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[quote author=D-sense link=topic=545625.msg7081094#msg7081094 date=1288912053]Hmmmm,But doubtful points[/quote]What do u mean?

goodsegs:
ladies,tell me, how often do you expect  your guy to give you money? do you ask him for  money on every pay day?

been having this issue with my gf( dating for more dan a year now and very serious),  bt she ask me for money most time

but she is a good girl and all,  and we are planning to settle down  in nearest future.

but is it[b] healthy for a young girl(with well to do parenst)to keep asking her bf for money on mostly end of the month[/b]

i just started work(five months)

advise needed

U need to tell her how you feel. And perhaps you should both sit down and come to an agreement. Tell her that u should be not obligated to give her money every month but you will give her out of your own expense and time. tell her that u have expenses to settle too every month and she needs to understand that. if she doesnt, that means she might be a potential Gold Digger. (no offence) 

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=545625.msg7081057#msg7081057 date=1288911393]Would it mean anything to u if u would ask him for money.And what it ll mean to u when asking your HUSBAND ,your HALF-PART money .[/quote]It will mean everything to me because if I have my own and I still want my husband/bf own?I mean common. . . wouldnt that make me selfish? He has a life as well. He has his own ecpenses as well. . . And nver will I ask him for a cent not even when we are married.

But the honest problem here is my bf thinks like the 11th century men where he has to give me money everytime. . . So its kinda frustrating

I do not ask my bf for a cent in his entire life and I will never will. . . My bf still calls me ego and proud of it. Well, to be honest I am proud of it cause I am working and I have my own money. I dont need to be feeding from his money. What for? Am I that selfish? I think if a girl is working, she should be bearing for her own financial expenses espcially when she is not married just yet. But even when she is married and working, she should be able to handle some financial burdens for the family as well. Not everything has to be about the guy. . .Like seriouly. . . In past centuries, the guys are the one settling all the financial burdens because the females have no right to be employed and to earn a salary or even if hey wre bein employed, its to be maids and with a small pay. Unless if she is a pr0st1tut3 but which pr0st1tut3 that time is married?

chic2pimp:
FAT LIE. Oya Repeat after me 'BIG FAT LIE'.
Let's not kid ourselves here oooooo.

May I make myself clear. If a person dos not take care of himself / herself, Im sure that prson will look ugly. Example, h/sh dont ensure his/her hair is in order, got black teeth crooked teeth, have lots of acne. . . All these is due to poor personal hygiene and lack of care for one self.

And another reason is as quoted below

livedit:
My goodness. Ugly, according to who? Not all people would find the same person to be "ugly". That's not true at all. I really don't think this "ugly" person don't have a mate is because he/she's "ugly". I think his/her self esteem outlook of her/himself of thinking that low of him/herself is why they haven't attracted anyone. No one wants an insecure partner. Just because some people may not find you attractive don't make you completely "unattractive". Everyone is different and like different qualities about a person. "Looks" shouldn't be the sole purpose of wanting a relationship with someone. Looks will fade and then what you have left? There are many women/men that are attractive but are so "ugly" inside that it protrudes on the outside and makes them ugly. It's all about how you feel about yourself. YOU have to feel and think you are the stuff. I feel, you can always find some kind of asset about yourself that you can build on. But walking around pitying yourself and thinking you are ugly and don't deserve or will get anyone is not the way to go. You will continue to be in that same predicament.

Ms. Potato - Always nice
Y ME - always sweet & respectfull
Miss EVE- 62 yrs old Hater, Racist, Part time Witch and Bully
My Goldie - Albino Witch & Hater
UjuJOAN - Gold digger, hater, Part-time Stalker
DTY - Always Sweet, lovable & niceNellaluv - Racist
SA LADY  - Nice, wonderful & Sweet
SA GODDESS  - Sweet & Sour
Mama-gee - Hater, Racist, dark skin, Evil madam, & no manners
Annawhite  -  White Witch & hater
Inrk Nerd - Hater
Omololala - Gold digger,
SHY ONE- lovable
star* - WIfey material ,lovable & always nice
ROKIATU-  Farmers wife  &  NO MANNERS!!
Google - Midget & Hater
onstelly - HATER!!
Creamish - HATER, Evil Woman & Cant even cook & clean

Na waaa ooo. I dont believe this 

This lady is a very cunning woman

I am embarras just listening to this story and I feel bad for you and your friend. Does your cousin knows that this girl is dating your friend?

Tell her that you dont like this character and you would really appreciate it if she tries to at least minimize it and eventually eliminate it if she loves u.

Byt the way, you might want to record her on Phone or video when she starts with that attitude and than you play it for her to see how she behaves. If its that nasty, she will come to realize it. At times, seeing yourself is kinda scary and it will really open a person's eyes

I dont share my password with him but I know his passwords for only certain things like his band accounts and online banking. His emails and facebook and all I dont know it. The reason why I know his password for the monetary issues its because Im his Financial Controller!

Some guys love slim girls, some guys love fat girls, some guys love petite girls, some guys love skinny girls, some guys love chubby girls, some guys love curvy girls. . . . . Its all a matter of self prefrences

Theres no such thing as being ugly. Its all about whether if you know how to take care of yourself or not. Thats it.

CArt:
Gabry,Good morning my dear,how was your night?  

Been deadly busy. Its Madam Alice we are talking about here

mediatrix8:
Awwwww. . . . I like you too sweety. Yes, Ill be honored to be your friend


Ms Potato: thanks,my pleasure Do you know how to send e-mail address here to someone privately? I don't want to write down my e-mail ad here yet,Wanna chat with you on Yahoo.I think,we have lots of things to share,and maybe you can advise me too

Nope theres no ways to  send something privately here but Ill give you mine. Just add me at (its my YIM Address) and please do send me a msg saying that u are mediatrix8. Thank you 

MOBO444:
@ Posters this is all strange now.

What is so strange about it?

deelady:
Iv neva tried it but i thnk i can win d game by adding som of my tricks lol

What tricks is that? 

SA Lady:
Too bad 'cos @Mr-Cock light skinned self can only dream on  

So he is light skin right? No wonder!

And I think Rhymez will be in the sweetheart section

Munchk:
LOL it is

Hearing your comment on the b00bs flying out of its shell is amazing. It kinda turns me on

mediatrix8:
Gabry/Ms potato: sister,we have never tried wrestling.I mean real wrestling hahahha, I will try with him when he comes back and I will let you know who won.I like your personality, i think we can be friends

Heheheh! I bet it would be great and it will be such a tuen on. Let me know how it is.

Awwwww. . . . I like you too sweety. Yes, Ill be honored to be your friend

mediatrix8:
TPIA hmmmmm BUCANEER7 disciple and bodyguard, common bro,admit it you are in love with ASIANS but ignore you ooooooooo

He is I dont think he is cause he insulted me the other day

Common now Tpia. No go vex like this ooo. Im just shock of the responses really

Oops! Hmmm. . . I dont wanna go down that road to be fighting as well. Im getting too old for that

Im surprise bucaneer claimed himself as a yellow dude? Is that true? If its true why does he anti me in the start? And he even put his location Malaysia-Australia. na waaa ooo Im kinda confuse now

TKB417 does not know how to fry egg and boil rice. Now who would want to buy this kinda thing? NEXT! Poster, please choose a better product to sale the next time!!!

luap:
Even though in the movies they show tough kung fu women kicking butt. This is not real. It is only for entertainment.

There has never been any woman in history that could honestly beat up a man, not even an old man.

Try beating him with your mind. Learn a game where you can win.

are u sure about that?

Munchk:
Let a bosom fly out when wrestling. That'll distract him lol and it means you can get on top quite easily. It's what happened with mine

Wow! That sounds wonderful

The reason why we dont respect them its becaus they don rspect us. Im only referring to Mr Cork and MOBO444. Although I am not a dark skin Nigerian,m but I dont like it when these two mutated dimple goats keeps bashing up a dark skin Nigerian women, . If you are a Nigerian, I would even shake my head because you are indirectly insulting your own mother whom gave birth to you. Oloshi boys.


And as for 190, Yorisb., D-sense. 190 can be a pain in the arse at times espeacially when he intults African women and compares them with Oyinbos. . . Yorisb is a sweetheart and will always be. As fo D Sense, I dont see anything wrong with him