oyinbo85:

@Mcleo007
obviously staying in love doesnt have to do with race but the way you act with the ones you love does. maybe not really with race but with the culture and the upbringing

oyinbo85:

Mrs Chima I thought you were 'outtie',

Mcleo007:

Culture plays a less role in determining the subversiveness of an individual. Same with upbringing. Am from a polygamous home of 16 children,but can tell u none of my siblings is looking in that direction. A cheat is a cheat,whether he's yoruba,ibo,italian,german or whatever. My advice, tell him how u feel about everything; that your feeling hurt and can't tell the future between you both. You'd know what he's up to from the response he'd give (be careful though,some pple are good at conceiling their emotions).

Mcleo007:

Culture plays a less role in determining the subversiveness of an individual. Same with upbringing. Am from a polygamous home of 16 children,but can tell u none of my siblings is looking in that direction. A cheat is a cheat,whether he's yoruba,ibo,italian,german or whatever. My advice, tell him how u feel about everything; that your feeling hurt and can't tell the future between you both. You'd know what he's up to from the response he'd give (be careful though,some pple are good at conceiling their emotions).

annawhite:

80% are flirt!
why do u think they have  *magun*?

Mrs.Chima:

I hear you Annawhite!  I was trying to give you protection from the bullets you will get from THOSE MEN.

Yes, Yoruba men are some master players.  T[b]hey can teach a class or two on MACK DADDYism.[/b]  

fstranger1:

At least, they all arent in chains like y'all fellow AA brothers

@Jenifa_
thats cheating for me too. its just that im stupidly in love blah blah blah so i find excuses for him and it appears to me that its not something not understandable that he still had some feeling for her since they only break up because he left nigeria and they lost contact. my exes are not random guys for me too anymore so i was trying to understand. but i dont approve of it and the fact that i forgave him doesnt change how much i was hurt.
im afraid confronting him wont help cause he is obsessed with his privacy. instead of telling me why he is keeping them there he will start telling me off for going through his things. i wouldnt be happy neither if he was checking my bag,  and even when he calms down he would tell me they have been there for ages and he even forgot that he had them. thats the answer i think i would get. but in what way else could i get to know?
he knows that i wouldnt tolerate cheating. i told him just yesterday as ive been advised that if i catch him cheating again i will leave him. i also told him that if we are married and he misbehaves i wont turn a blind eye to it and tolerate it and our life would just become hell cause i would be nagging him all the time. then he said he knows that and that he is too old just to play around and that he wants to get his life straight now.

fstranger1:


Very stupidd Ibo cu-nt you are

oyinbo85:

@annawhite
i think that if i didnt love him i wouldnt be bothered with a black man whose acting seems so weird to me. i would just leave him and not be wasting my time here. but if im looking for the information here its not because i want to use it against him but because i cant get it from him and because  i want to work on us and cause i actually care. so dont know why you concluded i dont love him

well im not gonna comment on yoruba men as ive not recovered yet after the Ibos' attack

Jenifa_:

I'm glad you admit that you find excuses for him.
I guess what you are looking for is a way to change him and make him faithful to you. Trust me, you don't want to go there.
there is they saying that goes (and i'm totally paraphrasing lol) "after marriage, women wonder why their husbands refuse to change and men wonder why their wives have changed" ie. while the woman is wondering why her husband hasn't kicked his bad habits and become a more perfect husband, the man is wondering why his formerly perfect wife has gained weight, nag more etc. lol
i'm sure you don't want to end up in this frustration.
I say you ask him about the condoms. look for a way to make it seem as if you stumbled on them by accident ie you were cleaning his place or something.  find a trick. better to do this now than wait until 10 yrs down the road then he will start seeing you as a nagging wife.

MzD@rkSkin:

Lol I'm good girl. Speaking of gays, FagStranger's true identity. . .

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fstranger1:

Is your husband Ibo? he sounds like an Ibo person and they are bad people. Any Nigerian tribe is good to marry, except Ibos; they practice cannibalism and he may try to use you for money making rituals. Also, it is customary in Iboland to have their first child killed. So be careful if he is Ibo.

queensmith:

OMG I actually just read fstrangers posts and DIED!!!!! LWKMD!

buahahahahahaha!

@oyibo dont listen to tht fool, thats just chronic tribalism talking! Ibo brothers are the best type of Nigerians to date,  . . . . . . . but i dont wanna cause comparisons 

queensmith:

OMG I actually just read fstrangers posts and DIED!!!!! LWKMD!

buahahahahahaha!

@oyibo dont listen to tht fool, thats just chronic tribalism talking! Ibo brothers are the best type of Nigerians to date,  . . . . . . . but i dont wanna cause comparisons  

annawhite:

but if your guy is a *yoruba* guy,hmmmmmmmmmm u need to think twice o(let the attack begin)

Mrs.Chima:

Girl!  I was in tears!  I was doing the "Fierce" walk imaging how Fstranger would be strutting to Mr. Bigg to meet "Uncle Peaches". 

Queensmith, you are right when comparing the tribes.  Igbo men are on top when it come to handling business both outside and inside the home.  (looking away from the men as they dropped their mouths in shock because they do not get their ego boosted much from Mrs. Chima)