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Its all cool now. u dont have to worry about it. Moving on with our lives and everythin's cool

babe, sorry naa. We are discussing on YIM on what next to blow your minds off.

I have to admit, Im one of the victims whom had fallen into this category. I was worst off a few years back especially on my period where I would curse my bf for no reason, I would swear at him and even I wont cook for him for a weak and wont do his wardrobe like I used to.

Not untill when it was his birthday last 2 years ago and that time I didnt have any money to give him a big celebration and I felt bad, I asked him what does he want from me to change for his birthday and he said baby, to be honest with you I wish you wont yell at me like a winch everytime u have your period cause the words you use on me is very abusive and it will eventually bring down my self esteem.

Than I realize it,. Well, I have been sober nfor a year now. Havent been scolding him in anyways but now Im getting frustrated because my period dont come ooooo!!!

Ok, whatever rocks your boat. Seems to me you are taking this way too serious than I thought you would. I guess its time to just ignore u. Take care

We are not anymore. He cut me off even on YIM. Its ok Anna.

I msg you on YIM u keep buzzing me and Im like yes? Im here and than u keep saying Hello? And I copied and paste our convo untill I got disconnected.

Anyways, if you think Im foolling around with you on YIM, than u are out of your mind Mister! I dont do that on YIM!

he aint man enough. Thats what it is!

Kandi, its not as easy as it seems. Ive seen people change because of money. My own birth parents changed because of money. People are even willing to be cunning to their own children because of money. Its a very very bad place to be. I always reminded myself that.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=643679.msg8114781#msg8114781 date=1302665004]Ahhhh I see, explains it all.[/quote]I told u this on YIM. Didnt u get my message?

[quote author=ekt_bear link=topic=643679.msg8114771#msg8114771 date=1302664900]I thought maybe you both live in the same city somewhere, and both just post here or something. . .

I've only recently been visiting this section (a few months ago), so didn't know the whole story  

Excuse my ignorance, I'm a bit gullible[/quote]Oh no. My real bf dont really lhave time to go online. And we are sharing a house together so it would look funny if both of us posted on Nairaland in the same house using two laptops. LMAO!   He always tells me that I should stop cause its causing me to go jobless   I agree but because of Lord Reed, I kinda cherish his friendship but I come to discover that perhaps even he himself is busy cause he seldom goes online and when he does its a different time zone. So I think what better way to end this convo than a break up?   Besides I have Lord Reed's YIM and we chat online.  

kandiikane:
That was what I was doing keeping it alive by playing along with your cyber relationship and you guys just took it too damn serious but lets move on aye

My dear, Lord Reed dont seem to get our picture than Cause he seems to end it too soon https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-615769.1760.html#msg8114749  


But I believe its for the best of me too. Im serious. NL has made me go addicted!

Adios!

kandiikane:
To be honest I do not, But I will get out of you guys way, ok

Get out? Too late dont you think? But I thank you for this cause I wanted to stop being addicted to Nairaland for some days now.

[quote author=ekt_bear link=topic=643679.msg8114718#msg8114718 date=1302663943]I am confused.

So this was all fake?

Man, exactly like a reality TV show. . . fake [/quote]U actually think this is real love? On NAIRALAND? Tell me, would u even wanna find a lover on nairaland to begin with?  

kandiikane:
@ekt_bear
I am confused too mayne, I am wondering if its all fake why taking it serious though but oh well

This is what you call keeping the thread alive. Thats all is to it   And thanks to you Im ending the thread today

kandiikane:
Oh ok,  So we have to take you guys relationship seriously like we would outside, right?

u dont seem to get what Im trying to tell u. Its ok, carry on  

but before I go I have

1) Washed your clothes, hang it to dry, iron it and fold it in your cupboard

2) Cook you Egusi soup and Eba for your dinner

3) Wash your pet buffalo Mr. Ajekunle and feed him so that he could rest after that

4) Cut your house grass and water your plants.

Wish you the best of luck and hope say you found a girl whom is less nosy than me

kandiikane:
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So lord_reed is your nigerian boyfriend in the real world?

No he is not. He is just my E fiance cause we got engage the other day. But now he is my E ex fiance than

In the real world, my real bf is completely the opposite from Lord _Reed.

kandiikane:
lol wow,

So lord_reed is your nigerian boyfriend in the real world?
I thought when you told me you were getting married on nairaland was just a cyber Joke,  Chiiii, my humor aye,

I did not think all this was serious cha,  sorry if I offended anybody oh,
From now on I will take everything on here seriously

U already seem serious in the beggining just didnt know that was a joke. Now Im even wondering if this is a joke too? 

What do u expect from an E Relationship? E Relationship is suppose to be filled with happiness, sadness, laughter, drama and so on.Otherwise how do you expect to even have fun in the cyber world. [size=2pt]And thats how the thread had gotten to 50 pages too!  [/size]

kandiikane:
OR

To be honest if a guy willingly wants to spoil me why would I stop him?

Perhaps its the culture differences. To an Asian especially to us chinese, every single person needs a balancy in life. if one has slightly more, one's life will or might end up in jeopardy.

My father always tells me to take the basic things and make sure its not too much.

Lets say Ive always live a simple life and suddenly I have been spoiled by my bf cause he is rich. Alol the while he has been spoiling me and eventually I was blinded by his richness and getting use to it, I would eventually be spoiled.

And if one day he lost it and have no money, it wont be easy for me to change.

Oh My! if that is what you guys called as JOKE, than Im sorry to say this you guys aint funny at all  

Raja lawak! Mana engkau?  

Stick to traditional dating. Its safer and less stressfull

Babe, let her go naa. She can date Lord Reed if she wants to. Im fine  

WHo had caused the drama in the first place? With you and your licky licky ice cream thingy?

You and your can I eat u u look like Candy thingy?

You and your no show for weeks and dont even bother to leave a note when you come visit here?

Who causes all that/

Anyways, no need to answer. Am done. U are right. U can E Toast anyone you want and you are free to do so.

Dem no dey deceive ashawo dey bleep 2 times

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=643679.msg8114423#msg8114423 date=1302657520] I SAID IT!!!! oH my!

Ms Cassava, pls forgive him, Kandikane had a hand in this too. She kinda seduced him with her luscious lips, lmao. Pls Forgive him, don't throw his things out of the house yet pls. He has no where to go, you know! Pls ehn!  
Oya Mr Lord Reed, apologize and go and never come back to this joint. [/quote]I dont care who seduce who. I honestly dont give a sh1t. And its his house, not mine so I have already move out from there. He is free to bring whoever he wants there. Its over between us.

haha! Laugh harder

Im glad they found your dog.

I am moving to the hotel. U can invite your so called Kandikane whom taste like so called CANDY over here. You are free to do so. AM out. See ya!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=643679.msg8114239#msg8114239 date=1302654265]Lord_Reed, Go home! Abi are you here to eat your sister with fork and knife again?[/quote]He can eat whoever he wants. I dont care

Fine. Im moving out today sharp sharp.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=625370.msg8114352#msg8114352 date=1302656568][color=deeppink]^^As long as he's not complaining, why should you even bother?

Seriously, I think you're a little weird. . .

Wouldn't surprise me that you already dumped him because of it. [/color][/quote]Girls like you really gives other girls a bad name. Better repent or thunder will go fire your yansh.

No Im still with him. He changed a little cause I threatened to break up with him. Do you honestly think guys like him would want a girl whom is a gold digger? Eventually they will get fedup u can mark my words. The only guys that would stay with a gold digger are those men whom are bloody too old or those men whom only sees you as a s3x object!

jokes? is that the only excuse uve got?