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She's really proud of herself.


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What a thoughtful contribution, your signature is even fantastic. Bravo!

tivta:
Great. Another woman worshiping thread. I have said it and will say it again. Do unto men as you want men to do unto you. If you push me to the wall don't expect me to stand looking like a fool. Like kanye west said " I won't hit a bi*ch but I will shake the shit out of you" as for going closer to God I rather practice karma than ass kiss men of God who buy private jets in the name of evangelism. We are in a new world where women want equal rights there fore they should be mandated to meet men half way. YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT. I respect Caucasian women when it comes to sex, if they want a one night stand they let you know. Meanwhile most NIGERIAN girls want to marry a rich man that mistakenly spends some money on them, yet they say money can't buy love. Keep feeling like the best thing God has created while you either end up as a single mother or divorced or remain single at age 40 while looking for the rich man that will marry you. MOST nigerian girls are worthless...

Done!

doofanc:
Its a nice article, but I think u should include the source of the article. its wrong to copy and paste peoples work without proper attribution.

most of the names mentioned seem to come from Eastern or Southern Africa.

pls, op do d needful.

'I love You' is a statement that has been abused so I don't care if she say that to me or not, I care about the action.

There are more than one thousand ways a woman will tell you 'I love you' without uttering a word.

And it's not a sole responsibility of man to say such.

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Let them show me there husband, and I will tell you who is more gorgeous.


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Headlines!

We Sack Keshi To Save His Life ~NFF (Pinnic). October 17, 2014.

Stephen Keshi Remain Eagles Coach ~ NFF (Chris Giwa)
. Ocotber 18, 2014.

We'll Look Into The Crisis In NFF ~ Sport Minister

FIFA Threaten Nigeria Over Government Intervention.

FIFA Ban Nigeria Indefinitely.

#lastbullet

• I can say with all audacity that all those guys parading themselves as NFF doesn't want anything good for Nigeria football, all they are interested in is looting the treasury.

• The media isn't helping matter at all by giving the faction group undue publicity.

• I want to be unpatriotic for once by praying for FIFA ban on Nigeria.

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If the news is true, I support Morroco for sacrificing economic gain for public safety. I blamed them for not declaring earlier has this decision put CAF in a very tight corner to find a replacement.

However, the last time I read on the BBC, the news was that Egypt and Ghana are on standby.

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A confirm grass root man, who created a portfolio on special duties and stomach infrastructure.

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Don't u sleep? 1:32am


Modified:

@OP, How do you feel when u read this article?. You must have feel overwhelmed and inspired which condemn you to promptly share it on NL without proper editing.

It's an article with valuable points we use to hear before but it serves as a timely reminder.

Kudoz

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You could have just reply and move on.

IfyAwazie:
So because u want to be on Fp dats why u have to quote the Op. Pls next time, use Reply jor

Wait a minute! Lemme read.

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Nice try, a timely political 'ziggy'

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So, with all you've heard and learn you still believe Buhari is the sponsor of BH. Oga oooooo

lilprinze:
so he is saying he is very broke to the extent that he doesn't have N27 million To Purchase
APC Nomination Form but he has money to sponsors BH, this old man should please respect his age and stop lying and deceiving us.

shudi:
Whaoo, this is fantastic. @OP, u must have done extensive research to put this together, kudos. Mod, do the needful coz I'd be surprise and disappointed if this isn't on FP in an hour. Well, Seun is also a celeb, so he may influence this.

Hopefully!

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Why is it that when a couple seems to
have everything, fame, fortune, health,
and an adorable child it doesn't work?
It's enough to make everyone else
hopeless. After all, if the celebs have
everything and can't make it, what are
the chances of the rest of us? Over the
years, a strange phenomenon has been
taking place in the celebrity land where
by re-union of movie and music stars,
top athletes and others in the limelight
hardly last, indeed. So the question is
why do marriages of most celebrities
crash frequently?

Some marriage counselors and experts,
who spoke to Monday times on the
issue, gave us various reasons for the
breakup of celebrity marriages.


•NATURE OF THEIR JOB
Maria Khagoda, a marriage counselor,
attributes it to their hectic jobs and
lifestyles. "The job they do could affect
their marriages," she noted, stating:
"The man who loves you starts to loose
feelings because of the demands of the
job that you do or he does. Your
husband, for instance, wants you to be
home, but you cannot be at home
because you are either on location or
doing one story or another. Again, as a
man, your wife may want you home, but
you can't be home because you are out
there socializing as a celebrity. That is
because celebrities are expected and
known to be extroverts. At least 90% of
them are so, and they are either
attending parties or going to bars or
clubs. Your wife may not like all that. At
the end, even when you have kids, all
these factors take their toll and it gets
to a point when one of the parties says
that he or she has had enough, and then
packs his/her bag and leaves."

• FAME
Fame is dangerous to relationships for
at least a couple of reasons. Most
troubling is that it demands that a
couple spend time away from each
other. "My research of over 400 married
women showed that the number one
indicator of happiness in a marriage was
the amount of time spent with one's
spouse. Women who were happily
married reported spending a daily
average of over 30 minutes of
uninterrupted time talking to their man.
Unhappy women reported a daily
average of less than 30 minutes and 24
percent of those unhappy women
reported that they spent less than five
minutes a day talking to their
husbands", said Teddy Karugaba
counselor Mulago Hospital.

•LACK OF MARITAL UNDERSTANDING
In his view, Evelyn Namugamba lecturer
Makerere school of psychology, attributes the issue to a lack of
understanding of what marriage entails
as well as people marrying for frivolous
reasons."The reason for all these
marriage break-ups is that they don't
understand what marriage is about, they
see it as a feather to their cap," he
opined. "They gather people together,
go to church and stand before the altar
to exchange vows. There's more to
marriage than that. Then, people marry
for what they see, the physical
appearance and not what's inside the
person. It's the content that should
count."

•MANY CELEBRITY LIVE A FALSE LIFE
"Many celebrities live a false life," so
said Herbert Mutunzi, a counselor. He
stated that the pressure to live up to
certain standards and give a good
impression of themselves contributes to
marital splits among them. "I think that
celebrity marriages are breaking
because they put too much pressure on
themselves. Also because of their status
they try to live up to the standard of
others. They tend to live a life that is not
theirs. The pressures of wanting to
create or give people the impression of
having a sense of perfection, that makes
many of these marriages to crumble.
"That is because; there is so much
pretence in such marriages. If only they
can learn to be themselves in such
marriages. People have to learn how to
be themselves. People should not allow
the pressure of their work get to them,"
he said.

•INFIDELITY
Another common factor that runs
through most celebrity break-ups is the
issue of infidelity. Some spouses leave
the marriage when they can no longer
bear the indiscretions of an unfaithful
partner. On this, Sophie Nantogo stated:
"There is also infidelity but this is not
restricted to celebrities only- it's a
major source of marital discord today.
But what make that of celebrities
different are the temptations they face
regularly. Because of living their life
constantly in the spotlight and their
fame, they have more opportunities than
the 'average Joe' to stray. When
musicians, for instance, go on shows,
girls throw themselves at them. Even a
monk can get tempted with all that is
offered. If one partner is constantly
unfaithful, it can cause discord in the
marriage."

•JEALOUSY
"Jealousy can also be a problem in a
union between two celebrities," she
added. If one, for instance, has more
fame, more success than the other, it
can cause problems if the other party
does not have the strength of character
to cope with his or her partner being
constantly in the limelight. "It takes a
very strong man or woman to endure his
wife, for instance, being more famous,
getting more attention than them."

•THE MEDIA
The media has also been blamed for
destroying celebrity relationships.In an
analysis of why celebrity marriages fail,
media scholar Professor Joel Isabirye
has apportioned substantial blame on
the media.In a recent post on his
facebook wall he said, "been having this
discussion about thomas-komuntale
marriage issue on a friend's wall. One
suggestion there sounds like 'most if not
all celebrity marriages fail.' and my view
posted there and which i have held since
a long time ago is: "the failure of
celebrity couples is really not always
about the celebrities themselves. It is
really about the media."

• LACK OF GOD INTERVENTION
"Why will their marriages not crash
when they are building it on themselves
and not on the initiator of the
institution?" so declared Pastor Aloysius
Bujingo of House of prayer. To him,
marriage had a manual which had to be
followed if you want a successful
marriage. "God is the brain child of
marriage and there is nothing any man
or woman can do to make marriage
succeed except they both go back to
God. You cannot give what you don't
have, so being in marriage without
knowing God, is fake. It is pretending to
give what you do not have in you. And
again, most of these celebrities do not
live by the precepts, ordinances and
rules and regulation that God has given
as far as marriage is concerned. There
is always a rule. Life is about principles.
There are principles as far as marriage
is concerned and that is how it can work
as far as they want it to work," he said.

While there are various reasons why
celebrities marriages to fail, the price of
fame, media intrusion and the pressures
of work are all given as the most visible
reasons.



Source: www.mondaytimes.co.ug


Do hesitate to drop your comment!

You are on point. Excuse me, how do develop likeness for soccer?

milychocs:
@topic
......an angry mob of fans who would pelt an "inept" coach with "purewater" and stones because of football....
but will keep quiet in the face of having one of the worst socio economic indices in the world, rising unemployment, poor educational system etc....a very religious people at that too

Misplaced priorities I must say

It is impossible for a Nigerian to coach our national team well....I mean, it is a whole sick society with too many policies, mostly ineffectual, prevailing tribalism, poor health, poor people, bad infrastructure, bad education, unemployment, too much religion, and too little character..in general misplaced priorities....not even Del Bosque can do anything with the Super Eagles...
Sad, but true

Meanwhile I am not a Keshi fan, not even at all, but there was only so much he could do in a sick system
Then.....throwing stuff at him? horror.com

Noted! Hope we are safe in south west.

ROSSIKE:
You're wrong. Stupidest is a correct term to use.

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/stupidest

I'm glad you came back to correct him, that dedon or what's his name. Some people see themselves as an epitome of knowledge, i will like to see you response @dedons. Next time check my signature and learn.

Kunbee:
Who is this Naija big boy who can't be named? Or is he married too?


I think she will make a fab mother tho

I guess they want to cover it up.

flowales:
Always leave when the ovation is high. That's the word

You are have fan of Robert Greene and Macheavelli of this world.




**On topic:
It has been said that 'a failure isn't the man who made a choice and fail but the man who never made a choice'. To make a choice and lack the audacity to defend the decision is what I don't have any word for, we will start from square one again. NFF is shit!

*** Glad I'm on FP today, it's the first of many today. I dedicate dis to my unborn son who will make nairaland is favorite website.

www.vanguardngr.com/2014/10/federal-roads-worth-n7trn-cost-repairs-n1-8trn-minister/

By Festus Ahon

ASABA—MINISTER of Works, Mr. Mike
Onolememen, yesterday, said the asset
value of federal road networks across
the country was about N7 trillion.
He also said the cumulative cost of
ongoing work on the roads stood at
about N1.765 trillion.

Onolememen, who spoke in Asaba,
during the 21st National Council of
Works, said the council would focus on
preservation of the huge investments on
the road sector through the
enforcement of axle load control on
Nigerian roads.

According to him, Federal Government
has invested huge sums of money in the
maintenance, rehabilitation,
reconstruction and construction of roads
and bridges across the country.
He said: “From about 4,500km of fair
roads in 2011, the President Goodluck
Jonathan’s administration has revamped
up the kilometres of good roads to more
than 25,000 in 36 months, with some of
the roads alignments comparing
favourably with roads in the developed
world.”

While decrying that over 90 percent of
freight transportation in the country
was by road, he said: “Having realized
the adverse impact of overloaded
vehicles on the roads, and the strain this
is putting on the lean resources of
governments, the 40th summit of
Authority of Heads of States and
Government of ECOWAS had in
February 2012 approved the ECOWAS
Supplementary Act relating to
harmonization of standards and
procedures for control of dimensions,
weight and axle load of goods vehicles
within ECOWAS member states.”

Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan of Delta
State, in his address, said his
administration had committed over
N440 billion on roads since he came on
board in 2007, noting that over 1,618
Kilometres of roads and 514km drains
had been completed.

Uduaghan, who was represented by his
deputy, Professor Amos Utuama (SAN),
said over 65 number of roads had been
completed in Asaba through the urban
renewal platform, saying several road
projects had also been completed in
other urban areas, with many others at
various stages of completion.

We've heard enough of this ebola story.

•Daniella Okeke
Bright young star is kindly sharing
the pictures of her luxury mansion on
the social media. Daniella is satisfied
of her new role as a landlady.

Please Comment on This Story,
What do you think?

Girls be getting mola! Check out
Nollywood big Babes and their fancy
mansion, gist compose by talk of
Naija.

•Genevieve Nnaji
Genevieve Nnaji is a happy owner of
a luxury mansion near Lagos. In 2013
the star moved into the house she
bought Park View, Ikoyi home in
Lagos State. This area is known for
being a place only for the millioners.
Actress is one of the richest women
in Nigeria so it is not so surprising,
that she bought a N200 million
house. Her new home has a parking,
a swimming pool, nice gym, bar,
terrace, and boys-quarters at the
side.

•Oge Okoye
The mansion of another Nollywood
Star Oge Okoye is not ready yet. But
star is sharing some news about it,
saying that hard work always pays.

•Chika Ike
Famous business lady and actress
joined the list of habitats of the
Nollywood`s Beverly Hills. Despite of
being a good actress, Chika is as well
a CEO of her own company Fancy
Nancy.

•Cossy Orjiakor
Extravagant and ultra-attractive
Nollywood actress Cossy Orjiakor
also is an owner of a multimillion
mansion. Her massive new home
situates in the Lagos suburb as well.

I'm more interested in the reasons not how you feel @OP.

Are we safe?

Good! I will intensify my use of chewing stick.