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Since your parents are still married legally your mum can sue him for bigamy. Talk to a lawyer about it.


This is a prime example of our parents "successful marriage" we keep hearing about.

Exactly! That's why I laugh when men complain about cheating women and in the same breath say a cheating man is "understandable".

The women you're all cheating with are they in a factory? Is there a land filled with single women that's made for sex only? It makes no damn sense, the women you're being "polygamous" with is also another man's wife or girlfriend. So it's just a circle.

See men analyzing the reproductive organ of women as if they know what it like to be pregnant, that's why they think they have the right to tell women how to think,act and feel. After all being a man gives you this "great wisdom".

Rape isn't something to joke with.

What kind of shameless family is this? Since your brother doesn't have money to sponsor his own wedding isn't it obvious that he shouldn't be getting married?!

Calling your husband irresponsible because he refused to bear your brother's responsibility shows that the entitled mentality of your family is hereditary.

So a nairalander sent you 50k on June 1st plus other funds totalling 15k plus you received and you shamelessly came back 6 days later with more bills?

Even Oliver twist is disgusted by you.

It's doesn't bring happiness but lack of it also doesn't bring happiness either. Like everything in life there must be a balance.

I've not seen a couple dancing Indian dance when their property is being thrown into the street by their landlord.

Congratulations on your new business.

All this gay guys that come on nairaland to live their fantasy life.

See the comments of guys above me, later they will expect women to fight against male rape when they themselves don't take male rape seriously.

#clowns.

I am older than my immediate younger brother with 4 years and our last son with 18 years and I am close to the both of them.

Since you know communication between you and your siblings is poor how about creating a WhatsApp group? Almost everybody has one this days.

Madam you would've mentioned me with your chest then, this bloody clown said I wished death upon another woman's child and you as wise and sensible as you claim to be believed that right.

This shows how hypocritical you lots are when you want to push a certain agenda. It's only good to hear from both sides when it suits the narrative.


Wisdomiskey for the part month you've kept on talking about dead child and how it's my karma even going as far as accusing me of wishing death on another woman's child just to gain likes and support. Dear clown I hope you know karma goes both ways.

Ariza:
Lol... I wonder why some act that way here. Must we agree on everything?

Seun Dominique lalasticlala mynd44

Wisdomiskey keeps trolling me with the death of a child, seems this clown has nothing better to say since according to him it's karma.

Seun looks like you and your mods are enjoying this show because as it stands you let it happen over and over again.

Mynd44 this isn't the first time I am laying this complaint but it would be the last because I am about to take things to another level.

Wisdomiskey since you're bold enough to talk about death let's play.

True, even the clowns posting about male rape if you talk about it they will say you are trying to "simp" men. In this battle on this forum you can't win.


Meanwhile they're men raping young boys and they're not outraged or talking about that just the "maid".

safarigirl:
maybe na maid do am.

Let us pity him, and investigate who raped him. Once we can get him justice, he will stop raping women. All he needs is justice

Oga if you're triggered go to Google I beg.

Your data is real mine is false can you please leave me alone?

rationalhuman:
1 rape in 15 minutes?? That is what.
Actually i trigger whenever anykind of false data is shared on nairaland, be it in any thread.

This one is also the fault of an aunty right?!

Chai the amount of clownery on this forum sometimes I just find myself looking at my screen and laughing and we wonder why nobody takes activism seriously in this country.

I will do that when you show me where I called India the rape capital.

rationalhuman:
Good, Now just post a screenshot from the same Wiki page source where it says India is rape capital?

Your source is propagated by literates meanwhile mine is from illiterates.


*Claps slowly*

rationalhuman:
Although figures you are stating are not true, but lets assumes yours 1 per 15 minutes, Now divide that with total population of 1.45 Billions.
Tell me what is the percentage ?

India is not even in topper in the rape cases. thats a narrative built by illiterates who propagate and ignorant buys the crap. Ever heard in news that Sweden has rape problem??

Here are the sources:
Source 1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_statistics
Source 2: https://worldpopulationreview.com/countries/rape-statistics-by-country/

Going by the logic of the wise on this thread, if You're raped then it's fair and wise to become a rapists.

So why aren't women raping men?

What happened to UWA has such a thing Happened to any man in the hands of women before?

All those Women that have been sexually abused how come they're not sexually abusing their kids?

Keep giving yourselves high fives and pats on the back but the reality is on ground and YOU Nigerian men are the ones being disenfranchised not women.

You're still the ones that won't let your wives, daughters and sister go outside at night because YOU know the monster YOU have created.

Hey let's take the ostrich position so we wouldn't hurt the perpetual "babies"

Says the person trying to undermine the rape culture of women in Nigeria.

Rape in India has been contained?! I guess the rape statistics in India that says a woman in India is raped every 15 minutes even in 2020 is false because you said so.

You come online parroting nonsense, meanwhile the reality on ground is what I would tell you and everyone who say and believe the truth will know.

Almost every Nigerian WOMAN has been sexually assaulted thats what I said and truth is it's only an illogical human being like you that would throw tantrums when you couldn't even get the point.

NIGERIAN women should fix society? Nigerian Women cover up their husbands? Can you please hide you face madam. In the world over women cover up for their spouses so it's not a Nigerian "women" thing.


How do you expect Nigerian women to fix society when we've women like you in that same society?! And it will be fallacy for you to think we only talk online go to court and police station then come back and hang your head in shame.


You are so disgusting woman so disgusting, you claim men a raping women because they were raped and I asked you why aren't women who were raped also raping men?!

The kids in diapers being raped tell me oh sensible on where they're meant to keep their pepper spray you suggested.

Ariza:
It is just so draining trying to reason with you lots! See the possible cause and fix it but No you will rather play the victim card and wail online. Until you all stand against rape across all genders you may never achieve a sane society, that's the bitter reality. Look at India, the number of rape cases has been contained, though they have so many of it than Nigerians. The Women stood up and fought against it! They protest and have Women communities that handle Rapists.They either beat up rapists caught themselves or hand them over to the police with close follow. But Nigerian women will rather hide behind keypads and rant! Take action! Stop ranting!

Same Nigerian women that will concede with their husbands to cover Rape cases, they will rather shut their mouths up than rise to fight,The only place their voices are heard is on the internet where they aren't known

Almost all Nigerian Women have been raped? Lol Interesting! Which statistics did you use to arrive at that?

Madam, to me your reasoning is far beyond disgusting! You are illogical and this will be my first any only response to you on this.

So that means Nigerian women are meant to be the number 1 rapists in the world going by this logic of yours because almost every Nigerian woman who grew up here, lived here and still lives here have been sexually abused.


Heck even a Nigerian baby girl isn't safe from her own father,brother and uncles so how come we've not been "pyscologically shaped to see sex as a do or die affair"?!

Why are women not taking out their rape experiences out on men?!

What you're doing right now it's exactly what white people do when they say all lives matter, no body is saying women don't rape men but check the statistics compared to men.

This is just Monday and so far I read over 3 stories of rape committed against young girls, what about the ones being covered up so shame will not be "brought to the family" meanwhile the victims mental health isn't considered still she doesn't go about raping men.

If a man is raped as a child how about speaking out and making sure the rapist is jailed or even shamed. Why take it out on a woman that has no part in it?

Your post is totally disgusting seriously. This isn't even a thread gender war.

No matter what you say after not it's 100% clear you're a rape apologist.

Ariza:
I ignored your comment earlier because first you didn't read my initial post but you went haywire on it. I thought to myself that engaging you will have no effect but would rather be a lost cause, second reason I allowed you have your opinion/ thread.

However I will like to correct a notion you are trying to impose on my submissions so far, which is : presenting the aggressors as victims or having sympathy for perpetrators and not victims.

Ma,if you read my posts so far with an open mind, you will realize I never imposed or promote any of the notions above. You simply thought that's what I was doing because you are tensed and kind of sentimental here. But rather I only suggested a sentiment free logical 'possible' explanations for the discourse. I'm not shifting blames or vindicate Rapists, I never did and never will . Rather I presented them as lab rats that can be used to find solutions for the societal problem. If you see this thread as a conference meeting where a group of diplomats are discussing an issue facing them or their community, perhaps it will help you to see things from a clear perspective.

Now to your question,which I may only respond to once because I hate repetitions, I'm loosing interest in this thread and I am trying to obey your "open a thread on Male Rape and leave this" request, I will make it brief as well.
The two are interwoven.

First a molested male child has been psychologically shaped to see sex as a 'do or die thing' and that there is nothing like Consent . It will be only logical if one says such child grow up with such mental frame and acts accordingly. Most times we see things happening and react but we don't realize the factors that contributed to such happening. Most times Rapists are made, they are influenced by on thing or the other. And one of such influence comes from what they were exposed to as children. If the first sexual encounter a Child gets is through Molestation or manipulation then how do you expect such child who grew through it with no one knowing relate to sexual matters.? This goes for Nympos and some women with absurd sexual festish. One is left to wonder how a child whose "No" was shut down will respect anyone's "No when he grows.

Two : while some grow with it has a norm, some grow with it has a difilation . These set seek vengeance and result into taking laws into there hands. Some Men still remember the evil done to them while young , evil that can't be shared but they must find a way to let out. October 1st comes to mind. You will agree with me,the effect talking to someone has on people suffering from one difficulty or the other but in situations where problems like rape can't be shared among Males folks,then don't be surprised if it lingers in the heart and bring forth fruits.

Lastly,A molested child has been exposed to abusive use of power. Remember when they were young, the Aunties and Maids were older and they used this and their authority it on them. Now when such child grows into a hefty guy with muscles and sees a petite lady, what do you think will be an hinderance? Pity? Lol was he shown pity?Was he taught? Your guess is as good as mine .

Thing is, the society is a circleAnd what goes around comes around.Those things we never paid attention to are coming back to hurt us. My opinion on this and I hope this time you will see where I'm coming from.

Safarigirl threads like this don't go anywhere on this forum and you should know this by now.

the one asking women to go along with pepper spray and try not to get raped I ask you madam what about the babies? Even baby girls in diapers are not even safe, so where do we keep their own pepper spray?

Girls being raped by their OWN father's have you seen a story of a boy child raped by their mothers?!

I've a son and also a daughter, I am very protective of them both and I've never ever had a live in nanny because I fear for their safety..

Do you know that they're private schools they do NOT hire male teachers? So if you like confront the truth,if you like deflect but you and I know you will feel safer if your daughter and son is in a crowd filled with women than men.


Not all men are rapists but it's time for all men to speak against rape.

#justice for UWA!