.

Excuse you, Justwise?  You saying Nigerian women or any women in 21st Century can't be virgins? What do you mean?  Can you elaborate please?

Justwise,

Why do you think everyone is screwing? If UNMARRIED people can fornicate how come MARRIED people can't be virgins?

Facebook will be closing and everyone on your friend's list will withers away. What would you do? Set up a Twitter account and twitter?

Who want to be twittered and who like twittering?

Can you survive without FACEBOOK? Help!

Mz. Dark,

I am having this issue with the same man that just won't leave me alone. I have cussed him out, talked about his family, got some men to tough talked him, and even told him if he don't stop I will have to take law in my own hands. NOTHING IS WORKING! I do not want to upset my husband because he (used to be a figher) and he is STROOOOONG.

I guess I need to go suck on a bottle.

Aww. Mz Dark! You have to develop a tough skin like me suga. I don't give a Bleep what nobody say, you hear me suga? That why I am always pissing people off because I don't give a Bleep and when people try to hurt your feelings. You do not bat an eye and that when they really start calling you out of your names.

Yes! I am a virgin and proud! You know not everybody screwing.