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SAFO:
She's a music video ho who sucked off everybody in the rap industry and then made a book about it.

LMAO@SAFO knowing.

She may be a renowned ho, but many of you men wouldn't turn down her mouth/coochie.

IbroSaunks:
It's usually something BOTH parties want!

Not necessarily because some people have different conversation styles and not everyone like a "fun" conversation as funny as that sounds, but it is what it is.

You just to find a chick that have the same conversation style as you.

[s]I know for sure my husband doesn't shoot blanks[/s]!  Oops.  I meant to think that. 

Killz is right, just like you have worries about her ability to produce, she may have the same worries but she is relying on faith to bring what you both desires, children. 

If you really love her nothing should be impossible but of course we all have a deal breaker and you have every right to make sure the person you are marrying can bear children. 

The fact that you are online asking questions tells me communication between the pair of you aren't that great. 

Work on communication and draw out the deal breakers before wasting further time.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=890398.msg10371076#msg10371076 date=1331393243]I pity that ditch when he gets there. . . He'll believe the ditch did it on purpose. . . [/quote]Who is the "he" you are referring to?

(running and diving in the ditch)

(takes another good shit)

Hopefully the men will learn from this.

IbroSaunks:
What i mean is, start the conversation, and try to keep it alive when the fun seems to be waning. Some women lack in 1 of the 2, some in both.

Do you think that it is your responsibility to maintain the fun in the conversation since it is something that [b]YOU WAN[/b]T? 

Some men lack in 1 of the 2, some in both.

Freedom of Speech in America gave her that right to write that bullshit.

It does matter if she bleeped the whole United States of America then some especially when she have written books about her achievements. 

The point is not the fact she is a renowned ho, it is the fact that HE KNEW before getting into a relationship with her that it is going to be rocky. 

He wasn't the first man she was serous with anyways.   

My conclusive point is[b] HE SHOULDN'T GET UPSET[/b] about the letter when HE KNEW the deal beforehand. 

He even said on the radio that MEN whom have bleeped her during the course of their relationship WARNED HIM. 

I do not excuse foolishness.

IbroSaunks:
@MrsChima
Yeah it's not really about being assertive, maybe it is. I guess it's the kinda women around me. But I would love to meet a lady that I can discuss real life issues with sometimes. I am in Naija, yes.

It must be a lost in translation somewhere because in your previous comment, you stated that the women would carry on conversations but won't ignite it.

From what I have gathered, it shouldn't matter if the woman isn't the conversation starter but more importantly can she carry on a meaningful conversation thereafter.

Now can you elaborate exactly how you want a woman to carry on with you? Please be detailed.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=890398.msg10369119#msg10369119 date=1331372874]He wont let you. . . You got mail Are you a goat? [/quote]You didn't get it yet?_{I am resending it.}   

What do you mean he won't let me?  He will take the bullet for me?

(takes a good shit)

Instead of shredding her, you should be shredding the ex-husband who married her.

He deserved every bit of the disrespect he received from the letter.

Being foolish isn't an excuse.

Dedication, respect, love, understanding, compassion, honest communication, and most important of all the Holy Spirit. 

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but with these attributes above, your relationship/marriage will successful.

As I read the list, even the greediest Igbo wouldn't ask for such.

Why ask for food when you can ask for a car/house/money?

Rice is almost free!!

Me.

This is a fair warning to dumb arse men who have no idea on how to select quality chicks.  

Everything that looks good isn't always good.  

I do not feel sorry for her husband.  He knew what he was getting into before marrying her.  

Why would you marry someone who have written books bragging about sucking the skin off multiple dicks?  That was a BIG ARSE RED FLAG!  

Isn't he gay by proximity?  

IbroSaunks:
@pendo et MrsChima, yeah seriously I'm sure there are a few, but many females Iv talked to are only good at asking questions like "how are you", "have you eaten", and other terrible cliche (albeit nice) questions, once it comes to making it more lively, it's like they are clueless. they may have very good opinions about issues, it's like the problem is bringing it out, I know a few women on nairaland that are different though, but in real life it's mostly d same.

@killz , nahh, ok maybe a bit, but I still try to talk to people sometimes, I'm not completely isolated.

@onila, I don't think you are getting the point. you are just trying to paint me as sexist. man and woman can both be talkative. the bone of contention here is conversations!

I can't control women online, but I am telling you that there are assertive women as Pendo illustrated beautifully.

You haven't experience the luxury of meeting women who are take charge.  Maybe some of those women are take charge women but because of how they are raised, (I am assuming you are in Nigeria) they are letting you take lead of the conversations. 

Express your desires for assertive women verbally and see what happens.  If no such progress then you will just have to be patience or look elsewhere. 

The nature of what I do offline, it is natural for me to take charge. 

I am very good at starting conversations.

Awwww, Corky might get some punny!!

Yay!

_{What is the name of that weed?}

Huh?

I am Neon Light American.

LMAO

I guess the Beige America is on the East coast huh?

They have Black America?

Poor Corky! You getting dumped and dissed simultaneously!

REALITY101:
:) if that's gonna make you happy. [size=44pt]Reality is a mail order husband [/size](whatever that is) adios madame :d

Awww.  Was that so hard to tell the truth?    It felt good to tell the truth huh?

bekay911:
AMEN  with HolyGhost koboko wifey u be prophetess? so dis na ur plan

Some have called me a witch doctor. I will accept Prophetess.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=890032.msg10365177#msg10365177 date=1331307884][color=Black]Which is more dumb? The thread or the poster? [/color][/quote]Hey suga. How you hanging?

REALITY101:
[s]Lmao@ swin n changing lies. Hmm lazy faty don't worry about my location. . Leave it unknown.

@facebook and 500ibs o_O that's the lamest rant you've spewed on this thread. How can someone who wouldn't touch a chick who weighs 160ibs possibly date a 500ibs? You're definitely running out of craps therefore repeating yourself is allowed honey.

Check Op's profile? That's my kinda deal, that body is earthquake. . "Too bad I have a girlfriend who is X9 hotter n prettier Ammy no offense :p" not like you smelling fat armpit. For OP's sake I'm gonna leave you to die silently n peacefully for now. I don't your worthless online ish to ruin my friendship with her *winks*

But my final advice for you as a black sister is. Get of off that computer, get a job before Mr. Chima or whatever the bleep his name is gets his American passport and dump your skunk Bottom because no real Igbo dude would wanna spend the rest of his hustling paid life with a fat lazy housewife. Just advising you else at last you gonna change your name to Mrs. Sorrima.[/s]

You're still ma friend tho. Nice chatting with you Mrs. Chima

And you are still a lame and stup!d Mail Order Husband to a foreign 500 lb piece. 

REALITY101:
Sorry Ammy, blame it on this fat woman.

Mrs. China fyfain I ain't in TX and liar check the time again. . I guess too much time on the computer is getting into you.

I see intelligence isn't your strongest suit, you have stated multiple times you swing from La and Texas.  Now you want to change your lies?   

You should blame that fat trick you married for tricking you with a fake Facebook photo 

You thought you were marrying a dime piece and got 500 lb piece! 

Come here Corkless so I can cuss you.