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Really to cook yam porridge you need yam? Wow! Didn't know. Phew will definitely be sleeping well tonight.

LOL! Do you watch 90DF? The Nigerian men that have appeared on the show and the one currently on it, go and see the type of white women they're with compared to the American, Australian and Russian guys


Even on the fan pages of the show their job is to stalk white older women. Those women call them out even in the comments section.

ibkayee:
Lmao even the grandmas and 'less desirable' oyibo women aren't necessarily looking for naija men, they are the ones being pursued by Naija men and are just more likely to fall for it because they're vulnerable. Oyibo women as a collective are not checking for naija men like that, especially NOT the home-based ones

Are you a fool or not? Instead of you reading you came at me with insults, so tell me dummy between us who's vile?!


Learn to read.

Babatunde40:
Fool
Dirty fingers
illiterate
trash
rubbish
Get the Bleep out

You typed all these in a single short response. U simply vomited what you are filled with. You are filled with vileness

Anybody with a brain knows that thread was created to massage the ego of Nigerian men.

Nigerian men like to praise themselves and make it look like women from other continents are falling over themselves to date them but believe me it's 100% false.

Black men are just the worst honestly, you see them opening threads upon threads insulting and humiliating black women but you would NEVER see men from other races do that. Are their women perfect? NO! but they respect and protect them anyway.

The reason why most of this black men go after white women is because of the standard the white men set for their own women, they built a country and environment where there women can thrive meanwhile our own men are still here debating if we're allowed to serve them garri with one meat.

95% of beggars on social media are men, whenever you see a female profile begging check well that profile is most likely run by a man.

Instead of saying rubbish why don't you read his comment and see where he said it. You won't read rather you will run your dirty illiterate fingers to type trash.

Get the Bleep out of my mention if you can't read, FOOL.

Babatunde40:
Where did he post that he cheated on her? Nairalanders are good at forging lies without caring about the damages it will cause

This is a picture of Beyonce after Solange attacked her husband in that elevator.

Doesn't she look happy? Who cares if you support her choice?!

Since when is Beyonce supposed to be a yard stick for women's decision after being cheated on?!

She made her choice and she's happy with it, millions of women have left men that cheated on them and they're also very happy with it.

jaxxy:
When u see a happy wife u know. Beyonce isn't out to fake it for people. She won't overreact bt u will know smtn is up.

She doesn't compromise her happiness to the point of faking it. She will stop certain familarisation with him. I know she's happy and yes based on events I support her choice. I have been a fan since she was in Destinys child. Lol

Decieve myself? How do you know she's very happy?! Do you live with them?

Do you think she still trusts her husband?!

How do you know their marriage isn't just down to business arrangements now after all her mother divorced her father cause of infidelity?

Like you said and I also did, SHE made the choice to stay, and the man we quoted his wife made a different choice.

jaxxy:
Don't decieve urself she's very happy in her home right now. Marriage is not dating. U work out the storms, not bail out.

Her marriage is not destroyed nor broken cos she made a choice to see if it can survive and it did. Forgiveness for the right reasons and conditions is not weakness it is strength.

The truth is you've said EVERYTHING.

The reason majority of Nigerians accept and stay in bad marriages is because of finance and bad government policies.

I am sure millions of women putting up with bad husbands will walk away if we had similar structure as Canada or other European countries.

It's not love that make them stay but lack of opportunities.

bilulu:
It's not gender base, there's this Nigerian man who had to run to Europe from Canada. He has the habit of always beating the wife which is a very serious crime but the lady was taking it till when she wanted to take it up, he had to run to Europe and make up with the woman from there. So there are good women and there are bad men. Like I said we shouldn't look for the slightest opportunity to just scatter everything. It applies to men too. There are things we would have overlooked if it happened back home but because it's happening in Canada where you will have the child's benefit and the man will still pay for Bill's.... imagine 3 kids, that's free $1800 I guess from the govt and the guy will still pay for bill for the kids but if they were together that 1800 will sort alot out in a month.

Beyonce's marriage isn't broken because SHE made that choice, although she sang about it and made millions of dollars from her pain.

Cheating may not cause a couple to divorce but it does destroy a home. Go and watch clips of Beyonce talking about it then tell me if she's still the same, do you think she still trusts and have the same level of love for him?!

Marriages would only last the two people involved not society, not their parents, decide to make it work.

jaxxy:
Beyounce home isn't broken. because they cud work it out and both agreed to. Cheating doesn't automatically destroy a home. The modern day family has done well to improve many things from our older marriages bt they have failed to make it last.

Modern Marriages now don't last because both party don't know how to handle issues.

Thank you for saying the truth, wickdness isn't gender based like majority of the commenters on this thread want it to appear.

I've seen Nigerian men that abandoned their wives and kids just because they travelled abroad.

Oh and they are Nigerian women that divorce their cheating husband in Nigeria no matter how wealthy he is.


If you want to marry, then you should change that mindset of yours and go for someone that shares the same ideology as you.

bilulu:
I'm not saying she wasn't hurt neither am I saying he has right over her because he took her abroad. But do you know there's every possibility if it happened in Nigeria she would have forgiven him but seeing the benefits and rights she decided not to, aside cheating on your woman alot of ladies here will scatter their home on the slightest excuse and you start wondering what happened. I once told my friend I'm scared to even marry because they want to behave like the Canadians who can dump their relationship at any time, so unpredictable like their weather.... some women are wicked just like some men

He did. Him and the mother of his kids are not together anymore. From what he has written he has no idea about his kids daily activities, what does that mean?!
Cheating breaks home, ask the people that forgive their spouses if they TRULY forgive and FORGET.

jaxxy:
He didn't break his home, he disrespected it. Cheating doesn't break a home. Not being able to forgive breaks it and that's fine if u can't bare it depending on the situation.

You can't keep asking women to endure a cheating man, it's evil. On this forum no one advices a man to endure a cheating woman.

Women have feelings. Emotional abuse is worst than physical abuse because it's eats you from the inside out.

I know some women use men to travel abroad as men do too, but taking someone abroad doesn't give you the right to walk over her.

Here is an advice, instead of you men measuring pain according to what you've done, how about not hurting your wives?!

bilulu:
Did he paint himself as saint? He said it himself remorsefully and you picked on him. If it's violence yes I can tell a lady not to take that because life is involved not cheating those it can cause trauma but you can work it out. My dear you don't know what men face here in the hands of women they brought from home.

Shebi he has narrated his own part of the story have you heard from the woman?!

He broke his home so in my book that makes him a bad father.

jaxxy:
He cheated, I don't support that, he apologised. Ok she doesn't want anymore fine, does the fact he cheated mean he shud be around his kids or know where they Skol and stuffs.

Cheating doesn't mean ur a bad father. These are undue advantage women take bt it will come back to hunt them. Why can't they be civil atleast??

A cheater is also a liar. Everyone will come online to paint themselves a saint. I am sure the woman will have a different thing to say.


And if she's looking for random men to fúcj good for her at least she didn't cheat on him. Women enjoy sex too.

bilulu:
And because he cheated, she should now frustrate the guy? If not for the guy she would have been in one village now breaking palm kanel. Ungrateful bitch looking for every opportunity to go outside and Bleep random men. I for even ask the guy just now which city is she to know if I'll see her in one of the dating sites cuz that's were they re looking for men to prey on

The older generation of women have no reasonable advice to give. Everything must and will be circled around men.

*Go to school if not no man will marry you.
*Do this oh if not no man will marry you.
*Do that oh if not no man will marry you.

And yet the men you're being prepared for are left to be "men", it's crazy!

So many women in Nigeria today are suffering from low self-esteem because they've nothing going on in their lives except men this men that.

One was telling me the other day, it's ok if your husband cheat it's going to be very painful but he's a man. I asked her so what if a woman cheats, no oh it not allowed. So it's better for women to feel the betrayal and pain but it isn't ok for men? Still they wonder why the rate of divorce is higher than the previous years.

So him that cheated on his wife didn't misbehave?!

jaxxy:
70% of women misbehave and take undue advantage when Things change to give them such advantage only very few remain level headed or keep a civil relationship with their partners or exes.

He cheated on her, she has every DAMN RIGHT to leave the marriage. Because he took her to Canada doesn't give him the right to hurt her.

bilulu:
Imagine somebody you picked from Nigeria.... they will want to outdo the real Canadians in everything. What did the parents say?

You cheated on your wife,broke your vows,hurt her and she choose not to be a doormat like "HOW THINGS ARE DONE IN NIGERIA" and you blame her?!


How bout you not cheating in the first place?! You men like you dish out what you can NEVER take.


As expected this is just a thread for the usual mysognists nothing new or educative to see here.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

Yes, it has become part of the Nigerian culture.

It's disgusting because when I see people begging on social media I wonder how they would have gotten financial help if social media didn't exist.

Yeah things are hard but in this country we encourage poverty, we praise the suffering mentality.

Nigerian pastors and fear mongering are just like bread and butter, this man has watched a lot of conspiracy theories videos on YouTube now he's rilling it out as fact.

This guess claim to heal and raise the death, now they're in their studios spreading fear.


I guess the Spanish Flu that killed MILLIONS of people was caused by MTN so can install their 3G mask.

Pastor Chris instead of all this plenty talk, why don't you infect yourself with coronavirus, stay in a controlled environment and heal yourself?! That shouldn't be hard after pastors are "special people".

Don't mind the charlatan. He's busy telling his member that the reason for this is because they want to inject them with 666 micro chip.

Here I was thinking he was smart.

ariefadenco:
The only way to keep a man in total control is to instill in him some atom of fear. Fear of the uknkown or that he cannot survive without you. This is what many pastors have succeeded in doing to keep their members spellbound.

When I grow up?!

Seriously?! You just said a whole lot of nonsense. How is it entitlement mentality when you ask your brother for help and he doesn't help you and you feel upset or disappointed?

Do you even have an iota of sense?! Whenever a word becomes popular you stupid Nigerians misuse and abuse it.

We all owe each other everything, I've younger siblings and they don't expect me to give them always but I try to.


We owe it to each other to survive.

What makes you think the OP was arrogant about his request? Or do you think he wouldn't feel worse if a non relative had turned him down?!


Families are rallying around helping each other all over the world meanwhile in this cesspit of a country we feel "nobody owes you anything"

That's why coronavirus stimulus packages are still being looted, after all you can't say anything so you wouldn't be called entitled.



This same stupid wicked mentality is the reason why you will see someone looking so hagard and ill, when the person dies that same family you claim owes them nothing will use gold plated casket to bury the body.

Wicked generation!

uboma:
When you grow up, probably you may understand the true meaning of my comments on this thread.

I never ruled out asking help from another. No one is an Island, we will all need some support/assistance at some point in our lives. These support/assistance may not necessarily mean money or material benefits for some persons....

However, it will be better to ask a non family member for support/assistance than ask your relative and feel bad afterwards when the request is declined.

If someone has a sense of entitlement, that means the person believes he deserves certain privileges and most times he's arrogant about it.

Your relatives do not owe you a dime. Same goes for friends around you. Do not feel bitter that your relative did not come to your aid when it was most needed. With these mentality, one will do well in life.....

This idiot is just busy brainwashing people every 7pm with conspiracy theories.

I don't blame you Chris, you think like all your Christ embassy dolts we're all under your spell.

simple250:
Pastor chris what happend to your healing school

Healing school is on holiday, they will resume when the cure has been found.

How's it entitlement to ask your own brother for help?!

This mentality is really bad! Nobody in this world even Jeff bezos got to where he is today without help.

It's not entitlement to ask someone for help.

uboma:
This is the sad reality about life.

No one truly owes you a dime. The more you entertain feelings of entitlement, the more you will receive disappointments.

Forgive your brother and move on. You are a hustler, always go the legit route. Someday your efforts will pay off. Sorry about the loss of your father.


Learn some vocational skills. These will put food on your table daily.

All the best to you.

I read this to the end to see if the brother is in police custody but as usual the young girl is asked to "forgive" her rapist meanwhile the rapist goes on raping.

How will evil like this not flourish when we cover the crime and the criminals.

POVERTY EQUALS BITTERNESS.

Davash222:
You may be very wrong to think I don’t need this money. Why are you deliberately skipping me?

Motherless kids oh and their father cannot provide for them, meanwhile some people on here keep on undermining the contribution of women in the family.