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omega25red:
if she is flirting with a guy in front of me then i know we are no longer together
if a guy is trying to hit on my girl then i would simply wait for her response before i catch feelings
if she scold me about being to protective then i would let her if she gets in trouble i would just watch which would probably lead to a break up
if she only dress in presence of other men i would call her out on it (then again while at home not going anywhere why dress up?)

Read the last one again, she only does it when other men are presence even in your home. Your male friends come to visit you at your home right?

Let me paint you a colorful picture.

You and your woman are at home watching soccer. Your friend call your line announcing his arrival and your woman jumps up and run to the bedroom.

Your friend arrives to your abode and she is wearing clothes only your eyes should see.

Now you get it?

How would you react when another man or woman approach your mate in your presence?  Would you remain quiet and see what your mate would do or defend your partner? 

Guys, which of these actions would you feel more disrespected

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[li]Your woman is flirting with the guy in your presence[/li]
[li]The guy is toasting your woman in your presence[/li]
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[li]She scold you for being protective of her in public[/li]
[li]She would only dress and look good in presence of other men[/li]
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Ladies, which of these actions would you feel more disrespected

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[li]Your man keep looking and groping other women in your presence[/li]
[li]Compare you with other women in presence of other women[/li]
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[li]He impregnates another woman and wants to raise the child in your family[/li]
[li]He belittles and mistreats you in the presence of his friends and family[/li]
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Why do men wants to suck on the bosoms all the time? Are we cows?

[size=44pt]Scammer![/size]

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=808382.msg9603433#msg9603433 date=1321897307]hang on there.  Dont celebrate coz you still owe me puuuny from 28 of march 2009!! [/quote]Can I email my nuts to you?

pendo89:
Then what. what if the wallet is no more. Theres a thread here about a dude complaining of lost love cz hes got no more cash to spend.
Am like cz thats what u used to woe her in the first place. some things dont die like persona.
Any guy that cant woe a lady without flashing wallet has dead brain cells. Its possible. let her dump you later cz you r broke but u tried to impress meaning you are smart enough and deserve a pat on the back.
you are not a loser in other words.

I see your point and I am more impress with a man's brains than the dollars in his pockets.  I can support myself without A MAN but men these days can't fathom that SOME women are independent and successful in their own rites.  

However with gold diggers and dependent women rising to the brim, men feels that the way to impress a woman because she is asking for cash.  

A full brain man has more to offer than an empty brain man regardless if his pockets are thick or slim.  A broke man can use creative ways to make up for lack of cash and depending on the type of woman he has, she will appreciate him.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=808382.msg9603358#msg9603358 date=1321896664]ok you win. I like you but [b]YOU AINT GETTING ME!!!  [/b][/quote][size=44pt]Thank God! [/size]

Everyone is welcome to the PARTY! Yeeeeeehaw!

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=808382.msg9603317#msg9603317 date=1321896167]Mrs Chima. Do guys really try to impress you or they just ignore you? Don’t lie! [/quote]99% of Nairaland threads bearing my name are created by MALE CHATTERS including YOU.

You tell me.

Men impress with their wallet and women impress with their colorful words.

Why do men call old and young women "baby"?

Scorpio Rocks!

What is your problem?

You have been picking on me lately. Are you trying to get my attention?

I see certain people are STILL confusing attraction with unconditional love.  SMH. 

What's up with this "random" people thing?  Aren't people random when you first meet them?

You can't explain/describe intimate intercourse to a virgin.   

Foundations of healthy relationship/marriage are respect, understanding, compassion, intimacy, and support.

Foundation doesn't contribute to love because you can have respect, understanding, compassion, intimacy, and support without loving that person.

Loveless relationships and marriages are common these days because attraction fades away then people are stuck most times.

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]So what is the foundation of Unconditional Love? What brings about bonding? So i cant love someone i'm attracted to? Is attraction limited to a banging body? If someone asks me why i love you Unconditionally, what would my response be?[/size][/color]

You missed what Phate and I said moments ago.  Unconditional love has no definition.  If there are reasons then it is conditional love.  

Is it important to know why you love someone?  Is it that serious?

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]Conditional Love Vs Unconditional love

Unconditional Love existed because Conditional Love was existent in the first place! Unconditional Love is a precedent of conditional love.

Unconditional love, doesnt exist on it's own. There must be something you love about someone.[/size][/color]

You are speaking of attraction.  You can be attracted to someone and NOT LOVE THEM.  

Attraction and love are two different things.  You are attracted to that person because of A, B, and C but attraction can fade away.  If you are with the person because he or she has a banging body then you will not love the person unconditional because you lack intimacy and bonding with the person.  

Bonding and intimacy keeps couple together forsaking all others that is unconditional love. Sometimes a person may experience the unthinkable but still love that person because of bonding and intimacy.  Once two people are bonded, there are nothing that can break that bond hence unconditional love.

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]There must be an explanation. . . I mean, are you saying if i meet someone that just passed thru this phase and ask her:
"Why do you still love him?"
She: "I dont know why i still love him". . . .

Huh? That is psychosis in it's elemental stages. . . There is a reason for sticking to someone in love!. . .[/size][/color]

Please do not confuse my posts with OP.  I am speaking of conditioned love versus unconditional love.  

OP illustrated confusion between love and lust and I was speaking of two types of love.  I don't know this unknown poo you are speaking of.  

You have mentioned that people love with reasons and I interjected by saying that's conditioned love.

Stay on path.

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]^^^

Could you gimme some examples? [/size][/color]

A woman/man loving her/his partner after being raped, beaten, betrayed, mistreated, left for dead, and abandoned and forgave/continue relationship with sincere partner=unconditional love._{VERY RARE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.}

A woman/man loving her/his partner because he/she can protect him/her from Nigerian policemen=conditioned love.  

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]WRONG!

That's the definition of insanity.

Love has a reason. There must be qualitie you really like for you to conclude you love someone. Saying the reason for loving me is unknown is like saying you can fall in love with a random strnger, since there is no reason for that love!. . .[/size][/color]

You are speaking of conditioned love. Unconditional love is VERY rare and it has no definition.

You are in love huh?

Did Pastor Seun marry some Nairaland chatters?

People can only speak of what they know and experienced.  Not everyone has or will have a good relationship.  That's fact of life. 

Giving is a two way thing and it shouldn't be the reason why your relationship failed.

REALITY101:
Shush. . This is where u fished out Mr. Chima be honest ;p

Unlike thousands of women, I don't meet men from MailOrderHusbands.com 

Honest enough for you?

OP

No.

lefulefu:
OP no mind all these babes for this romance section jor .I am just too hot for them to handle .You suppose know say na me be nairaland"s most finest and dat is why most of the babes for here cant just get enuf of lefulefu love

No one wants you.

27naira:
LMAO @ tell her to sell her BB
BB is a status check for a typical naija babe. She'll rather go hungry than sell it. If you doubt me, ask Mrs Chima. 

Sorry suga, Blackberries ARE PLAYED OUT.

Substance and cognitive prowess are more orgasmic than looks.