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[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=799767.msg9921508#msg9921508 date=1326048933]all babies are normally ugly when they little: months old. they all look the same (no oofeincese) [/quote]Too bad, you didn't grow out of your ugliness.

Hotie Tima:


55 damn

wat!!!!  

HELL NO!!!!!

What's wrong with 55 years old women having children?  

There are some Nigerian and other ethnicities of men that are clingy and protective.

Oga Chima asked me what age do I think is appropriate to have children, I said 55 years old. He looked like I said his breath stinks.

I am like what you asked me for if you aren't accepting my answers? Men!

With the killing and blowing up churches, I don't think any sane persons will go out to protest.

Cipriana:
Yes, we're both in the US but I wouldn't say we've adopted the "American mentality". We're still as Nigerian as can be but I can assure you that it had nothing to do with culture, money, or infidelity. I don't want to sound cliche but we are genuinely committed to each other. I don't think he'll run if I didn't talk to him but I'm not the pushy or clingy type of girls. I have brothers and guy friends and I know how they feel when a girl is clingy or pushy.

Lol, and thank you. I will stay away from those people you mentioned. I've seen their posts and threads before so I've learned to not take them seriously. Oh and you weren't putting my business out there. Like I said, all the advice I can get is appreciated.

Lol, I don't mind scratching anyone's back that's understandable. I know he's willing to mend the situation based on how our disagreement ended. There are certain things that he would have said that indicated if he wanted the relationship to come to an end. He didn't say any of those things so I know for sure that there is room for reconciliation. Well, I can't go into too much detail because I'm afraid it could jeopardize my identity but overall. But I will say this though, it wasn't one of those name calling/rude remarks kind of disagreements. We just a polite exchange of opinions on the relationship as a whole. Even when he was talking, I could tell that the conversation was hard from him. We don't fight or call each other names (aside from when we're just being playful with each other).

Its nothing trivial, I can assure you. Neither one of us quarrel over trivial things. We don't really have the time or patience for that. Well, he has patience for that kind of thing but trivial things aren't part of my personality. He usually deals with trivial things from other people, not me.

Now that you explained further and if you really want to make it work GO TO HIM. Mynd is right do not spend any more time APART from your man. Men period can't be away from their loved women for a long period time and often times think you are not interested so he will start to cause "wahala" and then it would be harder for you guys to communicate.

I know it should be the man that make the first move but this is a new era, make that move girl and get your man before SOMEBODY ELSE DO.

Awww. Look at Sexkillz's adorable picture.

Yay! We have boy babies now!

Hmm.

I don't see what guys would say that hasn't been said here. 

Lola Luv was point blank, either YOU IN or YOU OUT.  The fact that you even asked what you should do already solidified what you are going to do next.  If you guys will break up over trivial things then I wonder what would happen if you guys were to get married?

Let it go.

Yes.  Please click on this link for verification: www.youwantajobyeyefowl?.com

1. click yes
2. get dress
3. get on public transport or okada going to different places
4. hand out resumes/applications to different owners
5. Thank God for putting your legs to good use today!
6. Wait for results

apocalypse:
Never knew a thread like this existed , I'll like to nominate my niece , Deborah , who appears on my profile but the pix is too large to post on the thread

She is adorable! Come here baby, come to Auntie Chima!

When can I get this Nollywood movie? 

I am looking at Blackberry Babes 2 and almost done. 

"I want me blackbooty".

jay bee:
Found a bf for your cutie. Check the other thread

I saw that! That's your son? He is cute!!

jay bee:
For bleep sake, OP has already stated that she was conned and it was rather too late to back out when she finally discovered he was not who he proclaimed to be.
He has to pay

Easy killa.

Sexkillz, you na gon kill me!

SAFO:
- you must think when adding salt to the pepa soup.
- you must think when changing the babies diapers
- you must think when cleaning house
- you must think when punishing the kids

Chei, is that not thinking enuff  

No, that is typically the job of a housemaid/boy.  What about women joining in with men finding cure for AIDS, designing effective automobiles, and implement effective global economic policies?

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=839545.msg9914685#msg9914685 date=1325952406]
Ok, gimme a moment while I get breakfast ready for you [/quote]Becareful Inkie, he is trying to get some arse.  

MarcAnthon:


Which century do you think we're in? We were all born INTO feminism and women rights advocacy so we're used to women having their say. It's just that some women overdo things (on personal levels - what her man can bear) and trouble ensues. They forget that the man is still the HEAD of the home. You're welcome to have your say, but his say is final.
Women advocacy or not, if women understand and accept that the home will be more peaceful. Which is why you should be with a man you respect and who you think can make sound decisions in the first place.

Lol. . . On my part I kind of already know where the story is going and it becomes a case of why bother?

Feminism or Women Empowerment isn't encourage in many African countries and many of the male chatters on Nairaland are indeed African.  It shows in their write-up and responses to various subjects.  New School African men have better understanding of modern women and embrace it. 

As I stated before it is not a bad thing when you have a woman that can think as well.  If we are going to blame feminism for anything we must also accept chauvinism is at fault as well.

lefulefu:
SAFO na your wife be dat 4 picture?
omo wetin be the stress wey u give am wen she come dey act like dat?
e be like say u jus dey stress dat oyibo babe to dey pound pounded yam for u inside hot kitchen.omo no be all oyibo babes get dat strenght to pound yam oooo

Yes, that his wife. She looks good for a black woman huh? Keep slobbering and masturbating to her image.

Sorry SAFO, but he asked for it.

SAFO:
Woops, there goes me fantasizing about you anymore lol.

But on a serious note. We want our women to challenge us. Just not every step of the way. Know the right time to pick your battles. I would gladly defer if your views are weighter than mine. But you can't win ever battle and you have to accept taking the backseat on occasions.

No inference to you Btw. Just a general assessment.

Hmm mmm. You think you are slick. I got my chat eye on you.

Why do you think when I say challenge the men that I am talking about every little thing? Believe it or not there are intelligent women who knows when it is important to assert her opinions and when she just let it be.

Sometimes, you men say some of the stupidiest shit real talk but I feel that you are privy to your opinions so are the women. It goes both way that partners should sometimes take the backseat. Compromise and understanding GOES BOTH WAYS.

As I stated on another thread, without the neck the head is dead.

honeric01:
Ego? nahh ma'am not on point, i don't need that on this thread.

The woman is beautiful and love her hair! Thick and healthy! Is she using shea butter and olive oil?

honeric01:
^^^

Yea right, we all claim it's online bla bla bla but deep inside most of us, we type the way we feel most of the time and when someone start yelling (typing the way you typed recently), then it's easy to spot the nerves swelling,

If it helps you sleep at night boo boo. Nothing wrong with boosting your OWN EGO.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=840475.msg9914136#msg9914136 date=1325946512]
lol lol lol, you don't have control over us. Female opinions and feelings are new to some men, so seeing a woman who can choose for herself if she want to open her mouth is like them realizing that the Earth isn't flat.

Speaking of Earth not being flat did you now that no one in the medieval/renaissance era actually thought that the Earth was flat? It's just a common historical error that people don't realize [/quote]Yes, they aren't used to vocal women therefore we are she-males because we challenges them to think and doesn't just accept everything they say.

Marc

No thanks.  I would rather watch the paint dry.  Seriously.  Don't get me wrong if my hubby asked and it would make him happy, I will "cheer" with him.  Sighs.

LMAO@me needing to calm down ONLINE

I guess gotdamn means I am mad. SMH.

Who said I WAS COMPLAINING? WTF. You gotdamn right, there is nothing stopping me from creating threads and comments.

I JUST DID. Now what.

Seriously?  

We can also create a thread asking why black men always faking as well.  

Why do black men lie about their dick size and their fucking abilities?
Why do black men lie about their economic status?
Why do black men lie about living alone when they are sharing a bed with 10 of their siblings?
Why do black men lie about driving a car, when they are Driving Miss Daisy and waiting until she is finish with her activities?
Why do black men lie about being faithful when they are fucking ashyhoes with ashy feet?  
Why do black men lie to old looking white women saying they are the best thing since slice bread knowing damn well they will diss a black woman with one wrinkle on her forehead?

We can go on and on generalizing and to think these same NEGROS chasing women with fake hair, nails, eyes, booty, titties, skin, teeth, lips, and legs COMPLAINING after the shit hit the fan.  

MANY OF you Negros weren't complaining about fake ANYTHING when you were moaning and groaning for 1 minute.  1 minute manbitches.