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Romance / Re: Marriage Material by MsLurker(f): 6:58pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
I rather wait and see. People can only hold up the pretense for so long. I rather wait a long time instead of rushing and being mad that I did. |
Culture / Re: There Can Never Be Gender Equality. by MsLurker(f): 6:41pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
myndofgold: It is a male thing, period. I find it most in the black populace, though. Thankfully, my dad raised a daughter who is independent. Anyway, it has to do with ego and women for so long catering to that ego. Some still do, a great amount of other women do not and men (from my opinion - only) between the two sexes don't take change really well. |
Events / Re: Who Pays For The Wedding? by MsLurker(f): 6:36pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Both should contribute. I plan to not have a big wedding/party so hopefully the bill splitting shouldn't be a problem. |
Family / Re: Women Vs Mother-in-laws by MsLurker(f): 6:33pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Not all women do. I hope that I'll get along with mine when that day comes. I've had female members of my beloved family hate my guts though, well, hate the thought of me. That's because they had someone already picked out for that person and they didn't want to get to know anyone else. Gotta love it. |
Family / Re: A Racial-marriage Problem! by MsLurker(f): 6:31pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
What's so great about this guy? Is there something magical about him? Does he grow gold off his body? I mean, what is it?! |
Family / Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by MsLurker(f): 6:29pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
I think it's up to the parents. I think my family was strict but they also knew that there were some things that they couldn't teach us. All they could do was instill in us the ways that they felt we should be able to handle things. Have I done things I shouldn't have. Yes. But I also witnessed alot of things that forever burned into my mind what my parent's taught was proven in facts. So now, I thank them. I don't think the family should discipline my child. If anything, they should tell me what's up and I'll handle it. |
Culture / Re: A Woman Retaining Her Maiden Name After Marriage? by MsLurker(f): 6:23pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
I'd like to keep mine. If he complains then I'll hyphenate. |
Culture / Re: Black Celebrities, What African peoples could they be from? by MsLurker(f): 6:22pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Don Cheadle is so damn hot to me. |
Romance / Re: I Need To Praise Him by MsLurker(f): 5:00pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
Awww, that's really sweet Sistawoman! |
Family / Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by MsLurker(f): 4:44pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
Baby Jinx: Excellent! You are one of my favorite posters. |
Romance / Re: How Do you Know About A Girls Pure Love For You. Is Money A Love by MsLurker(f): 2:36pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
if i love you then i'm not worried about how much money you have. |
Family / Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by MsLurker(f): 1:50pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
spoony: It still comes back to how you parent. I had friends who acted a fool too, that hit their parents, talked back and got expelled but I'll be damned if I brought that to my parents. If you raise your children correctly they won't be sucked in. I'm not saying its an easy job but it can be done. |
Family / Re: Why Child Out Of Wedluck? by MsLurker(f): 1:48pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
plappville: Beg to differ. How can you be a victim of something that you willingly do (except for rape cases, of course). Women need to protect themselves and not expect a man to do it for you. If you don't want a kid, make sure you keep yourself informed. |
Travel / Re: Getting Married For The Green Card (Citizenship) by MsLurker(f): 3:06pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
I understand it too BUT I don't understand why some people trick women (or men) into falling for them when all they want is citizenship. It's evil. |
Romance / Re: Is Beauty A criterion in marriage? by MsLurker(f): 2:39pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
Don't get married. Save the girls the heartache. |
Family / Re: Loving Husbands That Are Cheats by MsLurker(f): 2:36pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
chisomquee: Not sure it's nature. They just don't want to have repercussions for their actions. |
Family / Re: Loving Husbands That Are Cheats by MsLurker(f): 9:21pm On Oct 29, 2008 |
If he cheats he is not a loving husband. |
Romance / Re: Prisoner Of Love: In The Guise Of Marriage by MsLurker(f): 6:35pm On Oct 29, 2008 |
My dear I'm not disputing you. I see your point. I also think it depends on the two people involved. I wouldn't use cohabitation as a reason to split when things get tough. I know relationships are hard. But to bring someone over that yo haven't had that much interaction with prior too OR it's been a long time since said interaction, I see nothing wrong with testing out the waters by living together briefly. You just don't know these days, unfortunately. |
Travel / Re: Getting Married For The Green Card (Citizenship) by MsLurker(f): 6:28pm On Oct 29, 2008 |
I think it's wrong to mislead someone. I'm not sure how people can do that and know in their heart what their real intentions are. |
Romance / Re: Prisoner Of Love: In The Guise Of Marriage by MsLurker(f): 6:18pm On Oct 29, 2008 |
I'm Christian and I before didn't believe in co-habitation but this day and age, I rather wait and see who I'm dealing with. If that means we live together then so be it. I don't want to be hitched to someone who flips on me in any type of way. |
Romance / Re: Prisoner Of Love: In The Guise Of Marriage by MsLurker(f): 5:47pm On Oct 29, 2008 |
This is why I believe in waiting and living with the person prior to being married. You can't hide stuff like this when you are living together. I want to see exactly what I'm getting off the bat! |
Romance / Re: Prisoner Of Love: In The Guise Of Marriage by MsLurker(f): 5:30pm On Oct 29, 2008 |
JJYOU: What is your story? And if you were smart enough to dodge, why didn't frenchman's friend do the same? |
Romance / Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase? by MsLurker(f): 4:27pm On Oct 29, 2008 |
Another way to see if it's more than just a chase is if he sticks around even when things slow down (which it will for EVERYONE), if it was just the chase, I'd think most men would bolt then. But I'm not a guy, so I can't state that this is a fact. |
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