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Queensmith,

I understand where you coming from and my single girlfriends do not undestand what is like being a married woman and trying to juggle every role strain possible. I have good friends that I maintain on a regular basis however sometimes calling them as much as I used to when I was single have changed. My husband is my priority and I have let know that. My husband is not mean when it come to giving his wife space.

I give my husband to spend time with his friends but we do not allow other to step into our marriage that is a no no. We both maintain friends but we will drop friends quick if it is causing our marriage strain. It is what it is.

My husband is my best friend and number 1 in my life after God.

Ooooh lawd! My nerves!

Da hell?

Damn^^^^

Oh lawd! She is screwing the husband again this time for some egusi soup and crackers!

Quick let inform the sister!

When is you going to get married Firearm? You been getting married for five years.

I have a question, are you male or female?

I am not calling you a ho, but that was WHORISH.

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(looking innocent) I did say I was gon try! I tried! I hate when children get caught up in some bullshit.

Okay.  I will be as delicate as I can be.  I can't promise but I will try!

You are having sex with your sisters' husbands to me that is the LOWEST, uncouth, trifling, unscrupulous, sullied, immoral, and corruptive shit that you would ever do in your life.  I am not downing you because you are a female or without a mate.  I am downing you because CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED.  

I do not care about you, your sisters, nor the husbands.  I will get with the husbands in the minute.  Right now, I am talking to you.  Your nieces and nephews are innocent and the responsibility of an aunt is to protect and guide them even after the parents are gone.  You are to step in and guide those children to the MOST HIGH whether you believe in the HIGHER POWER.  You do not love those men that you have shacked up with.  That is not love that is lust.  You can't stand the sight of your sisters with the man that YOU WISH was your husband.  Jealousy is a very deadly sin.  It causes one to forget the very things that they do have and appreciate it.

You set out to destroy the family when you decided to sleep with the husbands.  I don't care if the husband threw his kondo at you.  If he did not rape you then you are at total fault of your conduct.  There is nothing that we can do to help you out of your jealousy and corruptive thoughts.  You need to decide what more important to YOU.  Would it be HAVING FIVE SECONDS OF ESTACY or having some self dignity and FIND YOUR OWN HUSBAND.  What goes around come around.  WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO YOUR SISTERS it shall be done to you.  Karma is funny like that.  

Now getting to the husbands, may their kinnis crawl off and jump in the nearest fire pit.  

The original topic to this thread is THE MORE INDEPENDENT A WOMAN BECOMES, THE MORE DIFFICULT IT IS TO FIND A HUSBAND.  

This applies that a woman can't be independent and have a husband.  That is why I said what I said.  I am independent, have my own career, and married.  The statement the poster claimed is invalid because independent has nothing to do with CAREER or MONEY.  It is an adjective describing who the person is.  The definition of independent is classified as not depending on another for x, y , and z.  

Some people say that you can't be independent in a marriage.  Bullshit.  Both people are out making the money and taking care of things outside the home then come together to take care of things inside the home.  The dependent will be a person who totally depend on the well being from the head.   A woman making sure that she is able to provide for herself before settling down is wise and there is no promise that the man she married will support her.  

Women get caught up with thinking a man will protect, provide, and profess to them for the rest of their natural life and realize they are left with nothing but bad memories and come stained panties.

An elderly lady depended on her husband for 40 years and he decided that he wanted a younger woman.  He filed for divorce and a year later they gotten divorced.  She is now in the government run nursing home being mistreated because she didn't have any insurance nor savings.  She depended on them TOTALLY and she is suffering.

Well, it not my fault that you opted for the early morning special with a significant other maybe evenings is more of your forte.

Now getting back to the topic at hand, if a woman chooses her career/job over marriage does not make her independent. She decided that marriage isn't her priority at the time. Independent is more so a person not being dependent on another person nothing to do with careers nor jobs.

I think you guys getting the definition mixed up. Independent and choosing not to get married are TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.

It is HARDER for women to transmit HIV/AIDS virus to men and the chance of a man infecting a woman is higher than a woman infecting the man.

Count your lucky stars and wrap up.

Excuse you? Are you speaking from your kondo AGAIN? What is MORE? There is no such thing as MORE INDEPENDENT. It is independent or not.

I am independent, make my OWN MONEY, have a career, and MARRIED.