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I have something I want to get off my chest. I need a MATURED male opinion.

It is Mrs. Chima to you and Good Morning, Sir.

A man has no business in a woman's diary. It is not his business to know everything about his wife's private life. If you are not willing to divulge your personal past life why would you expect her to do the same?

Well, I am a virgin and I look like I am five years old. Some of us are blessed with the youth gene.

What are you trying to get over suga? Talk to Mrs. Chima.

Baby! I don't know but I know them men were drunk as hell. One guy was pissing on the flowers.

I can't a man that is obsessed. It is nerve wrecking.

I am trying to see where the author get his information from. I am sure there are more Nigerian to Nigerian marriages/relationship than the non-Nigerian marriage/relationship.

I guess I have to be a real Nigerian to understand. Sighs.

Hook on Phonetics!

And you a barrel of laughters!

Nobody! (looking innocent)

What was your point?

cold:
^^^My intuition tells me that koolchicco is a lady.My hunch is never too far from the truth.So i blv as sister to another sister,she just told you some hometruths.No offense

By the way, he have proven what I been saying all along about your species.

cold:
^^^My intuition tells me that koolchicco is a lady.My hunch is never too far from the truth.So i blv as sister to another sister,she just told you some hometruths.No offense

She is a he. Okay, if you say so. Whatever rocks your boat. My intuition tell me you are a man who stuck in 1920 as well.

koolchicco:
Perhaps you have a point here.

Lol.
Taking into accounts, your pernicious treatments towards your Husband(?) and as exhibited in most of your posts herein thus far, its safe to think that you either married your husband(like u paid his groom price?) or He's just a not-so-smart-person and a DOLL BABY! Congrats Sis!

This is coming from an old man who think we still in 1920. Heee yaw grandpa! Whatever you call my husband, multiply that by 1,000 and you described yourself.

oyinbo85:
I asked particular questions on purpose to get the answer on them. i didnt need a lecture on the difference between greencard and visa, as i didnt ask about that and believe me u r not the only one in the world that knows it.

plus u stated that im being used after i said its not the visa/greencard issue that is making us have problems. and when i asked in what way u think im being used u r saying you dont spoonfeed people. should i then accept everything you state just because u think its true even though you dont know how to justify it? please, spare me your opinions if you dont know how you concluded them.

I know I said I was leaving after the last post and I am!  First of all while you getting all salty, I never said he was using you for GREEN CARD OR VISA.  I EXPLAINED THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO because you said that YOU DIDN'T THINK HE WAS USING YOU because he has a visa.  I simply stated visa and green card are TWO DIFFERENT THING. IF YOU WERE actually reading the posts you would have seen that I said YOU MAY KNOW THE DIFFERENCE but just in case OTHERS WHO DOESN'T.

I said he was using you PERIOD and why you sitting up there being CONFUSED he with that trick you know about.  Whether you ASKED A SPECIFIC question doesn't mean you will get a specific answer.  On this site, you ask a question be prepared for answers otherwise unfriendly.  Keep chatting you will get the gist. 

Anyway, I am outtie.  Some people EXPECT TO BE SPOON FED SUGAR and salty as hell because they are going through sugar withdrawal.

REALITY101:
Sweetheart the oyinbo sound un-real with this whole thread n write up

I understand suga.  I smelt red poo when I walked in but I am trying to be nicer this year.   OOoh lawd!  It was interesting how she walked in asking questions and then defended him when we told her the real deal. What the point of defending someone that you put out on a limb?  Anyway, I am starting to get irritated let me log off for a few before I get reprimanded again by Jaybee.

Orton, go suck something.


Livedit,

The plane tickets are expensive and if a person is not making a decent salary it could take a while to purchase a ticket. Sweet thoughts on your wedding day! Are you wearing a dress or African attire? I wore both. My hair was looking good and I didn't get glam up because with my beautiful skin and features I did not need make up. The girls were hating and their men were licking their lips. It was funny but I had a great time!

We had regular beverages but you know SOME African men must have liquor and when they had the drinks inside their system. It was raw form. I think I saw somebody's man kondo and was scarred. (He ripped his dashiki pants and it unravel to shreds)

Reality,

Why you been mean suga? Come here lay on my right side.

untainted:
I tend to agree with this. Her attack on Nigerian men is uncalled for.
Just like every other place, Nigeria has good and bad men as well as
women.
Try to make it work and don't forget to follow your heart not some faceless
home breakers on Nairaland.

Believe me I haven't attack your species yet. Don't try me.

oyinbo85:
wow u seem a very embittered woman Mrs. Chima

I will be whatever you call me. You are the one dealing with your confusion and asking questions. I understand that not too many people can deal with the reality and want people to spoon feed them sugar. I don't do that.

As I stated previously good luck.

oyinbo85:
Thanks guys. Well, your response turned out to be kind of a cold shower to me.  I think I was hoping that at least his homies could defend him.  Don’t know what to do know honestly. Just after his ex girl issue came up I was tryin to dump him, but he started crying (that was the only time I saw his tears) promising he would change and all that.  Should I tell him now that nairaland advised me to leave him?  Lol Or wait until I get another unbeatable evidence? Im not perfect too and do make mistakes so I thought  I should give people second chance since I cannot find a perfect man anywhere else.
@ Mrs. Chima Im pretty much aware of visa and green card system. Just called it a ‘visa’ in case someone wasn’t aware just to make them get rid of their hesitations. Cant believe im an ottoman.   I think my BF is fond of mixed race children. What do u think he might be using me for if its not papers?
@MOBO444 Im not fat at all just said im worried that he will mess up even more if im unattractive in 20 years time
@Moralistli Well, how do u think nagging could score in the future? That’s weird taking into account that you appear to be a male. From my experience nagging had always an opposite effect than intended, and a better technique was ignoring the man and appearing unavailable.

You stated in the thread that he wsn't using you for a visa so from that alone tell me he has s visa and not a green card.  I don't care what else he could be using you for but he is.  

According to you, he did all of the stuff you mentioned and based on that ALONE I said what I said.  I can repeat it again, but what the point?  You going to do what you want anyways.  

Good luck on that ottoman.

That so nice!  Lake Michigan beautiful at sunset.  Breathtaking view!   Girl, you gon make me start planning an anniversary party.  Sighs.  We got a million children to feed and a hundred Hot men to keep on the WATCH OUT.

Phate07:
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Nice write-up. Very informative for those stoopid girls that allow their girlfriends to interfere in their relationships.
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Is it still fresh?

Arggggh. Some one is starting to irritates me!

Yeah right! You know you sneak some liquor in when you can!


I like spring and summer weddings! You get to dress all pretty without having to wear extra layers of clothing and then you able to do more things outdoors.

Okay. IF it make you feel any better. I will play along just for the sake of peace.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=585869.msg7533160#msg7533160 date=1295025421]Mrs.Chima, sweeery i bet yo husband marryed u to become a Somali Citizen, Dont lie [/quote]If that was the case suga then he wasted his time.  American citizens and permies do not need to marry for a social security card.  But, I hear you there are dumb black/African men in this world.   Are you the President of not so smart Men, Inc.?

Moralistli:
Quite possible 4 a naija man 2 b faithful 2 his wife, but certainly not in dis case of urs, Nag if u can coz it 'll settle scores in time,

Of course Naija men can be faithful to their wives. I am sure there are millions, okay thousands, okay hundreds, okay tens of Naija men being faithful regardless of color. As you stated in this case he is using her for all he can.

Women need to stop trying to close one eye looking at the elephant's arse.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=585869.msg7533120#msg7533120 date=1295025122]has he got papers?  dont lie [/quote]What do you think?

By the way, he didn't go through the Visa Lottery like you did. He got a social security card,

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=585869.msg7533100#msg7533100 date=1295024928]HELL YEEEEA: light skin, half cast, mixed race and white babes like Mrs Chima!! [/quote]My husband prefer his baby black. So do I.

[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=585272.msg7533092#msg7533092 date=1295024830]Emm, Mrs Chima, in what month did Oga Chima marry you?
Where was the honeymoon?
And I want the pictures of your wedding gown pls.[/quote]Why?
Why?
No.