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After 12 hours of labor and screaming, all I wanted to do was bathe and sleep. Even when I saw my son I was more surprised than excited but my husband and family partied into the night.

For a married "doctor" you really do have a lot of free time on your hands.

Kuns84:
Sir, please be aware that cococandy has Mynd44's personal number and orders him to delete people's comments whenever she wants.

Look through pocohantas' profile and see numerous insultive comments towards others but Mynd44 has bias towards these girls and allows them insult others whilst banning their victims. Mstick is another rude person that insults people at will.

Biglittlelois insults bukatyne all the time and Mynd44 also allows this.

They're just confused, they're the ones that will say they want working class ladies in the same breath they claim working class ladies aren't good for marriage. That's what happens when you talk too much without thinking, just saying everything and anything your fellow "men" say so you will look cool.

Widow, single mother, pregnant woman, orphaned girl, sales girl, all this nairaland guys sef.

You Nigerian men are getting bolder oh!



She should be the Kim to her husband? before Kim bailed Kanye out financially didn't you dolts see the sacrifices he made for her and her family?


Kim has a freaking sex tape, tons of nude pictures and ex husbands but Kanye still exalted her to a goddesslike status how many of you can do that?

You Nigerian men expect women to give,give,give and give without carrying about her own mental state. WTF!!!!!!!

Which Nigerian man can do what Kanye has done for Kim? Marriage is partnership for crying out loud!


Dear unmarried Nigerian ladies both young and older, please date men from other countries and races, don't let this men blackmail you.

YemyTemmy:
Permit me to say it the way it is. You didn't choose wrong, and you have all it takes to enjoy your marriage.
Take note of these few points. We are all humans, and we are what we are not matter who we are ( I hope you understand that code).
Love is not enough for marriage
From your submission here, I sensed a little pride( mentioning your parents got him the job yadayada!! Are you God, are your parents God!!!!??) It shows you mock him once in a while with that, in your words, actions , deed or body language. Also let me tell you this, intelligence in a woman is an attractive package. It's obvious he wants you to develop, read more and be well versed in a lot of things then engage him with intelligent conversation. Pls the home belongs to you. Win your man back, get more wisdom from the book of proverbs, meditate, reflect and act on it.
You husband didn't do well, he is a ponmo man, in this present age keeping malice is a turn off. He should man up and say his mind and what he doesn't like. If he is hiding his own money or not making effort to increase his income with side hustle, that is not fair too. I think what you both should centre your gist upon is how you can build side hustle to make more money. Kim Kardashian na woman too.
So be the Kim to your hubby, speak to him, apologies and engage more with intelligent and more talks and act on how you both can make more money. Your are there to assist one another and not to count scores who got job for one another. In marriage one has to be goat, the other sheep to make it work. Two goats cannot marry neither can a union of two sheeps work.
Compliments one another, make money together... Don't reason moving out even If you have the money unless for domestic violence case.
I wish you well. Stay blessed

With all the donations, isolation centers being opened, have PPE being provided for health workers even in the most remote places or are they waiting for USA, Germany or China? This men and women are on the Frontline risking their lives, I just hope they're properly protected.

Is that your cop out? I guess you're busy in your lab, working on a vaccine for Nigerians but if you're not permit me to call you a loser and a bottom feeder.

wisdomiskey:
Sorry I bothered quoting you. You are even more stupiid than I envisaged

The government making vaccination compulsory doesn't mean you've to take it.

BCG is compulsory for newborn but I know so many people that refused to give their babies.

nylen1234:
Not all vaccines are safe as they contain dangerous chemicals do some research see https://childrenshealthdefense.org/news/toxic-vaccine-ingredients-the-devils-in-the-details/

Also enforcing compulsory vaccinations is an infringement on people's right to choose what goes into them and their children's body.

Notice how you didn't drop any pearl of "wisdom" given how you clearly don't lack the brain capacity than attack my comment? Now tell me between you and I who's the DUMMY?! thank you!

wisdomiskey:
Hi dummy, next time stick to topics about husbands or children. As you clearly lack the brain capacity to discuss global matters such as this. Thank you.

Hmmmmmmm this one is tough, a broke man with ego is more dangerous than a rattle snake.

Shhhhhhhhhh stop disgracing your lineage, go find out what sacarsm means.

Ifechi2020:
I'm really surprised to read ur comment. Well, I guess u haven't married. Men are terrible, some women are too. Just imagine spoiling a woman image everywhere. The woman has sugfered depression and its probably dead in spirit, just alive for kids sake.
As for getting ur wife back, with God ,all things are possible.
I'm writing from experience but mine wasn't as bad as this but I was so broken





quote author=Mstick post=89034265]It's not your fault she must have done something to make you do all that.

Can you walk us through your marriage so we can pick her faults and nail her?



The gospel according to nairaland pickmesha.

Watch how the ignorant Nigerians that make no contribution to the world except over population and pollution speak against this, meanwhile when the vaccine becomes available they and their sprouts will be first in line.

Forgetting that once upon a time there were also against polio vaccine and IVF now they see it as the work of "God".

OP please modify your post, write your words clearly so it can be understood.

As for your sister since she's not complaining leave her be, by the time the two slaps and shirt locking will turn to kicking and head breaking then she will know that being in husband house isn't all a woman should aspire for.

Can you please help me explain to this frozen brain girl, looks like my comment flew over her head.

LilMissFavvy:
Abi o, Nairaland ass licker AKA men pleaser, don't be surprised a male owns that account, I can bet myself, the bastarrrrrd behind that account is a male .

Can you pack one side till you understand sacarsm? Even the first lady that quoted me got what I was trying to say.

If you don't understand then ask questions instead of writing several paragraphs of nothing.

Your type isn't supposed to be allowed on the internet if simple sarcastic comments get you triggered because it's obvious comprehension isn't your strongest suit.

Now get lost little girl, go play with sand.

frozen70:
Am surprise at your comment

He came out openly to tell us his confession and you are here telling him its not his fault

Did you read where he said anything about his wife character that is bad

Your type is not supposed to be making comments in matters like this because you lack the simple sense of judgement

I will implore you to do the exact things he did when you get married

He is lost and frustrated now,
Infact, he is in a worst situation worst than that of the wife

A man that lost his wife a d children through his own carelessness

Abeg Park well and dont support stupidity until you wear the shoes of marriage

Lol! My dear I don't know if OP's story is true but this isn't abnormal in Nigerian marriages. I know one with 9 kids! The husband comes and goes anytime he wants even till today. There was a time she lost so much weight everyone thought she would die, my MIL and I went extra mile for her and at the end of it all the man came back and she took him in again, now with all this coronavirus pandemic oga ran away again.

He doesn't even care how his wife and his kids will feed. I am sure very soon when he's old and grey he will start looking for forgiveness and respect.

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

It's not your fault she must have done something to make you do all that.

Can you walk us through your marriage so we can pick her faults and nail her?



The gospel according to nairaland pickmesha.

An adult male blaming a woman for his own shortcomings? Very typical!


You cheated on her because she didn't have sex with you for 2 weeks and you blame her? So you couldn't pay her waec fee as promised,you beat her, make her take blood oaths and you expect her to open her legs for you whenever you want?

I don't blame you sha, it because of this stupid Nigeria that gives men like you guts if not you should be wasting away behind bars.

You're an irresponsible woman beater and you've the right to judge her. GTF!



Madam fiancee, you better pick up your self and never go back to this man if not you will leave in a body bag, he's not remorseful and the reason he wants you back is for is own ego sake.

Write your WAEC, go to school and build your future.

AutoB24:
I never wanted to talk about this issue again, but the lies is really on the high side This guy the op is talking about is me from delta state and she is from aqua ibom state. From the beginning of our relationship this lady has been the one who lure me into action to her through her attitudes. Come to think of it if I'm a womanizer like she said. Will I even care now that she decides to leave a life without thinking? She now chew gum everywhere she goes,- now as a choir is she suppose do this ungodly things that she never did in my house?, she now do abnormal things like spending much time on social medias, getting wrong advises from friends,. Now she's fast at trowing her ring away. And this is the truth of the fighting side while we were still single at the earlier time we had a little agreement on the process of arguing this lady in question gave me tow hot slaps in the present of my friends then I was asked to quit but I never did because of the undying love I have for her even till now.
In the area she talked about cheating I was very sorry to her and still sorry now. But she caused it all I never knew how to control it at home wit a woman whenever I call her to bed she had no option that period than to reject me for good two weeks today she's weak, the next she's feeling sleepy pls naira landers I don't want to have this ugly record of quilting from marriage to marriage pls advise I still love her and the baby. Now the even when I ask her to think about the boy. There's this ugly reply I hate hearing from her. When advise we trade carefully and think about our boy the next thing I hear is and so? What about him? Pls she's getting out of hands. I have never suffered her I showed her real love she can testify.

Ok nice write up, will watch in the shadows while you get mauled by the hyenas.

The first responders? The nurses? The doctors? The cleaners? All those that worked around the clock taking care of you what about them?!

I guess it's easier to thank "god" than thanking those that did the actual miracle.

BTW I thought you guys said you can't heal coronavirus patients except they come to your church after all the sick came to Jesus, that has been the defense of the men of God since this pandemic started so how come you can heal someone so far away in a country with high grade medical equipment and staffs meanwhile you can't replicate such in your OWN country?

Why don't you surprise him by paying the bill yourself?

BUSINESSMAN2:
cheap scams? Lol Are u in abuja or do you have someone in abuja so tha I will direct you

Hospitals don't take birth fees in advance because they don't know if you will give birth through CS or normal delivery. Such a cheap scam.

It's just like Michael Jackson marrying the daughter of his mentor Elvis Presley.

Did you visit a health center or a hospital?

Liliantalks:
nah , daily pills r way better , from professional advice

Hmmmmmmm here I was thinking Nigerian women are the cause of the problems we have in Nigeria. We really learn everyday.

Why don't you go to a health center and get placed on injectable birth control? It better and in my opinion safer.

Liliantalks:
yeah I do .

All the men you listed are coming to attack you.

Sick OP! How can you be so shocked for FIVE MINUTES!
The fact that educated Nigerians still use kids as helps is very disgusting and wicked.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!

Mindlog:
Men have a key role to play in criminalizing the sexual abuse of the boy child. There must be continuous discussions and actions around it because such abuses are being diminished by the male folks themselves, you tend read some of them asking others who tend to speak up, if they didn't enjoy it? Some will even joke that they don't mind being raped by women.

Toxic masculinity as a defense mechanism has made some feel that males cannot be sexually abused but rationalizing that it is even the female that's even being used. A boy child who admits to being sexually abused should not be construed as weakness.

Men have to take charge in fighting it because a paedophile irrespective of gender, is both mentally disordered and a criminal.

The sexual abuse of boys and men is an ignored crime.

Thanks, both the PRO and PRA is online.

What about identification? Can I use my driver's license or local government ID?

Influential101:
check for the one with "online" in bracket.. that's the right one..


PRO has been the usual one but they moved to PRA to distinguish btw those writing at test centres and those writing at home.. All the best

When your son asks you about his father tell him the TRUTH but don't bombard him with unnecessary and negative information.

Try to be there as much as possible for him, DON'T LIE to him. Since he's already avoiding communication with his dad that means he already knows how his father feels about him. It's up to you to make him feel loved and wanted.