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Romance / Re: Emotional Dissatisfaction In Men by MsLurker(f): 5:56pm On Nov 05, 2008 |
They want their cake and eat it too. And they expect things not to change. |
Culture / Re: Feminism Vs Femininity by MsLurker(f): 5:07pm On Nov 05, 2008 |
Yes, she can. I think men need to start reassessing their ego. There is a difference between a "balls to the wall" hard hitting feminist and a woman who is smart, knows herself and her worth and acts like it. |
Family / Re: A Racial-marriage Problem! by MsLurker(f): 4:10pm On Nov 05, 2008 |
Ms. Lurker: The two folks in this problem. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 3:17pm On Nov 05, 2008 |
@Gamine Be nice. What should his side be? What would make it okay for him to cheat on his pregnant wife? Sorry, Leyla, be strong for yourself and your child. Let the sleeping dog lie. |
Family / Re: A Racial-marriage Problem! by MsLurker(f): 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2008 |
Yes, they should go to couple's counseling. I doubt the guy wants to change, though. This is why people need to communicate in marriage. I don't care if you don't like it or not used to it. It's not about what YOu need, it's about being upfront and honest about the situation. |
Family / Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by MsLurker(f): 5:59pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
JustGood: Your statement had an error in it, darling. I hope so anyway, or I believe you may have contradicted yourself. |
Romance / Re: Why Is It That If You Don't Have Money U Cant Date A Cream Chic? by MsLurker(f): 5:45pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
All that glitters isn't gold. |
Culture / Re: Igbo Men And Their Mama by MsLurker(f): 5:41pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
PepERSprAY: I think that's African men in general. |
Family / Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by MsLurker(f): 5:13pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
So corruption is acceptable? |
Culture / Re: Soulja Boy Shouts Out Slave Masters by MsLurker(f): 5:11pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
lucabrasi: I'm sorry but it's not just AA's that have that mentality. Trust me, I think a whole chunk of people who live in America act like that and are materialistic!! I've heard Nigerians go on about material possessions, Cameroonians, Ghanianas, Indians, Asians, Anyone who has money like "that" in US, should be able to help out but for some reason most are vaguely silent. My thing is AA's aren't the only material hungry ones. All should adjust not just one group. |
Romance / Re: On Your Wedding Day! by MsLurker(f): 4:02pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
I hope that if they want to bail we do that before the wedding. |
Family / Re: A Racial-marriage Problem! by MsLurker(f): 3:41pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
carmelily: Not trying to be blatantly mean but she wants this guy who is outright cheating on her. There is nothing special about a cheater. I don't care what anyone tries to say. |
Family / Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by MsLurker(f): 7:08am On Nov 04, 2008 |
There are sad people worldwide not just in the United States. |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by MsLurker(f): 7:03am On Nov 04, 2008 |
if i loved him, sure |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 9:39pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~: The way this guy is going. I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't impregnate other women. I say, she needs to do what is best for her and the unborn child NOT the man and his ego. |
Romance / Re: If You Were In My Shoes: by MsLurker(f): 9:21pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
In my opinion. What's in the past should stay there. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 9:15pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
igwe 1: No, not at all. If marriage is supposed to be about communication. Why wasn't this guy communicating with her when he was having his issues? I'm sure he didn't wake up one day and knew he was going to cheat. He should have told her from the START of his emotional quagmire not wait until he acted on it so he could properly repent. I see nothing wrong with forgiving him. Just because you forgive a person doesn't mean that you still have to tolerate them in your space. Besides, if this was a woman cheating would y ou guys be so forgiving? |
Family / Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by MsLurker(f): 9:12pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
I can see what you mean about family (in a way) BUT an entire village. I am not fond of that. Anyway, what works for some may not work for others. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:55pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
igwe 1: Wrong! I would thank you for telling me the truth as I quickly packed my belongings. I'm sorry next to cheating on your wife when she is sick, cheating on her when she is with child ranks just as low. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:36pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Your family should know who you are. I mean, as much as they stay up in your life, wouldn't they know that their daughter is not a LovePeddler and should be happily married. Not just married for the sake of putting "Mrs" in front of her name. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:35pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Amen, sista! You are not a good partner or mate for me (nor I, you, obviously) if you cheat. I won't disrespect you, the same should be applied to me. The only contact he would need to have is only in regards to our child. He and I are through. I rather be happy and single with my child than miserable and insecure with a cheating husband. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:28pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
What is there to talk about? Dude admitted he cheated. There is no need for him to try to save face now. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:24pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
That's why you take your time and figure out the type of person you are REALLY marrying, And I wouldn't rush into the second marriage as quick as the first, hopefully this young lady will do the same. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 7:57pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Stop thinkng with your eyes and dick. Be realistic! She is having YOUR child. It's not about you, right now. Man up and deal with it. People change all the time. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 7:36pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
There is no excuse for cheating on your pregnant wife. |
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 7:17pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
sistawoman: Preach, sista, preach! I'm sorry but if he would cheat on you while you were PREGNANT with his KID shows how much of a man he really is. I don't even care if I swole up to a whale's proportions and we can't get busy - you still should not step out on me. I didn't get that way by myself! |
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